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abostg:
My location is BENIN CITY

Place your mind on Nigerian used Honda civic....2003 or 2004 model.

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aieromon:
No state in Nigeria has the legal backing to conduct a census.

Last words - share evidence to buttress your claim.

When has legal backing stopped tinubu from doing what he wants?

When Gov Tinubu forwarded a letter to the Senate stating that Lagosians have decided to increase their number of local governments from 20 to 52 and demanded that Federal allocations sent to lagos state should take into account the 32 new local governments, did he have legal backing?

See the link below, to confirm where the screenshot below was gathered from......

There's more scattered across the Internet!

Demographics where posted in the newspapers about 2 to 3 months later, I believe in either or both of the guardian and punch newspapers!, which were the dailies of choice in my dad's house!


The very day we read it, a small political storm brewed in my home that day, between us that day and the neighbours who were igbo, because we dey beat chest, believing that they were more residents from Old bendel state than the South East, a very heated debate over that 51% figure that I can never forget in a hurry happened that day; before you know, ACN Igbo youth wing was created and were holding meeting in the neighbourhood, strategy meetings!!

Before you know, Ben Akabueze was made commissioner in Lagos state, an igbo man made commissioner in yoruba land?

Lagos state that will never allow a non-yoruba person enter any office of influence, made Mr Akabueze commissioner for economic planning? Haaaaa

My mum was a secondary school teacher in lagos state, she had been invited on numerous occasions to apply for the post of principal, which by her level/years of service she was over-qualified for, she never got it till she retired.......

All her colleagues who got it, had to do affidavits, adding yoruba middle names to their names (especially Edo/Delta people) and had to claim to be indigenes in lagos via affidavit, claiming to be born in lagos, to be appointed to be common secondary school principals and even at that they still had to settle and use connection!!!


And the same antecedence apply in the ministries, even if you are yoruba, at some point in time your state of origin must change to lagos, if want to be promoted to any office of influence at an sphere.........

So Akabueze emerging commissioner in lagos state, no be ordinary everyday event in lagos, it was a very big deal..........

Before you know Igbo people started campaigning for public office across all political parties in lagos, it was a frenzy in Amuwo, somebody had just leaked Intel to igbo's folks in the neighbourhood that they may have the numbers to tip an actual ballot! In lagos!


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lagos


https://www.reuters.com/article/nigeria-lagos-idUKL0674057420070206

aieromon:
I repeat,not true. The 2006 National Census did not track ethnicity of residents in any part of Nigeria.

https://gazettes.africa/archive/ng/2009/ng-government-gazette-dated-2009-02-02-no-2.pdf

I think you have no clue of what I am talking about!!

You are talking about the National population census, which was organised by the Federal government!

The NPC figure exalted Kano state as the most populous state in Nigeria and placed lagos state as the second most populous in Nigeria.....

The then lagos state governor, Gov Tinubu considered it a betrayal of lagosians and the yoruba race! And in anger conducted a census of his own and came up with a population figure that was higher than what the NPC allocated to both lagos state as well as kano state.....

I am referring to the Lagos state Population census which has was organised shortly after the National Population Census by the Lagos state government!!

About 3 months after, demography studies where done on the census outcome and published in Daily newspapers, i read them myself, I wasn't told!

What the debate here on my end is now about is on whether that 51% is for the entire lagos state residents, or the 51% figure represents the Non-indigent resident population!!

As at the time, the opinion we held was that Old Bendel (representing the combination of Edo and delta state) represented the largest non-indigent population resident in lagos state, the lagos state demographic study cancelled it for us that day.......

Softmirror:
I SIMPLY ASKED ARE YOU OBIDIENT. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE ASHAMED IF YOU ARE ONE. YOU MADE EMPHASIS ON IGBOS ARE HAVING UP TO OVER 50% POPULATION IN LAGOS, AS A DEFENSE.

No I am not

Softmirror:
YOU KEEP TWISTING THINGS FROM THE PREMISES OF YOUR DISCUSSION. ARE YOU OBIDIENT?

Twist? My first statement here was in response to this statement

And Mr Ezeigbe Ughulu is the state coordinator for Lagos state, a state in Yorubaland with predominantly millions of Yoruba in population and dorminant Yoruba language and culture o. smh.



