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Politics › Re: INEC Declares Umaru Fintiri Winner Of Adamawa Governorship Election by ejimatic: 8:02pm On Apr 18, 2023
Travel › Re: Deceased Stowaway Discovered On KLM Flight From Lagos (photo) by ejimatic: 5:59pm On Apr 18, 2023
N3TRAL:
Cabin pressure Change in altitude makes me partially lose my hearing abilities when I travel.

There are trips that air turbulence makes everyone to cover their faces and begin to pray for forgiveness.

Then there's a human being who genuinely believes that he can make it up there outside the airplane. Wow 😳
. The higher yiu go up ,the more away a stow away is from oxygen.Death is the result especially if the distance is far.
Politics › Re: I Must Be Adamawa Governor - Aisha Binani Drags INEC To Court by ejimatic: 6:43am On Apr 18, 2023
fergie001:
This is really funny.....

She didn't avail the judge of the votes?


I believe that the subject matter is post-election and the FHC has no business whatsoever with it!

garfield1 ejimatic, help me here/
. 1. INEC reserves the right to cancel the declaration and make another one. It can review results declaration.That is why it is called INDEPENDENT agency.
2 As for Adamawa results ,the REC is not the returning officer at all. He is just the coordinator of the election at the state level.Why announcing the result illegally?
3. Dissatified, Binani went to FHC for the redress,in my opinion this is wrong. All issues relating to the conduct of election including voting and results decalaration are Tribunal matters. The FHC has no jurisdiction to entertain it.
4 We hope she will quickly reakise it and do the right thing.
Politics › Re: Answer This Question If You Understand English Language by ejimatic: 6:12am On Apr 16, 2023
Omowale2023:
I have a question for you to answer.

Question 1;
You need credits in 4 subjects and English language.
What does it mean?


Question 2;
There are 36 mangoes and 1 Apple in a bowl, I told you to give me 24 Mangoes and 1 Apple from the same bowl.
What does that mean?
. Answer to question is Obedients Answer to question 2 is Obedients Permit me to say that the duty of the SC is to interprete constitution without creating chaos. The study of meaning in English is deep. Have you heard
literal meaning ,literary meaning, ideational meaning stylistic meaning , conceptual meaning, denotative meaning and contextual meaning before? Ass to whether having 25% in FCT elections for presidency ,it has been overflogged at the SC . The simple answer is NO . That is contextual constitutional and political interpretation and meaning of section 249 of the constitution. Good morning Nigerians
Politics › Re: Omo-agege Worked For Peter Obi – Cairo Ojuogbo by ejimatic: 9:46am On Apr 15, 2023
otuomasirichi:
😎

Unapologetical.

Omo-agege owns no one any apology for whatever he does with his political career.

The last time i checked, Peter Obi won In APC chairman polling unit (maybe APC chairman also worked for Peter Obi)

Peter Obi also won Kaduna State government house polling unit (maybe El-rufai also worked for Peter Obi)

Peter Obi also won in many APC bigwigs polling units. Go and verify 💯
Don't mind the confused politician.!
Family › Re: Father In Tears As DNA Test Confirms Four Out Of Five Children Are Not His by ejimatic: 8:02pm On Apr 14, 2023
Health › Re: Slept With Her And Discovered Bruises On My Pen:s by ejimatic: 3:58pm On Apr 14, 2023
Sticooooooo:
Normally I am a guy that really fancy women. I used to sleep with a lot of them. Although I have a very big pen:s, 7 inche. There's these two particular ladies that when ever I sleep with them I will notice some small bruises on my pen:s.

Yesterday I sleep with one of them, but before that she told me that she wasn't fine and she's on drugs. But as conji dey do me, I didn't listen I went ahead to fire, since I have gold circle.

In the process of inserting my thing in her I notice a whitish something on her pus;y unlike before, I didn't hesitate, I went straight.

After the do, I discovered that condom burst and I discovered bruises on my thing just as usual

Later I discovered that the drugs she was using is STD related drugs.

Please, which drugs can I use to neutralise the possible infection 😫?

Is it normal to experience bruises on a pen:s after sex and yet condom didn't burst or it burst?


