₦airaland Forum

Guys need to understand the fact that the female folks has no shame.

Self control isn't for male alone. Lust isn't about male alone.

It's now for the male to put the devil to shame.

That's how male can win.

For those irresistible one, know that at the end of it, u fall into her trap, u will still be the one to be blamed.

She still got no shame... So it is better u don't fall.

Wallade:
Can you ask your wife if she noticed the manner of dressing of her cousin in the house. If she indicates that she didn't. Then describe the dress sense you have observed to her.

Make her understand that you feel uncomfortable seeing her dressed in that manner and you don't want such temptations in the house.

Let's have a feedback on the eventual actions that your wife will take about it.

If the cousin doesn't adjust her dress sense afterwards, you can insist that she should leave the house to deflate the pressure building in your system.

Honestly, I think the cousin wants to fu.*ck you and you also wanna fu.*ck her too.

U raised a sensible question in ur first paragraph.

Also end it with a logical conclusion prevailing at the moment.

millionboi2:
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Wednesday, 12am - 4am

And I pay him above minimum wage and told him to take Sundays off. But the guy comes to work on Sundays and works till late. AT first, I was happy with his work ethic but now, i realize that this guy is working for his own half.

What is minimum wage that u are pay him monthly?

U think working on off day is free?

U are equally greedy too.

Randomshotzz:
Why is it that every fine girl was raped between the age of 10 and 16??

Just why

I honestly need genuine answers because my former and current girlfrange were also raped at that age range.

The reason has been said above u by " SIMSIFY".

LasLas:
Please nairalanders, I need your opinion and advice though i expect a lot of bashing because it is normal here on nairaland.

I met this girl two years back and we started dating since 2017. We have been into each other since then.

Recently i went to see her parents just to make my intentions known. After that, we both traveled to see my parents also.

Ever since we came back from my village i have been having this thoughts of divorce. I have this feeling that i will seek for divorce immediately after the wedding. I don't want to have a broken home. I don't want to cheat on my wife because if i eventually marry her with the way i am thinking now i must cheat on her which i don't want to happen in my marriage. I am thinking of quiting the relationship but i don't know how to go about it, how she will react, what her family members will say and react. I am so confused.

Please i need your advice.

Listen to Dr. Daniel Akpata( The Love Doc.) on Info Fm.

You will be advised properly.

Tell him the bone of contention.

Wish u will do that.

NameChecker:
This is the cheapest form of advert I ever found

U are on point...

Why is it that na celebrity shoes, gold this and that often get lost?.

Pipapi1:
Looking for company or qualified individual that could do soil test for a 1,000 square meters of land. This is required by Lagos state government for building plan approval.

Location: Ogudu Phase 2 just adjacent Estate Alapere Bus Stop - Lagos state.

Contact email: la_bahiq@yahoo.com

Please Sir, kindly drop your phone contact. I have sent mail but yet to get feedback.

hermesprogidy:
With this mindset, you may end up in jail. Reading does not kill, go read up on rape.

That's not a mindset.

It is the reality now.

In a sentence, u can explain what rape mean to u.

Read the no of rape cases discharged from courts.

Have a lady/woman told you, so u are keeping ur thing? Or join me in the room now?

Jayslicky:
Too many vehicles on that bridge, there should be an alternative for motorist, another factor for this reoccurence of accident is too many drivers who are not experienced or lack concentration when driving.
I Wish the victims of the accidents quick recovery.

It is for the above reason u stated why many road users needs to ply that bridge. As someone said earlier, if u haven't drive through the bridge, u are still a learner.

ademidedavid:
ZERO ECONOMIC IMPORTANCE.......even a blind man and foetus knows that APC will when by any means.....me even sabi and yet no one has visited me

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Day One ish....

I have learnt more on defensive & offensive plan in marriage.

No One hear from the other side.

rusher14:
If he's in possession of bank cards not legitimately transferred, he should face the full weight of the law.

Can you imagine someone using stealing your card and Identity, spending it at his convenience?

The evidence against him proved that he is a yahoo boy contrary to public opinion that he wasn't.

He will be served a jail sentence even though na for some months

Crazyforfootbal:
Say no to domestic violence

Domestic violence, I know
Rape between a wife and husband, I don't .

NewBea:
So you two had a fight,and you ran into the restroom,and upon returning he had already taken his life...

Did you spend the whole day in the rest room?


Abegi

Like someone earlier said... The lady is hiding some truth...

The story makes no sense. I can assume she played a part in her bf death.

Well, it is bad that it happens that way.

Some of them just venture on what they don't know about just cux they have the money to control things... Now, it failed her here.

Hope Sandra will learn from that.

And Toke will learn to look for the real furniture guys out there.

Rape is between an adult & a minor.

Every other one is consensual except a gang rape.

How can two adults engage in sex, only to be called rape.

Having sex is of benefits to both parties.

What does Nigeria stands to gain from OIC?

Boko haram has been a subject canker worm to Nigeria security, what help or recommendations does OIC offer?.

Nig. needs to be deregistered.

If GEJ was never invited for OIC, that means PMB is just on a religious promo tour to brand Nigeria as a Muslim country.

People ought not to be bother much of wailers like this... She just need traffic on a page.

