₦airaland Forum

tosanj:
Divorce indeed, a man that cannot have his own house after more than 10ys and was even staying in a RENTED duplex, has more to him that meet the eyes. For them to stay in a duplex for 10yrs, shows they have been married for more than 10yrs. Most young couples do not start life from a duplex. Before the woman decided to build or buy a house and did not tell her husband, she most have seen some things in the man and the marriage that made her not to tell him about the house.
Becos people do not build or buy house in a day, the man most have defaulted on the trust that made the woman not to tell him about the house
If the woman had told him about the house, what will he have done with the money he used to pay the rent?
The woman is sharp, very sharp. They will be no money in her account but more houses or investment all around.
A man is suppose to take care of his home Not depending on a woman to take care of the home.
Which is better to pay your wife rent or a stranger? Make him build him house more the family
What is the man’s anger, that he paid his wife rent or that after more than 10yrs he could not move out from a rented apartment?

obowunmi:
The man should hv moved into his own place loooong time ago.

LOL,

And what is wrong in living in a rented flat for 20years. If he is not defaulting in paying his rents.

I know a lot of big men living in Ikoyi, Lekki, AJA. paying 5million per year for rent.

Some men with properties in Lagos, still lives in rented properties.

LOL,

See the way they turned these to IGBO-YORUBA bashing tread.

Niger Delta Militants should be very care-full not to destroy their only opportunity to rule NIGERIA with these war-mongering.

GEJ won't be in ASO-ROCK for long.

chindi:
Pls o, i get d 'omo odo' to mean househelp, wat of 'su egbe', can someone translate plzzzzz[color=#990000][/color]

su egbe = foolish, silly, dumb

That woman is hiding a lot of secretes if she can hide a big asset(property) like that.

The man should first confirm if those children are his or from another man.

Then he must leave that property ASAP.

He should start protecting his assets and prepare to leave that relationship.

Because one day he will discover the HOUSING AGENT is bleep.I.N.G his wife.

naijasexy:
Not exactly. To me, every guy has an equal chance of bleeping a female. It depends on who is available. If he is the only one available when my intimate urge begins to bother me, then I would give him and that is because I want to. But if he comes up to me thinking that because he had me once, and also thinks he did an awesome job that I would let him have me another time he is kidding himself.  I would slap rejection at his face.

Also: If he is as equally available as another guy when the urge stings, chances are that I might favor the other guy over him, even if the other guy has never bleeped me.

Bottom line is that Okafor's law does not hold for all. If it did--- I reserve my comment!! 

LOLZ,

From your comment above.

Okafor's Law still apllies to you.

Because it will be easy to give your EX-BF sex, than to give a stranger.

And your EX-BF  won't go through  all those PROTOCOLS(since he has previously observed them), but a stranger will!!!!

If she accused you Publicly Of Infecting Her With Hiv Virus.

Go for HIV test and if you are negative .

Dump her.!!!!

But since her test show she is has malaria.

Give yellow card .

3 months suspension.

Acidosis:
I never said that. I mean if you think the sister is wicked to her omo odo, then you go and adopt her, atleast you will change her name and make her your own daughter. If you can't help and someone out there is doing what most of you wouldn't do for your firstborn, then I'll advice you and your hypocritical bigots to shamefully shut the crap

Listen up DUMBO,

Because she is not her daughter doesn't give her the right to ridicule her.

If you find pleasure in using underage girls as rags good for you.

For now i leave to NEMESIS.

So piss off.

LOL,

Nigerian girls hating flowers.

Yet they wouldn't mind spending millions on HORTICULTURAL GARDENS, if they are married to a rich-man.

Acidosis:
I   love   this   poster.   I   wonder   why   most   people   are   throwing   shots   @   her.   ''Omo   odo'', ''suegbe''  and   so   what?   Isn't   it   something   we   say  everyday.   So   what   the   hell   is   wrong   with   that.   Y'all   should   stop  presenting   yourselves   as  angels   when   you   all  and   I   knows   you   are  not.
And  everything   she   said   about   herself  were   due   to  the  unruly  shots.
There   is   nothing   wrong  with   whatever   she  had   said!  What  more   do   one  expect  her  to   do?  ''If  you   think   the   op  is   wicked,  then  adopt   the  little  girl!''

Oh shut-up.

You will say it is what you do every day and not everyone.

Everyday we hear news of how people maltreat their " Omo odo' claiming they are doing them(Omo odo) big favor.

For your info an adopted child is not an "Omo odo"

[quote author=Kilode?! link=topic=784553.msg9375684#msg9375684 date=1319045911]For those who don't know:

Omo odo = Servant ( kid servant, mostly pre-pubescent or early teens, can be older )
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Yea, also called house girl.

Suegbe = I/m/be/ci.le (can also mean foolish, silly, dumb, , slow, r/e/t/a/r/d)[/quote]+100

The irony is that the OP sees noting wrong in her actions.

She doesn't know that "underage Omo odo " is slavery .

I know hope @Owu gal won't transfer her  Nairaland anger on that little girl, by beating the poo off her,

MADAM ABEGI NO KILL AM O O O.

E jor e ma pa omolomo .

I dey shout  o o o.

Why Flowers Dont Work In Nigerian Relationships?

9ija girls like material things, and they are never satisfied .

coogar:
it's becoming increasingly difficult for them because there are so many women out there these days.
hell - single girls are struggling to get decent proposals, let alone divorcees and baby-mommas.

GBAM,

How to do you expect a young single guy to overlook those nice young lady, for a divorcees (baby-mommas).

A divorcees with loads of emotional problems.

Na they should their KIND.

Are Men Smarter Than Women When It Comes To Relationships?

YES!!!

Because men reason logically in relationships.

