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Lesson learnt :

She saw the sign and she runs...

I like that...

Not, like Busola who saw the signs of things to befall her.

Accept it either forcefully or consensual

Only to revert it as rape

From the story, who was abused here? The boy @ 17

Is it a crime? Yes.

Why didn't he report. He was benefitting from it.

If he called the lady out tomorrow for being a rapist.

Are we to accept his judgement? No.

Same goes to Busola & the MOG.

[quote author=PrettySleek post=79782170]Seduction doesn't count. If a lady seduces a man and they have sex who is to blame? Both of them. It's the same thing as a thief seeing something of value and getting tempted to steal. It's the same thing as every temptation we humans face. If you have sex with a woman because she seduced you, you are just morally weak. [/quote)

why it doesn't count? I don't agree with that.

U further said
If a lady seduces a man and they have sex who is to blame? Both of them

Only for you to contradict the same point by saying the below;
If you have sex with a woman because she seduced you, you are just morally weak.

Rape & Seduction find themselves into sex (Result)

If a man is morally strong, you think he won't.....That is why most of them fell into pastors hand cuz they believe pastors are morally strong (A symbol of morally strong)

morality is like attitude that you build up subject to force of change and environment.

If u study law , psychology or philosophy you will understand while some ideas or value are subject to unending dialogue.

Youngstar76:
Since all this whole time, why did Mrs Dakolo bring it to at this point??


Women are demons. Every one of them.

Looking for who to devour.

lilbest4:
Why should he step down?
So a woman can just wake up now and destroy a man's career in 40 sec without proof or evidence
What is wrong with these fools?

Something is wrong with her.

Wait till, other ladies dive ur husband into poo.

Is the church an assembly or committee of some sort of actress or celebs?

Ijobaorun:
Rape! Rape!! Rape!!! This seems to be the latest song Nigerian social media will be singing for the next couple of weeks.
As much as I am not that interested in the whole story, my point is if you are a rape victim (multiple times) for over ten years and you kept mute when you have every thing at your disposal to report your case, I must conclude that you are the real rapist and a criminal.

Not only that, she is a partner in crime, act of negligence and put herself in harm's way.

Zombiekiller010:
Have been wrongly accused of rape.

Let me share my story here.

When i was in my final semester in sch, there is one
ND1 pretty endowed lady(big ass) that used to catch my attention , i collected her number and we started talking and she accepted to date me, not up to a week, she came to know my hostel, i also went to visit her to know where she live outside campus, everything was going smoothly ,on my 2nd visitation to her, we smooch ,she is a churchy type (SU) telling me she is a virgin and not ready for premarital sex, been a guy with OT , i expressed my love to her and the reason why she need to open legs for me to boost our love, she lost herself in romance and we had our first sex ,no drop of blood, thou she is tight, on my 2nd visitation to her in the evening, it was already late and she told me to sleep over, we had our 2nd sex , we both enjoyed it and she told me how she has loved me more, on my 3rd visitation to her, i went with my 2 friends, she welcome us ,play and i took her out to buy her provisions, so the following week, i started writing my final semester exam, no time to call her like b4 and to visit her, she sent me messages expressing how much she miss me and needs to see me, shorty after i finished my exam for that day, i & my friend went to visit that my new endowed girlfriend , my friend went back to the hostel leaving me at my girlfriends place, after joking, lots to talks and romance, we had our 3rd sex, i went back to my hostel that evening relaxing outside on a bench, not up to 30min i got home,