In the light of that statement, I asked, "are Tony Nwulu, Oghene Emmanuel and Rita Orji yoruba names?"

As at the 8th National assembly (2015 - 2019), these were 3 of the numerous honourable members representing lagos state at the federal House of representatives!!

And as the 9th National assembly (2019 - till date), I pointed out that only Hon Oghene Emmanuel retained his seat.......

Where did you get your own twist from?

You simply stereotyped me as an OBIDIENT fan, because anyone nowadays caught making any statement that seems to put people from the South East in good light before now was either an IpooB yoot, or a Nnamdi kanu fan or an igbo person, now its election season, they are all OBIDIENT fans.......abi no be so you see am?

Ttalk:
Obidient and lie are 5and6 abeg provide the report and ill start supporting Obi. 51%? You guys can lie for Africa

What statement have I made anywhere on Nairaland, that points to your conclusion that i am a fan of Peter obi?

Ttalk:
You are too dull. Oghene is not an Igbo ma please shut it

Sorry, please where in my post did I state that Oghene was an igbo name?
That names is of delta state origin.......

aieromon:
This is false please.

Point of correction, the lagos state population census was held in 2006 and I do very well remember reading that demography data in a report released in the guardian newspaper of that same year!!!

My family actually partook of that census, for the record......

Softmirror:
EVEN SOKOTO TOO, YOUR ANALYSIS IS CORRECT LOL.

I made no mention of sokoto............

I spoke of only lagos state.......

Below is a list showing Federal representatives of the 8th National assembly, representing constituents in lagos!!

Look at it closely and tell me when Oghene Emmanuel, Rita Orji and Tony Nwulu became yoruba names.....??

Till date Hon Oghene Emmanuel managed to retain his seat for Amuwo Odofin, an area I used to be very conversant of their local politics at one time

If you know, you know!!!

FreeStuffsNG:
And Mr Ezeigbe Ughulu is the state coordinator for Lagos state, a state in Yorubaland with predominantly millions of Yoruba in population and dorminant Yoruba language and culture o. smh.


check my signature for free stuffs!

Contrary to your claim, according to demographics obtained via the Lagos State population census, which coincidentally was done in Senator Bola Tinubu's second term, 51 percent of lagos residents are of South Eastern descent......

This why as a policy in lagos state government, one igbo man is always nominated to fill a slot in the lagos state government cabinet.........

If you know, you know......

ontarioache:
Hello all,

A mutual friend has drawn my attention to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7357845/complex-marital-issue-thoughts-please/15#117128240

MY RESPONSE.
First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.

Well, I am here to set the record straight.
I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.

To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)

For the readers, what happened is this :

You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.

I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.

In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)

I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.

Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.

Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.

Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !

I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.

Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.

Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes!
5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.

Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.

Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.

How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.

I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.

Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.

I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.

Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!

I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!

Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!

Narcissistic tendency
Emotional blackmail
Gaslighting
Foolish Pride
Disregard and Disrespect for husband/fatherly authority
Lack of accountability
Immaturity
Lovelessness

These are the attributes I see in her based on her comment as well as yours!

It is also obvious that you love her more than she loves you, that is if she ever loved you at all.......


Marriage traditionally is a family matter, when you have marital issues here in Africa, family support systems are a necessity to support to resolves throbbing that can cause the end of the marriage......

The relationship between a man and his wife on the other hand, is a matter that can only be resolved by the willingness of the couple to sort things out mutually.......not one party pushing for it and the other party working against it, it must be mutual.......

Your wife rushing to social media to me is proof that even her relationship with your family isn't great let alone her relationship with you, so she has greater confidence in the counsel and opinions of social media that doesn't know you and think you childish, to family structures that raised you and are in a better position to advise her on how best to relate with you in trying times!!

That is a sign and quality of a woman that no responsible man can build a future with, if she was in Canada with you, chances are, she would have been using the children and the peace of the home to blackmail you emotionally, if that doesn't work, she will use divorce.......

Except she changes, she will never be able to build a meaningful future with you at that point divorce is the only option.....


On the other hand, depending on how long she has been separated from you, raising the children alone may be a handful Emotionally!

It Is not uncommon to find some women who have been separated physically from their husbands for long to throw Emotional tantrums!

Lack of consistent physical intimacy can be a burden, it can easily be complicated if the woman has already found an alternative to fill that need for physical intimacy in another man!!