Great ozone:
The guy in question should accept  it wholeheartedly maybe dat is d way the girl expresses  her luv

LOL. FUNNY,

What kind of love will let my chick assault me.

Well she should be ready to get equal amount from me .

And while she is nursing her wounds, i will moving on to the next . . . . . . .

Any woman that assaults a man, should not be surprised if he returned the assault with pleasure.

Though the man's assault might land her in hospital, but she deserves it.

Da Doctor:
I AGREE WITH THE ABOVE. BUT MAINATIN THAT NOTHIBG STOPS A LADY FROM MAKING AT LEASST A GENTLE MAN GRADE 2.2 AND HAVING GOOD CHARACTERS.

IN THE FAMILY WAY, U NEVA CAN TELL WHO WUD CARRY THE FAMILY TOMMOROW. THOUGH CHARACTER IS BEST, EDUCATION IS STILL OKAY TOO. AS A LECTURER I KNOW THAT THE DULLEST OF STUDENTS MAKE AT LEAST A 2.4 GRADE WHICH IS A PALTRY 48 PERCENT IN AGGREGATE. AND SOME SCHOOLS EVEN TAKE LOWER GRADES FOR 2.2. IF U SEE WHAT THESE LADIES DO HERE. YOU WUD PUT A TAG OF 1ST CLASS ON ANY ONE YOU ARE INTERESTED IN. LOL

And is she useless if she got no UNI-degree at all?

@ South-East

You no dey tire ?

This is your third tread bashing Yoruba in a day.

Abegi face the problem from your People.

@ OP

I do you want to MARRY her or Employ her.?

Even MTN employs 3rd Class Degree holders.

Why are you tiring Academic qualifications to Marriage.

LOLZ,

The-same Igbo men will allow A Chinco and Oyinbo man to marry their women.

Yet they discriminate against fallow Nigerians.

redsun:
I am talking about the goods that are main for south east which makes up a very high proportion of the the goods that arrive in lagos seaports.Onitsha being the largest market in west africa requires alot of goods to function and most of those goods use to come from lagos.

Onitsha port is added advantage that will drastically reduce the south easterners sreliance on lagos for importation and exportation of goods

Lol most south easterners will still relay in Lagos Port, because NO INTERNATIONAL SHIP WILL SAIL DIRECT TO ONITSHA.

Onitsha port  is like a local airport, you do not expect International Flight to land in any Local Airport.

Every cargo going to Onitsha port will be cleared in the major seaports in SW/SS, before going inland to Onitsha .

The-same lady claiming Marriage Is Overrated might end-up snatching another woman's husband e.g Mercy J

Vary soon we go hear say Child bearing Is Overrated.

Na Nairaland we dey.

manny4life:
I laughed for a second at #1 but hey I will not mock you;  you said, No body is building a seaport in Onitsha,It is a Cargo port.

Dude, a cargo port is a classification of a Seaport; just like they have cruise ports (cruise only), fishing ports, et al. Cargo ships (General cargo, Dry-Bulk, Multipurpose and Tankers) berth at a port primarily designed for its purpose (Cargo). Cargo ports have all the necessary tools, equipments and resources to handle from a small vessel to large ocean liners. Depending on the size and how how it's classified (domestic or international), that will largely depend on its operation and services. For instance, if Onitsha port is primarily designed for general cargo (containers only), then it might not have the equipments to handle tankers (oil - crude or refined, diesel, chemicals, )etc.

Brov, Onitsha port is not a SEAPORT,

Onitsha does not have any seashore, that waterway is a dredged  River Niger.

Is River Niger a sea?

@op

1. No body is building a seaport in Onitsha,It is a Cargo port.

2. No Cargo ship berth at Onitsha Seaport River-Port.

Dede1:
@POST

This is another nonsensical drivel to either support deceitful acts by elite politicians from northern region of Nigeria or perpetuate the grand role of brainwashing certain group in Nigeria so they can feel relevant.

Did you even read the tread.

Or just another GEJ sycophant.

Yes it is good to test your partner once in while.

For those shouting TRUST.

TRUST is relative because any secretive or suspicious move will surely destroy trust.

LOL,

The-same Ibo people who don't believe in one NIGERIA are calling ZIK a nationalist.

Yet they respect Ojukwu's Tribalism more than ZIK's Nationalism.

Hypocrites.

Well Igbo language is not dying, it is just that is slowing down these days.

Unlike language that is spreading fast with a lot of foreigners learning these languages(Yoruba and Hausa) from their own country.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=780724.msg9332444#msg9332444 date=1318522649]10 or 15? I've heard of 60 and happily married with Shildrences.

Anyways, it's whatever. Some females have had s[i]e[/i]x with every Tom, D1ck and Harry Potter, all in the name of looking for "love"; while some are just sluts. Either way, they can always "start afresh", if they're willing to start closing their legs.  
[/quote]How can a NYMPHOMANIAC  start afresh.

When she is already damaged(Medically and Psychological).

The-same woman will see noting wrong in having BOYFRIENDS and SEX BUDDIES, while married.


Now i see why some women goes for VJAY  reconstruction.

Best friend, someone (singular) with whom one shares the strongest possible kind of friendship, often abbreviated to "bestie"


Somebody should tell me what will a "married woman be doing with a male  best friend".

Let me guess, Sharing her family secrets and Reporting her husband behavior.


Marriage aren't worth it these days.

Why Nairaland women day vex say TUFACE no wan marry.

Those women claiming he will not get a wife after 3kids will be the first the jump on the offer to marry TUBABA.

When Marcy Johnson can snatch a married man .

Noting some women no go do for marriage.

Useless SENATORS!!!

The-same people the said it is immoral to legalize homos are now fighting to Legalise Prostitution.

So with with all the problems we are facing Legalizing Prostitution is their most important issue.

FOOLS.