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cold:
That is where you're wrong.All it takes is a lawyer that knows his onions as well as a psychiatrist to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the man is/was mentally unbalanced & he'll walk.He'll likely be sentenced to a mental institution to get help

Sorry that will be difficult to prove in a Nigerian court.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=701925.msg8630517#msg8630517 date=1309534663]no doubt you wish someone were stalking your butt ugly self.

i just went through your posts and had to stop reading in disgust.

long hiss.  [/quote]hmm, you are going through my post and you claim you are not stalking.

What is your definition of stalking.

Abegi leave me alone  o o o

Na by force ?

coogar:
tpia@, no vex
emmatok, don't be angry, e don do!

Thanks.

MeandSum:
Definition: Schizophrenia: is a mental disorder characterized by a disintegration of thought processes and of emotional responsiveness.[1] It most commonly manifests as auditory hallucinations, paranoid or bizarre delusions, or disorganized speech and thinking, and it is accompanied by significant social or occupational dysfunction. The onset of symptoms typically occurs in young adulthood, with a global lifetime prevalence of about 0.3–0.7%. Diagnosis is based on observed behavior and the patient's reported experiences.


So, I'll repeat - It takes a level of such insanity for someone to kill his wife of several years so gruesomely and blame it on some voices in his head. except, of course, if you want to prove to me the devil made him do it.

You be lawyer?

Hallucinations, paranoid, bizarre delusions or whatever will not stand in court.

This is a clear case of murder.

coogar:
@ emmatok,

that story there is mind-shattering. . . . . .i got nothing else to say. the book should be thrown at akolade arowolo but i still think the guy is a psychopath.

you guys should not derail this thread. . . . at least, respect the dead!

My Brother, that is the danger of marrying a "HOT-HEADED" person.

You can see another one stalking me here.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=701925.msg8630297#msg8630297 date=1309533108]moderators i've reported this cursed animal emmatok to you.

i hope you'll do something about him because one day he'll stalk you or your relative.

a word is enough for the wise.[/quote]Now we all know you are a real maniac.

Continue shouting, since you can't read well.

coogar:
domestic violence is 2 streets. . . . .but this particular case is worrisome. i can understand when a man stabs his wife accidentally during a scuffle and the wife dies - that is manslaughter. . . .but to repeatedly stab a wife, chop her into bits and run away with her mammary glands is a bit evil. this man is not a criminal, he is just insane or mentally unbalanced.

Police arrest hubby who stabbed banker wife to death


Titilayo and Akolade
Details have emerged of how Akolade Arowolo, a jobless graduate, suspected to have killed his banker wife, Titilayo, last Friday was arrested by the police.


[b]PUNCH METRO gathered that Akolade was arrested on Saturday at their residence at 8, Akindehinde Street, Isolo around 11pm.


“He came back to his flat the next day at about 11 pm; perhaps, to pick up a few things before making good his escape. Policemen had already laid ambush and were waiting. He was immediately arrested. Titilayo’s family have been contacted and they have taken custody of her daughter. Kolade is now in the custody of the SCID, Panti,” the source, a policeman, said.


Prior to his arrest, PUNCH METRO gathered that some policemen had flagged down Kolade’s car around Aye Bus stop, Isolo and quizzed him on account of the bloodstains on his clothes but he tricked the policemen and escaped.


The source said, “Kolade escaped on Friday after the murder when some policemen apprehended him somewhere around Aye Bus Stop. He was covered in blood and even passersby thought he had been involved in an accident.


“When they stopped him and started quizzing him, Kolade collapsed on the ground pretending to have fainted. As they were making efforts to revive him, he immediately got up and rushed across the road, nearly killing himself in the process because he was knocked down by a car. To the surprise of those present, he just picked himself up, boarded a bike and fled. Kolade’s car was immediately seized and taken to the Aswani Police Station, Isolo.”


Another source at the SCID told one of our correspondents that when Kolade was quizzed, he simply said, “It was the devil’s handiwork.”


The Police Public Relations Officer, Lagos State Command, Mr. Samuel Jinadu, confirmed Kolade’s arrest to our correspondents on the phone, adding that investigations were still ongoing.


At the residence of the couple, a neighbour, who spoke on condition of anonymity, said the Arowolos had frequent quarrel, which often resulted in fights.


The source said, “I cannot say for sure what led to her murder. I was aware they fought frequently but because it rained heavily that Friday morning, I don’t think anyone heard their noise. The next day (Saturday), her body was discovered; I came back from an outing to meet a huge crowd on the street. I was shocked to learn that Titilayo had been murdered by her husband. Although they had frequent fights, no one expected this.


“I never really had cause to relate with Kolade because I live with a sibling who rented this flat. I was surprised to learn that Arowolo was married because he frequently brought in different girls every day to his flat. As a result, I never knew who his wife was.”