My solemn advice, be a man!

Go and think about your life over the last decade with her, considering all the things that you like and don't like and sincerely give her a call and bring it to her attention.......also give her the opportunity to do same............


She chooses to listen? Then continue to work on your Marriage and try your best to close the gap created by distance.......

She is still unrepentant, then seek a dissolution of your union, after carefully reporting her to her family and close siblings!!

A woman that cannot build a peacful home and future with may end up destroying you, your peace and that of your kids......

Hope this helps


N.B:- 8 years with kids together is no joke, so what I wrote here is a lot harder than it looks because Emotional attachments already exists!!

And it is these attachments that she is abusing and using to blackmail you instead of it to be used as a foundation for building a solid bond with her husband and partner of her choice for the future!

Even now, I know tears and pains in your chest, dreams of unpleasant situations may have already started.......

But a times comes when you have to keep emotions aside, be logical and make things work, so that you don't raise kids with toxic emotional baggage, products of a dysfunctional marital atmosphere......

Else you may not live very long to even enjoy the marriage, you age by the day! Your heart may not always be so strong to unnecessary emotional tension from a rebellious wife.......

High blood pressure acquired from a toxic wife is not a gift, it's a curse!!

Odewaleadesoye:
The alleged Audio Conversation between APC VP Candidate Kashim Shettima and Ibikunle Amosun has been checked to be fake.

According to the two reliable sources below, it was gathered that the audio Conversation originally came out in the year 2017.

Kindly look into the reliable information I got from [url=https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2017/06/13/amosun-reacts-forged-audio-conversation-shettima/%3famp=1]Daily Post[/url] and PR NIGERIA.





[url=https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2017/06/13/amosun-reacts-forged-audio-conversation-shettima/%3famp=1]DAILY POST[/url]







PRNIGERIA

Kindly note that I am not working for any political party but we must be sure of the news we are circulating.

nlfpmod
Mynd44

That tape had existed since 2016 on social media, is it now that they want to declare it fake because shetimma is contesting elections?

Nigeria my country..........

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The real question is why is Joseph babylonia Babalola still there? Why hasn't he been sanctioned by the EFcC for professional misconduct in handling this case?

You see how corrupt even the EFCC is?

oikirodah:
Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/ibadan-is-totally-finished-for-tinubu-shettima-as-mammoth-crowd-takes-to-the-streets-videos/

No single video, hardly anyone boldy carrying paraphernalia of APC or campaign poster or where they forced?

Can we have some video let's verify, make E no be say Peter obi or Labour Party crowd them wan kolobi like this oooh..........

LagosInter:
Thanks o.

I don dey reason card payment o...

If them debit you and error dey involve, who you wan report yourself give?

LagosInter:
Thanks

Word of advice, don't pay with card oooh! As of now the payment platform get wahala......just print payment slip and go to one of three designated banks and go and pay

When you pay, visit any collection point (or the designated collection point) and drop the receipt.....

They will look at all your documents and first check if you accepted to do biometric capture, if you did, na there they will start looking for ways to bobo you for cash all in the name of date for swift data capture.

If you didn't, they will only collect the receipt and dismiss you, they will not issue temporary and they will not stamp the acknowledgement slip....

The acknowledgement slip is your temporary drivers licence, anybody stops you, show them that, tell them that is your temporary license pending when the reissued one is ready.......

Check in 2 weeks and above, remember the month you applied, that is all you need to look for it and pick it up

LagosInter:
Okay the designated collection point will stamp the receipt I guess.

They will simply collect it and send you away!!! Stamp not required........

LagosInter:
Is that possible? In Nigeria?

Have you done it before or seen someone that did it?

That's what I did! Go to the website of the frsc and do-it-yourself, print the acknowledgement print out and payment slip and go and pay in designated bank

Then take the payment receipt and gonto the designated collection point of your choice....

In the form online, you get to chose where you want to collect it.......the acknowledgement print out will be used as your license in the interim!!

Also do not agree for biometric capture, there is an option on the form that asks if you want to do biometric data capture, since it's a renewal, select no....

In my case, I did my licence in lagos, but when I wanted to renew I selected to collect in benin City!! It was out in less than a month

LagosInter:
My DL just expired last month.

