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RealNakupenda:
True Life Story

Good day, please post for me i need advice/help on my condition.

I got married to my husband at 21 yrs. I didn’t date any man before getting married. I Gave birth to my sons when I was 22, 23, & 38 years (3 boys).l will be 40 in few months.

I love my husband so much he is my friend, my father and my close confidant. We have been married for 18 yrs now. I don’t keep friends.

My problem is my husband is jobless for the past 11yrs now.
He is educated with masters degree but he has refused to get any job and Iam losing it.
For the past 10 yrs I have been responsible for providing everything for the family including our children’s education, rent, clothing, medical expenses, and feeding I mean everything.

Presently, I am depressed, emotionally down my health is not stable as I am thinking so many things especially how to meet up with my 2 children school fees in the university.
I don’t earn monthly, i depend on what I get as a private legal practitioner.

I have spoken to my beloved husband for so many years now to look for any job to ensure he fulfils his obligation as a husband and father but each time I advised him he will tell me to look for job for him. I have tried approaching some person’s but no one could help me get a job for him.
Pls, I need your candid advice on how I should handle this situation I don’t what to loose my marriage.
Thank you

SOURCE : https://livelystones.ng/2021/06/14/help-my-husband-is-jobless-for-the-past-11yrs-now-and-not-bothered-the-family-load-is-killing-me/

Nothing you can do.

He is lazy and not willing to work. Just assume that you are the only bread winner.

shariff84:
Prices- beans brown 55k,white 50k,maize 24k,yellow maize 25k, sorghum 24k,bambara nut 52k, groundnuts 58k,rice 44k,suyabeans 36k all in 100kg bag.

How much will it cost to send a bag of sorghum to delta state?

Betty1000:
I'm heartbroken because before I agreed to date him, I asked him if he has been married in the past or has children, he said no.

I don't trust him anymore. I feel like I have been deceived because not even his family members told me,

I am close to his sister but she never opened up to me.

Technically the guy did not lie to you.

You asked if he was married previously and he said no. You have not discovered that he was previously married. So he did not lie about not being previously married.

You asked if he has children, he has only one child, he does not have children so he told you the truth that he does not have children.

Anty, you did not ask the right questions, you got the truthful answers to the questions that you asked.

Whether you marry or not, life goes on. No one can decide for you.

Just ask him why he did not tell you about his son, maybe he was afraid you might not agree to date him if you knew about the son, which means that he was afraid of losing you His family did not tell you about the child because it is not their duty to scatter your relationship.

Moyyo:
Please can anyone help out with where I can source locally for unadulterated Shea Butter
Mango Butter
Cocoa Butter
Honey in Ogun state or it's environs. Thank you.

I doubt if you will get mango butter in Nigeria.

What quantity of Shea butter do you need?

OmoManU:
For me

1. Late Umaru Musa Yar'adua for leaving over 60 billion in the state coffers after serving for 8 years

2. Babatunde Raji Fashola - for his strides in Lagos as a Governor

Others notable of mention

Rotimi Amaechi as Rivers Governor
Nasir El-Rufai currently
Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso for his strides in Kano
Peter Obi too for leaving money behind at Anambra
Also Godswill Akpabio for his works at Akwa Ibom
Partially Donald Duke for his focus on Tourism (But how far about Tinapa Today)
Also Nyesom Wike - na man en be!
Olagunsoye Oyinlola
Rauf Aregbesola (Osun state Infrastructural Devpt)
Current Borno Gov, Zulum it's not easy to be facing Boko Boys steady


Worst of Worst
Bukola Saraki
Peter Odili
James Ibori
Lucky Igbinedion
Yahaya Bello
Samuel Ortom
Rev Jolly Nyame
Joshua Dariye
Idris of Kogi predecessor of Yahaya
Alao Akala
Sule Lamido and son's Enterprises aka Jigawa state

James Ibori is among the best. Know this and achieve wisdom.

Forget SW media. He is not a godfather of delta politics by threats or coercion, his performance while in office is why they still worship him.

Teetee777:
08036162887 WhatsApp

Nice thread, but try to limit night travels.

Safety first.

Moboj:
Thank you
We will be bringing out Top Offer's soon
And make our dealings even more transparent to everyone
Do watch out for our top offer's
We have very juicy deals coming up

I would have loved to build a net house for tomatoes production, just the money is the problem now. Do you have an extremely low cost nethouse idea that you can share with me?