The source also described the murder scene as gory, saying “Arowolo was stabbed severally in her chest and her eyes gouged out; in fact, her husband mutilated her. I couldn’t even bring myself to look at the pictures some of the neighbours took with their phones.”


Another neighbour said, “I don’t live here, although I run a business on this street. I learnt that the man murdered his wife and escaped after dropping off their two-year-old daughter at a day care centre. When the parents did not come for the child, the day care employees were worried and came to look for them. There was no one at home and it seemed none of the parents could be reached. Matters came to a head the next day when a putrid odour was coming out from the Arowolos’ flat. I don’t know if it was the neighbours or the day care employees that called the police but they just came here and before you know it, a crowd had gathered.”


At Skye Bank, Marina branch, where Titilayo worked until the time of her murder, her colleagues were still mourning.


One of Titilayo’s colleague, who was recently transferred, told PUNCH METRO that the deceased was hardworking and was reportedly due for a promotion.


Describing her relationship with the deceased emotionally, she said, “I’ve known Titi for more than three years. Titi was working at Skye Lounge Victoria Island. She was later transferred to Adeola Hopewell before joining the Marina branch over a year ago.


“She joined Skye bank around 2007 and I can tell you that she never received a query from the bank. That is to show you how committed she was to her job.”


Although she said there were times Titilayo came to office with injuries, the source said nobody suspected that she was being abused because she did not discuss her problem with her colleagues.


She said, “There was a day she came to work in bandage but when I asked her how she sustained injuries, she said she fell from an okada.


“Two weeks ago, another colleague saw marks on her hands but when asked how she got the bruises, she said she slipped and fell in the house.


“It is now that I’m beginning to connect the dots. Titi was small in stature and her husband was big. I can only imagine the sort of beating he would have been giving her. I regret not noticing on time. Probably, we would have been able to avert this disaster.


“Titi was so in love with Akolade. On many occassions, she would distribute copies of Akolade’s Curriculum Vitae to colleagues in the office because she was eager to see him get a job.


“Akolade, however, never appreciated her. Sometimes, he would seize her cheque book, ATM cards and her car keys as punishment whenever they fought even though she was the one sustaining the family financially.

[/b]
“Titi was very happy last Thursday because her leave would start on Friday, which happened to be her husband’s 30th birthday. She said this period is for ‘me and my husband.”


The source told our one of our correspondents that Titilayo was extrememly close to her father having lost her biological mother at a tender age. This was why she always visited her father every week.


“I suspect that Akolade must have been targeting her leave allowance which was over N250,000 that she had just received the previous day. Also, I think he was her next of kin in all her official documents and he had a lot to gain from her death,” the source added.


Meanwhile, a page has been opened for Titilayo, Facebook. The page titled “RIP Omozoje Titilayo Oyakhire” and opened on Monday by her friends had been a washed with messages of love, and condolences and curses on the suspect.


As at the time of going to press, no fewer than 50 messages had been posted. One of the users, Bolakale Akintade,” This world is becoming more wicked everyday, since I got this news I just can’t trust anybody anymore. Was he blindfolded when he married her? For every woman in such kind of marriage, let’s keep our head straight on. This is the second story am hearing this year and they took lives.”


Another fan said, “Despite the genuine information, I tried to believe it was a rumour and then I hoped it was a nightmare!!! This is an unimaginable act! My heart is so heavy and words cannot express the amount of grief this has caused…, The term “meekness” accompanies the memories of you right from our AAU days. Even if we know you are in a better place, you did not deserve such a gruesome death. A great and kind hearted lady who acted with proper decorum.”


”You lived your life, I thank God for that. You have left behind a beautiful daughter who, God’s willing, will become a beautiful and successful woman. I shall not judge, let God judge and deal appropriately with whosoever is responsible for your untimely death. Rest in Christ. Skye Bank loves you and also many other people you have come across. Your case has set in motion the crusade against domestic abuse, a fight to be won,” Tilewa Wale-Akinbola Omozoje posted.


Meanwhile, Titilayo’s corpse has since been deposited at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital’s mortuary, Ikeja. Funeral plans are yet to be announced.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=701925.msg8630135#msg8630135 date=1309531984]SHUT UP YOU F.OOL.

abi ori e daru ni?

if you have nothing sane to post then get your crazed fingers out of this thread!!!

oloriburuku oloshi radarada!!!!

see your useless life!!!!!


i guess you've also murdered countless people like the criminal in question!!![/quote]Maniac go get a life .

Abi na you get NL?

Since kids like you could not read and comprehend.

We know were your likes  should be.

Continue hating,

Your GALL OF HATRED will kill you.

Tomorrow the-same man hater go dey find man to marry.

Ode buruku!!!

Two people  are not the-same, not even twins.