Please help a brother fast
She has Chalmyda .a type of sexual infection. Start with AUGMENTIN or CYprofkoxacin for 10 days! Wash all your undies.. As yiur girlfriend,tell her to go to a hospital where the fluid from her V will be collected and cultured if her situation does not improve. . The result of the culture will determine the Bacteria she is spreading and the antibacterial to use.
Politics › Re: Supplementary Elections: APC, PDP Battle For Two Gov, 94 Legislative Seats by ejimatic: 12:13pm On Apr 14, 2023
ogaontop:
You guys said they are just four in a room tweeting, to mushroom party to structure less party to now party on groundhuh
. If you read what I posted well you will know I am making a mockery of non existent LP in the circle of party titans grin grin
Politics › Re: Supplementary Elections: APC, PDP Battle For Two Gov, 94 Legislative Seats by ejimatic: 12:07pm On Apr 14, 2023

Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 5:48am On Apr 14, 2023
rolams:
You may be right but there is another judgement in 2008 that clearly emphasized on the need to get 25% in Abuja.
interesting!
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 7:34pm On Apr 13, 2023
rolams:
There is problem ooo!
. To me there is no problem.
,1 The intention of the Section 134(2)(b) of the Constitution is that, the candidate, in addition to having the highest number of votes cast at the election, must also poll not less than one quarter (25%) of the votes cast at the election in each of at least two-thirds of all the States in the Federation (36 States) and the FCT (a State kind of), thereby making it 25% of votes cast in at least 2/3 of 37 States. 2/3 of 37 is 24.6. Since no half of a state so we look at 27 as the 2/3 of 37 states

2 I also believe that where there are two possible meanings conveyed by the words of a statute or the Constitution, it is the most reasonable one. that will be taken so as to avoid absurdity..
3. The issue under reference was before the Supreme Court, in 2003 in the case of Buhari Vs Obasanjo (2003) All NLR 168, the apex court iheld that if there’s any issue on the provision of Section 134(2), they’ll toe the part that accords with common sense. They further undertook that the court is bound to adopt a construction which is just, reasonable and sensible.
4 what will now be more sensible ? To take Abuja asa soecial entity or to give him a toga of a state as decided by SC in earlier Judgements? In my opinion Having 2/3 majority votes cast in 37 states is more logical .
Travel › Re: Gov Adeleke Government Commences Construction Activities On Ife-ede Road(photos) by ejimatic: 4:33pm On Apr 13, 2023
9jahotblog:
you are welcome 🙏. The transformation has started since the sworn in of the people’s Governor, Senator Ademola Nurudeen Jackson Adeleke on November 27th, 2022. And he has been fulfilling all the campaign promises.
Ok sir
Travel › Re: Gov Adeleke Government Commences Construction Activities On Ife-ede Road(photos) by ejimatic: 3:17pm On Apr 13, 2023
9jahotblog:
let the contractors do their work joor. Riding a good road is the promise of Governor Ademola Nurudeen Jackson Adeleke and he’s fulfilling that promise to the good people of Osun State.
. Ok sir! We look forward for its transformation.Osun A Daraoo!
Travel › Re: Gov Adeleke Government Commences Construction Activities On Ife-ede Road(photos) by ejimatic: 3:15pm On Apr 13, 2023
9jahotblog:
you will been seeing the constructions of Ife to Ede road projects. Also by the special Grace of Almighty God, Third phase of Ikirun to Ila odo road have commenced and it will be completed in 8 months time. Let’s keep our fingers crossed. Governor Ademola Nurudeen Jackson Adeleke is fulfilling his campaign promises in Osun State.
. I love your mature comments. You are not like some who are in secondary schools and know nothing about courtesy in communication. Thank you sir for tour opinion! Osun A Dara ooo
Travel › Re: Gov Adeleke Government Commences Construction Activities On Ife-ede Road(photos) by ejimatic: 2:23pm On Apr 13, 2023
9jahotblog:
NEWS RELEASE
11/04/2023

Osun Government Commences Construction Activities on Ife-Ede Road

● Ordered Closure of Road for Three Weeks

Osun state government has ordered for the immediate closure of Ife-Ede Road in view of construction activities at Eleweran area of Ile Ife.

In a statement issued on Tuesday, the directive followed the inspection of the area by Governor Ademola Adeleke on Monday.

The State Governor who was taken round the road and the almost collapsing bridge ordered the State Ministry of Works to mobilise to the road and fix it without delay.

As at the time of filling this report, the Ministry has mobilized to the site for eventual commencement of the construction work.

"This is to inform the general public that there will be construction activities at Elewe Iran area along old Ife-Ede Road. All motorists and road users plying this route are therefore enjoined to make use of alternative route or express road to link up Ile Ife, Kindly bear with us for the period of three weeks of the construction work.

The focus is to carry out repair work on the dangerous culvert along old Ife-Ede road near OAU campus.

