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I have an idea for the title.

Eldee presents Nairaland: The Mixtape

If them born una well . . . no send shoutout to me for every track.

Girl846:
Intimacy and love are originally designed to go together. We have hormones that ensure they are closely tied to each other.
This hormone is called oxytocin the 'love hormone'. It is present in both men and women. But it is present in greater amounts in women it helps them bond to their partner after intercourse and helps them bond with their babies after it is born.
This is why it is more common for women to want more from casual relationships than men (not that it does not happen the other way around)

When we try to separate the two- Bleep and love, the results can be disastrous.

Its all simple biology!

As for me, there is nothing casual about Bleep because the possible consequences are FAR from casual.
Imagine me winding up in love with d guy who sees me as nothing more than a medium from which he can get his rocks off or pregnant or with an std for life, all because I wanted to have some no-strings-attached fun? NO THANKS

Your other post made sense but to attempt to scientifically justify your conservative ideologies just destroys it's credibility.
Humans have always been able to adapt their hormones to suit the environment they belong to.

Do you know if men were to always obey they laws set by those hormonal fluids, all men will be having sixty times more sex than women??
Even when they get married . . . testestorone should rule us??

If a lot of men have effectively suppressed the influences of this hormone, how then is it dangerous to separate love from sex??
You present human beings as these robots that are unable to make autonomous decisions without the control of these fluids.

That's B.S to me.

RichyBlacK:
Thank you! Excellent piece!

Don't mind all these so-called liberated women, who think screwing around is a form of empowerment.

Screwing around is not a form of empowerment, but being able to 'screw around' without listening to B.S from society is the empowerment in it.
Till when you guys stop having double standards, women will keep doing this.

@Debosky
Yeah, I'm looking at one side of the picture because that's the side that affects the players.
It's called media training . . . as Dudu noted, Cesc talks all the time but no one has ever complained about him.

And to think Arshavin has a university degree. . . what do they teach in schools these days??
At least Adebayor was raised in Togo and was busy practising how to miss goals instead of going to school.
What's Arshavin's excuse??

frosbel:
eldee, please tell me where I boasted ?

I was only replying to your comments, I never boasted about having a mansion ( it may even be a small room that I bought, lol,lol  ), I never told you what car I drive or how much I earn.

I believe these issues are very trivial.

When I say taxes do not scare me, what I mean is that there is nothing I can do about it so I live with it.

I never said you boasted, I said you were being selfish.
You're playing the 'Ignorance is bliss' thing . . .it doesn't affect me, so it doesn't exist.

You're no different from people like me that would rather sit in a Jeep and not care about the traffic.
Getting a driver is about 10,000 per month . . .

And yeah, you implied that you weren't affected by changes in interest rates . . . 'Doesn't scare me, I have a good income by God's grace'

Abygul:

funny ahn a visitin citizen wiv a red P. hahahah i see now u make me sick.i wish to settle here cos av got good offer here am sure u dnt knw wot it feel like travellin evry summer and spendin at least 2 month witout workin dere am sure u know d cost of ticket ,av got a home d shopins and all 4 two good month com on i knw what am tolkin abt.and mind u, u are bgin to take dis personal my dear dnt take tins personal here we are only sharin views if u say av not bein to d airport b4 i blive emty head makes lousy noise so am not here to publish if am a nigerian or uk citizen soryy doeeee find a beha job in nigeria and u nget a good offer blive me or prob u came out wiv a bd grade in sch but com to tink of it u can make amends wiv prof. course u knw and dere u are ,u get a good job .

I'm taking it personal?? You called me an illegal immigrant . . .
I'm done with this.

oyb:
[b]for someone  in britain - land of eton , old boy networks and class stratification, thats pretty rich
[/b]connnections exist everywhere, its just that oyibos are more subtle and refined about the way they go about it.

I was about to bring that up. . . Eton has produced eighteen of the UK's Prime Ministers.
We are being ruled by Ox-bridge's student union.
Remember the Geordie girl with five A's in A-levels and couldn't get into Oxford for no apparent reason??

The false class-consciousness in the UK is alarming.

rapjunkie:
Of COURSE IM A CERTIFIED TAIO CRUZ HATER. . . . .  .PLUS THE GUY IS SHYTE!!

How can u honestly say this retard is better than most guys out there?. . . . cos he got to no.1 in the US?. . .is that your barometer for sucess?  . . Jay Sean got to no1. . . . .  . . . . Black Eyed Peas stayed no.1 for 6 months on the back of two cheesy hip 'pop' tracks. . . .  .i don't think you should be beating your chest over this overhyped asswipe.

That's the problem . . . you're letting your sentiments affect your jdgement.
It's almost impossible to make a good decision with emotions controlling you.

Now you just implied that Black Eyed Peas are wack because they're not doing sum Talib Kweli ish.

frosbel:
Does not scare me, I have a good income by God's grace


Comfortable ? What do you classify as comfortable ?

I can plan my time better, go back home after a hard days work to a warm, peaceful home.

