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Op dis one na small matter na. Trust a wife 100% is like hoping that buhari would perform wonder over night, this is something that we all know that it can never be possible.
I only blame d husband and he deserved what he got. U don't fight your fellow man bcs of your wife infidelity and u don't make trouble with your wife bcs of her infidelity.
Dis life no hard na, waiting baba for do na just mak she enter motor and drop her for her papa compound and life goes on.
Pikin no bi your own
Wife dey Bleep around
Head dun get k-leg
Wife SS too. How could one even get married to a woman that has SS is still one of d wonders of d millennium.

A girl wey gather moral follow man elope u dey here dey disturb person. I hv dis feelings that d father no dey stay with them.
Oga giving birth to girl child is very very risky and dangerous, if girl child wan go wild ehhh, she no dey think twice before she go wild. Also dis your concern get k-leg ohhhhhh. I will never ever birth a girl child in dis my lifetime.

ThothHermes:
Your darling daddy is doing well.
Zombie

LAST TIME I VISITED HIS Meat stand, it was a deserted area, all thanks to his useless darling daddy

post=114230110:
God help all married women and men in the house.

Na amadioha go help. So finally, no more 30k BMC? Inside life.
D last time we came to ur stand, everywhere was dry and empty. U see your life

Una think na naija wey bi say we hv useless supporters and useless judiciary. Every politician go collect directly or indirectly. Today na ekweremadu. morrow go bi another person

Vavulence go reach everywhere. If na east dem shot dem go tag am ipob/UGM and fools go believe dem. Now en dun happen for another region, waiting dem go call d innocent boy wey dem kpai? Maybe dem go call am militant.
Yesterday na so headsmen kpai guy for badagry nobody talk about am again. Vavulenceeeeee go reach everywhere

I'm not a Saint but something is definitely wrong with OLUWOLE people.
From druggie
To Adeleke

Down to d current CJN

Op u should be happy that u didn't bring the child to dis world when u weren't ready.
We hv boko Haram in d north
We hv UGM in d East
We hv agberos, touts thugs and skull Minera in d West
We hv cultist and kidnappers in d S. South
All these are d handwork of breeding children when u are not ready.
U were suppose to be 18-19 years then, so tell me what a 19 year guy knows about fathering a child. Just thank your stars

This is one of d dangers of Muslim-Muslim ticket would cause

Op, u wan continue d circle of poverty and rat race.
Instead of your parents to erect structure for u, why not use d money and startup something. If only transport to work could take 50% of your earnings, I wonder how much u would be having as savings.
Op right now,marriage is not your thing,if going by what u are earning and spending

frozen70:
Don't call me dear because you don't even understand the meaning

Ohhhh, it's all good dearest, I will always call u dear bcs I don't hv anything against u nor any other person on this forum. I hv had an encounter with many members of dis forum and they can attest that I'm just a simple entity out their, just that d way most of u comment on issues regards to family affair is my major concern.
Who knows, I might hv come across u offline dear.

frozen70:
Am elder that reasons like a Premature adult

U don't expect me to dance to d follish tone dear. When I see foolish comment I do know

When nollywood was nollywood, not now that we hv slayqueenwood

Gracepikin33333:
I asked my mum not to invade my marriage privacy, am i being rude?

All these small pikin wey no no waiting dey sup for street. Ur mama wan save u from one daughter of eve u put for house, now d daughter of eve warn u not to tell your mama waiting dey xup and u cum gather liver dey warn your mama. While u no fit grab moral caution your wife

NOETHNICITY:
Bro you understand my fears. Perfectly. This is women for you

That means u really hv to work on your fears. U see in this life ehhh, there are questions I do ask myself. Life is not certain, to live is not certain and I'm sorry to say that your wife is d type that would remarry immediately after demise of d husband and leave d children to suffer.
At dis point in time, u hv to hv a reflection about life and humanity

Avast:
Boss I am laughing here because of your questions. If you like date a girl for 10yrs, you would only know what she wants you to know. Women tend to show their true colour after marriage, it now depends on how you handle the situation. You need to be fully matured mentally and financially before you go into marriage bro.

