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Just apologise and let her go. The girl set is seriously cheating.

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bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

From what i have read, your wife has discipline. The guy almost influenced here totally but your discovery has nipped it in the bud. Don't throw her out. Start tactically reminding her of her principles,Monitor her and you will find out she won't do it again.

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thesicilian:
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Atiku is finished in Rivers

Nothing but the truth.

This is why I cannot vote Peter Obi. I don't trust Igbos. You never can tell what they will do with power.

HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?

Take her to a psychiatric hospital, they will prescribe some medication and she will be fine.

Some clowns are criticising Wike for recovering the aircraft, saying the State doesn't need it. Maybe Wike should have left it to rot or dashed it to your father. Mumu people everywhere.

Odidigboigbo:
You lied, Cross River PDP is led by Imoke and Imoke is Atiku core supporter and one of the campaign directors

talk wetin you sabi

shortIGBOman:
Edo, Akwaibom, Cross River, Osun, Delta, Anambra,Enugu Bayelsa are in Atiku's pocket. Atiku will also pull over 25% votes from the other Southern States.

Atiku will be very lucky to get 25% votes in Cross River.

Honjoshy4u:
Well said.
With Delta, Bayelsa, Akwa-Ibom, Edo and Cross-River then using some foot soldiers from Rivers; Wike should just do his worst

Remove Cross River from the list. Very few people in Cross River are talking about Atiku right now. Cos Cross River PDP is 80% Wike

dmill:
Haaaa

This man disappointed me, i was even supporting him, stand gidigba behind him. The truth has fishout he's even the person distracting PDP

Am not a supporters of PDP nor APC

Am a truly obidient yusful to the country

But for that man Wike God will punish him, he's just making a stupid propaganda news around very day conserning their Party as if he was the messiah....

@seun please borrow me your puff for this man

mumu de worry you. Who told you Wike needs your stupid support?

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boxypane:
“She was unconscious and at the point of death” does not mean she’s dead.

She is a staff of Magistrate court Calabar, she died 3hours ago at Navy Victory hospital, Calabar.

justdogitto:
Whoever posted this was there when she saw the husband with the supposed side chick at spar...The person was also there to confirm the speed at which she was driving and the person was also there when the husband dropped the supposed side chick...The person was also there to confirm the death...

The guy was driving behind them. The husband must have said what happened.

Cross River is not Igbo so it's not possible to add it to south east.

Why una never arrest Bobrisky. He even has police escorts.

Nonexisting1:
Wike is uncouth and not fit for any administrative position. Nigeria is a jungle which is why someone like that is Governor today.

what is the performance of the ones that are not uncouth? You better shut your trap if you have nothing to say.

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I'm trying to make up my mind on who to give my vote come 2023. One of the candidates considered is Peter Obi. But I want to know if he supports Biafra or One Nigeria first. No harm intended.