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ProphetUdeme:
Proverbs 6 vs 32 - whosoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding, a wound and reproach shall he get all the days of his life. People now commiting pre marital sex and sexual immorality this days and they all see it as being morally okay. But its so unfortunate that this so called enjoyment and okay lifestyles comes with a curse,

DELAYED MARRIAGE - especially to the ladies, when they reach 30 years and they are no suitor they will now move from one prayer houses to another seeking help and blaming their misfortune to their village and family people. This is a lamentation

ACADEMIC DECLINE - This is also another deadly effect of sexual immorality especially to those who were called by God. Majority of Students now are dropping out from the university, graduating with third class, and the undergraduates with low C.G.P.A, some write jamb for 6 years without admission when their mates are going higher. They fail to realize that God had cursed the disobedient who refused to keep his commandments to abstain from fornication. (1 thessalonians 4 vs 3). What an anguish!

STAGNATION - here is another stigma of those whose life and future have been wrecked by adultery. You will be in the same low position for 10 years. Your business is not moving, your financial life is still in a morribund, your mates are buying land, and building houses and youre still in that one room apartment as a tenant. Dude calm down, your life of sexual immorality has place you in such an awful condition.

DISAPPOINTMENTS IN BUSINESS - especially to those who normally patronizes prostitutes. every where you go and in all your endeavours you will be disappointed, you will be denied any form of help. Your business will be going down. why? Check yourself out

BARRENESS - majority of divorce cases roots down to barreness as the cause. Your husband (who is an unbeliever) will kick you out if you cant give him kids and bring another woman to your marital home. Dont worry, you used to commit abortions and commit sexual immorality with men who is up to be your grandfather.

SPIRITUAL DECLINE - you will be seeing yourself being chased by masquerades, and unclean animals in dream because your spirit is dead. Witches and wizards will be using you anyhow they like.

Proverbs 6 vs 26 - for by means of a whorish woman, a man is reduced to a piece of bread and the adultress will hunt for his precious life.
Sexual immorality is a sin that destroys the future. Repent from it and turn to God and He will restore back all you have lost. Happy sunday.

bitter truth that 95percent of people aint ready to hear,its reali nt easy to conquer dat sin,GOD give us the grace and baptize us with the holy ghost

Niklausa:
Tell that pastor that he should take his opinion and shove it down his throat. Because that's what it is- "His opinion".
He has no right to force his congregation or listeners to follow his opinion, or to turn his opinion into a law.

Where was it ever stated in the bible that any couple that engages in a particular form/style of sexual intercourse has committed sin?
It was never stated.

For crying out loud, we are talking about couples who are already married, and as such, they are free to have sex any way they want as far as it's just between the two of them.

In the case of watching adult movies; I believe it's right as far as the couples do it together and their aim is to improve their sex lives.

just the same thought i had wen i heard dat gist

Recently i heard an unconfirmed story about a certain pastor who said the only making out position which is acceptable b4 God is "missionary style" and any married man/woman who engages in any other position,Mouth-Action or watches adult movies (even though married) sins against God..this got me curious so i thought it would be wise to hear from people who are more spiritually inclined than i am..your opinion pls

Wat is dis one saying? Sumtyms people stay too long without a spouse cos of many reasons which includes: Gods time hasnt cum yet, no resources(for men),evil manipulation 4rm ur village,lack of virtue in u(men dnt marry beauty), e.t.c,nt all delayed marriages are cosd by evil hubby/wify

nypomaino:
Beauty pageant= Glorified name for prostitution..make i hear say most of the ogas incharge of dat stuff didnt shine her congo b4 she clinched dat award

dis comment should be mine,how another moniker appeared on it after it was posted is wat i cant fathom

Lemi forward ma resume ASAP. Me sef wan chop ma country money

Beauty pageant= Glorified name for prostitution..make i hear say most of the ogas incharge of dat stuff didnt shine her congo b4 she clinched dat award

Do u hav a place u can stay for upto two weeks? If yes tel him u wana travel cos u commited a crime and the police are looking 4 u(i hope u dnt commit one soon) 2ndly,u can explain to ur fiancee hw u got ursef into a mess,then ask her to cum for an impromptu visitation in other to bail u out

Mr traveller

U don dey open ur frnd nyash,why nt forge urs and let d young man be?

