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trapQ:
Trash!

Why are you crying all over the place because I responded with the same energy you did? You can't go insulting someone first and when they hit back you begin crying like a convulsing kid. That is reflective of both emotional instability and oligodendrocyte deficiency in your brain cells.How is referring to an immigrant an alien mockery? Who made that work offensive? Do you know English better than the British who have that word and even refer to unnaturalized migrants as aliens?

Keep embarrassing yourself.

cry? Hahaha, you are a rabied dog ,so I can understand, if you like use big grammar to hide your frustration,I know your type,they turn online psychologist in the blink of an eye just to appear smart and win an insignificant online argument but deep down they are just some miserable human behind the keyboard hoping to feel important.

These barkings of yours mean nothing to me bro, you are just another john doe as far as I am concerned ,and to think you were looking for a fight when the initial conversation didn't even involve you shows you really have issues .

Oligodendrocyte defincency ,emotional instability blah blah blah, lol ,so you deduced all of that from my comment ,wow! I am impressed ,I hope you also diagnose yourself and go for proper treatment too , this your case is not ordinary . Hahahaha mad man,keep barking ! .bye bingo

linearity:
If you look at percentages of Nigerian non immigrant visitors in 2015, 2016, 2017, who refuse to return back to Nigeria after their visitation; you will find that the number keep increasing, hence the corresponding increase in denials.

When prior non immigrant visitors refuse to honor their obligations and return back to Nigeria, the embassy not only tracks it and take notice; they also use those feedbacks to re-evaluate their visa process...e.g. the story or ‘packaging’ trend that led to a visa issuance in 2017 but have high non-return rate, will make the embassy to start questioning the intentions of those with the same ‘packaging’ who they are interviewing in 2018.

I think this is the real reason. The people that had the opportunity to travel went there and were bad ambassadors.

asalimpo:
how much u put urself out there?
It's all about marketing. There's some1 out there looking for u, but is feeling frustrated. So,in addition to prayer, what r u doing?
For d guyz looking for free sexx,you can simply state on the first date tht u will NEVER hav sexx until marraige. That should send most packing. Always bring up the topic of sexx-it leaves no room for hypocrisy. Not talkng about sexx, not lewdly, is what makes all kinds of complications in a relationship. If he asks u to visit his house-ask point blank, if he's asking for sexx. He will b forced to face up to d issue. No evasiveness.
Hav u tried approaching men? You can do so subtly. The key is not to come off as desperate. Be careful though. Some nigerian men will call u a slut. That's d risk.
But i dont see anythng d biggi here-at least,u hav a feel of what we men pass thru and you'll appreciate us more and not b so quick to insult us.
You can approach a guy and end it if u dont like what u get.
3) invest in ur physcal and intellectual attractiveness,if u can. It needs money though.
One thing most women misconcieve is the beauty component. Top guys want beauty and class. Classiness exceeds beauty. How classy r u? It's hard to craft. It's not about having an iphone or driving a jeep. It's hard to define but it's perceptible.
4) try dating sites: tinder etc (dont know if tinder works for nigerians though).
5) ask help from ur girl networks. Ur girl friends can help hook u up.

Ppl like calling on God God but some problems hav a tactical element to it,we hav to do our part intensely and not leave evrything to God or blame devil.

thanks.

sureteeboy:
It is owned by a Multi Channel Network (Channel Frederator Network). I'm talking about personal, self-owned channels

ok

That escalated quickly . If you can't entertain diverse opinions you have no business having a page. How you respond and handle criticism is what will keep your followings, I unfriended tunde when I saw how rude and uncouth he was and I have not missed out on life .

Blackmiserable:
You don't want to be serious. He said he could link you up with one of his friends IF YOU WANT but you refrained from dropping an affirmative comment, rather you're talking of part 3. Are you just trolling us?

trolling? Ofcource not ,I just don't want to come off as desperate. Besides I am already being faulted as the architect of my problem already, should it not work out with whoever he links me with ,it will be the "I knew she had a problem" tag.

sureteeboy:
Some indeed. The only self-owned channel that has ever exceeded 50million subscribers is Pewdiepie

5 minutes Crafts currently has 57.

