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Kobojunkie:
Stop using God's name to judge that which you have little to no understanding of. They are separated and maybe even divorced... it is not the end of the world.

The God you mentioned did not classify divorce as the unforgivable sin meaning that like the sin of lying which many of you engage in regularly without cleaning mouth, God can forgive whatever fault there may exists in a divorce and remember even that sin no more.

Read to understand... Nothing is offensive in the write up. However, divorce according to the Bible is permitted in case of adultery... Paul in his teachings also pointed out situation where and if you can marry an unbeliever. Meanwhile, . I dont know where you have seen "some of you that were telling lies" ... You mean, you are a liar...

Truflame:
No online business is bad if you're ready to follow the lay down rules.

Most people are not patient to learn the rudiment of online business.

Online business is not a ponzi scheme(MMM) that will tell you to invest #10,000 to get #20,000.

Learn to do online business rightfully.

So, MMM is offline business?

Who put the sperm that becomes pregnancy there? Is it by magic? Thank GOD, it is your wife and not a side chick or girl friend. You don't need to be told what to do when you impregnate your wife. What do you want when you copulate and release sperm in your wifes' vagina, if not pregnancy?

Wittyduchess:
Lol.

He will soon cry racism .If dem don do bad finish dem go dey hide under discrimination and racism.

That is a result and consequence of night out. She even entered the car willing. Ijakumo kirin losan, eni abire kan kirin loru. Night out and night party. What does the Bible says when you walk at night?

Why would you be joking? You wanted to see so you can believe and there are so many things she would want to see before she believe too. Though love is trustful... But that could also make you to love and trust her more... Meanwhile, DNA test would include some sort of genotype and blood group test which is essential for the children to have and know...

Beebah2000:
You sef, you know say u no fit wife her, but you continue the relationship because you wan knack free pússy.
Chai!!! Why are you guys so wicked?
If person do your sister, you go like am?
NO!!!
Your fellow guys go support you na because Una brain dey inside Una balls.
Mtchewww.

Reasonable.

harqinhola:
blah Blah Blah ! And she's good enough for u to Bleep ?? God purnish u my brother ..

Why not? The two of them I think... Don't they know fornication is a sin?

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

But your profile speak about living for JESUS CHRIST. Are you no more living 4 JESUS CHRIST? U have forgotten that " man shall not live by bread alone" Why did u got seperated firstly? U better come out of seperation if u can't hold ur body.U can't remarry unless u are a widow probably not up 2 60years old(Paul Advice). If u truly fear GOD,it should begin 2 give u wisdom. Refrain from worldly thought&fast timely.

That is some of the things that can happen when kate do not date her mate even if she date her mate she can't date her soulmate. That is one of the things that would happen when you date for dates and because of the plate and crate of dates. Date is not your mate and it is what you should hate with aggravate or aggravate with hate. The rate at which kate date this days is to be hate. It is not your fate, it is because you date a pirate that is not your mate. Thank GOD you are not late. Next time you would not date and if you date, you would date a primate that is your mate and not a pirate that is not your mate let alone your soulmate. Why would you visit someone you are dating at home let alone bath in his house. You are responsible for your ordeal and adversity if I may say. Even in the university and after you have finished university, you are not free from adversity. Imagine a 22years old lady dating a 38 years old man. 16years difference... Hmmm.

grad2012:
I don't pray rape for my worst enemy, it destroys emotionally, physically and psychologically. It takes God almighty to heal such situation.
Thank God for her life, she is truly a strong woman.

What is your prayer about fornication and adultery?

Try me&I won't hurt your heart let alone break your heart. Only if you have interest.

Who you help?

Where is fernadezisback? How many month did the woman used to carry the girl pregnancy in her womb... Maybe the girl pregnancy was by rape or adultery...