Ehm, some of us who came to the UK in the 90s have  already finished paying for their houses  

I have a clean driving license, I am not a speed racer, lol.   And by the way for the records you only lose your license if you :

- Drink drive
- Kill someone
- Accumulate up to 12 points ( If someone gets to this point they must be real mumus

The good thing about all these initiatives like congestion charges etc is that it keeps the busy cities from getting too clogged with congestion, people are not allowed to just park anywhere like in Lagos. It also reduces pollutuion.

I agree with this point but it is the taxes that makes the country what it is, good police force, security, roads, round the clock water and electric supply, helping the jobless and disabled, average but relaible health service etc etc etc etc
. .
Lol. Have you heard of autumn, spring and summer ? Wonderful. And you can travel to any part of Europe of the US without any qualms

Winter is not great but the kids love the snow   .

You were accusing the Nigerians of being selfish and now you're doing exactly the same.

'I've paid for my house already', 'I can travel to the US', 'Tax issues don't scare me', 'I have a job that doesn't get affected by interest rates'.

You see what they mean by 'the beautiful ones are not yet born'??
Now when Bluediva talks about how she's got a bigger house, a peach weather, nice cars and everything the average NID doesn't get, you call her selfish.

debosky:
I think we need to take the comments with a pinch of salt. . . in the same article he praised Bendtner for his impact since coming back from injury but the detractors won't publish that.

I am not supporting his outspoken nature, but it's highly unlikely you will be able to stop him speaking to the Russian media whenever he goes home. The issue is with him performing on the pitch as far as I'm concerned. He knows he needs to improve and I hope he's working at that.

Comments come and go every day of the week. . . let's take a reasoned view and move on.

We have lost players and we obviously need players. He gives his OPINION and there's nothing wrong with that in principle. It's just happening a bit too frequently for my liking, giving those shyte stirrers at [i]The Sun [/i]something to print.

We can't keep taking it like it's sumn normal.
We all know how this affects the team . . . talking about our lack of depth at this crucial end of the season is daft.

Now some players will react and work harder, but it could affect some of them negatively.
The slight possibility of this causing harm is a risk we shouldn't be taking. . . not when we're scraping every possible point.

What does he want us to do about transfers in March??

Abygul:
wao u feel u shld wag your mouth ahnnnnnn for u info aint usin ma mum tingy went dere ma self wit d rit doc.so am sure it bein bad for uuuuuu dat y u want to crip wolk on dis topic lol sorry abt dat

Wag my mouth?? You just implied that I was an illegal immigrant and I cured your blindness and now you're boasting about your visiting visa??

You musta been a TV star in the UK, come to think of it, I think I saw your face on UK Border Force.

rapjunkie:
He is still WACK. . . . . .what a soppy song. . . . . . . . i needed a can a red bull just to make it through that drivel

Rapjunkie . . . you're seriously being a certified hater right now.
I know you don't like the fact that he prefers to be Brit . . . but come on, his work is good, better than most guys out there.

There's a massive difference between reasonable criticism and hating . . . you're being a pure hater.

@debosky
He just needs to shut the eff up. . .that's all we ask.
He keeps doing this and he play crap when we field him.

I keep saying it, no one cares if it's the truth . . . just keep it inhouse.
I think he needs a press-gag.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=417794.msg5754521#msg5754521 date=1269392072]another thing I noticed the guy doesnt sound British in his videos.

whenever I watch a UK artist, I like hearing the accent? I mean what's the point of listening to a British artist if they're not going to sound British?[/quote][flash=450,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzI2bZKiwoA&hl=en_GB&fs=1&[/flash]

chiogo:
Ok, and you're telling me because I care about 50 cent?  
50 cent is still internationally known, or so I think. I mean it's nothing if you're still obscure to the rest of the world besides UK folks, of course.
You know, I always thought Lady Gaga was from the UK for some reason until I got into an argument with my brother some months back and then I researched her.  

At the end of the day . . . he hit number one.
Obscure or not . . . he's topped the charts on both sides of the Atlantic.

That means his work speaks for him . . . that's what music's supposed to be like.
Just like how Amy Winehouse won five Grammys while the Americans were busy hating on her.

chiogo:
Umm, I knew that. Still ignorant. . .and degrading.  

'Let's have fun' is ignorant??
What do they put in y'all's food??

@rivermsnman
Ignored

duduspace:
I think Arshavin made those statements a while back but trust the British tabloid to refer back to it when it would make him look like a doofus. He should learn not to talk too much and keep his trap shut.
I wouldn't bet against Arsene selling him if he keeps toeing this line, he should do his talking on the pitch and leave all this useless talk.
He should take a cue from Adebayor whose Arsenal career was finally cut short due to his consistent yakking to the media.

He mentioned Ramsey . . . so it's prolly yesterday.

Abygul:
we all knw dat am sure u ar nt a citizen prob u went dere to study or somftin but dat doesnt make u 1 of dem.wake up bath from morning till nite u cant b dem .

Oh . . . this is the part where I'm meant to start explaining how you get you papers from your parents.
I thought Bluediva explained that already??

frosbel:
But I am working, I am paid on time, I am seeing my money , my kids are comfortable and so is my woman.

What else do i want ?

The typical Nigerian mentality to make much more and start flaunting it back home ?

