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partnerbizz5:
The dude raised some valid points.
I expected you to attact him with ratiocination but you flunked.

He's blue pilled.

BTW I expect u to attack me and call everything I wrote up there "lies"

Kirchhoff01:
gäyàss_mothafucker

A girl did call me gay and promised to rape me....but I'm not interested. She's the gf I mentioned earlier

After I read this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5248360/red-pills-mgtow-cause-gynophobia

I had to do a little flashback into my life...how has mgtow affected the women around me?

1. When I'm returning back from work, the girls in my compound would just run up to me, taking turns welcoming me leaving whoever they are with striking meaningless conversation.

2. I've had two girls cooked for me. They've also had an altercation about who is crushing on me.

3. Night visitors mostly cause I return home late, throwing themselves at me.

4. Girls ask for my number, and some try to impress me with cash forming independent women.

5. Increased stalkers on Facebook and unnecessary calls.

6. A girl (gf of a month) begging me for sex like there's no tomorrow. I'm actually a celibate now

I don't hate girls, I actually love them as a fellow human being but I've come to realize that they will do anything to get what they can't have.

Until I find a girl without drama and has sense, my guard will forever be up

I saw this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/5248360/red-pills-mgtow-cause-gynophobia

And I really would like to enlighten that op about is assumptions about red pilled men.

I got to know about about mgtow on YouTube from sandman. And God, the guy explained a lot...many of the things he talked about were things I've seen happened or experienced personally.

Mgtow isn't really about hating on women but bout men going their own way. OK, I know that sounds a little gay-ish but let me explain further. Mgtow didn't say hate women or worship them, it simply says acknowledge that they are not as weak and defenseless as you think. As a matter of fact, women know you want them and you'll definitely chase after them...this knowledge they use to their advantage, the birth of manipulation.

After I took the red pilled, I treat men and women the same way, no special treatment for the girls. I barely look at a lady twice. Though I strike interesting conversations with girls, I never intend to repeat them.

When a girl ask me something and she changes her voice to sound more romantic, I tell her no and to use her normal voice. When they try to touch me lightly, I gently remove their hands from my body as if it was dirt. I reduced the time I spend with girls, spent more time chatting with my guys during my free time.

The aim of taking the red pill is to reduce dramas in my life but the result I got was astonishing...

[quote author=izaray post=79515682][/quote]"Izaray" this must be a Muslim name, right?

A Christian ought to know what adultery is, that's y I'm asking

hesilo:
Nice suggestions, but I want to be clear, is it still adultery now that she ain't into any marriage?

I'm a Christian, divorce isn't in my Bible. Yes, it is adultery.

If she did it to u, then her husband (ex), she can still do it to u again.

mp3ree:
good day
i have an issue and i need urgent help.I just did traditional marriage to my girl friend ,found out later that she did introduction with a guy some weeks ago but later called it of two months before our traditional marriage ,also found out the ex fiance has been sleeping with even after she called the initial introduction off.up to the extent of sleeping with the guy four days to our traditional marriage.
am confused on what line of action i should take,she does not know have found out all this

please advice needed ,no insult.

Lemme be sarcastic... Marry her o, marry her well.

God is trying to save u from making a very big mistake, ya here asking us for advice!

The Lord is ya strength

MariaLavina:
A guy that kiss and tell? I have no dealings with such.

You must be a lezb...cause all guys kiss very well and run their mouth like tap when being descriptive

BuddhaPalm:
The goat whose owner gives grass dey think say e love am.

All fakery man...

Just trying to trap you now that she's pretty much "finished" and can't do better.

FINALLY, THE TRUTH.

OP, HERE IS THE TRUTH.

SHE'S NOT YA WIFE. PLS DO THE NEEDFUL, CARE FOR YA BABY BUT NEVER AGAIN GIVE INTO AN ADULTEROUS WOMAN

pocohantas:
Good thinking,
Good product.

I love that babe.

Haha haha... Devil pikin! U nor go tell d guy d truth?

spongeisback:
The "link" is fake, you should've clicked on in first rather than helping the author spread fake news.

"The link is fake." And "I'm helping the author spread fake news"

Didn't I tell u if u have problem with the article, go to the site and comment? Why r u still telling me its fake?

Click on the link, tell the author that you think his story is fake. I believe this is not difficult.

People be looking for fight where there's none.

frozen70:
Don't you think yours is the worst advice ❓

Nope. Mine has worked so many a time.