Kingkun69:
the highest subscribed channel has red plate
Then everyone else has gold it's not first 2nd or third it is when u reach a milestone

you dont get me, there are people who have crossed 100k and didnt get recognition, even I thought it was 1 million that YouTube starts to recognize you .Nor mind me o ,even me that is talking I don't even have one subscriber

While some channels are getting 55 million , I wonder what they will give to such people, for someone as popular as dbanj to be having such small number ,I wonder how many subscribers I can pull.

IntroVAT:
People should really start minding their business.

she asked for opinion and got it,whether it is what she wants to hear is another case. . And lest I forget,there is no minding one's business on the Internet market square.

Trans women,gay men,lesbians,I think that is what he is referring to. Imagine finding out your husband is a closet gay ,I know someone like this ,his wife still doesnt know ,but we know he likes guys.

truthsayer009:
Sis. abeg just leave am like this Biko. don't drop any part 3. Let us rest

I must rant o ,leave me

truthsayer009:
Well, good people move in groups, If you want I can link you up with friend(s) of mine who obviously will not be different in thought & lifestyle from me. Issue is there is a high probability you will complain of one thing or the other.

Same reason people complain they can't find good women in Nigeria, Ehn they are all Oloshos, Gold diggers etc. Look closely, you'll see one quiet good girl who has all the qualities they need seeking for attention, but No they're there looking for the Media validation of what beauty should be & keep ranting on Nairaland that they're no good women in Nigeria.

lol, well my rant is different , in no way am I insinuating that men are scum or something, I just feel unlucky and decided to use this platform to express it. Part 3 is still coming sef ,lol

truthsayer009:
What I mean is If a Good guy comes your way, would you even recognize him? because Men of Gold don't wear Gold really.

If you talk about compatibility, It now means you need to spend quality time with each person to even know If they are compatible or not. It's not something you can fathom in a one week of chat of Whatsapp.

I still reckon that you are making excuses for nothing, when you truly want a Man. You know where to get him.

can you point me in the right direction on where to get him ,add an address while at it thanks lol.

This is not a movie of a frog turning into a prince ,neither is this the secret billoniare reality show, and men of gold don't literally dont wear gold ,they wear tuxedos lol. Just saying

truthsayer009:
Sis. Literally saying, a Conductor or Bricklayer would not walk up to you to ask for your number. Men gauge ladies before walking up to them, even some Men fear to approach women who drive nice cars thinking they are above their league, no one wants to get rejected.

You already said It in your post that you have people chatting you up but not like your Ex used to. The truth that you Women don't know is the kind of Guy you seek for already belongs to someone else.

Women judge Men by so many stupid Criteria, only to start dropping them over the years. Some get lucky with those stupid criteria, meet someone exactly or close & then make it a standard for other Women.

Your case is not new Sis, Truth is hard to accept.

Atleast you know its not about material things ,you call it standard or criteria and I call it compatibility.

compatibility is a serious thing that should not be compromised,I am for the "we die here marriage". So there is no point trying to accept and settle because time is running out. Now every human behaves similar, we eat,we bathe, but we all dont react the same way, have same opinion and relate the same way.

Whether we like to admit it or not ,there is something called social strata and beauty standards the same reason not everyone is considered a model and not everyone is considered an elite or royalty. we must always remember this and not get all worked up expecting others to lower their standards ,if for anything it should be their choice and not because they dont want to appear to be choosey.

I am guessing by the bolded statement you mean the good guys are already taken so I should settle? Well, thanks for the advice ,I dont have to take it,thanks all the same.

truthsayer009:
This is a big lie Sis. Men have been coming your way, you obviously don't like them as they don't fit to what you want. If you want to get married in 3 months, you can.

Stop lying to yourself. Do you want to tell me not up to 5 Men approached you in 2019?

because men have been coming my way doesn't mean I should settle down with a brick layer or bus conductor, one way or the other ,we as humans set standard for ourselves, its all part of life .while to some it might not be the jeep and PJ and house in lekki type ,no one wants to have to worry that the landlord will throw them out soon or see their children at home because no school fees.

I am not desperate to accept just anyone ,this is clearly a rant from the tittle, so take note. The last thing I will do is to "manage a marriage" . yes marriage has its ups and downs but some marriages don't get to experience the turmoils other couples experience .

And I don't have to convince you ,your opinion is yours and yours alone and dont you think 3 months is too far? Why not 3 days?

