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Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

People don't get successful overnight. It takes period of struggling, planning and consistency. A period you shallow people refer to a guy as being broke. I can't see anywhere you mentioned what you are bringing to the table. That's why those made guys tire of you'll and start beating the shii out of ya butt.

Moreover, how come this stupid topic hot FP. One of the mods hitting this gyal . newbie for that matter.

My PPA during service. The workforce is over bloated tho. Most got appointments there because of politics not because of competence

With all the jazz for him neck.
But wait o. That place is so murky and dank. No wonder it's always not so easy to nab this guys

farem:
Do not confuse the order of command here!

It's the other way round. Who is a minister that has to approve a project before his masters (presidency) approve.

I think there is this subject called Civic Education in primary schools. These elementary things are handled there.

Savage!!!

huntila:
Fashola mentioned it this morning on Channels that he had approved it and wrote a letter to the Governor.
Why are the playing politics with it? If Fashola does not approve, Presidency can't approve.

Says who? Do you know what executive order means

zionmade1:
"they all passed Common entrance" in my Primary school days we all passed common entrance. Let dem also all pass WAEC. RUBBISH. Those country u mentioned have scholars and are very much equi
ed. Instead of developing our education first to a world standard before talking about language, we are here experimenting with passing common entrance

And those scholars fell from heaven? Pls, if you're not into languages, just talk a walk. It's obvious you're ignorant of the nexus between someone's native language and knowledge. Just forget it.

Is there any activity stopped during lent? Why should there anyway? What kind of people are these sef? So because you're fasting, trains should grind to a halt, airports should shut down, roads should close, markets should be locked up, Kcee should stop wearing colourful clothes and Bobrisky should stop using bleaching cream?

SalamRushdie:
I stand with JNI here , how does the NYC expect those observing fast to go through the rigorous physical activities at the camps, NYC should learn to schedule camp dates properly because things like this are signs of very poor planning

Qatar, Kuwait and the rest isn't stopping normal activities yet you expect a secular state like Nigeria to halt normal activities because some individuals have decided to starve themselves for 30 days (for nothing) Now, when they call you people terrorists now, you'll be saying Islam is a religion of peace. Don't you know posting your poor comment is an act of intellectual terrorism

zionmade1:
All in a bid to bring our education down to d level of northerners who rather remain illiterates than learn English. Which school in d South will accept dat Rubbish wen children at d age of 3 can flow fluently in English. Its a disgrace our educational system would have to descend so low all because we are in d same country will northerners who have vowed to remain illiterates. Other countries are looking for ways to further develop the standards of their educational system we are going back to square one. RUBBISH

With due respect, sir,you don't know what you are saying. In the 70s, a pilot study was conducted in the then University of Ife using primary 1 students. Many parents protested and withdrew their wards from the class. At the end of the project, all the pupils passed their Common entrance Examination in flying colours because they were taught all the subjects in their indigenous languages. The research results were submitted to the Oyo state government. Unfortunately Osun state was created out of Oyo state and the then new administrators claimed they had a lot of issues on their hand and couldn't be bothered about any research result implementation.

China, India, Indonesia, Singapore, Malaysia, Spain, Korea all teach in their indigenous languages, hence their advance in science and technology.

mediocre:
Ma nigga. Americans had to make a movie to honor this guy

The Interview Love that movie ehn

They are sayinh so much but revealing nothing. If he wasnt sacked because of the governor's wife, why was he sacked and told to vacate his official residence the following day? CAN really thinks Nigerians are fool and will swallow whatever they say hook, line and sinker. Moreover, who doesn't know where CAN stands on issues bordering on politicians. Greased palms trying to assume position of spiritual authority

Its obvious there is a break down of discipline and comportment among all our uniformed men. This issue has to be tackled head on right away before the so called security officers burn the country to the ground. Just last week, the navy was busy beating students in Osun, recently soldiers shot at each other because of woman, we hear everyday of police brutality and military beastiality on unarmed civilians. When will we start acting civilised and rational

I was still discussing the issue of housing with someone recently. It is so unfortunate that as a graduate about to start to your life, it is so difficult to find a decent accommodation with 150k in cities like Lagos, PH, Abj. Funny thing is, many houses are empty and rotting away due to their high prices which average Nigerians cant afford

And you say that our looting politicians will not chill in the hell's meaneast hottest part(If hell actually exists sha)
Imagine the IGR Yobe state could generate from such a lovely spot. But no, they will rather go to Abuja to beg for bailouts and allocations

abeg who get the video of that chase E go be like Jason Bourne when him dey chase that "London CIA asset" for Las Vegas.