Signed:
Mallam Olawale Rasheed,
Spokesperson to the Executive Governor.
. Can Ife Ede Sekona Road be repairecld in three weeks? It is onky Bridge after Late Siwajuu residence that is being constructed nothing else. Each we are in Osun this is the road we ply always. If you are in doubt ask questions..There shiuld be no exageration in project description and reporting .
Politics › Re: JUST-IN: Peter Obi Meets Tinubu And Congratulates President-elect by ejimatic: 2:14pm On Apr 13, 2023
FlyoruB:
shocked
. grin grin grin grin grin. With your post some people will not eat this afternoon!
Travel › Re: Gov Adeleke Government Commences Construction Activities On Ife-ede Road(photos) by ejimatic: 2:05pm On Apr 13, 2023
Assurance2023:
You have a mental illness
. I don't have to reply you because I did not make any references to you. Certainly you are unrefined in yiur comments. Yiur response shows a generational malady in your family. I am not
an adherent of a party but I say what I know and see. As for idiots and mentally derailed peope like you , may you all continue to live in with yiur bigiotry and famiky insanity!
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 1:30pm On Apr 13, 2023
fergie001:
I think we are saying the same thing but it's just a matter of using different routes.

S299 is clear that the FCT should be treated as if it was a State. The issue of Bakare and Ogundipe is wrt the monetisation policy of the FCTA. It has to do with land and whether the FCT High Court had jurisdiction to hear the case.

Rhodes-Vivour JSC simply said yes, there is jurisdiction, the FCTA is a property of the State Government and not FG, the FCT is treated as a State. It is not too different from the one you quoted.

The first one had to do with the role of appointing an FCT indigene as Minister and this one technically whether the FCTA can operate as State or a Federal Agency.

There is no similar judgement for different cases.

Be that as it may, however, like I said and agreed with you... I do not see why the FCT should be elevated above the other States. I believe that the intendment of the framers of the Constitution was to distinguish that Section from the 1979 Constitution. It is the exact wording except that we didn't have the FCT as at then.

Lastly, I don't even think one State can hold a Candidate to ransom vis-a-vis the purport of 2/3 majority. Sections 14 & 147 talk about equality and fairness hence S299 I believe is broad enough to cover the provisions of 134.

FCT should be treated as a State.
. May God continue to bless always all those who take part in politcal discussion and elightement on this plartform regardless of their sacred opinions. Good contributions from you sir and all other friends on this thread.
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 1:29pm On Apr 13, 2023
fergie001:
I think we are saying the same thing but it's just a matter of using different routes.

S299 is clear that the FCT should be treated as if it was a State. The issue of Bakare and Ogundipe is wrt the monetisation policy of the FCTA. It has to do with land and whether the FCT High Court had jurisdiction to hear the case.

Rhodes-Vivour JSC simply said yes, there is jurisdiction, the FCTA is a property of the State Government and not FG, the FCT is treated as a State. It is not too different from the one you quoted.

The first one had to do with the role of appointing an FCT indigene as Minister and this one technically whether the FCTA can operate as State or a Federal Agency.

There is no similar judgement for different cases.

Be that as it may, however, like I said and agreed with you... I do not see why the FCT should be elevated above the other States. I believe that the intendment of the framers of the Constitution was to distinguish that Section from the 1979 Constitution. It is the exact wording except that we didn't have the FCT as at then.

Lastly, I don't even think one State can hold a Candidate to ransom vis-a-vis the purport of 2/3 majority. Sections 14 & 147 talk about equality and fairness hence S299 I believe is broad enough to cover the provisions of 134.

FCT should be treated as a State.
. May God continue to bless always all those who take part in politcal discussion and elightement on this plartform regardless of their sacred opinions. Good contributions from you and all other friends on this thread
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 1:12pm On Apr 13, 2023
hardbody:
I haven't read the authority you cited and so may not be able to speak to it but it is doubtful that such a toga will apply for all purposes.
. I will advise you read it sir.However yiur approch to matter and humility you express always draw all of us closer to you. As a person I appreciate you always.
Travel › Re: Gov Adeleke Government Commences Construction Activities On Ife-ede Road(photos) by ejimatic:
9jahotblog:
NEWS RELEASE
11/04/2023

Osun Government Commences Construction Activities on Ife-Ede Road

● Ordered Closure of Road for Three Weeks

Osun state government has ordered for the immediate closure of Ife-Ede Road in view of construction activities at Eleweran area of Ile Ife.

