₦airaland Forum

funmike83:
Did she borrow the bump shot from a mad person? Or she is doing finally running mad, haba Tiwa disappointed me jo

ufondunenye:
I know already that Jeff is so fake, he's just pretending trying to be mr. Nice guy infront of the viewers.
He Promised to give Avala some coins to help boost hers, why did he fail to do so?
Instead he was busy telling khafi and mike after the eviction that "ehhhh... I know I have wronged avala, if avala should slap me in the right side of my face for 5times. I will still give the other side of my face to give me another 5 slaps"
What rubbish!!!!!! Mtcheewwwwww

Avala choose to go by emotion by believing promise is a debt. Meanwhile Jeff think he doesn't owe her a debt to be paid.

That is why, it is a game of reasoning not of emotion.

Well, that is her opinion. I just hope Gov. Fayemi doesn't failed again in Ekiti

Thesame wife of Governor has nothing to say on their indecency & insanity among her folks.

It baffles me that most times when the so called women(Feminist, strong advocate for women's right) often hide from discussing indecency & insanity of the female folks in the society.

All, we see them doing is to cry for empowerment, equal rights.

They should balance things, that is when the society can appreciate.


On her own case, since the feminist opinion support "male & female are equal".

I hope she wont do the same mistake her parent did....given her to learn swimming from Bro. Lai

uhmmmm..... Infact from driver, security to kitchen staff, should be replaced with female.

spiritedtete:
98.99% of Nigeria women are dream killers.. selfish, and unsupportive. (Majority).

Many dont even know the exact thing they want in life... just give them money and you have successfully put a chain in their neck.

On the flip side I am not in support of marrying for greed though.. many naija men who married absurdly hardly end well too. Like marrying your grandma for what na?

Sincerely, u are right with regards to being unsupportive & intellectual capacity.

I just asked a lady a question, do u believe a man should bear the financial burden in the family alone?

Her response was frightening. Later said, the woman is just to assist in little things.

So, I asked her little things like what?

She said she will need to discuss that with her man..

I just laugh off.... She is such an amazing fellow... End of discussion...

RiyadhGoddess:
Because of 1k nitori olorun. Even if there's more to it, she doesn't deserve to be beaten. The neighborhood security should be investigated and justice served. Read my signature

I quote " Even if there's more to it, she doesn't deserve to be beaten"....If it's more than that what does she deserve?

No one has a monopoly of being abusive.

Both couldn't control their weapon, hence that's the outcome as peace, fairness and respect has been restored to both.

ImpregnaTor:
Rubbish, i don't care whatever anyone says my wife must be very very pretty.

but if she come get bad character na slap go reset her brain, that's it.

Confirm

obiekunie2:
kyrgstan! boy see country name!

and nigerians are there fa!

i wonder if there is any part of the world that you dont see a Nigerian - either igbo or yoruba!


and yet yorubas will be forming its only igbos that travel too much!




sorry lecturer - your country doesn't give a Bleep about you - so its a loss for you.

lets say he is an american - fire for don dey burn on top mountain!


GOD PUNISH ALL NIGERIA POLITICIANS!

We dey expect her sister Abike Dabiri to respond urgently like on the issue of the attack by that man in Nigeria Embassy in London & Busola COZA matter?


Such a stupid idiot.

Nigerians don't enjoy the same privileges that other nationals enjoyed here.

iAudio:
Must every relationship lead to marriage?

What if na the girl dump am?

Nonsense and ingredients.

That is a good question.

Funny enough some of them that engaged in distance relationship collecting salary every month, will still blame the guy.... Such girls don't contribute to grow hence hence a parasite...

The guy caused that maybe he listen to relationship tip that do tell that u break up in a nice way.. To avoid offence...

Send her text... Just #4 that it will cost u... U still go by doing party to break up.

Eziokwugbaoto:
They are quick to capture innocent civilians while Bokoharam is busy teaching them the basics in being a military. How are we sure those people are the real killers sef? They just murdered a former COD and COA like a chicken. I don't know who else thinks that that man was about to reveal something and the powers that be snuffed life out of him and gathered 15 people from God knows where as his killers.