Abeg leave me jo, each man for him own.  

the bible says that 'godliness with contentment is great gain', thats my life motto.

Thanks,

It's not flaunting when you're spending within your means.
In the UK, any 0.00001% change in interest rates scares you guys silly

The UK is a farce . . . they get you to think you're comfortable.

You think you own your house, but nah, mess up and they take it from you.
You think your car is yours but get a couple of points and you lose your right to drive. . .speed tickets, parking charges, congestion charge, insurance . . . all because you committed the crime of buying a car.
You think your salary's yours till they tax you on errfin . . .
Even the weather is an effing joke.

Abygul:
ahahaahah  dnt worry immigration will soon start again all of una go dey look for were to hide no work for some days all quit d job because u don dey hear say immegration dey com.hahaha but for your fatherland na who b immigration wen u your self na immggrant.hahahaha run run run ile labo simi oko

You guys seem to believe that Nigerians over here are illegal immigrants.
Y'all need to get your facts right abeg.

frosbel:
Our wealth or income is not linked to some narcissist boss or chairman.

You think?? How about the bankers that crippled the economy and made many people lose their jobs all because of greed??

Don't let capitalism blind you . . . you're working for the guys at the top . . .and your false class consciousness is how they hold you down.

chiogo:
LMAO!!!  

He's Number 1 . . . 50 Cent's last album didn't reach Number 1.
Lady Gaga's Telephone, with all the crazy hairdos still peaked at Number 3

chiogo:
@Chic2pimp, you say he makes good music, who doesn't these days? As for the lyrics to that 'Break your heart' song - he's ignorant for that one. My point exactly. Only a foolish woman would want a guy to sing that to her.  

I think it's actually better than the 'I love you from the bottom of my yansh' thing we here all the time.
He's saying, don't fall in love with me, cus I'm a heartbreaker . . .let's just have fun.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=417794.msg5754418#msg5754418 date=1269390073]^^Why the music video, we believe he's a musician. [/quote]That was for Rapjunkie . . . he thinks he's wack.

[flash=640,385]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0EDDyiFoYU&hl=en_GB&fs=1&[/flash]

rapjunkie:
Do u mean his[b] beard [/b]is so hot?. . . . .

No offence . . . but if you bring that chic home, you'll become your dad's favourite son

rapjunkie:
he IS CRAP!!. . . . .

How can you call 'I Can Be' crap??

stillwater:
Well his kind of music doesn't interest me, I'm not surprised I don't know him. I'll ask my friends who like such stuff.
That was what Adam Lambert thought. Yeah it kept him in the news but album sales dropped drastically.

But he actually has good stuff.
Can't you see it's a smart publicity stunt, after some time, he'll come out and remind us that there are actually a few black girls in the videos.
So he becomes the misunderstood but talented guy.

Publicity is only bad when you're crap.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=417794.msg5754313#msg5754313 date=1269388391]is he really gay? I notice he has a certain "look" about him, but it could also be that he's just a virgin, or something like that. Seriously, I wouldnt be surprised.[/quote]He's not gay . . . he's rumour girlfriend is so hottt.

rapjunkie:
somebody hand me a sickie bag. . . . .

*Slots in Jay-Z ft Kanye West*

Hater, hay-hay-hay-ter . . .

frosbel:
lol,

You know what I mean now, by Oyinbo man standards it has a poor reputation even though there are good roads, hospitals, schools etc etc. For us na Ikoyi.

Actually, I live in Gilberdyke not really Hull.

stillwater:
@ eldee
Billboard charts in the US? Are you sure?
If he was known here, I bet you he won't hold on to that spot on the charts for long just because of his comments.
Many people won't take it lightly.

He's number one . . . reaching there is a massive achievement.
Especially as he's from the UK. . . and this talk will even make him stay in the news and help increase sales.

He's a really good songwriter . . .How can you guys not know . . .'I Don't Wanna Know', 'I Can Be' and 'She's Like A Star'??

frosbel:
Is it Peckham, or Brixton or should we say[b] Hull[/b], that despite their poor reputation boast of better infrastructure and ammenities than the best parts of Abuja.

Abeg we all love our country so lets like you said ' not over flog this issue ' but lets have mutual respect for both NINs and NIDs.

Bragging about ones status in the midst of abject misery and poverty is not a positive to be congratulated on, rather it depicts the sorry state of Nigeria as a country.

Yepa . . . I don die
Na me you dey yab like this??

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=417794.msg5754253#msg5754253 date=1269387645]I didn't know that and why was he taking pictures like a model or something.
anyway thanks for telling me.[/quote]Because he's a gayfish

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=417794.msg5754226#msg5754226 date=1269387320]He's a model but I'm not sure of his Nationality.[/quote]He's not a flipping model.

He's an artist . . . c'mon he's currently on top of the Billboard charts in the US.
Written songs for the likes of Justin and Pussycat Dolls.

stillwater:
This is my first time of hearing of K'naan. I like the 'Young Artists for Haiti" version.

I would send you his album, but I figured you'll prolly not like him . . . half his songs are rap.

@Bluediva

You think I'm joking . . . you're officially one of my long legs