In a statement issued on Tuesday, the directive followed the inspection of the area by Governor Ademola Adeleke on Monday.

The State Governor who was taken round the road and the almost collapsing bridge ordered the State Ministry of Works to mobilise to the road and fix it without delay.

As at the time of filling this report, the Ministry has mobilized to the site for eventual commencement of the construction work.

"This is to inform the general public that there will be construction activities at Elewe Iran area along old Ife-Ede Road. All motorists and road users plying this route are therefore enjoined to make use of alternative route or express road to link up Ile Ife, Kindly bear with us for the period of three weeks of the construction work.

The focus is to carry out repair work on the dangerous culvert along old Ife-Ede road near OAU campus.

Signed:
Mallam Olawale Rasheed,
Spokesperson to the Executive Governor.
Adekeke came from Ede to Osogbo daily whike his deputy comes from Ife daily to Osogbo. From Sekona to Ife Akure Exoress Road junction through OUI road,the FERMA has rebilitated the road . From that junction to Ike-Ife the road is not bad .The only had area is the bridge after the house of Forner CJ of Osun State ,Late justice Sijuwade is the bridge that is being repaired now. is that bridge Ife .Ede -Osogbo Road? Instead of saying a bridge they call it Ede -Ife Road to Osogbo .

As for Osogbo to Ikirun to Esa Odo ,the road was started by Aregbesola and it ended at Ikirun Adeleke put the last layer to it from Steel Roling to Ikirun. Is Steel Roling to Ikirun like Ilesa to Osu tantamount to Osgbo to Ila Odo Road that peopl e are talking about? Exagaretion ahould be avoided in reporting for Osun indigenes know who did what in the state despite political differences.
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 12:56pm On Apr 13, 2023
fergie001:
This is not exactly true.
No Court in Nigeria has ruled on the electoral status of the FCT.
I have read through these cases and nothing of such appeared
These cases you mentioned never spoke about Special Status or not.

One case that comes to mind is Musa Baba Panya v. President of the FRN at the CA: Akomaye Agim was on that panel of 3. This case was built on whether indigenes of the FCT should also partake to be appointed as Ministers from a State (the FCT), subject to S299 of the 1999 CFRN and the CA ruled in affirmation. Even till now, that judgement has not been implemented.

I still do not know why FCT should be treated as a State according to S299 wrt agencies of Govt, Courts, etc yet be elevated wrt electoral status. I know the broader interpretation or mischief rule will come in handy for that interpretation!


garfield1
. What about in this following case too:

In Bakari v. Ogundipe (2021) 5 NWLR (Pt.1768) 1, the supreme Court held that by virtue of section 299(a) (b) of the Constitution, the provisions of the Constitution shall apply to the FCT, Abuja as if it were one of the States of the Federation.
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 12:53pm On Apr 13, 2023
fergie001:
This is not exactly true.
No Court in Nigeria has ruled on the electoral status of the FCT.
I have read through these cases and nothing of such appeared
These cases you mentioned never spoke about Special Status or not.

One case that comes to mind is Musa Baba Panya v. President of the FRN at the CA: Akomaye Agim was on that panel of 3. This case was built on whether indigenes of the FCT should also partake to be appointed as Ministers from a State (the FCT), subject to S299 of the 1999 CFRN and the CA ruled in affirmation. Even till now, that judgement has not been implemented.

I still do not know why FCT should be treated as a State according to S299 wrt agencies of Govt, Courts, etc yet be elevated wrt electoral status. I know the broader interpretation or mischief rule will come in handy for that interpretation!


garfield1
. What about in the following case wgere the SC ruled that FCT has a toga of state like other states in Nigeria?
Supreme Court in FAWEHINMI & ORS v. BABANGIDA & ORS (2003) LPELR-1255 (
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 12:07pm On Apr 13, 2023
TruthsFM:
[ARCHIVES] Supreme Court upheld candidates must win 25% votes in 24 states, plus 25% in FCT in Buhari v Obasanjo [2005]

The clarity came from a Supreme Court ruling in a case involving Muhammadu Buhari of the then All Nigeria Peoples Party (ANPP) and Olusegun Obasanjo of the then Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) on Friday, July 15, 2005.

In its ruling, the apex court had upheld that presidential candidates must win 25 per cent of all votes cast in 24 states, and the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja.

