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I just hope, it wasn't her show of force and strength that led her to sudden death...There is a difference between the devil (M) and evil (F).

That is what happens when some ladies do think, they are dare devil with their mouths... The evil that lives inside a man is the one with action that the devil doesn't dare herself.

No job is easy....From day one, the soldier boy knows the end point...So, the family should often summon courage to live after their lost one....No empathy can replace a lost one...,

This video is an evidence that the some of the armed men are out there to task civilians....

If one wont blame it on the forces....

Can govt take up their blames?

There is no professionalism about what their duties abound....

Frankyboy1:
Stop the entitlement mentality, he doesn't owe the guy an obligation to pick his calls, if the guy is talented, let his gift speak for him, and God doesn't necessarily use those you know or those you expect something from to help your cause, he uses the most unexpected avenue to pick your call, so guy hustle your hustle and forget olamide, he ain't God and must not be your destiny helper

Thou has speak some sense into the guy....

Officially approved.

theButterfly:
1. The girl is 15. "GIRL", not woman.
2. At 15, she's a child.
3. She's a relative of the wife's.

Idk what sort of useless discomfort the wife could possibly feel over buying the clothes for the girl who also happens to be a child and her own relative. I doubt OP is having any affair w/ her b/c this sounds like an innocent, non-threatening situation and it's not everybody that sleeps with their househelp. She should be the one to apologize to her husband for her dumb accusation and she should grow up b/c someone might end up maltreating her own kids the way she's doing with the girl. It's called karma.

Thank you for responding to TonyeBacanista...

BeachTime:
Having 17 kids out of wedlock is already a sign of recklessness,immorality, and lack of self restraint. So don't be surprised what happens next.
17 kids , that's why there should be 1 or 2 child policy . Nigeria's ideal population should be 50 million, but I don't understand why Nigerians take pride in large population and extravagance , breeding poverty,diseases,lawlessness, and general underdevelopment.

How old is the man to have 17 children?

There is a sort of exaggeration...

Whatever the reason can't be far fetched from ethnicity & religion... The OP has informed us about the cut-off marks...

While i was in school, a lecturer once felt the pain when it happened to his cousin from that same ABU. He took revenge on those Northerners, denied them admission into the University w/o apology and clear evidence.

The lady might have chosed ABU cuz it is Federal Sch....Those who own the Federal Might supported by the constitution have just exercise their dominance.

What i have heard subsequently, these Federal schools in the North own good teaching health facilities than those in the South, hence the need for her choice of ABU.

Enterusernamehe:
Just do what your heart tells you to do

The heart must tell the OP...that Nursing is the way forward...

jahsharon:
The OP's plan is to graduate with a degree in Psychology so that he/she can join the several millions of unemployed lazy youths and later join Yahoo Yahoo, but NO, the parents won't let the plans of the enemies to work.

Psychology is NONSENSE in Nigeria. In no distance time, that Course abi curse ni will be removed from the list of degree courses. It will just remain a General Study course.

Do Nursing and you will never regret it either you are in Nigeria, US, Europe, Asia or even in Oceania

That's the truth of it all...the little advice here is enough...

Hello....Study Nursing.... That's the best offer ...

Exc2000:




who cares?

Mr Dokpesi isnt politically relevant he only exist because of the publicity he gives PDP through AIT
,

APC dont need him, they have NTA , Channels tv and TVC

las las even if you defect or not your jail term sure gidi gan just like Orji Kalu


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Yeah...u are right....if that mam defect PDP publicity will be dead...

VirginSearcher:
Do you know what is 30 good minutes and u survived, if they really wanted to kill u, they would have.. this story looks fishy to me

Don't mind her....She was saying they spray rubber bullet....If they want her dead, they will use real bullet.

She is lucky....Let her lay low to find her killer...

But of course, she won't....social media ringing her brain

This should be well cited in the North not in the South....There is enough land mass that are already wasted with low density population in the North...

GeoAfrikana:
Lalasticlala, other side of the story.

Emotions and sentiments apart;

First, sincerely when I watched the video yesterday I was confused. I didn't see any persona that looked like a DSS officer. I've once had an 'encounter' with DSS officers.
They escorted the corpse of a federal icon from Abuja to our village for burial. They arrived early in the night, witnessed the burial, shot guns in the air and drove off.

It was an intimidating experience. They were so organised and gallant. Their men were heavily built and their guns were sophisticated. No one in that video is similar to the typical DSS officer in my imagination.

Secondly, the word REVOLUTION that Sowore used is enough crime against him. I'm almost certain that if someone tried a tenth of such in the US he would be corpse in less than a month. Or at least be undead in Guantanamo.

Note: I'm opened to objective counter-arguments. If you rationally, objectively and politely debate my points then I'll listen to you. I'm willing to engage in intellectual debates.

