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[quote author=BABE! link=topic=761896.msg9173324#msg9173324 date=1316385548]You're kinda wrong my friend. Yall are just throwing the word "ugly" around anyhow.   Wowo get levels.

An Ugly person will always be ugly.   The highest your money can do is to "make her face fresh" (pimple-free and glowing skin). Packing make-up on her face will probably help, but at the end of the day, it's only temporary.

These village girls you're talking about have always been beautiful. The make-up is only "enhancing" their beauty. [/quote]Hey my friend, except that woman has a major deformity, she can be beautiful. It is a medical fact.


Check out Ronaldinho before his tooth surgery and compare with his recent picture.


The first time i met Matse Uwatse( 95.1 WAZOBIA FM) to me she is ugly,  but today the picture is different.

Some women just need little touching, and they will look better.

segedoo:
Ever read "Taming the shrew" ?

if you're ugly, that's it. Manners were meant to be learnt that's why no one was born with it!

Not true,

I can show you pictures of ugly women turned beauty.

So it is possible for an ugly women to become beautiful, except she has a major deformity.

But you can never change the manner/behavior/attitude of a grown woman.

She might pretend to adjust for a while, but she will always go back to her old ways.

That is way married peeps always complain about their partners, because they fail to see the real/original person.

Sacarstic:
No matter the grievance on the part of the woman 15yrs is too much to stay away from her matrimonial home that has produced 4 children. The man should proceed to get married, I am just annoyed why the man brought God into this issue, may be just lack of self confidence to confront his fears.

correct.

He does not need to bring GOD into the issue.

The case is "slam dung" for a good lawyer.

Princek12:
I will choose a beautiful ill-mannered lady anyday over an ugly duckling who has manners. You can at least mold the beautiful lady into a well-mannered lady, but you cannot mold that ugly-duckling into beautiful lady. Besides, what guarantees that the ugly lady will not change her manners once you get married. With a beautiful lady, at least you have some eye candy to look at, and you don't have to pop viagra to get excited when it is time to get to business. With an ugly lady, you will probably have to take an overdose of viagra or think about a beautiful lady just to get your "Uncle John" to stand at attention.


Ugly women spoil your mood, bring you bad luck, and for me it is not just worth the stress. That is why so many Nigerian men who marry all these ugly Naija chicks because they cook efo riro and jollof rice cheat at an unreasonable rate, as they are out there looking for a beautiful woman with whom to have a good time. If you have a beautiful woman at home, you don't have to be constantly in the streets. All my friends who married ugly girls are always at nightclubs looking for a fine akata chick; just all the ones who married beautiful women always want to stay at home, claiming there is nothing out there in the streets. I will die a bachelor than marry an ugly woman. God forbid bad thing.

You are wrong my friend.

You can change the looks of a women(if you have money), but you can never change a woman's manner.

I have seen ugly women turn beauty its all about good make-up and carriage.

Come to Lagos and see ugly village girls turn beauty queen.

So i will good for An Ugly woman With Perfect Manners.

Na small money i go spend to tosh am up.

sleekch1c:
Very daft posts,
Typical of nigerians to think tru their anus.did U̶̲̥̅̊ ever wonder ♈ a woman wld leave her home like dat?is it very common for a woman to leave her family like dat?do U̶̲̥̅̊ ever wonder that d man was abusing her?wat if he was making her do horrible things?do nigerians ever think outside the box?all U̶̲̥̅̊ do is cast stones on d woman without knowing her reason, ape mentality, may God help nigerians!

daft one with ape mentality!

If she was abused by her husband why didn't she go to court and get a divorce.

She was even invited by the court, yes she stayed away.

Since she is enjoying her 15years leave, she can also kiss the marriage goodbye.

President Jonathan hails Hyundai decision to build multi-billion dollar shipyard at Brass
Sep 15, 2011, 17:40

President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan has said that his administration will continue to vigorously implement socio-economic and security reforms that will encourage more foreign investors to come to Nigeria.

Speaking at an audience with Mr. Jai-Seong Lee, the President and Chief Executive Officer of Hyundai Heavy Industries of South Korea, at the State House on Thursday, September 15, President Jonathan said that the Federal Government fully realizes the importance of greater foreign investment for Nigeria’s efforts to generate more employment for its youthful population.