Ezemarcel:
that advice you asked him to avoid is what is putting food on my table

When you hear about something especially in a random post ....all you do is to do your own research

That it is putting food on your table does not means it is durable and reliable. Human being are not durable and reliable let alone robot. It would end as a premium and sophisticated scam...

Victorious12:
Before you open your mouth
Use ur brains

Hahahahaha ... How can you open your mouth when your brain is not working?

Victorious12:
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Dm me for proof

Hahahaha scamming + fraud= ?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah absolutely nothing..you don't have a problem with that do you?

Get out of here. You can't have eternal life when you are having carnal and anal life. We don't know who you are... Whatever you are... You know what is good to be...

drimzsmoke:
She can change really but not Jesus,lolz
If the guy learns to make love like a lady,the girl will change,I have seen it before...In all these female-female sex,both parties are satisfied at the end of the day.You can't say the same for heterosexual couples

Fire

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality....

Common, get out! Are you are a pagan or homosexual that you ignore or refuse to admit that homosexual is evil and devilish... You might as well have seen female to female and male to male animal (like dog, hen and cock) copulation and approve it...

Aguodo:
I really don't know why some behave like that. What does she do with her money? They prefer to answer widow and begin to whip sentiments and perhaps pity from the public. That's the time they will know that at times two is better than one.
We know things are getting harsher by the day, but common sense should tell her that this calls for dialogue with a peaceful mind instead of throwing tantrums.
Please my brother add small thing say 10k to the upkeep money just for your dear life. My worry is that you just started biz and trying to stand. Do your best. This same issue is what my friend just complained about yesterday. Woman are almost same. I give mine 140k/month even with me doing bulk purchases for the family of 6, in fact I buy things already included in the 140k,yet she complains. No be only you dey the shoe bro.
Find happiness.

See danger o 2× wahala dey. You don marry scary mary wey u no fit carry... Anyway, if JESUS tarry, ur mary fit be... seminary

Thinktwicemybro:
You are wrong. Your are obviously not married. The problem is the man. 50k a month is average of 6k every market day. That cannot feed a family of 4 when you have to buy rice, oil, grandnut oil and beans out of it.

Why I say the man is at fault?

He should not make his wife a full time house wife. He should open business for her. If what's the business brings a month is 30k profit for instance, that will make the total 80k and she won't complain again.

A man should not complain when they make their wife full time house wife, except she is lazy and refuse to work, then the man can complain.

O Man...D wife is working...He also buys bags of rice everytime it finish...D problem was caused by d man...U shd not marry without agreement on how&what u&ur wife would carry.U dont discuss that after marriage...Well, pple are marrying 4 various reasons with different mentality.D victims' marriage was not built on CHRIST d solid rock...Marry who u can carry...

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

O man... What d victim(husband) is giving 2 her wife is manageable & reasonable.The wife can assist with her own money 2 compliment d husband. Imagine giving 50000 just 4 food per/month- the wife can compliment it with 15000-20000. Imagine other expenses man would always come across including daily #1000 4 wifes' transport fare. Cut ur cloth according 2 ur size&available material... There is no need 2 buy d cloth let alone cut it if or when d available material is not up 2 ur size. Manage ur marriage dont damage it.But y marry without talking abt how&what Harry(H)&Mary(W) wud carry?

I don't know why you would allow her to be sitting on your lap- allowing someone who is opening her breast and lap to seduces you into sexual immorality is like you are consenting to her evil plan and giving her a go ahead. You don't play with devil and evil, you flee from them... A 4years old girl should not be allow to sit on a 4years old boy lap let alone a teenage girl atleast sitting on a young mans' lap... That is uncalled for... Avoid story like a 30 years old man rape a 5 years old girl... You would be hearing of sexual assualt if the op is a female...

