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Mommadd:
As a mother I don't even want to imagine this, may God help her, cut me off from my sons hmmmm mbanu, may God not let my eyes see.

Honestly it won't be bad to see more of these cases in society.

Orangedreams:
It is only normal for almost every woman to stand by her in this. As a woman you don't need to have given birth to children for you to know the pain of being denied access to your children. The pain comes naturally. FFK should allow her see her children that's pretty OK. I'm not sure she has intention of taking them away but to see them and feel the warmth of her children and also be assured her kids are doing well. That's not too much to ask.




Las las check my signature for properties.

Y'all didn't make a case for Churchill when he was and still being denied access to his son.

You dolts allowed Covid-19 into the country at the time you were supposed to close our borders in the name of diplomatic bullshit. Now that they've served you hot when you barely have a few case of a largely unknown variant, you're whinnying.

GeneralZodd:
. Everything has is advantage and it’s disadvantage. Being hardworking dude chasing 200k, malaria wan finish me.

Headache

Weakness of joint

Fever

Lack of appetite

Dizziness


Omo this hustle is not easy. I work an average of 14hours in a day. Too much stress, I am taking Saturday and sunday off.

I guess if you stop pursuing 200k and settle with 100k the mosquito that infected you with malaria will pity your sorry ass

This is unacceptable. Never hit a man no matter what

meobizy:
Country wey get sense.

Are you a member of the LGBT community?

Remember when Covid-19 just started, these dolts refused to close the borders in the name of diplomatic ties. How e come be now? Dem norva press am leave you?

Maryjane001:
Well for me, at this point in my life, if I would want to be in a relationship, it would be something really serious not some fun-seeking adventure. But I m really not ready for any now.
The guy in question I talked about, has a lot of females crawling around him and could easily get any girl he wants due to his personality. I want to learn a lot from him, so I 've swallowed my pride and reached out to him. I would want us to be very good friends excluding any romance involved.
Even if the guys are as much as 10, if we can't build a good friendship together, then I can't date the said person. I can't just jump into a relationship just laidat na

Smiles @ bold. I have an idea what you are talking about. Although sometimes what we think is real may actually be an illusion. Glad to know you reached out.

I think I now quite understand your perspective on taking things slow. I have seen many ladies with similar preference too, it just doesn't sit well with me. But it's good to stand by what you believe in. At the least you get to have a sense of safety knowing you have a measure of control of the outcome.

Thanks for having this brief conversation with me Maryjane.

Maryjane001:
None. I would want us to be very good friends first. Let's start from there. If it works out, fine but I strongly doubt that.

Fair enough. Don't mind my many questions though, I just needed a female perspective at this point in time. But what I don't understand is how you intend to keep a guy that comes asking for a relationship as "friends", then you get to decide later if you fully want in. So what if three, four guys come asking around the same time, do you keep them all as "friends"? Wouldn't that be too much on your plate?

Maryjane001:
He asked me out, we were in the talking stage Sha. Wanted to take things slowly. Suddenly, we had a minor issue and since then all man dey im own. Maybe na pride between the two of us, can't really tell. But we don't talk anymore. Still, I do admire his personality.

I get it. On the off chance you both get an opportunity to get back together, would you take it head-on this time or go the "slowly" way?

Maryjane001:
Well, there was a gentleman I once had a crush on. What I noticed and loved about him was:

1) His dress sense : He had a good fashion sense and it was so good that, he 'd turn heads once he arrives. Be it casual or senator wears, he was always killing it. Clothes were always well ironed that you would see the lines perfectly. U 'd never find him wearing rumpled clothes.

2) His cologne : This particular one had girls hugging him most times. He always smelt fresh at any time of the day. Seems he invests a good amount of money on cologne and perfumes. Staying around this guy was refreshing....lol and he 'd pass beside you, and you would turn to see who just passed. Funny enough, he doesn't have a signature cologne.

3) His leadership and empathetic skills: he had a good mastery of handling leadership. He wasn't a dictator neither was he a slowpoke like Buhari. He made sure he carried everybody along and was always ready to listen to anyone. I never know of anyone that handles leadership this good other than this guy.

4) Beards, skin, nails and haircut : always neat and well-styled all the time. Never to be cut unfresh even for a minute. Nails well-trimmed and u can never notice eczema or pimples or even rashes on his face. I believe he spends tons of money taking care of that skin of his...

4) Humility : Upon all the associations, political career and whatever posts assigned on him, he treated people fairly and never degraded anyone. Even if he mistakenly says something annoying, he 'd apologize for everything. He was well-mannered and respectful.