This is soooo sad. Truth be told , African countries are no much different from one another.

On the other hand, if they had made that very expensive mistake in Nigeria. Dem for don see Crocodile Smile or Cobra Grin

Edu3Again:
The North truly no value life oh, not even their own.

Must the South remain in this zoo with them?

Pls, just do us all a little favour ehn. Close your eyes for 5 secs and reopen it then go and read the post again. Maybe your brain would have connected with your eyes by then and you'd see that they are igbo not northerners.

Shelloween:
How will this change the lives of suffering Nigerians? We don't want useless statistics, we want results. These selfish politicians would still loot the generated funds and we will be back to square one. Where is the animal that promised us CHANGE? I've bought maselft a Moet and ama pop it the moment i hear of Buhari's death. Nigeria's dead.

I'm sure your brain is so black, it can be used to polish NYSC boot from brown to black. What kind of "indomie-generation" comment is this?!

onyxo76:
hambuger why all these chairmen dey always get funny names like these? tokyo,auxiliary etc

You sabi auxiliary too is long gone. Lagos should just tow the path of oyo state and totally ban the the yeye violent union

This is why politicians and leaders allow things to rot. They dont care if schools are locked for 10 years as long as their kids are schooling abroad, they do not care if doctors embark on a 10 year strike as long as they can travel to London for 'ear treatment,' they can not be bothered if interstate roads are filled with death traps as long as they can fly in their private jets to wherever...And you wonder why we are not moving forward.

But really, people should stop posting dead people's faces. I think it's not dignifying for the dead and their families

PYO just reminds me do much of Obama.
Little things like this really matter. It does. It goes a long way to demystify the office and bring it closer to the people.
Until we have a political system that could make people like this contest for elections and win, we won't move forward

I think it's time NL mods do something about this childish, devilish and unnecessarily incessant tribal word slugs on this page. It's beginning to sicken me. Sometimes I'm even afraid to open threads because I know every shred of news result in tribal feuds. It's so sickening

2shure:
Only broke niggis got time for lame shiits.
I lodged in a hotel jus me and my side bitch.
It was ao late.
Bleep noddles were just 1000.
By d time d fucking shit was ready
My bill was 3500 including bottled water.
Am like Bleep
I got couple of thousands
Y who get time to dey shout where is the manager.
Bleep by 10.39pm and u expect me to be yelling wherez d manager.
Fuc am not only messing myself up
Im bugin everyone else with noise.
Bleep.
If u buy shiiit for 500 and tpur bil becomes 2k.
Bro sho some love.
U big pass 2k sef
Unless u r the type dat wud come down from a bus jus cause maybe whr u r going is 70naira
And the conductor says 100 naira direct.


Fucck dis shiiit

Poverty is written all over you. See this broke rat forming "rich gang"

mascot87:
I will be very brief and I am sure we all can learn one or two things from this. I hope also that I construct this well.

I do travel out of my location here in Lagos very well to other part of the country and it's normal that I get an hotel to lodge.
On arrival to an affordable hotel, I pay for the hotel room and check in. Take my bath and relax a bit then I check the hotel menu list for breakfast, lunch or dinner as the case may be.

I do observe something for the past two years but didn't really take it serious not until when I travelled to Aba and Port Harcourt around March this year and same thing repeats itself.

After checking the menu list and the price of the food u want to eat. You call the restaurant and place your order but as soon as your order was delivered, the price is always more than what is on the menu list. Sometimes it could be has high as a thousand Naira.

I do pay all the time and didn't read any meaning to it but when I was at Aba around March, I protested when the same thing repeats itself and I said to myself that if such repeat itself anytime I travel and lodge in any hotel, I will only pay the charge as indicated on the menu list.
Fast forward to today, I travelled to Abuja and as usual lodged at an hotel in town.
Now this evening I ordered for my dinner at a fixed price on the menu list only for the price of my order to be far above what was written in the menu list. I told the lady that brought my dinner that I will only pay the cost of the dish in the menu list but she insisted that I will pay at #500 more than I was expected to pay giving me excuses that the price on the menu list was the old price.