I heard, this is the guy, a hot slap hit on my ear and push me down from bench, b4 i know whats happening, many guys has been beating me and stripped me to my boxer, i hold my balls and dick to protect it from getting hit and i was shouting for help cus i dont know those guys beating me ,i dont know what i did, many people gathered to watch , it was some elderly people in that street that came to rescue me from those guys , when one of those guys beating me switch on torch light to look at my face, he happens to be the guy i know and i do give him little change in street( he is a well know thug) . everybody was eager to know what have done to deserve the beating, those guys said it was a church brother to that my endowed girlfriend that raised alarm to them that i raped Bunmi, at this point,i was like which Bunmi, she stare at me and said i raped her, some guys started hitting me again, i was giving opportunity to talk, i showed them messages that Bunmi sent to me that same day expressing her love to me , i showed them proof that have once slept over at her room and this is our 3rd sex, Bunmi couldn't denied it cuz of the text messages i showed as evidence that we were dating, those thugs slapped her, hit and and tore her clothe, they started apologising to me and everybody that came to watch that scene started raising curse on Bunmi for accusing me wrongly, i know you'll want to know her reasons for accusing me of rapping her.

She said she felt bad for opening legs for me within 3 weeks that we meet , i also think she was dating her church member and they haven't had sex prior to the time i asked her out, seems they had issues b4 i met her and that reconcile on my 3rd visitation to her place , maybe she narrated her sex life with me to her church boyfriend , you know ladies always hide under rape to make them looks like they didn't consent to sex, Bunmi and her foolish sympathisers left in shame, police station is Opp her house, they asked her why she didn't went to report to police, as a poor boy i be then, no means to take up the matter legally but
Am still waiting for the best time to revenge.

Bunmi 2018 set of Office technology department OND @ the polytechnic Ibadan,living at Oluyole medical laboratory building sango ibadan opp police barack

back to the Issue of Fatoyinbo, he may truly had sex with Busola,been a married man and a Pastor, he is wrong if he is guilty,as for Busola Dakolo, you cant tell me a 17 years old girl is too young to resist sex back then, its like saying regina Daniel should come out in the next 10 years for accuse Ned Nwoko of raping her and forcefully marrying her if Ned later divorce her.

Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image.

Say no to jungle justice, Say no to rape , Say no to false accusation

Here lies the reason behind the issue "
Timi Dakolo had issues with that pastor and want to use his wife as a tool to tarnish his image".

Sir, u make remember how the whole thing stated.

Thanks...

Timi has been complaining but never said what went wrong. Before he called out the pastor being a rapist.

Sir, on ur own case, I don't there is way you can seek redress ohhh.... Just take the beating for experience cuz u don't have hole there... Rape in Nigeria law applies to female... Even if u win the case, what do think the judge will award u.. It won't be money... At the best, she go tender public apology in 2 newspaper.

As money is not awarded wetin u gain?...

It's only a guy that is yet to jam some rockie like the ones I have met.

Has a lady quarrell with you for not having sex with her?
In her voice, so u are keeping your thing.

Has a lady burst you inside ur own flat naked by pleading to pull up the zip at her back?

My own take in this drama... Is to legislate on SEDUCTION if rape is gonna exist.

That will bring balance to check the unlawful act we both condemn not to myopic.

PrettySleek:
This law has been in existence since 2004! No review since then. Nigeria is a confused country.

Well, the issue of legislation on SEDUCTION will better be on its own not to be enshrined under RAPE.

Praktikals:
I am not a fan of Fayose and his p. a, but who raped a girl in his mother's house when her older sibling is home.?

That is intriguing and funny.

Legislation of rape as a crime has taken another dimension.

Sexually molested, assaulted and abused, that can be welcomed.

The law has two face.

The word rape is still used in the place of marriage.
If rape mean unlawful, force or threat.

How come does a husband rape a wife when both are legally marriage?

If there has been some sort of force due to one party disinterest, how can it be resolved?

Cuz some wife also apply force on their husband either in demand for a child or sexual gratification?

Are we going to say the woman does wrong for applying force?

Some husband apply force either for sexual gratification, routine exercise or for demand to get another child.

Are we going to accuse the man wrongly for his actions by force?

This seems to be a psychological issue to manage as it applies to individuals family make up.... I dont think the law can be fair.

Not this days, that liars ( lawyers) & pervert (judges) realised that they are human being after falling into the same crime they rant on.