The President said that his administration will, therefore, continue to do everything possible to attract more investors to labour-intensive sectors of the Nigerian economy.

He welcomed the decision by Hyundai Heavy Industries to establish a multi-billion dollar shipyard at Brass, Bayelsa state, noting that its completion next year will significantly boost Nigeria’s economic development and create plenty of jobs for the local population.

“Hyundai has a long-standing relationship with Nigeria. You have always played a key role in our economy, especially our oil industry. We appreciate what you have done and are elated by your latest investment in the Shipyard at Brass,” President Jonathan told Mr. Lee.

He assured him that relevant government ministries and agencies will give Hyundai all necessary support to ensure that the shipyard is completed on schedule.

Mr. Lee was accompanied by the Bayelsa State Governor, Chief Timipre Sylva and other Hyundai executives.

He told the President that on completion, the first phase of the Brass Shipyard will provide employment for at least 2,000 Nigerians.

http://www.nigeriafirst.org/article_11406.shtml

Hyundai statement

Hyundai Heavy says not building Nigerian shipyard
Associated Press, 09.16.11, 07:03 AM EDT  

SEOUL, South Korea -- Hyundai Heavy Industries Co. is denying a statement from Nigeria's presidential office that it plans to build a multibillion dollar shipyard in the country.

Hyundai Heavy spokesman Kim Moon-ju said Friday that the company has no such plan.
A statement late Thursday from President Goodluck Jonathan's office said the shipyard would be built in Brass in Bayelsa state, his home region.

Kim said that Hyundai Heavy President Lee Jai-seong made no such comment during a trip to the country. Kim said the company is building a small pipe-manufacturing factory in Bayelsa.

Nigeria, Africa's most populous nation, faces crushing unemployment and poverty. The government has promised other projects in the past that failed to materialize.

http://www.forbes.com/feeds/ap/2011/09/16/business-as-skorea-nigeria_8683341.html

Abati spin master.

Jonathan Responds: “South Korea’s Hyundai Heavy Says Not Building Nigerian Shipyard”

September 17, 2011 - 20:20 — siteadmin


My attention has been drawn to a story in today’s edition of the online version of The Washington Post  entitled “South Korea’s Hyundai Heavy says not building Nigerian Shipyard”. It is therefore pertinent to clarify the following:

1.   The President of Hyundai Heavy was accompanied to the Aso Rock Presidential Villa on a courtesy call on President Goodluck Jonathan by the Governor of Bayelsa state and a consultant to Hyundai Heavy,  Otunba Ayo Oduntan.

2.   The Governor of Bayelsa as well as the consultant for the project spoke on behalf of the President of Hyundai Heavy who subsequently made a short speech.

3.   The Governor and the project consultant spoke of a multi-billion dollar ship yard and presented a prototype of the proposed project to President Jonathan. Since they made these statements in the presence of the Hyundai Heavy officials, who did not rebut them, the President and his aides present had no reason to disbelieve them.

 4.  The President of Hyundai Heavy Industries himself later gave an interview while still within the Presidential villa to a Reuters correspondent and affirmed the statement made by the Governor and chief Ayo Oduntan as follows "My company is going to (sic) $7billion dollars in Nigeria in the building of a shipyard" (see http://af.reuters.com/article/investingNews/idAFJOE78E0LU20110915)

In conclusion, it is wrong and indeed mischievous to have quoted the President or his office as the author of the statement that Hyundai Heavy planned to build a multi-billion dollar ship yard. These statements were the reported statements of the Governor of Bayelsa State and the project consultant who were responsible for bringing the President of Hyundai Heavy Industries to pay a courtesy call on President Jonathan.

I trust that this clarification will put to rest any issues arising from this matter as the Federal Republic of Nigeria and President Goodluck  Jonathan are desirous of opening up Nigeria to genuine Foreign Direct Investment and welcome any investment that Hyundai Heavy Industries decides to make in Nigeria.

Dr. Reuben Abati,

Special Adviser to the President

(Media and Publicity)


http://mobile.saharareporters.com/news-page/jonathan-responds-“south-korea’s-hyundai-heavy-says-not-building-nigerian-shipyard”

So who is lying.

@beaf

You need to go back to JOE TRIPI, because you folks no sabi lie at all.

@Beaf

Lagos is not ABIA were you discriminate against non-indigenes  including IGBOs.