Yours I have seen fail. You do not buy a girl neither do u stalk her day and night. If they've started dating, then it's OK.

spongeisback:
What about the nuns? Lesbians,women above 66, and women with jobs that don't want marriage, what about underage girls? How come only men were classified and not women Doesn't that tell you how fake this list is? So all 5.5 billion women are ready for marriage?

You need to start using your brain.

You are a serious case. Why u looking for a fight where there's none?!

All I did was copy and paste. I am not the author. If u want to fight/quarrel with someone, the link is there...pls go and do that there.

Lol... Something is really wrong somewhere

youngsahito:
she has put my number on user busy so it is a real scam

Then let her go. You are better than her

TedLawrence:
My people how true is this, just saw it on Facebook..

Breaking News:

UN publishes 1st quarter Demography Report 2019

There are 7.8Billion people on planet. (earth).
The report shows

Women = 5.6Billion
Men = 2.2Billion

So, they advised women to be careful in showing attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men:

• One billion are married already.
• 130 million are in prison.
• 70 million are mentally ill.

That means that we have just about 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the
1billion:

• 50% are jobless
• 3% are gay
• 5% are Catholic Priests
• 10% are your relatives
• 35% are above 66years

So, ladies both the married and singles, you have to rethink before treating any man like trash.

For details visit UN demography report

https://www.independent.ng/breaking-un-publishes-1st-quarter-demography-report-2019/

youngsahito:
well, It started like this. I met this girl on FB and we had a good chat together where I propose to her to be my girl which she accepted.
so on the long run, I told her to come n pay me a visit which she accepted and I sent her the tfare but to my surprise this lady didn't actually leave her room and was lying to me that she was on her way.
Meanwhile, I form a call with her with another number talking to her as her male friend on campus which she fall for immediately.
Now she has given me her house address to pay her a visit thinking that I am her school friend.

pls what do I need to do cos I really want to teach this slay Queens like this a bitter lesson?

She isn't worth it. Let her go

OR...

Find out why she doesn't want to come to ya place and if she's OK with u coming over. Most girls r scared of what's going on in town...visiting a guy she met on Fb, that's fkd.

frozen70:
It's good you have spotted a wife to be

There are ways of winning a woman's heart without Overy labouring yourself

Start by getting her number

Call her and say hello to her and you are just checking on her

During the day send an sms asking her how she is doing and if she has gotten something for lunch

At night, send messages to her and wish her a good night sleep

Once in a while, visit her or stay close to her to understand her kind of person

Women love gifts, any thing can be gift, even gala or bread and butter, just anything that will serve as meal for her

Don't disclose your intentions yet but keep observing her characters and attitudes, that's the most important aspect of a woman's life not beauty or physics

With time other guys who sees you with her will distance themselves thinking you are the guy there

As time goes on the relationship will grow big and develops to what plans you guys might have for each other

Love and marriage is sweeter when it starts with friendship

This is d worst advice ever.

Do this and you will surely lose the girl.

Be sending messages day and night and you will appear jobless or like a stalker.

Buy her lunch and u don turn to her lunch ticket.

Understanding her kinda person is a good advice.

Don't buy gifts oooo
Think about it...how many guys do u think are trying to impress her by buying her gifts? Don't be d next ATM.

There's a rule about buying gifts. You don't jes go around buying gifts for every girl u like....who does that?

Swizbank:
I will try to be short and simple.

I'm the president of a my campus fellowship.
One of my members has caught my attention. She is a new member. The first day I saw her, it was like a a fulfilment come true. Every feature I want in my potential wife is in her, including profession.

Am ready to do anything to secure her before another man does that. But how to do it, without getting "No" as an answer and without giving a wrong msg to other members of the house, is a problem. She is aged 18, am 28.

I even just spoke with her now, but I maintained the discussion at , "How is your prayer life" levels.

Pls I need hints!

Don't tell her anything about feelings yet.

Do this...
1. Get to know her beyond her physical attributes.
2. Your conversations with her should not be only about church. Talk about life, plans and goals.
3. Bros, pls don't be a stalker. You must not stop her every time after service to talk to her.
4. Do well to complement her. Try not to over do this. Also, if there's anything u notice about her, good or bad, point it out to her.
5. Let her know u like her without telling her (send signals). Signals will keep u in her mind, wondering if u like her or not.