Nice

Ltrust1:
Beniseed and cotton seed available

How much is cotton seed per ton?

doggedfighter:
No my ass is flat and can have such effect on men.

Sorry about that. Just pray for a bigger ass, nothing the lord can not do

Loverboy3333:
So a friend of mine traveled out 3 months ago, he has been worried if his Gf is or will be cheating while he is outside the country,

He gave me her number and ask me to test her if she will agree for me

I am confused now, dont want to be a barrier to their relationship

Don't do it

Richogroup:
Do you have crude pko for refining?

I have crude PKO, I was thinking of refining it. Do you refine PKO for others?

akosh005:
Package 2.5kg of smokeless pure non sparkling charcoal for grilling and cooking from Just Akosh Enterprise. DM for price and order.

How much is this 2.5kg of charcoal sold for?

d1tto:
Good thing they were NOT accused of being IPoB members.

They already labelled ipob.

Read their statement

"uncovered an illegal depot where petroleum products are stored for onward transportation to locations targeted for attacks,” Elkana said."

Patrioticbreed9:
I placed an other last month on a $10,000 cinema camera.i later emptied my cart because a friend of mine adviced me that in few months to come the camera brand will be releasing a new cam there by causing a slash in price to the prevoise models,due to the fact that he is more experienced than me in the field i obeyed him. Getting to this month the company post poned the launching of their new cam to either ending this year or early next year. Due to pressure from the industry i cant wait that long,so i decided to order it agahn. But now the problem is i need up to ~2mil extra to purchase that same cam and i dont have it now. So am left with no option than renting cameras when a gig comes up as usual.. It's painful.

What model of Canon camera do you want to buy to cost 10,000 usd?

I might be able to get it at a lower price for you.

onlyson16:
oga easy nah, na u post na u de comment. Cheap front page looker. U posted at 7 :39 and also coment at 7 :40

Guy cool down, I know say the first to comment position I take dey pain you.

I get hidden method of collecting first to comment position.

Seun, oya credit my account for the first to comment position.

Yes he was correct.

Now we miss the time when we had freedom of speech and freedom after speech.

When a bag of rice was less than 8000 naira for foreign rice for that matter.

When kidnapping was not a nationwide problem.

When the president actually addresses the citizens by himself.

When we knew who was at the helm of affairs, without statements like "presidency said" and "who is the presidency"

When 1st class graduates were rewarded with scholarships

When one tribe was not promoted above other tribes

StaffofOrayan:
Mr man, What history are you talking about ??
Flora shaw?
Lord Luggard?
Mongo Park?
Mary Slessor?
All the stories of generals that committed genocide? Coups? Is that your own history?

Enlighten me please

You did not answer my question.

Why was Nigeria created?

StaffofOrayan:
Then you have zero idea why Nigeria was created!

Why was Nigeria created?

The teaching of history was stopped recently by the APC government, but Nigeria was not created recently

Nigerians need to push for the teaching of Nigerian history in our schools

leofab:
It’s spreading.. is the a plot for the military to take over ?

I sincerely believe that the government knows more about this than they are saying. I remember the days of Sanni Abacha when those aligned with the government were planting bombs and blaming it on NADECO.

This could just be a government sponsored plan to achieve a preconceived goal.

I doubt if Buhari will stop a coup planned by northerners that will retain power in the north, that man's nepotism is something else.

The police in Rivers state knows the kidnappers, the police is just not bothered

Coolcris:
are you a woman single or married but desperately needs a child of your own, do you need a man to impregnate you so u can have your own child? am at your service, you'd get pregnant at one encounter I assure you that, I'm tested and trusted. contact me let's negotiate a fee.

Can you do it for a HIV positive lady?

hola106:
If you have babe that can handle body massage she will be train for free with good pay i picked the best

Call or message me on

07062888246

Clean and matured lady

Which city is the service required?

showafrica:
Your btc will come to Patricia but you might not be able to sell it for Naira at Patricia... May be and may be not. You will have to sell it to an individual and collect Naira. Beware of yahoo boys

Is there no app one can use to sell Bitcoin without involving individuals?

kiuninaija:
Good evening.

Update on pricing for refined PKO

N650/litre ex Lagos

Minimum order : 2,000 litres

Akinwunmi
08178362213

Do you buy crude PKO for refining?

Nice

Doctorjames:
Call us today!

Have you handled setup cases involving criminal elements within the efcc before?

honifome:
Thank you

Can you post the drawing and dimensions of the bee hive components?

I like to know the length, width and thickness of each component to see if I can build one by myself.