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Dididrumz:
Touching..



Bro life is hard these days. If You know someone that is in a place that can help You, you try and reach out to them.

At least it's better than stealing.

That's the sense in which others don't see...

Someone was in thesame shoe like Bala, he made the call to remembrance... Now, the guy is happy Cuz his call was picked beyond his imagination.. ..Let this wealth flow around...

We all deserve that good life...

Ent3rpreneur:
See, boss, i dont know you from Adam, but this is the truth and i'm going to write this out, and hang it in a public space where women can look at what they have reduced themselves to and how majority of people see them because it's disgusting.
One bottle of your favorite brand.
Bar man!!!!!



You dey mind them?

Entitled things. See the i.mbecile two posts below me already spewing trash.
Honestly, these females don cast finish and na only simps, virgins and konjified individuals that still give them relevance.
Somebody that her only function is to open her smelling, infected kpekus and later turn around and say, "after all i did for you", BITCH, WHAT DID YOU DO?
ARE YOU MAD

That question dey annoyed man ehnn....

Fabulouzjoseph:
The world has changed.

So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and there is easy access to information.

There is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.

Sir, u have answered well that things and time has changed....So also the human body chemistry and physiology drive for sex too....Who make sex a crime?... Tagging 18 years old is for maturity stage of the body development....

Someone7:
Even Saudi Arabia has banned marrying a girl below 18 years. Meanwhile in Nigeria paedophiles and their apologists are hiding behind religion to continue this despicable act of preying on girls all in the name of marriage.

Hàs it been truly banned in Saudi Arabia?... The was only lucky that's not at the North... She can't try that in the North....and the man is lucky from been killed like the recent one on forced marriage...

Saintbusco1:
if you are this bitter... You ain't any diff from your said Muslims... Your Bible thought you not to repay evil with evil or insult with insult, instead repay evil with blessing



your type of xtian follow old testament and not new testament

If u reason bible like a notebook same u will understand but in spirit, u welcome divinity in one.

Enoch07:
sharp!!! doctors that went to school this is how I recognize them. great work

Not the ones we can't see their handwork...Msc, Phd here and there, no impact on the society...Foreign Scholarship now and then, nuttin to show for it.

xcabczyxabczzzz:
The banks also very corrupt.

Thanks Bro, u dey reason well....

If no of Banks can do that....

If u have money to keep in the bank, if u like use different date of birth, surname with the same BVN, Banks will welcome u but won't be responsible when issues arise...as they will make claims to one rule...

U think those set of Banks don't know that it's the same Obasa that owns the BVN with multiple names and account.....

Well, goodluck to Sahara, well-done for informing us...

Are u the accountant?..... Whatever position you are holding in that company regarding the cash inflow, thesame you have power to stop the leakages of the cash inflow.... Swing into action.

Be sure u are clean...which is very rare with UR position..

Who is this person asking question.

Come, lemme explain to u.

"Love never hurts nor makes you cry your eyes out. It means putting somebody else’s wants, needs and goals before yours, and never letting them lose sight of it.”


Please where did she get that definition from?

To whom has she express love to by her definition......."putting somebody else's wants, needs and goals before yours....bla bla bla?


That's just a selfish definition for her own gain.

countryfive:
if they had succeeded in bringing the APC back to power in balyesa , we will see post like
Top ten best lawyers in Nigeria and the tribe

1. Baba Falz. South west
2. Afe Babalola. South west
3. Wole Olanipekun. South west

The FTC will say "Yoruba leads others follow"

Another will say Yorubas are sophisticated people not like those from
The yeast

Don't quote if you not nothing good to say
I don't intend bringing tribalism in this thread I'm no hater of the Yoruba people ... Just telling the truth

You have a point ....No dispute, they are the best legendary lawyers that emerged not just from SW but from Ekiti alone

To be a Professional in an IT World(Programming, app developer), is it possible to be doing office work (Weekdays)and learn an IT skills(Weekends) to get the best out of it?


Or is it more profitable to engaged daily with an IT skills or environment to learn better and faster towards becoming a Pro and make sense out of the IT training?

Giddiebabalaw:
She told me that her pastor told her that I will definitely leave her that if she is recalcitrant about leaving me alone, that I will disappoint her in the end. She attend one of the white garment church and effort to convince her that am here to stay prove abortive. She believe her pastor more than God.

That's one trend guys needs to check on.

The poor minded ones( mentality & financially) are the culprit here....

Just cut off, the moment she comes with her pastor is the God.

Uhmmm...so it has get to this level....

First, like someone said we need to know the names of those that are killed.

I pray Insanity & PTSD doesn't prevail over them on @ Borno...