But if all you have is insults and curses then expect no response from me.

Thanks for reading.

To ur second question, if it is crime to call for revolution by Sowore citing US as example.

Learn from historian about revolution in the US...so as not to bother u with much thought process and stories.

At the moment, Trump has been called out for impeachment at different intervals cuz of his unruly behavior. Have u heard those that calls for his impeachment are dead now.

Calling for revolution against govt maybe a crime..Ain't a lawyer/....liars...But not against a government that disrespect thesame rule of law & with disregard to Law Court.

People call for revolution at different times in human history to become a renowned person in their country/space...Rawlings of Ghana, in SA, in some Latin American Countries, Martin Luther King.

Sowore didn't toll a radical approach...If he has chosen a radical approach they can't find him as an easy prey where some DSS can summon and subject him to unhealthy conditions.... Learn from the Arab revolution...

Nigeria case is special indeed, that's what I accept...You can't forecast how political events will turn out here in Nigeria...That is the Black man case studies in Nigeria.

GeoAfrikana:
Lalasticlala, other side of the story.

Emotions and sentiments apart;

First, sincerely when I watched the video yesterday I was confused. I didn't see any persona that looked like a DSS officer. I've once had an 'encounter' with DSS officers.
They escorted the corpse of a federal icon from Abuja to our village for burial. They arrived early in the night, witnessed the burial, shot guns in the air and drove off.

It was an intimidating experience. They were so organised and gallant. Their men were heavily built and their guns were sophisticated. No one in that video is similar to the typical DSS officer in my imagination.

Secondly, the word REVOLUTION that Sowore used is enough crime against him. I'm almost certain that if someone tried a tenth of such in the US he would be corpse in less than a month. Or at least be undead in Guantanamo.

Note: I'm opened to objective counter-arguments. If you rationally, objectively and politely debate my points then I'll listen to you. I'm willing to engage in intellectual debates.

But if all you have is insults and curses then expect no response from me.

Thanks for reading.

Well, u said u are open to objective counter arguments. I have met DSS officials escorting to personel in Lagos, Abia and Abuja...I have walked into DSS office in Lagos at different intervals.

There are times they don't go out with guns, work as undercover operations and intelligence gathering.

I don't have an evidence to proof who are those 4 guys that presented themselves to arrest Sowore...who could it be than the DSS....Maybe u want us to assume they are APC thugs or the Presidential Cabal thugs or Government volunteer supporters cuz they ain't armed...Yet they have the gut to enter a law court, during proceeding to act in a Federal High Court....

Who does that without Federal might/ power?

Well, I never work in such a demeaning status like where I am. Fast forward, the job is not the problem but the kind of boss u have.

Sometimes, u have to fire back when the heat is hot in a diplomatic approach.

Ignore fear, be confident to speak up.

Ensure u don't do extra that automatically is excess(abuse) to ur own health, time and life.

Know how to keep memory of instructions, so that ur punch line can be logical when u speak or act to defend ursef from any abuse.

Be conscious of time. Anyone who take ur time can waste ur life.

Don't beg or seek for money from such Boss.

Actually, it is a right question to ask.

What, i think is that most shows like that are either sponsored by some black men who still hold pride in the African race. Literally, they are from their root as Africans but as part of the Black race, they are welcome.

Most times, the organiser might even be a white guy in collaboration with some Africans, as a businessman, they can only seeks for maximum profit and suitable for them...

Maybe as times goes they might retrace their step that, such event are meant to be held in an African country....... Rather the "African" should be replaced with "Black".

stanliwise:
Mediocrity is the characteristics of simple minded individuals like you. If students beg lecturers for sex, can he simply reject and likewise report to authorities?
Lecturers are role models and at almost every point would be blamed if he/she indulge in the dastard act.
Youth vices and student indecency should be curbed also and this is the job of both the society, school(lecturers included) and every parent and youth themselves.
So it's unethical to claim that you as a lecturer indulge in sexual scandal because you were invited by the student.
It is outrightly against policy of Nigeria Education system.

Mediocrity is the characteristics of simple minded individuals like you. If students beg lecturers for sex, can he simply reject and likewise report to authorities?...............

Hello Bro, calm down............ I gave a viewpoint from a broader perspective by creating a balance.... To ur question.......... If students beg lecturers for sex, can he simply reject and likewise report to authorities?............... Yes, there are lecturers that have done that..............From your question, i can deduce, u are myopic in nature.....U would have thought that no lecturer would ever reject such offer by some female students?.

etrange:
Sorry, bro.

I think your question should "how best do I part ways with my girlfriend whose blood group does not match with mine?"

Bro, u are too straight to conclusion.

That is the best advice.....I hope the guy can reason that well as the truth.

I hope BBC will cover scene when these ladies beg for sex and the lecturers rejects it....