Every Yoruba man is welcomed in the SW states.

rokiatu:
Seriously how could you say such?

I am pretty sure this is coming from their heart.

Did you see the Pictures of MJ's memorial, most of the Hollywood stars wore black and no showing off.

But trust Nigerians they use every opportunity to show off.

Every occasion has its own code.

evamathis:
My point exactly,
its so-called christians that are going about killing muslims all around
I will never call those people christians because we should not commit murder in any way ,shape or form.
self-defense is totally different from pre-meditated murder!

I see that you people are quick to spin thing around.

So Christians are the ones, doing the bombing.

Christians are the ones running BH.

What that Pastor said is 100% correct.

That CALIPHATE sees Nigeria as their personal entity.

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=761673.msg9167933#msg9167933 date=1316299635]Is it not this same God who ordered King Saul to murder innocent women and children and animals? And later punished the latter for chosing to spare some of the creatures he was ordered to obliterate? I do not have proof whether or not God told the pastor to behave as such, but I do not put it past God. That Man has done worse. Na today?[/quote]Ogbeni, lets not make this issue about God.

I don't see any thing wrong in that man's action.

The Wife ran away for 15 years, refuse to appear in court, what else do want the man to do.

He should just divorce her simple.

He shouldn't bring GOD into this issue, at all.

His actions are OK.

N101:
We've only heard one side of the story.  The children are against the marriage.  There is more to this than the wife supposedly abandoning him for 15 years.

What other story are you looking for, wasn't the exiled wife served hearing notice?

Why didn't she appear in court, after-all shes not dead.

God or no God, that marriage no longer exit.

The should be allowed to remarry after proper divorce.

15 years is too much.

This Yusuf family has bougth into the deal presented to them by the master planner Obj and the family is about calling an all Yusuf faithful to lay down arms and embrace peace immediately the govt. Settles them because if u like it or not that Yusuf guy killing with out fair hearing is contrary to the law of the land and these useless boko haram jst cashed in on it and now the family wish ther wants the outside world to beleive ther are figthing for is about calling for a peace meeting and these politicians did not want it.or is about calling for a peace meeting and these politicians did not want it.

Some of you folk are not looking at the bigger picture.

BOKO HARAM is IBB personal weapon against GEJ, and OBJ knows that.

Because OBJ killed IBB's ambition.

We all know why and how Yusuf was killed, because he turned against his sponsors.

You should also know that OBJ's visit is not without President GEJ's approval.

Their aim is to use the Yusuf camp of BOKO HARAM against IBB sponsored BOKO HARAM.

And with the killing of Babakura:

The WAR between  the BOKO HARAMs  just started.

igbo boy:
@CHino11:  u are blind rampaging bulll, onitsha port and that of somalia aint no difference. I know you love ANanmbra with a passion but nna biko be rational instead of exhibiting "eko-ile's" blind support for fashola,

Onitsha port is a joke. Hopefully Obi can convince his 4 SE governor counterparts in helping fund the port.

Just leave @CHino419 alone.

Immediately i saw the tread i knew he is gonna start his tribal BS.

You cannot compare the activities in  Dredged port to a Natural sea port, because the water channel will be narrow.


Coastline or seashore  are the best for locating seaports.

Tell me what will happen if MEND decids to block water channel going to Onitsha Port.

Sorry for the SOUTH EAST is LANDLOCKED for now.No offence.

That governor is stupid .

He is not only discriminating other Nigerians but he is also discriminating NON-ABIA Igbos.

Is like Lagos state govt telling Osun State people to leave lagos, when they are all Yoruba's.

He will surely face serious backlash for theses actions.

58 is not too late to sturdy .

edicolove:
^^^So why did you not say the same thing when other non ACN governors made similar statements. You called them names then and said they were just talking and they would not do it. But when an ACN governors said it, you say it is vision, Why do you use double standards then. Is it the usual hypocrisy and partisanship? For Eko-Ile, he is known for blind partisanship and hypocrisy so he isnt news.

I know your pessimism about the project from the beginning of the tread is political.

wilfb:
If the girl really needs the help and[b] you are in a position to help why ask the world whether it's the right thing to do[/b]? The meanest people on earth are Nigerians. We only look for what we stand to gain. Not until we learn to make sacrifice we'll never become the great country we tout about everyday.