That story narrated by one of them doesn't tally... They got informed to kill without purpose.

No interest..for money, to claim his farmland...

These might not be the real killer... The FGN & NA are responsible for his dead.

Untill some foreign agency took interest on his death, before the truth can be revealed.

Davash222:
Story!!!

It takes a hen to fall for this cheap scam.

Sir, what do u mean by "a Hen ".

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seunoni34:
80k for apps? Are you alright? I charge a minimum of 100k for ordinary web design(with no coding) talk more of apps. And I still think that is small compared to what my colleagues charge. @emmatdayo the average budget should be 180k and above for a basic android app and 250+ for a basic ios app . App is not beans, it's not a website that you can build and leave for 1 year and still meet it there, functionalities change, apis change, OS configurations change and you have to be ready to pay management fee per month so your developer can monitor and update the app where needed. Any developer that charges you 80k will run away with your money and build crap for you.

Let me be honest with you, app development (including software and web development generally) takes time and patience. If you want a developer to do a good job for you, pay good money. Don't look for cheap developers, they will do your work once and run away from you when problem comes, infact there are developers that'll offer to do it for 40k self if you want something cheaper. But remember the lesser the cost , the lesser the commitment and seriousness attached to work.
Lastly, Cheap things are not good and good things are not cheap.

At first, I almost shock. Thank God that you shut down that guy.

Like someone said, obviously he isn't a developer.

Some will perceive danger, still run into it.

U want to learn dancing.. U no see Kaffy, Omawunmi to go learn?

U want to learn. You went alone. That's a private lesson...What happens should be considered private.

It's possible he took advantage of u being alone.

Next time, teach your younger female Folk how to resist the demon in men, so that the man mayn't fall into evil (Eve)

Aposteli1:
What kind rubbish be this now?
To be sincere, in some years to come some ladies will be roaming our street completely naked!!!!

Yeah..... that will be.....

SSAwhistleblowe:
Before nko the motive is to use people to make money

That is what they don't know

Muyiwaipere:
Brother Jaywon.... Who does not want a nice means to make money?


You can start your own show and go and pack people that won't fetch u money

Well, i will say the BBN aint wrong being buiz wise.

I just wander and recall the tragic incidents some gullible ones fell into. i hope someone will learnt their lessons.... I wish someone has a video link to share or narrative of those tragic moments.

bennynaza:
People will now be killing people and blaming it on suicide because our authorities can't properly investigate. And the citizens jump to trending conclusions.
The same way people make unproven allegations of rape and people jump to conclusions because the authorities can't properly investigate.


Mad country

Bro, i am surprise to hear that... cuz of someone u met at NYSC. Really difficult to believe the story.

I watched her live repeating that she is a virgin.

She considered relationship as a partnership while she was discussing with other that her bf can kill himself to assist her that is all we heard from her.

What has she done to elevate the other party (BF)..... She has nothing to say... I believe if she has, she will mention that..

That shows a selfish proclamation by her and some sort of ladies of her kind.... that has nothing to offer. let it be value for value.

Is as if they are just wired to collect, only few of them are reasonable to give value in return.

She still has a bf, yet single based on the fact that marriage never enter.

izzou:


Busola is just the catalyst Biodun needs to blow "big time" in this country

The same Nigerians that wore white Polos to protest will still be the same ones to bury Timi's career

Instead of going to a court to get justice, you came to instagram and twitter to shout, forgetting that just as people are using Biodun's past to judge him, they'll use yours to judge you too

We will soon start seeing men that will come forward to say they have had consensual sex with Busola and how she's a nympho

Go court, you no gree...

"We will soon start seeing men that will come forward to say they have had consensual sex with Busola and how she's a nympho"...... Timi Dakolo is yet think of that...She doesn't want to be believed that her wife has a blame on it.

Why can't she speak u before marriage. I expected Timi to be angry with her for lieing and withhold such secrets.

If she has a claim, will Timi get married to her if he had a prior knowledge of her relationship with the pastor? partially no.