READ: https://news.band/archives-supreme-court-upheld-candidates-must-win-25-votes-in-24-states-plus-25-in-fct-in-buhari-v-obasanjo-2005/
. The AC in this judgement rumed that Abuja is like ither states in Nigeria. In order lack of 25% in Abuja doea not affect non declaration of a candidate AA the preaident as long as he has 2/3 majority in the election
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Upheld Candidates Must Win 25% Votes In 24 States, Plus FCT by ejimatic: 12:04pm On Apr 13, 2023
fergie001:
This will be the first time we will be going this route so the Judges will surely give it their own interpretation.

S. 134(2): He has not less than one-quarter of the votes cast at the election in each of at least two thirds of all states in the Federation and the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja.”

The words here are "each" and "and".

Each is a distributive adjective pronoun, which denotes or refers to every one of the persons or things mentioned; every one or two or more persons or things, composing the whole, separately considered.” (SC in Eyisi & Ors v State 2000)

And is performing the function of joining two expressions or sentences which could be inseparable, integrated, joint or matched. (SC in Buhari v INEC 2008)

I think even though the SC has not ruled on the electoral status of the FCT, it will be treated as a State.

garfield1 senatordave1 kyase ejimatic
. 2003 the SC held that Abuja is like other states in Nigeria. Abuja jas no special status more than other 36 states. Obasanjo PDP vrs ACN ...
Health › Re: Energy Drinks: What Are The Side Effects Of This Drink? by ejimatic: 6:29pm On Apr 12, 2023
EmiDon11:
I am addicted to energy drinks.

I take fearless, climax, predator, monster and so on.

Anytime i am weak, i regain strength by taking some.

And i am starting to believe that it might have some effects on my body system.

Pls what are the side effects?
Google it yourself. However one of the side effects is that it may not make you sleep because they all contain especially Fearless high concentration of caffeine. Some people have systems that tolerate then
Politics › Re: Senate Presidency: APC To Settle For Akpabio, Tips N-west For Deputy - Vanguard by ejimatic: 12:04pm On Apr 12, 2023
Nemere2020:
•Senators Akpabio, Barau favoured

•Tinubu has final approval-SOURCE



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/senate-presidency-apc-may-settle-for-s-south-tips-n-west-for-deputy/
SS deserves it. Congrats to Akpabio in advance!
Politics › Re: Atiku Didn’t Meet Conditions To Win, INEC Tells Tribunal by ejimatic:
divinehand2003:
INEC says Abuja has no special status. This means the much discussed 25% in Abuja does not mean anything.
The SC judgement In 2003 has it that Abuja is just the 37th state in Nigeria . It has no special status.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Won Presidential Election - INEC Tells Tribunal by ejimatic: 10:18am On Apr 12, 2023
Praxtech:
It's over

Section 299(1) of the Constitution provides that the provisions of the Constitution shall apply to the Federal Capital Territory as if it were one of the states of the Federation. It means that the FCT is the 37th state.

So section 134 of the Constitution which provides that “not less than one-quarter of the votes cast at the election in EACH of at least two-thirds of ALL THE STATES AND the FCT” means 25 states or 24 states plus the FCT. Winning the FCT by a candidate is not compulsory.
. God will bless you today and forever.
Christianity Etc › Re: CAN Accuses Peak Milk Company Of Offensive Advert, Demands Apology by ejimatic: 6:05pm On Apr 11, 2023
ijustdey:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/can-accuses-peak-milk-company-of-offensive-advert-demands-apology/
Where is the advert? I have not seen it.I am a Christian but I have never sent CAN to act for me on anything until I am convinced about it. CAN that is in partisan politics unlike Jesus who distanced himself from politics.John 6:15
Family › Re: Marriage Has Failed Me! by ejimatic: 4:32pm On Apr 11, 2023
BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.
It is painful you saw the problems coming yet you went ahead with the wedding. You have a good husband but bad inlws! They don't want the progress of thier brother who is yiur husband. Do you know the kind of woman your mother-in law is? May be she does not want the progress of her son and yiu now come as a saviour.The most painful thing you did is yiur resignayion from where you got yiur daily bread.Now they have achieved their aims of turning you to beggars in the family. .Be patient! Look for another job! Finally when situation is improved move away from them..When some people run away from families they knew what they saw .
Crime › Re: Suspected Murderer Of Khadi Adeshina Olayinka In Police Custody by ejimatic: 4:10pm On Apr 11, 2023
dre11:
https://punchng.com/ibadan-vendor-suspect-in-police-custody/?amp

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Adeshina Olayinka 'Khadi' Found Dead In A Hotel
Is there any difference with the way this is being handled in the hotel and that of Adedoyin Hilton hotel at Ile-Ife ?

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