D raw truth in all these wahala narrows down to d man. To handle a woman, u need small atom of madness in u. When u are too sissy where women dey, na when u dey give Dem power.
Do to d nature of my hustle, I do go to pharmacies wella, one of d days a man came to buy drugs for his child, suddenly, d wife appeared from nowhere. D wife requested for her own drugs or so, d man told told d sales person not to gv her d drug (I think, it was an antimalaria and typhoid or so).
When d man finished paying, and was about to leave, d sales guy requested money for madam drugs, d man told d sales guy to collect it from d wife, d wife had to drop d drug.
What I'm trying to say is that, na hand wey u gv woman, na same hand she go dey follow u with. OP contributed to what he is facing.

Ndidi2:
is an achievement o..
Men always think they are wise..

Men are actually the weak vessel.


Having children is good at least when u grow very old u will have someone to care for u..

I am just imagining my dad who l know to jump the stairs few years ago is no longer active,
How he will be cooking and no body to check on him and all the relative will be minding their business.
Will he now go and bring houseboy or nanny that will strangle him or poison him?

Benefits de marriage and having children no matter what.
If u don't see it now ua strong.
When u eventually realize it might be late

U are just talking about 2 different things all together. Marriage is different from having a child sir

Mindlog:
From my perception here, it seems many are cold towards surrogacy......why?

Well, from my own observations and understanding, i think d factor below are d reason
1. Poverty: Those that knows about surrogacy does not hv money to follow that root
2. Some are unaware: Those that has d money to follow d root are not enlightened about surrogacy
3. Culture
4. Family factor

frozen70:
You need to grow up and add more sense to how you respond to people's comments with courtesy

I am an elder, i say things d way it is without mincing words. U started well and ended up with stupid comment

tensazangetsu20:
The worst is when kids are involved. Kids won't be going to school or eating for no fault of theirs. You live in a country with no social contract and you are birthing like an slowpoke.

As in ehhhhh, just that we take things for granted in dis godamn country, if not I don't see reason why a struggling should be thinking about marriage

lordally:
And I'm very sure na the Baba even help the wife get the job self.... Kai nawa ooo

Last last wetin come happen??

My brother na so life of daughters of eve is. Plenty talk dey but I no wan cause vavulence

helinues:
Sometimes, ladies don't just want to spend their money.

You no get female sisters wey go sometimes ask you for money for ridiculous things. I will be like, are you telling you don't have money to get this except you ask me

So finally, 30k BMC no dey drop again? Inside life. What goes around comes around. So u dun finish d 30k BMC dem dey gv u

helinues:
You see, that's the difference between Obi's supporters and Tinubu's supporters.

Even though the Tinubu's supporters over do things before the primary but they have been called to order and behave maturely.

Same can never be said about Obi's supporters who claimed to be Obidient but Toxident instead

My guy, u dun miss this one, just manage d 30k wey dem dey dash una

Cantonese:
Not just stupid, but irredeemably foolish.

una get time for that beggy beggy

mamaafrik:
these are the strategies north uses to keep up that high voting power ,i was expecting similar strategies in the south.
religion centre pvc centres,schools,Filling stations,banks,parks and garages would have given the south an overwhelming edge but iro,the southern leaders are sleeping.
we need to push for e-voting in order to use reflect our urge,educated population.
north is not more populous at they are making it seem,check other statistical data like NIN,SIM registration etc

No bi Lagos here wey come people wan register, una people turn am to agbero fight.

Scientists:
I don't believe in Divorce. That's the problem.

Then be ready to join team "yaba left' or be ready to join your ancestors.

Mindlog:
OP says he doesn't want to have anything to do with women, let him meet a fertility clinic and settle them and they would arrange a surrogate mother for him and the insemination, once baby is born....he takes custody to cater for or hand over to his mother, so the need for one of daughter of eve in the form of a wife or baby mama is eliminated.

Now u gat d point sister.

tensazangetsu20:
This happened to my favorite uncle. 350k salary and he rushed to marry now they laid off and they have been suffering like mad. The thing makes me fear and dread that institution. If suffering wants to come I should face it alone abeg.

As simple as ABC, is better one suffer alone than suffer with 2 or 3 people all in d name of marriage.

Evolutionlove:
Women and Marriage are like Bread and Butter. Nonsense..

My man, u dey see am so? Look at all their comments above and see how foolish they are.
Non even asked some question but they hv being shouting as if marriage is life time achievement.

Mariangeles:
So, why don't you guys just save yourselves the stress, instead of looking for someone to release all your frustrations into?

U hv being sounding like somebody just got betrayed and in d process aborted a child.