Present your own terms & conditions... E.g Duplex, cars, importation buiz u want to venture in. All in ur name.

If fulfilled, give her what she want..

Take evidence pics & chat message. ( Ask questions in ur chat that tells she voluntary request sex in exchange ...That is to guide urself against police or EFCC)

Book a liar (Lawyer for defense).

Good that he didn't request u to marry her.

Enjoy ur work before u married...

yawehoverall:
Packed and left your six month old baby! What rubbish! You caused it o..

The baby girl is his own blood... Suppose na the woman she treat like that... Ehnnn...

The man just cheat himself.

adecz:
What a waste!!

But, why did she allow an Okada
man to make a life and death decision
for her, when standers by told them
not to cross?

So sad..

Sad to hear that one died in such instance.

Sometimes that corporate or smart thought can kill one if one failed to recognize being value

[quote author=Yankiss post=78748074]Even Mali has become 'abroad' too. I tell you that apart from those girls forcefully seized and pawned by insurgents, the rest are clear-eyed prostitutes who personally knew how they arrived there and what they were meant to do. The sickening stories of being lured to prostitution under the guise of going to work is fake and untrue, meant to curry favor or evoke pity. If you blame the Nigerian government for everything, just know that the situation in Nigeria did not warrant all these negative life choices. There are fallow lands for farming and many people have made it that way. For every girl that chose the easy path of flesh-trade, there are others that decided on better ways of living. We have female mechanics, sales agents, farmers, etc. If I were in seat of authority in Nigeria, I wouldn't rally to the help of anyone who is above 18 as at the time of their wrongful indoctrination into prostitution, drug peddling and other easy-virtue quick-trades that tarnish our collective identity. [/quote

Well said, we need to take that... You can see the form of sympathy those Prostitute receive from Nigerians at home.... When they start claiming they don't know how they left home from Edo, Enugu, Calabar to Lagos.

Well, the buiz of prostitute is as old as mankind.

NAPTIP can stop it.. It should focus on it child trafficking... Not nosediving to something it can't control here in Nigeria.

saaron:
Let the military keep denying the massacre of soldiers by boko haram, they will soon reap what they sowed.
The rate soldiers are being slaughtered under this govt, its just a matter of time before junior military officers organize a terrible mutiny on high ranking military personnel responsible for their colleagues deaths.

The Junior are yet to understand that their life are being played out for politics. First, the corruption among its top officers ought to speak some sense. Incessant attacks on barracks & ambush ought to tell them there's a mole in the army( Top officer makes the decision,since the Junior only follows order) leading to their early grave.

Let the NA roll out recruitment form, the gullible one's will still apply.

Mizwisdom:
I wish she was a Judo champ, he wouldn't be standing after a massive kick to his groin I hate bullying

Bully requires repeated action....

This happened btw 2 strangers.

What if he was a kick boxer champ?.

Notatribalist:
That serve her right..I am against raising your hand against Woman.But what on earth would make a woman wanna hit a man?

Emotional anger & demoralized thoughts.

Okuda:
the thing with thse useless boys making efcc have a field day is them always pleading guilty. why not hire a competent lawyer to defend you and most times the cases are trashed out afterall os that not what most of our politicians do and drag their cases for years.

That's what the Yahoo Boy's ought to do.

The Man just choose to live for himself, his passion to achieve what he want but all that was not in a smart way.

Also, I will say that he was sidelined by Unilag senate maybe cuz of his attitude.

rockstar27:
FOR UR OWN VIEW, BUT WE CAN'T JUDGE THE GUY because WE DON'T KNOW THE TRUE OF THE MATTER. THOUGH UNDER ANY REASON U HAVE NO RIGHT TO KILL. BUT FOR U TO SAY HOUSE HELPS ARE EVIL YOU ARE TOTALLY WRONG DEAR.

Being a murderer is evil.

Some of these so-called high class persons doesn't care or think of death.

If the woman had thought about it. Maybe she would have avert danger that befall her.

That's what happens when you allowed ur woman to control the house.

iomoge2:
I doubt you are female
Did she kill him
Is he her father “even a father can not be so wicked “
Even if the man has paid bride price he has no right to lift his hands on her
No woman
I repeat
No woman deserves a slap no to talk of this kinda beating
There is an option of walking away from her if she really hurt him
Don’t let me pray same for you
Imagine if the woman was your daughter
So u will justify the man beating her because she did wrong
This man will kill her the very next chance he has
Only weak and useless men beat women

The useless men know who they try shit with sha

When they say make your own money n love your self
You will hear yehn yehn yehn

When they say make your own money n love your self

You will hear yehn yehn yehn angry....... That's one of the reason.... So tell them to stop waiting for a man...

Infact, I like that candid principle... It helps to reduce issues.

Woman should learn to walk away if the man is hurt... No one has the monopoly of walk-away or being hurt.

wifeesnatcher:
I don't have a sister but if any man did this to my own sister, he will reach heaven come that day


even a friend husband that beat her the other time know wetin I follow em drag



on no matter circumstances should a man raised hands to beat a woman not to talk of the one he's yet to pay her bride price. like a what fvck? the guy na hirer killer?

Wife snatcher as a name?

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