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diridiri:
that picture will not kill me abeg

underpinna:
My little sister has a boyfriend who writes her love letter.

She is learning computer in another village and always comes back home late. A journey of 30mins back from her training center will take her close to two hours.

I am not always home and just visited the first time this year. After the numerous complaint from my mum I decided to check her school bag and found four letters from a guy. All come came from him. I will be showing it to popsi. My little sis not not the biological daughter to my parents. Her mother was good to us hence we are returning the favor. She just finished secondary school and will soon pick jamb form to further her education on my father's financing.

I just fear pregnancy. She should be within 15-18 can't really tell though.

I'm just afraid popsi might sent her packing.

Bedtec:
Good evening everyone, please I need advise on what to do here. I graduated from University in 2020, and during my last days in school I had accommodation problem so I had to put up with a friend of mine (female) throughout the last days and she was very helpful to me i think and know that I owe her alot for the help... I relocated to Lagos after graduation and I stay with my sister and her family, am just hustling to start up so it has not been easy for me and I planned on going for NYSC this year. Now the problem is that the girl who helped me then in school sent me some cash to help her acquire an item which I did and waybilled to her last month. She then sent another 55k for me to help her purchase a laptop which she would use for her project because she's in her final year but when I went to withdraw the money from the Pos, I couldn't find any cash there even the change i had in there was all gone, like I couldn't believe it , I went to the bank to lay a complain but they said they will get back to me which up till now am yet to get a feedback and I've been there countless times but same silly response of we're looking into it. Now the girl has a compulsory seminar they will attend in school and she needs to pay but her parents have refused giving her the money because the money for the laptop and the laptop it's self there yet to see. Now she's on my neck and I've been avoiding her calls and chats cos I don't know how to tell her what happened to the money .... Please am really confused on how to relay the information to her cos her career is at stake.... Someone should please help me on how to tell her so she can understand because am dieing by the day cos her career is at stake .... Am ready for the bash and If possible any sort of assistance cos here and now am helpless ...
Sorry for the long write up

Viltron:
It's a little long.

A girl I loved so much in our first year in uni. I was caring and all. She turned me down then in the most brutal way - with stern warnings never to try such rubbish again.

I took it like a man and even pleaded for her to forget it lets continue our friendship since we were on the same course and partners.
She is never interested in u but to purnish ur best friend by sperating u guys. She is frustrated by looking for the way to pay ur friend back. Mind u, if accept her she mind even start doing both of u. Becareful. You can sleep with her and leave her. She is a devil

We were in the same city but she never visited me once. But I use to go to her place

On my birthday she didn't show up.

I went to see her along with my best friend then, who was studying in a different state, and one other friend. Gave her good money to cook. We ate.

Months later, I discover she and my best friend had been seeing each other since our meeting. To the point she'd been traveling to see him before things turned sour between them

When I discovered, she's started apologizing and begging, crying how she'd like us to date. By this time I was no longer in the school - I had changed uni. To a different state.

More than 10 years on, she's still professes love to me and wishes I marry her, but I made a vow to myself never to have anything to do with her after she and my best friend betrayed me.

Now she and my friend are sworn enemies

If you were in my shoes, what would you do.

gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.

princdebola201:
this is sheer ignorance. Tinubu hands were tied in ambode issue. You outsiders that only read lagos politics on internet thinks Tinubu dictactes everything
You see the cabals of lagos re GAC and they re invisible spread all over the 5 division of lagos. Tinubu is just a poster boy.
Tinubu will be disgraced the moment he go against their wish.
If Tinubu dies today another leader will take his place, the queue is like Ibadan royal stool.
The next Governor of lagos is waiting on the line