We don't know her age and how old you take senior her? We don't know if you are married and married with children? We don't know what and why she is living with you and for how long would she continue to living with you. Answer all those questions... Meanwhile, if you can't kill what wants to kill you, you must chase away what wants to kill you or escape to where you cant be seen let alone be kill. What want to kill you may come again looking for you after chasing away so make sure you cage what want to kill you where it cannot escape and where it, he or she would kill itself, himself or herself at any attempt to escape. Meanwhile, you can tell the parent of your cousin that she is exploring youthful exuberance &there is no assurance of repentance- tell them that she is not dressing in moral, decent and modest way and all your effort to correct and change her is in futility. Tell them to talk to her or you may find it impossible to be living with her. Snap some of her indecent dressing pictures as evidence...

The main issue to solve and attend to is how to get yourself a gainful and sustainable job to fend and maintain your family; it is not the emotionally guiltiness of your wife. Your wife would be happy and be normal when you get a gainful and sustainable job...

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady I love so much.

We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom.

Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened.

My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment. She and my father are separated.

One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me, treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her.

On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

... If nothing happened because of your girlfriend like your mom claimed and alleged and you have prayed about your girlfriend... Marry the girl of course... You mum won't be married to you... The girl must be ready faithfully and with unwavering loyalty to journey with you regardless of upcoming and unforseen circumstances and challenges...

Fool and foolish.

It is difficult and almost impossible to say that people are getting married because they love each other... Love is probably the last thing why people are getting married... As much as there were Adam and Eve... You would always see male and female coming together or close to each other... If you consider me interesting or if I interest you, I can be your Godly internet friend.

Stay or keep quiet. U don't love him, u love his money. Mac, Iphone... The love of money is the root of all evil. Men, money&sex is probably the biggest, inimical & dangerous problem of women. I wonder why peoples' desire is to be sinning. U are not ready 4 marriage so don't date let alone fornicate- this is human nature &they always want pleasure of all nature. They can hardly or rarely overcome sexual urge, desire&pleasure... Apart from offering him uncountable & maranthon sex, what have u done to him & for him because u love him? What has he done 4 u too because he loves u, aside sexual intercourse, giving u money&gifts... Stop making thread about boyfriend& girlfriend when u obviously need GOD as friend. U keep making sinful, sinner & sexual predators as boyfriend... Kai u are not created 4 that not 4 premarital sex. My advice is that you should end dating&sexual relationship with all men until u are financially,mentally,morally,emotionally,spiritually... ready 2 marry.U dont love, u are lost in lust.

Toktee:
She carried you in her womb foe 9months, went through stress while the pregn9 last.... Gone through agonising pain to bring you to this world, took created of you through out your child hood only to call her LovePeddler. May God help you.

I must say this... It was her that carried him... It wasnt by force... Women would always open their private part for men to put something there... The pregnancy was not by magic or force ... It was by consent and will. Most pregnancy are not through rape some are through fornication and adultery. We can as well talk about marital pregnancy which is lawful or moral. Who are to blame for women pregnancy? GOD? You should blame the men and women for nancy pregnancy and nancy unwanted pregnancy. What of the pregnancy that nancy has aborted? How many months or days did she uses to carry such pregnancy? Maybe it is nancy that fancy pregnancy and infancy... No discrepancy... Is it fallacy?

[quote author=FERNANDEZISBACK post=111083484][i]After calling the woman who held you for 9months a b""t"h?
Ooh what was expected of you to do before..?
Leave her with her ailment..I wonder how most of you think to be sincere..

I saw the thread and laughed off..so this is the boy always chanting wannabe redpiller all over the place..this is the

You didn't help her..you posted it here..and the mods helped you to push it to fp for their traffic and you thought that made you popular?


So what were you expecting people to do.. thank you for helping your own mother
@Fernadesisback Don't let your love for women becloud you from providing logical and unbias submission and plight. Op said he was molested by a woman, traumatized mentally, socially,etc... You can have a better reaction... People are evil anyway&you may do more than that if it's you. Nothing new under the sun. Like I read recently about a mother who lured her teenage son to impregnated her because she can't get pregnant for her new husband...