5) Building himself spiritually, emotionally and intellectually : I got to talk with him for the first time, and it got me wondering who was his book plug. He had a vast knowledge about various things. Ask him anything and he 'd know an answer to that and give you concise points.

Although we didn't really connect that much, the little time I spent around him taught me many things.

So why didn't you ask him out?

What's Okowa's business with what is happening in Lagos State? I heard oga hasn't paid pensioners since he got into power in 2015. He should grow a pair of thick lips and cover his teeth

Jojopikin85:
don't blame the guy am sure u know the exchange rate now

I do. Although I don't quite think the exchange rate justifies this exorbitant increase.

Earlier this year one could get this car for 900k. How you guys doubled the price now is baffling.

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BiggyB242:
Do you know how the first daughter feels with her face cut off? "Oh, because I'm not 2face's daughter, then I'm a nobody."

Even her mother is a nobody without Tuface

Ovaltine:
Your DIY mentality is commendable.
I am sure it wasn't as simple as red to red or black to black but you still nailed it.

The wiring can be neater.
I suppose you ran a continuity test on the whole system and you separated your heavy load via wiring as well. You don't want a visitor to mistakenly plug a 2500w steam iron into your unit.

Oh. I see there is a socket. Does this mean an extension is sending power to your appliances?

I recently did a 3kva 24v PSW Beaver, 2x 200ah 12v Gel Ritar , 2x 300w mono installation.

I had to pay the optional installation fee despite my strong background in electricals. Its just easier to pay experts these days.

What did it cost you to set this up?

Thought some people said religion is the opium for the poor

bobkezel:
I heard detergents are not be used with biodigesters.... If true, how then can one go about it?

Biodigester replaces the traditional septic tank but it doesn't replace your soakaway. Channel laundry effluent to a soakaway or a drainage if there is a good system in your neighbourhood.

Datboredberry:
Like I clearly stated... No cultural bias... I don't need your, "women should be this or that" lectures!

A woman who smokes, how does she not value herself?

As for her image, that's the point of this post... Why smoking damages the image of a woman and not a man! Can you answer this?

And the only drawback to smoking is it's impact on one's health... But do you care that men smoke more? Are you concerned about their health also? Plus, there are a million bad habits...that could kill faster...

Men and women are not equal.

yomi007k:
Lol....u think this is 1914?

Women don't plan to suffer with man o...if ur end no soft dem go change am for you.

Change am for me as per wetin? I'm doing them a favour men

yomi007k:
...and marrying the three ladies is not capital intensive?


The wives are not assests. The land and building are.

It shouldn't be. They would work for their worth on the farm

He would still be alive if he had gone the way of our fathers

mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

These days building a house is very capital intensive owing to the rise in price of building materials. I would say marry the three ladies rather and establish an agricultural farm for them to cultivate for you.

Chinedum by Mercy Chinwo. I've had it on repeat on my music player for up to a year now.

Foodqueen:
I am sure, Anita will soon settle with her hubby.

There is no gain in fighting.

Let peace reign.

They were never fighting. Na una conjure up the story by unaself come carry'am for head

Grandstronics21:
Okay, brother.

But If you have the model number or picture of the one of your choice, you could lemme see it, sir.

Gas coker wen dem take dey cook party jollof. Seems Egun is planning housewarming

Prymestrr:
Ok...you didn't answer my question tho.

I don't think you should worry about the tensioner.

Prymestrr:
Hello guys. Please I need your assistance. My belt tensioner (adjuster roller) has been ok since I got it replaced. But yesterday, I had to fix my steering pump, and the mechanic that fixed it must have touched the tensioner somehow, while trying to loosen and tighten back the pump coz now whenever I start my engine, it makes a weird annoying clanking noise that I'm certain comes from the belt tensioner. The noise last for about 10-15 seconds and stops.
My question is, can the tensioner be fixed somehow without having to buy a replacement please? Car is a camry 2005.
CC: Gazzuzz

Take the car back to the mechanic that fixed the pump and have him correct his error.

ArticleBeast:
I never said it is a honda problem. I stand by my word, most hondas are abused by the users. I live in th north where honda is used more than any other region in the country.

You said Honda has fuel pump and suspension problem, and I say you are wrong.

ArticleBeast:
Most hondas are abused by previous owners. Majority use all manner of useless engine oil and gear oil. Also, honda tend to have fuel pump and suspension problems. Speaking as a current honda owner

You have an abused car. Not a Honda problem.

IAMBlesssed:
She wants to avoid being called evening newspaper by Nairaland guys..Lols

It's well Bro..Marry when you are ready.Dont let anyone pressure you into "doing pass yourself"..

1. She is not a nairalander.

2. Since when did you start carrying about the opinion of online strangers?