I am waiting for that............... if they can't get that out.... We will help them out soon....


Bad enough, that it happens and not to be accepted..... Both sides, the lecturers and these so-called *vulnerable but not* should caution themselves.

Let the First Lady tell the public what has she done or contribute to indecent dressing around her?

A sex for mark...Mean either the lady fail conditionally or unconditionally that prompt such.

Either way, it might goes the female folks who are often the weak one here to negotiate don't take the chance to do the right thing in school. Indecent dressing can attract Sex for mark, ur thought of being sharp and smart to know the lecturer can attract Sex for mark, ur plan to make up test u didn't write can attract a fine of Sex for mark............. No man is entitle to a lady as the labour room has thought so many men a lesson.

Let the First lady goes to hotels, club houses, banks, government office in Ekiti to prove if Sex for Mark should be the issue to tackle here.

I don't expect her to tell us or her husband, she was fully involved.

So, let the First and Last female folks earn their respect by doing the right thing.......... And stop being an array of sex object....

I hate to see rap king waging war against themselves.....

For the purpose of record, they are unique in their ways.

It is been a while i listen to both and am yet to read the long epistle by the Ph.d ( Sorry, which course is he studying? Is there solution proffer?)

Any way, let their fans seek to advise both to chill and make us proud with their music...

Though, it is part of the game.

15ssDRIVE:
You mouth shall either set your free or lock you up.
Only defense team can say exactly what happened. But explaining your ex clients secret, can scare away prospective clients.

Your job is all about
See no evil
Talk no evil
Hear no evil

His job is all about........................Yeah, he needs to protect himself for prospective clients...

Yeah, there might be other way to disassociate himself from the case.

But that .............

Your job is all about
See no evil
Talk no evil
Hear no evil............ Is part of killings that can be worst than be killed at a gunpoint.

The lawyer might have done that cuz he is facing the FGN not an individual. Belief me, he must have been counsel by other colleagues and that seems to be the best option for him.

carzola:
still looking for the agelessness or its it under the makeup?

The ageless lies under the makeup.

Funny one happen this morning, a lady couldn't recognise a client (Woman). So, the client get treated below standard for her make up from the same lady.... I just laugh it off

Na their problem...

zela:
I don't want to know how the business transaction occurred..All I know is that money was embezzled..

I knew that will happen from the start of 2006 when the drum of fibre optic roll out in Naija.

Some people take their chance.

Now, it glorious to hear that money has been embezzled.

Mynd44:
1. You can't legally vanish anyone from anywhere. This isn't 1376

2. What did the girl do? She is the victim here and she is being punished.

Her offence is that she enjoyed sex from the Father and son... Not a wise choice... The Elders therefore concluded to banish her too.

damosade:
One sided story,, I fear lady with 2 or more earings

Bros, na u open my understanding of what really goes wrong..

Lucky for her, rape didn't happen... Abeg which church did she attend that night?...

yeyeosoronga:
So you really belive all these female bankers, lawyers, doctors, market women / traders you see daily everywhere around you wake up early to go for their hustle alongside their male collegues, do so just for the sake of doing that? They don't pay bills?
Do you think all these women are married to men uch richer than they are? Do you really believe majority of Nigerian men are rich? Learn to look and SEE things around you

? Do you really believe majority of Nigerian men are rich? Learn to look and SEE things around you.

Majority of Nigerian men ain't rich but an average Nigeria men doesn't have a dependence mentality like the women does.

My observation is based on what I see around me.... Working with female bankers and lawyers specifically.

I ain't saying they don't.. The percentage of those who does that are too small...

What I expect based on their claim for equality a.k.a 50:50 in settling bills.

To emphasis that, why is that women empowerment have been a fore front issue spearhead from govt to NGOs.... The reason is quite clear cuz of the margin of those who are yet to understand the need to pay bills hence they need to be empower to do so.

Why will u miss a penalty in such a crucial match?
They deserve worst than that.

Bros, u are still in sch. Therefore, focused on ur self, invest in urself, develop ur self to be buiz minded and career minded after school.


I can read through your mind that ur interest lies on focusing on ursef and family... Ur interest doesn't lie.
Act accordingly to ur interest.

Ensure u pass out well, if 400l is ur final year.

Once u finally completed ur study, let the help or friendship ends there. Untill she developed her self to be independent.

Make it a negotiations thing 50/50... If she desire you after a short break.

That's why some feel bad to have a female child... Born with dependence mentality is part of their make up.

The guy has been showing lot of interest while wasting his time with the lady just to sleep with her.

The guy has been of financial favour to her, hence seek to reap benefits for sexual comfort.

Well, things has gone bad for him...

Let him beg those ladies and not go back there.

The lady love to have him around for help but not for sex........that doesn't work for everyone... Some guy love to have some ladies around for help but not for sex...