I request to see the manager and within a second, she disappeared but I still went ahead to see the hotel manager but on my way, I met one of the hotel attendants who was listening to my argument with the lady and he told me that I shouldn't go to the manager cos there is nothing the manager can do and that they are working on the new price list but I ignored him. When I got to the hotel manager, i told him what happened and why customers cannot pay the exact cost of dish in the menu list but have to pay far more. He was suprised cos I saw the shock on his face. He sent for d lady that do serve dish for customer but not to expose her in my presence, he told me to go and I should pay the exact price on the menu list when she comes around to collect money.

When the lady later came around to collect the money, I saw the anger on her face which confirms my suspicion that those people generate income for themselves through such disgraceful means and it as become a common trend in some hotels (I don't want to generalize).

Don't know who else have noticed such but next time you lodge in an hotel and observe such, insist on paying the exact cost as seen on the menu price list.

I love honest people and sometimes give extra tips to them of some few cash even after rendering services to me but trying to play a fast one is a no no for me.

Let us be observant.

I think lalasticlala can also read this and add to his knowledge of snake

They do this in night clubs in Lagos too. They are always claiming its old price. Why will a club keep a price list that's outdated with its attendants

Alero3Arubi:
There is a difference between been used to you and loving you.
I hope you get my point here.
So that can decide why she can't let you go.
But its also possible she isn't empathic because she sees relationship as a shaky matter but marriage as the deal.
The point is you both need to talk to a counselor that's I you are serious about her.
And what's with Nigerians and hate for professional counseling?

I actually do get. The thing is we aren't used to each other because of the distance factor. Although the distance is not that long It's just neighbouring cities where we can always fix a date to see, but she doesn't understand that we actually have to get used to each other by communicating well and seeing when we can. She thinks just "saying I love you" settles all.
Counselling is good when the person agrees there's need for it.

crazyABO:
So Ghana self get dre own Ogaoooo

Can't you see the person is a Nigerian living in Ghana?

Justuceleague2:
And he dey hard dem to prove senseful even you let am repeat same exam 5 times,

Where's even the time. On to the next one if she's not acting normal. There's no short supply

Justuceleague2:
If it's club, shopping, money they lighten up , that's classic today's girls no emotion just gimme gimme bring bring and if you don't, they start making calls to show you you are just an alternative

That's why I presume every girl I meet to be senseless until she proves otherwise

Alero3Arubi:
That's the word EMPATHY.
Not all people do.
Some don't naturally because they were born that way.
Some grew to kill Empathy because they been used and abused.
So it takes care, patience, understanding and consistence to revive or teach empathy to those who don't have.
I think your gf needs counseling.
She may be emotionally numb.

No, this one is not numb. I've even tried to dump her many times but she keeps hanging on. I've tried repeatedly to explain the importance but its all been to no avail. Maybe it's because we're in different cities though. But to me, I believe no one needs to beg or force u to show empathy when u love someone cos you should naturally want that person to be around for you to love.

Justuceleague2:
Sorry if this sounds insensitive but I think his girlfriend wanted him to die


Why? First of all if you work at a filling station, you must be at work by 6-7, not 8 AM, that's the first kleg

Secondly boyfriend texts you he wants to commit suicide but you stayed at work, calling him, he didn't pick your call and you assumed everything is OK?



On a very good day, considering all the publicity suicide and depression has received, a sane person would rush home to meet bf , if sex would calm him, if it's weed if it's drinking to stupor , something will save him that day



But I guess these generation of ladies, majority of them are selfish money gobbling problems , and they don't love like our fore fathers and parents used to


That's a fact, you can mention or insult all you want it wouldn't change the fact that girls these days are after money only not love

One of the most sensible comments I've read on NL today. Sometimes I tell my girl some very sensitive things to gauge her reaction or attitude but I notice despite all her cries that she loves me, she usually acts indifferently to those things. I have tried to educate her on the importance of being empathetic but then...