NB: DON'T ASK FOR HER NUMBER YET. THERE SHOULD BE A REASON TO GET HER NUMBER OTHER THAN FEELINGS. THIS WILL HELP YOU IN TERMS OF CONVERSATION. YOU DONT WANT HER TO IGNORE YOUR BORING CALLS, "HOW R U? HOW was YA DAY?"

kenzysmith:
Good day, am in my mid 20 twentys, i met this girl last year and i ask her out she agree to date me from that period till this moment i haven't even seen her pant. I am worried if i should calculate the money i ve spend on her it should be roughly 20thousand naira. She have what i want in a woman back and front everytime am with her alone i insist buh she telling that is nt the right time to do it, everytime am with her he get how my body they do me. Pls advîse me how to convince her am very worried.

SERIOUSLY BROS? U R HERE SEEKING ADVICE ON HOW TO SEE A GIRL'S PANT? AND YA COMPLAINING THAT YOU'VE SPENT 20K ON HER

GOD PLEASE HELP OUR GENERATION, THEY ARE TOO IDLE

Timekeeper:
How do I get in her heart??

Tell her how u honestly feel. Obviously she's gonno turn u down.

Now you'll do the hard part, walk away from her, end all communication with and live ya life.

By living ya life, I meant u should get really busy with the things u love.

Biglittlelois:
Of course you aren't, you are below me.

Whatever helps you sleep at night

IntrovertedK:
look how you jumped into conclusion. Can i also jump into conclusion that you are a big time mumu for jumping into conclusion over what you know nothing of?

Expected

Biglittlelois:
So for these guys to be concerned about what I meant makes them desperate, are you so miserable that people don't show care to you in real life For you to sound envious or whatever speaks volumes of your personality starting from your written English......

I'm not for u

iTearHerToto:
Most dumbest of all fake stories ever. The person that crafted that thing doesn't deserve food. He/she should be categorized amongst the worst sloths ever.


Pukes

Bros u r wicked!

Jodha:
He knew she was a LovePeddler and he still wanted her... what's making him chicken out now?


He should man up...and face the problem square head...he should marry her o . Shuu
..is it her fault?...

Did she know he was his father?

Is it not in the past?

Mtsheww

Leave that bros...na excuse finder e be

IntrovertedK:
replied ma'am.

Biglittlelois: [/quote]

ThePreachersSon:

kushercain:

I wanna assume that Lois is a "social media" fine girl I.e 8/10 but in d real world she's jes a 5.

And all ya niggas r jes on alter egos mood...turning into speedy man for someone that will put y'all in a pool of desperate guys.

Y'all should take yourselves out of that basket and be more like this bros
[quote author=mrpaedo]MGTOW

become the guy that's unavailable...become the desirable one.

Don't forget what scarcity does to price

MissRaine69:
Guy with insecurities meets a woman who has low self esteem what could possibly go wrong?
People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.

You are trying to resuscitate a corpse, a very noble effort but a pointless one nonetheless.

That's savage!

"WHEN INSECURITY MEETS LOW SELF ESTEEM, WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG?"

Ekez:
Guys i just sit down jejely dey talk to wan new babe close to my store
.naim wan gal come from nowhere for my presence dey tell the gal wey me dey toast say make she no listen to me,say am very stingy,say my hand na stone ,water no fit pass am,
Dis wan no be first tym wey gals dey talk say i dey very stingy.
Guyz being prudent na stinginess?
I just dey para.

Bros, you are not stingy. Nobody is truly stingy. We all spend money on who/what is important to us. If she calls you stingy cause you don't spend on her, it simply means she ain't that important to you.

Next time when they call you stingy, simply tell them that's because they ain't worth spending money on.

MrBrownJay1:
Who left their infant play with their NL profile?! See as the child is typing nonsense....

Hahahahahahahah

Bros, that's just wicked!

mosho2good:
I'm sick and tired of her now and don't know what to do
it all started 3 years ago when I first meet her without knowing she was working for my brother then before she finally said yes to be my girlfriend and everything was going on fine until last year when her attitude change towards where by my girlfriend will be telling me that I need to have a good and solid reason before she can stay or be with me and lately she be telling me that she's busy almost throughout last year cause in her place of work she has a day off which is Monday that we do spend together but now she keep on telling me that she's busy and she be chatting with different guys and I'm no where to be found in the list.

I really love her and I'm planning my life with her but her last words to me that hurt me most was when she said the winner will be announced on the 31st of December this year.
what can I do

Bro, swallow the bitter pill, "she's gone."

Take the pain now and move on. You will definitely get over this pain. Trust me, I've experienced something similar