If that happen, it signal a bad omen to the country that is not working.

Otunbastevo:
why wasting this innocent good man time? Why not save him & ur self all this trauma & free him... Please work to the next customery court tomoro been Monday & free this good soul, so that he can go look for a more compatible partner to marry? ur own husband is far deep in the oceanic drinking champaign, I wonder why most ladies are so full of confusion that they don't know what they want? bet me, u will cry so much in pains by d time u loose this man. I'm very sure someone somewhere is busy serving ur kpekus for u cos don't believe u stayed a whole 3years without sex, likewise d man. Pls free this man now, ur eye will clear when village people eventually release u.

I read through comments... I find solace in urs.

So allow me to support the motion by further question how possible they don't have sex for 3 years and she is sure and confident to say that..

If that is the case, then she failed in her responsibility sexually...and egoistic in nature...
She is the one to suffer, if there is no sex between them..

Her sexual drive is acute low...If that's is her problem...She should fix her problem and stop being a stupid idiot....

Let her intimate sex by force on him, if the man will reject her for the next 3 years....

No to harassment...

But wait ohh...most AAU, Ekpoma understand that being a G-boy no be news..Even the best brain esp in Law faculty follow dey do...

BIGGIE121:
Women,womem ,women, the fear
of women the begining of
wisdom. I blame the guy though,
for getting so absorbed in one
woman. 21st century girls have
taught him a lesson he will not in
forget his second life . Rip mr nice
guy

The fear of the Lord not woman....

This only happens when u devoid ursef with reasoning, hence allowed ur emotions dictate space of your relationship with opposite sex.

Moderate things...

Scream a lot .....Ariwo ko ni music ohhhh.....

Lot of sleepless night as inspire by motivational speakers.

Balance homefront with your profession, no they won't hear.

That's not just old age issue...

Long life and prosperity to her.

That's not enough deal to inspire scientist to start doing research for a cure here...

If the minister actually talks about Coronavirus, it is indeed a misplaced priority.

Let's think about it, the same FG sponsored PH.d, Msc in medical science through scholarship years after years... Are those people has no usefulness for the country?

Same with our lecturers winning grants, fund from foreign donors and FGN to embark on research in medical science. Does those set of people has no result to prove than paper based knowledge?

If the minister has a ministry, what has the funding from FGN and foreign donors used for all these while?

Well, womanizing & clubbing(Drinking) is just like liars(Lawyers) mode of relaxing...

Banging in the office is just a normal thing.

So, it is unfortunate the liar overstepped his boundaries.

Well, lemme make it clear that cultism is not good.

I pity the guy, that he finds himself into it...

It is possible he was charmed, drug or harassed to that point...

That night not be it started that day....If u have been harass by those cult guys with the intention to join them, u will understand.

If he was a member before now, it would not be that day of incitation that this incidence would have happen since he was a student before becoming a SUG President.

I want to believe, either the cult has been instrumental to his bidding at different time like paving way for him to become the SUG president.

Otherwise, he was threatened, forcefully or cajoled for backup needs and grant their supremacy through friends and colleague that brought him to their midst.

If his conscience is clear, let him fight for himself.... If not let him learn from that....or bring others to witness the carnival since they couldn't protect him....

Such a wasted years and effort derail .....

Na so NYSC corper and N-power become mate be DAT ohhh


PMB needs to increase N-power to #45,000 ohh...to balance level ohh...

Racoon:
Sudden NIMC woke up from it protracted inactivity of corruption.Give Nigerians their cards having registered many years ago mbok!

We need someone to fish out the corruption against Nigerians by NIMC. Someone name need to be drag into jail for corruption in that NIMC....

Every year funds are allocated by govt for this project but nothing to show for it than this useless thought of jail term by one stupid idiot at the top.

12Monkeys:
Waiting for Femi Adesina to warn Ananias Adeboye to stop playing politics

U just make me laugh....


Well, I am waiting for Adesina to insult PST Adeboye....then see reaction but I doubt if he will try that....


Remembered, the VP na RCCG Pastor...


But PST Adeboye ought to call the VP to speak on how and what is being done to tackle insecurity and see to how RCCG can help.

Pattypatt:
I'm sure she has someone outside she wanted to marry, spend 3m on a wedding and you misbehave, you must vomit my money

U said the fact about the issue....She has someone else she wants to marry not that guy....

femalecobra:
But in summary one thing I know
1. You are married to a lady who wants a friend and companion in a man not a bossy person. Someone who can allow her think n reason with u. You bring your idea and she brings hers and u reason together n male a logical conclusion.
Imposing yourself won’t work and that’s just the truth.
I am that type of lady too. “You can’t tell me to always DO your decision” you have to bring d logical analysis that led to ur idea...I may have mine and suggest and if after you advised and I do mine having considered both options ....I need you to respect my choice as a “human” not a compelled slave called “wife” that must do what you want” . After all, I would respect your choices so I expect you respect mine when the sometimes differ from yours.