Just incase

Ok

Space booked

Apart from the company knowing hw much u'v got,any day they sack u,ur account will be freezed and u knw wat dat means..never leave more dan 10/20k in a salary account

F50:
My brother there is absolutely nothing wrong with your wife...the problem is with you. Now let me try to explain.

Your wife is behaving like a normal woman and that's how they were created. The problem is that you didn't created boundaries in your relationship.

Most women are created to be loyal and submissive now couple that with a man that disvirgined them or a man that is better than you in bed, what you get is an over loyal woman even when she don marry someone else.



Now you may be her husband quite all right but as long as you didn't set strict boundaries that are supposed to checkmate her past loyaltys you are in for this type of Mary go round.

I assure u that your wife loves you but why she removed her ring I believe she has already told you, and from her answer it looks like u caused it too. Some people believed in do me I do you god no go vex. That's if she was telling the truth about her true reason.

My girlfriend can not make the mistake of chatting with an ex not to talk of my wife.
She can not even wish him a happy birthday, she can't have his number on her phone, she can't pick his calls o! She can not interact with him through any media possible. She just can't simple.

For me its better my girl friend cheats on me with another man than with an ex. I will forgive her immediately if she sleeps with someone else I no go even think am too much...but with an ex? The relationship is over o! I hate ex's pass devil o! And she knows . she can not try any form of communication with ex o! Becos the wahala that will result she won't survive it.
These are the kind of boundaries you for don set since b4 una even marry. As in eeh the first time she even chat with the ex u for break that your flat screen TV for parlour and her mirror for room and her phone so that she go know say ex's na no go area.
Then if she flirt with a neutral guy just do like say e no pain u too much so that she will be able to differentiate ex's temper from neutral guys temper. You see she don dey understand u

boundary or no boundary,a lady who wants to cheat wil cheat.wil u police her around? Infact by the time u do all u just said,she wil be more careful,do it in a way that u wont evn knw

Its not gud for a lady to share her marital issues with her fellow lady(unless a relative) let alone a guy..the guy even said sumtin about wound healing meaning ur wife must hav told him how broken hearted she is..Apparently why they'v not lashed each other yet is cos the guy is yet to push enough attack..i dont even wana talk about her plenty lies and saving of male contacts with abbreviation in her phone..oga if u swear say another man never see ur wife unclothedness since u met her,u wil surely die b4 u even get home..i dnt mean to be harsh but the truth is that u married a glorified love peddler..am sori u cant make her change nw and i wont ask u to divorce her,just see urself as a bachelor or widower,get urself consoled and try do tins dat wil make u hapi,u can try channeling ur attention/love to ur daughter,it myt work 4 u

She's married and she's married,let her remain wit her husband,her impatience and lack of trust/believe ova her pastor's prophecy cosd dis..90% of couples today aint destined for each other,shes nt alone

My people perish cos of lack of knowledge..all these people askin OP if d bible mentioned about bank transaction or if its bad for nigeria to hav means of identifying its citizens,i pity una..it takes a person spiritually active to undastnd wat d OP said is just the truth.."as it was during the time of noah,so shall it be in the time of son of man"...its not mandatory that evry1 must believe

DrGroove:
Lolz. na u Bleep up na..why u no sabi do? As she leave u, u suppose commit suicide instead of killing yourself.u no try at all

lwkmd na only u waka cum?

DrGroove:
Ntorrr! shebi when I dey tell u dat time,u dey form don jazzy

not ma fault nah, i been reali meant to wife her but d babe cum jam person wey sabi do am pas me,na em she leave me waka..i beg am tire ooo cum swear say if na gold she carry,make she waka,say i no beg again

Dats baba one chance talking

Ok

Seen

Chai,if to say i marry dat ma calabar gulfrnd,i for don get one political appointment 4 dat state nw*crying*

E no pain me cos i wasnt one of doz clamouring for CHANGE..Meanwhile,am stil waiting for d monthly allowance for joblez youths and de 1dollar=1naira promise..if he fails on dat one,na blunt knife i go carry go meet am 4 Aso Rock

TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

once a cheat,always a cheat..wen u marry her,she wil bleep ur landlord or ur next door neighbour..never marry a lady who cant hold kip her legs closed,u can tolerate anything but not infidelity

I dey come

Laughter,joy,promotion and all round brktro shall never cease in ur life.hbd

Bring back our girls

Trinity213:
thanks for educating them. I can see a very BRIGHT future waiting for you in tax consultancy. try to key in to your state and imo. R is on ground and with your connection the sky is your stepping stone. God bless you.

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