The-same thing applies in a relationship, interest differs from one another.

But lovers need to reduce(not compromise) some of their standards in other to accommodate each other.

But their should be a limit to it.

vladimiros:
drag racing and street drifting is done everywhere in the world from Japan to US

nothing new to weep for

And when do we start comparing Nigeria to US and Japan.

US and Japan compensate the accident victim of drag racing and street drifting.

But Nigeria is not like that.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=701925.msg8629264#msg8629264 date=1309523802]Emmatok

what exactly is your point?

This is what people are saying about some of you people being psychopaths.

Please stop bringing up irrelevant situations and focus on what actually happened here.

NOBODY CARES how many examples you dig up of whcih gender does what.

I suppose you're also a cultist hence your weird and inhuman views.

May God forgive you because i really cant be countering this flood of animalistic mindsets all the time.[/quote]The problem with feminist  psychopaths like you, is that your hate for man makes you narrow minded.

I see you shouting men this, men that, all over the tread.

The man is a murderer, he should be judged for his crime, and not for his gender.

horny4u:
A woman will not just start beating her husband just like that,
the man must have been very naughty,
The neighbours should intervene on his behalf next time ,
so she can reduce his punishment to kneel and face the wall, eyes closed and arms up.
The man is always wrong.

See your self,

If it was the other way round you be calling that man a beast.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=701925.msg8626608#msg8626608 date=1309488526]to minimize the context of the original topic.[/quote]A prove that violence is not limited to men alone.

Stop the generalising, today it may be the man, tomorrow might the woman .

Remember "Clara Harris".

werepeLeri:
When Americans do bull fighting and the bull runs into the crowd matching many to death - who cared?

Hey those peep get better treatment and insurance.

So you find joy seeing the rich kids slam their cars into those helpless people all in the name of stunt.

Those claiming those cars are cheap, do you expect them to use their father's expensive Feraris, Bentleys, Maserratis for road stunt?

dayokanu:
My own mom never had househelps while we were growing up our first househelp was when we were all grown and left home and she is much older. She never had dish washers, Washing machine, blenders, rice cookers etc that women of nowadays have, I said she didnt even have a car for a while!! And working has not killed her.

If women want to be Housewives then why do you need to educate the female child beyond elementary school? You are in US, You probably have student loans of about $50k, To just be a sit at home wife In yoruba called (ALABODO- Feed and phock). Does that make any sense? Why getting an education and spending exorbitantly on an education If all you wanna do is sit at home, wash plates and watch TV all day.

As a full time housewife who depends on her husband for survival, what lesson are you giving to your daughter?

Moreover, I have seen children raised by Working moms and sit at home moms and cant see any significant difference

Dayo no mind these women.

Tomorrow, the-same people will come to NL claiming equity in marriage.

Why will a woman at these age and time choose to be a sit at home house-wife.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=702902.msg8625796#msg8625796 date=1309471217]still wondering why the news made the headlines.


oh well, not like anything is happening that's never happened before. [/quote]I tire o

Trust NLers they will tribalize the issue and that is why is it on front page.

tiwantiwa:
This is really sad. I think success in marriage is almost 80% on choosing right . Titi's rat  picked a cat as partner . can they ever walk together , Was titi wrong to have said yes to him , she did not know , how can ,  a teen pastor  from age 8  , strong unilag fellowship goer , So how could she have known,  somewhere i heard some friend of kolade commented about a forced marriage , just thinking aloud , we walk through life like one that gropes in the dark , sad ,
but something wasn't right from day one , to the singles ,  i think the lesson of this tragedy is that in marriage if it is not right from day one , run , no FLEE !

hmm, if the word in bold is true,

Then some parents need to stop interfering in their children marital / single life.

I know a lot of Christian parents do force their children to marry certain type of people.

Yet the-same parent will never support divorce if the marriage is not working. So So Bad.

dayokanu:
Tinubu ma ko wa je nisho

Tinubu carry go We SWesterners trust you

Asiwaju of Yorubaland carry go

I trust you for that.

Tinubu carry go SOME SWesterners trust you.

Not the wise ones that can see the future.

The-same thing some said for OBJ 4 years ago, were is OBJ now.

phreakabit:
Only dishing back what has been served on this forum, on numerous occasions. BTW, b4 going ahead to call people silly. You should be more bothered about your command of English. Your spelling is a disaster waiting to happen. Jeez!

Fool, you can't even reason logically, yet you are talking about command of English.

Abegi go sit carry ya nonsense go political/tribal/racism/religion tread.

That guy is murderer and he should be hanged downside-up before a firing squad.

So he is selling out his people

Yet he wants to become their leader.

Never!!!

Some of my IGBO brother here are very silly.

Someone commits a crime and you are busy shouting IGBO/Yoruba.