But when I know it’s what u want that must work out, Then I feel I am dealing “with a bossy man” and I can’t stand it...hell cant...I would be miserable.
Why would I choose that for the rest of my life?
“Why would I want to choose submitting” to a man Dt “compels” submission for the rest of my life when I can choose to date a man that is a friend in a husband?

So if u wanna keep bossing ....as per I am the man!!!!...you must do as I say.....from the message I think there would be a problem....
Cus your kind woman no go gree

That cost me a relationship but I walked out of it. I cried. I loved him. But I couldn’t think of forever with a man that wants to “lord” “rule” “question my friendships or even cut my normal ties with male colleagues” simply because they are males etc on top of “marriage”. He too was in a haste like you that we married. But having seen people’s experience in life, I Was of the opinion we get to know each other....and I greatfull for that that I over stood my grounds on that.
I cried n wept but I know it’s the best choice of my life!!!

2. You love her more than she loves u. Why it’s true it’s good for a man to love a woman very well and sometimes they say even more than she loves him....you must be sure she at least has 70% of what u feel for her....else she would treat you anyhow ooo....except over time and experience she gets to see that u are a good guy and begin to value u.

3. No doubt she is quite rude. So sorry to say. Because that tone is not even one that would bring peace. Even if you are bossy to her...it’s not by her being bossy in addressing the issue that would solve it.
Her tone is not one of love....that is crying desperately for a bossy husband to stop as she can’t stand it anymore and would likely quit if he doesn’t.

How did u guys date for 5 years and not get to be friends
Or fully understand each other
Was it 5 years or 5 months?

I don’t know the solution ...what I can identify here though is the problem�

Well my solution is that if you want the marriage to work you would need to sacrifice more as it’s obvious you are the one that loves her more for you to have said the marriage be rushed.
Just ignore her rudeness, do what you are to do, play your role, Love and gentleness in most time calms a lady....our conscience tells us to act better as we get to know it’s only a man that loves us that has come so low to take our bullshit and we just get to know that we just have to treat him right over time.

But if you keep fighting same way with a loud mouthed lady...you won’t make progress...
Resentment would only just Set in deeper and deeper!!!

So the ball is in your court,
Is the marriage worth fighting for?

Just ignore her rudeness, do what you are to do, play your role, Love and gentleness in most time calms a lady.... (That is a fact that has been proven)

our conscience tells us to act better as we get to know it’s only a man that loves us that has come so low to take our bullshit and we just get to know that we just have to treat him right over time.....( That's the selfish part of the female folks, have u considered that vice versa)


U have really analysed the topic....Kudos to you.


The guy has lost...."Stop nursing a lady"....It is an investment with no returns...

The lady has someone else in mind for her to say that she was forced and her mother was the spokesperson for the guy tells that...

Just a bitter experience, he will learn from and teach others...

I just hope, it wasn't her show of force and strength that led her to sudden death...There is a difference between the devil (M) and evil (F).

That is what happens when some ladies do think, they are dare devil with their mouths... The evil that lives inside a man is the one with action that the devil doesn't dare herself.

No job is easy....From day one, the soldier boy knows the end point...So, the family should often summon courage to live after their lost one....No empathy can replace a lost one...,

This video is an evidence that the some of the armed men are out there to task civilians....

If one wont blame it on the forces....

Can govt take up their blames?

There is no professionalism about what their duties abound....

Frankyboy1:
Stop the entitlement mentality, he doesn't owe the guy an obligation to pick his calls, if the guy is talented, let his gift speak for him, and God doesn't necessarily use those you know or those you expect something from to help your cause, he uses the most unexpected avenue to pick your call, so guy hustle your hustle and forget olamide, he ain't God and must not be your destiny helper

Thou has speak some sense into the guy....

Officially approved.

theButterfly:
1. The girl is 15. "GIRL", not woman.
2. At 15, she's a child.
3. She's a relative of the wife's.

Idk what sort of useless discomfort the wife could possibly feel over buying the clothes for the girl who also happens to be a child and her own relative. I doubt OP is having any affair w/ her b/c this sounds like an innocent, non-threatening situation and it's not everybody that sleeps with their househelp. She should be the one to apologize to her husband for her dumb accusation and she should grow up b/c someone might end up maltreating her own kids the way she's doing with the girl. It's called karma.

Thank you for responding to TonyeBacanista...