Blackmiserable:
Haha, I think I have to agree, "We are all devils dressed in our best attires on Sundays." Your Introversion could be your main hindrance! Move out, tour places, go to church, social gathering, stop feeling too entitled. You just said you want a husband but you didn't really describe yourself, what you want in a spouse, and maybe a link to one of your social media accounts. You may even use a throwaway social media account BUT with a real profile pics. Why in the world do you think anyone would take you serious without a vivid description of who you are? Mind you, people (men) still woo women online so stop taking your effort for granted. Please stop!

I sent this screenshot to encourage you and prove my point and she's not even the only person I sent this message to. Meeting one's spouse through the internet works.

See this link.

https://old.reddit.com/r/r4r/

entitled? I think not, its just my kind of person it has helped me stay out of trouble in the past ,due to the environment I grew up , but I guess its kind of telling on me now ,I just can't leave the house when I dont have a very important reason to ,I don't mean hanging out and chatting away . I have tried ,but it seems to be proving very hard.

There are many kind of people like me, and I assure you its not a feeling of being entitled. Thanks all the same. I will put in more effort to go out more .

trapQ:
You must be very stupid. How does race come into this issue? I'm not half as dumb as you and this has absolutely nothing to do with American history even though I know their history.

An alien is a foreigner who is not a naturalized citizen. So how are Trump and Melania aliens? Olodo!

They were once aliens before they naturalized ,its like mocking the very same process through which you came in, that is the point.

By the way, I am not the cause of your frustration, stop throwing a fist like a teenager , communicate like a mentally balanced human being and stop barking insults like a rabied dog, not that I am moved by them tho, but I feel you should calm down and sort your self out, this world is big enough to handle whatever problem is making you lash out .

Find peace bro, I dont know where you live but its 6:57am in Nigeria and its too early to be sounding like this, you sound pained and frustrated and drained

trapQ:
Cure your ignorance.

the same way he and his wife are aliens too , Caucasians are not even the original inhabitants of america ,so please you cure your ignorance.

truthsayer009:
@Duggedised12:

Okay talk time. So guess what? Do you know If you actually want a Husband, you can get it in a Month, Yes I said in a month. Let's put Money aside honestly, the same friends which you envy & look at getting married every weekend are picking guys that you wouldn't even think fit into your criteria of what a Man should be.

I've discovered every lady crying Wolf about marriage isn't crying because there are no Men approaching them, but they need a certain kind of Man, Not that I'm against that ideology but don't cry when you know you've set standards for yourself & some people have not met such standard.
Some people get lucky & they find Men who meet the standards in short time, some don't.

Miss A's Destiny is different from Miss B.

I would advise that you stay put & keep your trust in God, I want to believe you have other things going for you like Career, activities etc

The same way we are not born equal and are not born with equal opportunities, some people are just unlucky when it comes to relationships and not about standards. Sometimes things happen for no fault of ours and not.because of our own doing.

Blackmiserable:
There's no means for anonymous folks who have never seen you to size you up - I mean, on the INTERNET, maybe, just maybe, you want to write a very vivid description with a link to one of your social media account (after all, many people dey see your face since 1900 so wtf), if you're really serious. If you can't do both, do one. I have actually wooed a woman I stumbled on Reddit just because she admitted to being a virgin, so you never know, people are just different.

Even though females should be the object of desire, there's certainly and absolutely nothing wrong in pursuing men for marriage. God made marriage for you so if the mountain wouldn't come to Muhammad; Muhammad can go to the mountain. If I have wares like Chicken for sale, it is in my best interest to put out "Chicken is sold here" signpost.

You want a husband and he's not forthcoming; you can make that clear especially through means like the web and this Nigerian forum where we have Nigerians from all nooks and cranny, without sounding weird. Believe me dear sister even if you're as ugly as shit, there's a man for you. You may want to say: "If you want sex or any type of intimacy (before the relationship gains any momentum) before we get married then I am not for you; I am not going to give my body until we're married."

Men want to be attracted to their spouse and beauty, as you know, is relative. Let's see your pics and share your email address, too, your husband is around the corner. But on a serious note, why are you still unmarried? Are you that ugly? Aren't there unmarried bachelors in your church? Do you go to church? Are you hot tempered or... because there's hardly any woman who doesn't get wooed on a regular basis. Even if it's so bad, at least once a month or two. Are you saying all your suitors just want your body and aren't really interested in marriage? Maybe you want to change location or city.