Will he be judged  by his tribal affiliations?

Some of you need to go back to school.!!!

The guy is a murderer .

enyojo:
Blame PDP

Shut it jor.

Blame your demi- god Tinubu.

He does not wish any good for the Yoruba People.

All he cares about is his ACN.

Hotie Tima:
hey pls get it right i am not saying anything wrong with that
as long as she can pop a baby out she's a woman.

but we are not less off  a women too just coz we love shopping, we love shoes is it  i don't think so.

but my dear Natasha here is making it look like we got no idea about life just coz we do things differently to how she is.

if she posted her answer without pointing finger i would have said that what i said

You are getting it wrong, womanhood is not about popping out babies.

But there are better and successful women who are not fashion and social freaks.

Hotie Tima:
natasha what's your real sex

coz something is wrong here

what kind of woman are u. so u want to tell us that u don't like shoes and shopping.

mu dear u may want to seek medical action quick

Every woman is not the-same,

I know a lot of hard-working career women who are not in to all this shoes, shopping, BB stuffs.

Yet they are very successful both in their career and family.

Sagamite:
More often than not, expensive schooling is posh education.

If you are paying N800K for nursery, your pikin is likely to be mixing with posh kids (as per Naija posh).

Definitely, the 1st gen unis are best in Naija at the moment.

Agreed, but expensive schooling or posh education does not guaranty Quality EDUCATION.

Women and their WAHALA,

Which one be "YOU ARE CHOKING ME".

@op

Leave her alone, her games are to much for you to worry about.

coogar:
how would she be heard by the american audience if she doesn't talk that way? you think americans can pick the nigerian accent? i re-laugh in boko-haram. chery cole(british born with liverpool accent) is having difficulty to be heard by the americans and you think cnn will let funmi iyanda of all people to present shows for them? how would funmi iyanda pronounce "arkansas" with her dolphin teeth?

Is  Isha Sesay using American accent on CNN?

I won't be surprised if your hatred has a TRIBAL UNDERTONE .

Your talking ad id CNN is the highest pay media Organisations on Earth.

When we have Nigerians working with better International .

INFERIORITY COMPLEX is a disease.

Every Nigeria Politician is into one Religious or Fetish stuff .

GEJ should keep shut,get protection and do his JOB.

iragbijile:
I chose my words VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY carefully.



OAU yato of course. Thats why I did not mention OAU or UI.

My friend how many Professors do you have in Covenant compared to UI, OAU, UNN, e.t.c

These private varsities just collect money, they cannot match any of those First Generation Universities.

[quote author=Akanbi_edu link=topic=693608.msg8613645#msg8613645 date=1309338044]Sagamite, you better pass this one na.

So if person A kills 1000 in the name of religion and B kills 100000 in other names (money, state, etc). Then A gives you more headache?

Killing should be treated as killing no matter what. It must be seen as a common threat to humanity.

In history, people have always killed for a reason, and they normally rationalize it one way or the other. It doesn't make one better than the other. Because these judgements are subjective. Lets not fall for cheap propaganda.[/quote]There something we call "PROFILING" .

If a group of people are into a particular crime they a bound to be "PROFILED"

For example Mexicans in US are profiled for Drug Trafficking.

So most Most Muslims are being "PROFILED " for suicide bombings.

Sweetnecta:
@emmatok; « #208 on: Yesterday at 10:51:37 PM »while these 'jihadists' are wrong, the crusader emperor bush made sure many died in iraq without any tie to 9/11, using false reason however,which paved way for the chrstians preaching and GI winning souls for jesus. what was the reason bush invaded and slaughtered iraqis except for his religion. ironically, he used the force of the most powerful military organization in the world to do it. did you forget abu graib?

Guy your are wrong, Bush invaded Iraq for economic reasons .

In-fact most American Christians opposed that war.

But killing of innocent people is justified by most Muslims , because those innocent people are "INFIDEL".

chocobunny:
@Sagamite

Quote from: Sagamite on Yesterday at 07:50:45 PM

So that posh education has not given them the academic advantage you allude to. Otherwise most will end up in the top UK unis and top jobs in UK.

___

I read your post, no need for me to read it again. Let's break it down:

Look at your wording. The posh education has not given them the academic advantage, OTHERWISE (meaning if it DID give them the advantage) many would end up at top jobs in the UK. You are definitely implying that people on top in Nigeria were unable to match the competition in the UK. If they could have, they would be working there now at a big firm.

Anyway, I digress. The topic at hand is bigger than this.

Expensive schooling is not equal to "posh education"

You can never compare a graduate from any Private University in Nigeria to other graduates from 1st generation Federal Universities like OAU, UNN, UNLAG, e.t.c

Those 1st generation Federal Universities are far batter.

Some parents just spoil their children in ignorance.