KubwaBoy:
Let's not have any unbiased believe nor hold on to what we have seen or heard before.
Objective analysis of this particular case looks like a consentual sex.

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GOFRONT:


Coza is really a church of celebrity...

The MOG has been accused of being a rapist by all sort of celeb... It tells that they are the gullible ones presenting themselves for encounter with the Man...


Meaning they seek for help from the same MOG, spiritual or physical need...

Hence they lost their senses, later to be aroused by emotional pain of the past to justify the present.

It won't work...

Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Yes Bro...

If rape is a crime... And u allow it peacefully..

Later to react.. It means u are partner in crime.

If the class of people being allegedly raped by thesame MOG are now celebrities & actresses now or then. It only further confirm that they are sex objects, gullible and a mediocre.

It happened to you, my friend experience the same....

It further confirm that the set of actress & celeb are just bunch of glorified prostitutes... As we all know what happened behind the scene among some of them.

Freestainworld:
my brother e make sense, he is a member of that organization and so should be questioned, it is called interrogation, not a bad thing, if he is innocent thanks to God , if he is guilty, he could be penalized.

How often has the AGN speak on behalf of their member facing allegations of drug trafficking?

nairalanduseles:
Be real how many men get raped or abused

Not quite much, but it happens

The thin line in justifying a rape is unlawful. Either by force or other means...

Same goes for women seduction on men to be unlawful.

Let there be legislation for seduction to balance things off... Don't be surprised, such bill will be attacked by most women... Because seduction has been consider as a weapon against men.

If the church request the service of policeman to spray them. Then they will remember that the case is of the court to decide.

Gullible fellows

oluwasegun007:
Please dear, forgive Bob... He has problems of his ow.

He can't n even identify his own gender.

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Abi ooo

nairalanduseles:
I stand with her too...no to violence against women

Fine....

I stand with " SAY NO VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN"

PrettySleek:
Under the Criminal Code of Nigeria, Rape is defined, as having unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman or girl, without her consent, or with her consent, if the consent is obtained by force or by means of threats or intimidation of any kind, or by fear of harm, or by means of false act, or, in case of a married woman, be personating her husband.
Rape can happen to anyone, please protect your love ones.
It doesn't matter how long it takes for someone to open up, what matters is that the person has the courage to speak out so that healing can start.

The instance of rape was passed one sided in favor of the women folks. Men are also being seduce unlawful. There's a need to legislate on SEDUCTION to balance things off as it will help both gender to refrain from UNLAWFUL ACT since that's the problem.

Charmingrascal:
My prayer is for Fatoyinbo to sue Busola

I believe when he is eventually pushed to do so by his sheeples more women who are victims of his sexual immoralities will have the courage to testify against him.


I am very sure that wherever he is now he will be remorseful and asking himself why he has allowed his John Thomas to be more active than his sense of reasoning


Any man supporting a rapist may ur daughter and sister be raped
Any lady supporting a rapist may u be raped by three uncircumcised men. Amen

Then be the first to say A big Amen to this

Any man supporting a seductive lady, may ur daughter and sister be raped
Any lady supporting a seductive lady, may u be raped by three uncircumcised men. Amen[

Going with the crowd doesn't justify the situation.

The socialite or celebrities calling for support are just bed of same feather in the same industry. She is one of them, so one can understand the level of support she received on the rape story.

Engrjj:
The support Busola is getting so far shows that Biodun is not clean.

But one thing I know is that, whatever your crime is you will surely have some people that will support you so don't be surprise wen people also stand up for Biodun Fatoyinbo.


By the way, what's the meaning of Fatoyinbo?

You see the issue of rape story will become meaningful when legislation on seduction can be passed... Trust me, such bill will be attack by most women cuz they know it's their weapon.... Then there will be restrained for false allegations herein...

studentofTruth:
It's your duty to shun them. No excuse for crime. I have been in situations where underaged fully matured girls were looking for what's beyond them, and I never give them the slightest of chance. I shun them immediately. It makes me appear hash at times, but that has always saved me from nonsense accusations.
It's a crime for an adult to have a sexual encounter with a 17 years and 11 months old girl, even though some of them may look fully mature.