If you are beautiful, I CAN GET YOU A SPOUSE ON REDDIT WHO WOULD FLY ALL THE WAY FROM OBODO OYIBO FOR MARRIAGE. WHY? THE DATING SUBREDDITS THERE ARE HEAVILY SKEWED, ALTHOUGH MANY JUST WANT A FLING, YOU'D STILL SEE THAT MANY WHITE GUYS THERE THAT WOULD RUSH YOU LIKE INDOMIE.

Remember your servant! God don butter your bread I swear!

you have spoken well, I am not ugly lol ,just introverted and i have come to realize to be noticed and get wooed ,you have to show up ,my neigbours barely even see me . I am not the church freak ,I barely go to church (dont want to go into the reason for that here) but then meeting someone in church is not what I am keen on as "we are all saints dressed in our best attires on Sundays".


Thanks for your input, it is highly appreciated.

SluttanSlayer:




Close your legs

hahahaha, I dare you to hold down a conversation like a human being and not a rabied dog . Pro-life that cannot make a simple argument .

blowjohn:
Don't worry when enemies cook up all sorts of stories just to smear ur character, use nice words OK.
People like CNN anchors.....they need to keep those ones in jail for 31 years.

did you see his latest tweet where he called immigrants aliens? ,its not about CNN or the media ,he has a foul mouth.

I think you need to decide if you want democracy or dictatorship, there is no standing on the fence ,if you are clamouring for 31years in jail over a perceived enemity with the media ,I am guessing beheading for petty crimes will be easy for you too.

Everyone country has a right to protect its borders and demand for proper documentation before being granted Entry,the only thing I see here is that he has a foul mouth and callous with words.

SluttanSlayer:
I wish you could extend such goodwill to happless unborn babies you are advocating for their murder.

You want pro-choice? You want control of your body? Start with closing your filthy cum dumpster

it takes two to make a baby ,how about you tell your brothers to keep their slippery pap to themselves. You are concerned about unborn babies ,I bet you have never visited an orphanage to donate since you were born ,but then we are all saints and hypocrites.


I think you should be more concerned about the rate at which our population is exploding seeing that we can't even produce enough food to substain us not to talk of other consumer goods.

And dont come here with your pro-choice ,pro-life american bullsh1t , the american Caucasians know they are becoming the minoriy considering black Americans are the ones who seem to have the stamina to deal with baby daddy issues and birth like rabbits. Hence the recent moves their white dominated law makers are making.

Copy copy will not kill you people. Wake up ,there are different ways to live this thing called life ,even China with their child policy did force married women to have abortions heaven did not fall.

Blackmiserable:
Believe me, having a husband is good, very good, after all, God created woman for companionship and procreation but NOT having one is not the end of the world. Neither is a man for a woman. I for take you sha but I'm already taken. One, no two Taraba woman sha!

Put your pics here for any potential suitor here.Your rantings is justified but let folks see yo

thanks, but the pics own go hard o. Just don't feel comfortable.Thanks all the same.

SluttanSlayer:
Close your gaping stench trench, and I assure and guarantee you, you wouldn't be needing an abortion

life is meant to be enjoyed, learn to live, I know you just want to troll, but in the end, ask yourself, did this comment I made add anything to my life? Am i Happy?,I am not angry when people like you cross my path, I just feel pity for folks like you, I know how hard it must be for the real you behind the keyboard. I hope you find peace and sleep better.

roladex:
So what's d big deal in this now.

that you don't see anything wrong in it is a call for help. You need to sit down and do some serious introspection.

The more reason abortion should be legalized. Quacks are making money from abortions while putting the patients life at risk.

If banning it has not stopped people from abortion, its only wise to make it safer.

We can't continue to be rigid, we humans are on this earth to make our lives easier, there are different things leading up to a person wanting an abortion,heck even daily pills and contraceptive methods fail. Fake postinor and daily pill everywhere ,so its not always about irresponsible sex escapade ,we must do way with this rigidity.

our population is exploding, since we cannot take the child policy route ,its time to make abortions safer.

How does one enlist in the.united states army, asking for myself.

kuljayms1:
After banning gbwhatsapp users, I'm not pleased with whatsapp anymore.... We're going back to 2go ���

can't even remember where I wrote my 2go ID and pw. Used 2go almost a decade ago

xcelentattitude:
Abeg my followed board is showing this,
Am I safe?

OR

Have I won a price?

I am guessing you followed romance section you will win a price when that number gets to one billion.