I don't need capturing. I just want to renew it.

What's the easiest way please?

Go online and do it yourself.....collect it in 2 weeks

HeadNigga:
Before the word Daddy G.O was popularized Daddy Showkey was already a household name.

Hmmmm.......You Don dey confess small small that Daddy G.O is popular!!! It also...........you can carry on!!

HeadNigga:
The only Daddy I know is Daddy Showkey

What do you mean by that? Daddy G.O nko?

ehissi:
Potato, cereals (bread and cornflakes/golden morn), beans & Corn or beans and yam, beans and plantain!!,
Yam with egg sauce, Fried potatoes with ketchup!!

Vegetable salad!! Vegetable Salad with Moi moi!!

Beans and custard, Beans and pap, Moi Moi and pap, plantain with egg sauce! Fried Beans (Akara) with Custard! Rice and beans with stew!

Fried plantain with garri, Fried fish with garri! Fried potato with egg sauce! Rice with Vegetables on the side and stew!! Garden egg sauce and yam/plantain!

Starch and Banga soup! Groundnut soup with pounded yam, Egusi with Eba/fufu/pounded yam

Potato, cereals (bread and cornflakes/golden morn), beans & Corn or beans and yam, beans and plantain!!,
Yam with egg sauce, Fried potatoes with ketchup!!

Vegetable salad!! Vegetable Salad with Moi moi!!

naijaclass:
In Christian hamartiology, eternal sins, unforgivable sins, unpardonable sins, or ultimate sins are sins which will not be forgiven by God. One eternal or unforgivable sin (blasphemy against the Holy Spirit), also known as the sin unto death, is specified in several passages of the Synoptic Gospels, including Mark 3:28–29, Matthew 12:31–32, and Luke 12:10, as well as other New Testament passages including Hebrews 6:4–6, Hebrews 10:26–31, and 1 John 5:16.


Bible scholars please throw more light to this

I believe that the answer to this question is alot easier than we explain it to be!

The Holy Spirit is actually standing in for Jesus in his absence! The Bible refer to the Holy Spirit as the seal of our redemption!

So if you take a position that counteracts that of the Holy Spirit, deny its existence, works, blaspheme and challenge it authority what are you left with!!??

The sacrifice that Jesus Christ made was through the same Spirit!!

Your transition from this world into the next as a Child of God is by that same Spirit !!

So if you live your life that repels the Holy Spirit!! What are you left with when you draw your last breathe?

Eph 4:30 is a good reference point!

Sanwo olu will cry in 2023........

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Na pride wan kill tic tac so! His last big major hit was when he did "fe fe ne fe" with Tony tetuila, now someone is giving you code you don't want to learn!

It's alright.....

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Thats not what guys do! Real guys are busy about their future and focusing on moving their lives to the next level, while looking for someone - a lady - who can fit in with their program for their life!

If a guy does that to you, its because you asked for it!

He comes to you and all you do is catch fun, no talk about himself, his future, his plan for his life, he is doing all his can to please you get your attention, and he makes you the centre piece of his attention and he is not giving any further vibes.........

Girl, if you drop them panties, when he is done! He is done!!

Woto with woto woto

PresidObi:
Wike will destabilise PDP, he is still angry about all his sufferings and spending, later Atiku hijacked the party from 7under his nose.

This statement shows complete ignorance of party politics especially within the PDP particularly and the Nation at large.....

Wike is actually bringing Sanity to the PDP....

The party constitution/presidence mandates that the office of chairman of the party and Presidential flag bearer must be from either of the two major geopolitical zone and never both...

Meaning if the office of Chairman is a Northern politician, Presidential flag bearers must be from the South and likewise if office of chairman of the party is from the North, Presidential flag bearers must be from the South.......


Check the Presidence in PDP and prove me wrong.........

So the minute Ayu sided with the Northern caucus to hijack the primaries and gave it to the North again in the person of Atiku, he made a grave mistake....

And he is left with only 2 options, both of which are on the table...

1. A lawsuit voiding Atiku"s candidature based on relevant sections of the party constitution

2. Ayu must step down for a Southern Chairman to take his place....

If Wike was desperate for Presidenciy, he would have stuck with the court option and humiliated both Atiku and Ayu....

Even Atiku now is begging Ayu to step down, otherwise he will suffer the loss instead