The case with this man is the age of the girl then. If she's 17, it doesn't matter if it's she that seduced him.

Okay , tell us why it doesn't matter when a lady seduce their male counterpart? Not a crime?

I don't need to ask how many u have shun when situation of sexual temptation from ladies... U are yet to jam a Rockie.

Congrats that u survive it many times....

To those who doesn't survive it.... What do u have for them.... Uhmmm.... Like they ain't man enough right...

Tonnierichy:
For me, I believe this story. A woman of her status cannot make a rape story up. She has a lot to lose. I think the most painful thing is not the rape. I think what made her come out now is the fact that this guy is just going about his ministry like nothing happened. It hurts that way. Seeing people still following him and calling him a man of God must really be breaking her heart.


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All those miscreants trying so hard to defend this man and all those asking her to go to court are potential rapists. You are same as him. Dogs in human skin

Hai Man, you mean the lady is hurt cuz of " fact that this guy is just going about his ministry like nothing happened "

That also explained her motive has been negative. She staged it to hurt the man, cripple his ministry. But she won't succeed.

Can't you analyse a single story... Be logical for one... Pull down the emotional factor u have for glorified prostitute presenting her story.

The mere reason for her intention to speak now according to she can't live with it being raped while the victims is alive and successful.

Maybe she felt her own beauty queen differ from acknowledged prostitute to be dignified at Govt house.

Beauty Queen, Actress and Prostitute are liable to be glorified with rape incident as their story growing up... Read about them...

There's a need to legislate on seduction... Rape crime has been one sided... In favor of female...

"who can’t suppress emotion in preference to logic "

I hope people can borrow sense from the above.

If her story sail through.

Then men who are victim of rape and seduction will need to come out.

Is like there will be a need to legislate on seduction.

Then, men can truly defend themselves too.

As rape instance has been one sided.... to victimse males

Can Busola claim that the MOG deflowered her?

Can she further claim that all she did consciously is within the confinement of being a member alone?

Can she claim there is no plan to seduce the MOG?

What was her problem-seeking solution that got her that closeness to the point she claim to be raped by the same MOG?

For me, there's no need for video to recall the past?... Once she can answer such questions... We can discover the fact of her claims.

For now, she got served only to discovered it is a man of God.

Kylekent59:
This news about the COZA pastor is going viral.

But I believe by next week it would be a news of the past, forgotten and dusted.

There is no voice on social media, it's just like being in a negative time frame voicing, without it affecting the positive / real time frame.

I wasn't there when the incident took place, why should I believe without hearing from the accused.

To all ladies out there, the only way to bring a man down is by saying, " he raped me"


and people will believe. Very easy be it true/false.

It is one of several ways to bring a man down also thesame way to shame the woman folks... Put her nude video out after sex...

kolafolabi:
See who's talking self.. You abandoned your wife and went for another woman.. Birds of the same feather

Believe me, I haven't check on that Daniel... Bla... Blaa... marital status but I assume his marriage can't be intact.....and to my amazement you burst him out.

Busola is just taking advantage of being a rape victim when disagreement ensued among them.

If I am to ask her what is her intention for raising the issue now?

Gulher:
my own is that it is unacceptable for a man of God to be this worldly inclined! TF is all this designer and sleek dressing about?! He is the one making all the church ladies fall for him. How will the congregation be in the spirit when Pastor is wearing so much swag. Jeez..

I got ur point... For, those who haven't gone through sexual temptation from ladies will be myopic in the instance of rape.

Imagine the no of gullible ladies around you first not to talk of such MOG seeking one form of help to another.

Some of them will play mind games or confront you with sexual temptation. Putting themselves in harms the way... Later to be claiming been a victim seeking redress.