Sorry the guy is not in the position to help.

Because he has to borrow that 120k for his GF, yet he is jobless.

dayokanu:
Ok Let me get it.

The AC wasnt working and next thing your husband beat you for it .

You said Hello to the neighbour and next thing your husband beat you?

I would tell my daughter one thing as an adult always talk, act and address people in a way you want to be addressed especially in a way that wont insult your education and home training.

Never resort to verbal or physical violence under whatever circumstance, It reduces you as a person

@Dayo,

I don't really know why some men fall for these modern day tricks created by women.

Example: I saw a pregnant women hitting and slapping a huge man the Ikoyi, "shouting you go kill me today".

But fact is that she knows she can never overpower that man,she just wanted him to hit her back in other to attract sympathy.

Some women will start the trouble and they will end up playing the victim.

I always advice my pals never to fall for this games.

Whenever a woman brings her wahala just leave the scene for her.

debosky:
Don't get it twisted - people came down hard on you when you started making ridiculous comparisons between spending money and taking care of a baby and intimate relations. Anyone who equates such things is liable to be called some unsavoury names. Real women will NEVER equate such things.

If you recognised you made an error and acknowledged it, then people would move on.

No one is against mutual assistance, but that is clearly[b] not what this thread is about[/b] - the girl is talking SOLELY about collecting money from the guy, not seeking ways to mutually assist each other.

Again, you are either an immature, naive person or just talking about things you simply do not know about.

It's like someone saying if you don't engage in intimate relations at the beginning of a relationship, the marriage won't be any different. 

This is completely untrue - the fact that you do not spend at the beginning doesn't indicate anything automatically. [b]It all depends on the reason behind your not spending. If you are avoiding spending in order to build the relationship properly on the PEOPLE involved and avoid the distractions of money, then there is every reason., after the relationship is well established, that spending money will happen.

Let me also say this - there are NUMEROUS examples of men spending money, moving heaven and earth just to woo a woman, and once they have her in marriage, they just shut down completely, and stop spending. It will be utterly foolish of any woman to believe just because someone spends money before marriage that is an indicator of what will happen afterwards.[/b]

Sadly much of the female commentary here is grossly immature or just not based in reality. I just hope for your sakes that you don't meet men that will exploit this immature thinking to do you great damage.

+100

CHIMCO:
@dayokanu i take execepion the way & manner u attacked me. I told you her exams are coming up on 16/9/11 & i waited fr her parents & bro but to no avail. I ve beem to uni & i know the consequencies of not paying sch fees. Believe me if she had asked fr bb or anything else i wil not even bother. And it is not b/c of toto or anything else but to keep her in campus. I know my family is there but sometime in life one can make sacrifices. Pls stop cursing me unnecessarily i dnt like it. Just drop your advice as a gentleman. Thanks dvice as a gentleman. Thanks

Guy, have ask yourself the " if you are not her BF will she drop out of school "?Probably -no

So why are you talking as if you are her ALPHA AND OMEGA.

The point dayokanu is making here is that is IRRESPONSIBLE of you, to neglect your parent and siblings for your GF.

Will you go out and borrow 120k if any of your family members is in urgent need? Probably -NOT.

Dyt:
love s nt stingy

Yes oo

For women love=money

debosky:
Toto Development Levy??

Freaking hilarious.



Just you wait. . . .this girl after finishing school may then say she can't marry a jobseeker and needs a man with money to 'take care of her'.  

Exactly, the girl will come here claiming the guy is a "BROKE A*S*S NIGGER".

Forgetting the-same jobless guy borrowed 120K to pay her school fees.

dokkyelele:
why d hell r u askin for, she didnt ask for bb, iphone or htc android, just a scholl fee, r u not f*ckin her, l dont knw kinds of girl dat date your kind of guy, sorry am just upset, but seriously, any gurl, urgirlfrnd or not, n u r sure she is in need, assist n help her, its education we r talkin abt, n if u dont mind, u can connet me wit her am ready to pay anytin for notin, and b glad at d end l change sumone's life educationaly, kapish

Listen to yourself, so because he is F*UCKING her then he must pay her school fees.

Is she a prostitute ?

Is the sex not mutual?

So you expect the jobless man to kill himself for his GFs.

It shows you are really desperate for Pucci.