Something brought this up....

Yes, they both have sex(Busola & MOG)

Rollins777:
*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX!*

Due to the current and often false allegations made by women, which include Rape, Harassment, Blackmail etc. there is now an agreement to be signed before "action".

By. *Com. Usman Abdulgafar*

*AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX*

I, ___________________, the undersigned female partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with _________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:

1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.

2. THAT I am not under the influence of liquor or any narcotic.

3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.

4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.

5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.

6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.

7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.

8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love it and want it as much as he does.

9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.

10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that,
(a) I contract an STD
(b) I become pregnant
(c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.

SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED

ON THIS ___ DAY
OF _____ (MONTH)
________ (YEAR)
AT ______ (AM/PM)

_______________________
(Signature of Screwee)

-------------------------------------
(Signature of Screwer)

Guys, is this cool?�‍♂�‍♂�‍♂�‍♂

*~~Com. Usman Abdulgafar*

This is very funny ohh ��������������

AngelHoly:
Sometimes i wonder the kind animals I'm sharing this country with......[b][/b]


How can you believe dat he rape a virgin gal without any sound....nawa oh

I knw wat I pass through with Susan before reaching her state capital...i swear if Na marathon race I embarked on dat day.....i swear all those boys no go see my back
And yet she is NT a virgin

when I start the ministration and she start telling me baby dnt stop as if she was the one dat ask me to start,remember she was naked before I start preaching and embarking this journey

The best way our naija babes will tell yuh they loose their virginity Na by telling yuh dat she was rape

Never see any gal dat said dat she lost her virginity willing cos of shame of calling her olosho,sex addict,or start condemning her as if she have loot naija resources like Abacha and Mmadueke did

Lemme tell yuh....Dakolo wife cook up this allegation to clear her husband dat she lost her virginity by force so he wont see her as olosho or loose gal as we normally call it

A guy cannot come to ur house and use one hand to cover ur mouth and the other hand to remove his own trouser and ur own pant while ur two hands are free and be doing nothing if yuh are not in the game.....

So the truth is clear....and she said is NT once or twice.....for Christ sake... imbecide will shout sef,even make any form of alarm

After fornicating and yuh came up with the story dat u was rape.....fear God cos karma is real..cos yuh are tryin to spoil the house of God

I ain't saying it is not possible for the MOG to have sex with her.

What I want to hear is, it is consensual..... Thinking from your analysis.

I don't want to insult her Busola has been stupid.

My reason is quite simple... She became a choir in the same church, got married which was blessed by the same MOG. To me, she benefit literally w/o any form of suppression. She might have the tendency to get married to the same accused MOG.

if the rape incident was painful to her, emotional and psychological, she would have keep a distance from the alleged rapist.

I believe something erupted, that brought her out to bear her mind on the rape issue to cover the real story or bone of contention.... Ready to fight dirty.

If the MOG wasn't successful... He would kill the story with no second thought.

From what I have read, she is equally wayward with her lifestyle .

Dranoid:
"According to him, the deceased out of annoyance pounced on her and pushed her out of the house, and angered by the husband’s action, she grabbed a piece of wood and hit him on the head with it."


This above is a case of karma + domestic violence gone wrong. Why would you pounce (after sending her out) on your wife because she didn't ask for your permission before going out


It was not premeditated and it was an act of self defense


But the cases of spouse related deaths are increasing sha. God safe us

Based on the story narrated, it is a clear case of self defense.

"Lead us not into temptation, and deliver us from evil (Eve) ...

SageMK:
So what if she collected a car gift or got wedded by the same man? — How does that proof Biodun innocence?

In fact, that can be easily be interpreted as a bribe to buy her silence. I should be the one arguing you to use your brain because her getting pregnant outside wedlock is also no defense to proof the innocence of Biodun at all.

It tells us that she isn't holy... Wayward... Glorified prostitute

Lesson learnt :

She saw the sign and she runs...

I like that...

Not, like Busola who saw the signs of things to befall her.

Accept it either forcefully or consensual

Only to revert it as rape

From the story, who was abused here? The boy @ 17

Is it a crime? Yes.