MUMU.

lovedgal:
all these VULTURES waiting to devour,  Have mouth here and go and be your gf's atm machine as is usual for you. Poor stingy unfortunate souls.

Taking your anger from your gfs using/scamming you on a genuine person who does not use her bf as an atm.

Look at this Ashewo/ Scammer, calling men VULTURES.

Since you are that rich, why look for a man to carry your burden.

This is what you get when some women become sexualized

Here is another tread .

Where a jobless guy borrowed 120k to for her GFs school fees.

While neglecting his own family.

This types of men are the problem we have in Nigeria.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-758333.0.html

CHIMCO:
Thank you!! Thank you!! Thank you!! For al your wonderful advice. You have indeed lightened my burden. I asked the question out of desperation b/c i couid not sleep, you can check the time. I dnt know where to start in answering some of your questions. I know that it is her parent responsibility to borrow but when they failed to do so, i have to do something at the niche of time she told me that her exams Will start on 15/9/2011 & i waited thinking that her parents, although in the village could do something but when they failed i paid in on 14/9/2011 but now she told me 16/9/2011 as the exam date. She had told me that it was her late grand father wish for her to go to school & also the fact that she has told all her siblings including her parents about me but they ve not seen me b/c i dnt plan to marry her & i dnt want to expose her. As for my family, my Mom is on dailies & she needs Money every end of the month fr her drugs, which i have send once for the year & my siblings needs money badly esp the female ones, infact they cannot believe i did what i just did & they cannot hear it. As for want i do, I'm an in tinerate marketer of soaps in various offices and banks, that is how i met my old school mate that borrowed me the money, he works in a  bank. They pay me on commission & i think i need to work harder. As for my motive, as i said i dnt plan to marry. I did it b/c i believe I'm the only man in her life & i know she is desperate. My problem is that i kept the relationship for so long but as i said if she comes back i Will quietly quit it. Once more, thank you.

So you cannot get money to take care of you family.

Yet you could borrow 120K for you girl friend !!!

And how come you believe all her lies about her uncaring parents who brought her to this world.

You are very wicked man.

The guy is just too foolish.

I know the sharp girl will be laughing her Bottom out on campus.

She don jam MAGA

Hear NL women say because she is giving him pucci so he must pay her school fees.

@op, sorry you are totaly wrong here.

You are jobless, yet you borrowed N120K for your GF whatever!!!!

Dem use woman swear for you?

I can see NL women hailing your decision.

No wonder some Nigerian are so backward.

Nonsense.

lovedgal:
@emmatok, let him at least volunteer, the thoughts go a long way

If he has once being scammed by his former GFs, he will not volunteer his money for you, thinking you are all the-same.

And what is your definition of real man.

Is the Sugar Daddy that spend millions on his GFs and Neglect his immediate family a real man?

Is man/boy that spends all his salaries on his GFs and neglect his mother and sisters, a real man?

lovedgal:
OMG, Shy-one @MBJ!!!      Nice one!!    These guys are so quick to call us ashewos,  And from all these posts, you can tell who are in fact, atm machines for their girlfriends and just found an avenue to release some anger. Others have been trampled on by goldiggers,  Can they not see that we are different? I AM NOT AN ASHEWO OR A GOLDIGGA IN ANY FORM, and yes, if a guy claims to love me or is my friend even, he should feel and know when you are going through tough times and at least offer to help, It is usually the effort that counts,

@MBJ,

It is unfortunate that you have the mindset of making your gf pay for hers, as you do yours,  I don't know where you are from, but in Africa, that is not how we roll,  The man is a man and provides,  This is not to say I let my man provide all the way, ofcourse I assist,  But I would actually like the man to offer to take absolute care even though I would decline most of the offer if not all of it, because him even thinking in that direction shows that he is a real man and can take care of his own and would always strive to in any situation.

You are stingy  and an ashewo as shy-one actually pointed out having known you for chasing underaged pucci with cash in it as insinuated in your other posts.

Since you want your man to spend his money on you.

What do you have to offer him.

Children-NON

Wife -NON

And yet you want him to take responsibility for your expenses.

The only important women in a man's life are his Wife, Daughters, Mother and Sisters.

And until a GF becomes a wife, everything he does for you is voluntary.

In my family our women dare not collect anything from their BFs, because it is a disgrace to my Dad.