Why didn't he report. He was benefitting from it.

If he called the lady out tomorrow for being a rapist.

Are we to accept his judgement? No.

Same goes to Busola & the MOG.

[quote author=PrettySleek post=79782170]Seduction doesn't count. If a lady seduces a man and they have sex who is to blame? Both of them. It's the same thing as a thief seeing something of value and getting tempted to steal. It's the same thing as every temptation we humans face. If you have sex with a woman because she seduced you, you are just morally weak. [/quote)

why it doesn't count? I don't agree with that.

U further said
If a lady seduces a man and they have sex who is to blame? Both of them

Only for you to contradict the same point by saying the below;
If you have sex with a woman because she seduced you, you are just morally weak.

Rape & Seduction find themselves into sex (Result)

If a man is morally strong, you think he won't.....That is why most of them fell into pastors hand cuz they believe pastors are morally strong (A symbol of morally strong)

morality is like attitude that you build up subject to force of change and environment.

If u study law , psychology or philosophy you will understand while some ideas or value are subject to unending dialogue.

Youngstar76:
Since all this whole time, why did Mrs Dakolo bring it to at this point??


Women are demons. Every one of them.

Looking for who to devour.

lilbest4:
Why should he step down?
So a woman can just wake up now and destroy a man's career in 40 sec without proof or evidence
What is wrong with these fools?

Something is wrong with her.

Wait till, other ladies dive ur husband into poo.

Is the church an assembly or committee of some sort of actress or celebs?

Ijobaorun:
Rape! Rape!! Rape!!! This seems to be the latest song Nigerian social media will be singing for the next couple of weeks.
As much as I am not that interested in the whole story, my point is if you are a rape victim (multiple times) for over ten years and you kept mute when you have every thing at your disposal to report your case, I must conclude that you are the real rapist and a criminal.

Not only that, she is a partner in crime, act of negligence and put herself in harm's way.

Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.

Say no to jungle justice, Say no to rape , Say no to false accusation

Here lies the reason behind the issue "
Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image".

Sir, u make remember how the whole thing stated.

Thanks...

Timi has been complaining but never said what went wrong. Before he called out the pastor being a rapist.

Sir, on ur own case, I don't there is way you can seek redress ohhh.... Just take the beating for experience cuz u don't have hole there... Rape in Nigeria law applies to female... Even if u win the case, what do think the judge will award u.. It won't be money... At the best, she go tender public apology in 2 newspaper.

As money is not awarded wetin u gain?...

It's only a guy that is yet to jam some rockie like the ones I have met.

Has a lady quarrell with you for not having sex with her?
In her voice, so u are keeping your thing.

Has a lady burst you inside ur own flat naked by pleading to pull up the zip at her back?

My own take in this drama... Is to legislate on SEDUCTION if rape is gonna exist.

That will bring balance to check the unlawful act we both condemn not to myopic.

PrettySleek:
This law has been in existence since 2004! No review since then. Nigeria is a confused country.

Well, the issue of legislation on SEDUCTION will better be on its own not to be enshrined under RAPE.

Praktikals:
I am not a fan of Fayose and his p. a, but who raped a girl in his mother's house when her older sibling is home.?

That is intriguing and funny.

Legislation of rape as a crime has taken another dimension.

Sexually molested, assaulted and abused, that can be welcomed.

The law has two face.

The word rape is still used in the place of marriage.
If rape mean unlawful, force or threat.

How come does a husband rape a wife when both are legally marriage?

If there has been some sort of force due to one party disinterest, how can it be resolved?

Cuz some wife also apply force on their husband either in demand for a child or sexual gratification?

Are we going to say the woman does wrong for applying force?

Some husband apply force either for sexual gratification, routine exercise or for demand to get another child.

Are we going to accuse the man wrongly for his actions by force?

This seems to be a psychological issue to manage as it applies to individuals family make up.... I dont think the law can be fair.

Not this days, that liars ( lawyers) & pervert (judges) realised that they are human being after falling into the same crime they rant on.