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freecocoa:
Wow Op are you for real?so nice guys like this still dey naija?I'm touched.
Seriously though,she's gone,I can't believe you are even planning to marry her after she opened her mouth to tell you"I don't feel anything for you" that's when you should have ended it with her,she's not letting you touch her but is doing it with someone else,guy forget the babe,its very obvious she's moved on,if you propose to her now she won't accept,the only time she may sit and think about you,is when she and this new guy starts having problems,just man up and move on,I believe you will find love again,as for the girl its her loss.

P.S two hours is too much,give her 10 mins if her load plenty add 5 mins for her to get the fukc out of your house and don't give her tfare o,cos she go use your money go cook for the other guy. I just don't know why some girls can't hold on to something good,and I won't be surprised if I hear that she was used and dumped by the other dude.

since I was born till now that am getting old, I have never seen a girl so wise like u.

Tymax:
Children, what does this story teach us?

Mumy, l learnt that if four boys drug a girl and molest her she will end up marrying tru luv in future, forgive her girlfriend who cusd her molestation but wunt help her.

I wunt eat a left over food of a fool or bad boy.

dmcdad:
[size=50] YOU ARE WRONG! [/size]

Supported. He is perfectly wrong.
I agree with u that there is no perfect being save for God. But to say that even a man who claims his faithful will cheat if given the opportunity, then u lie bkx not all. I take myself for example. I didnt cheat on my ex girlfriend even though I didnt't love her. Yet with all the temptations around I was faithful with less effort. How much more when I will take a vow on the alter b4 God to be faithfully. Don't think that what u can't do is impossible to everyone else. Always answer for yourself. or ar u the type of passanger that answers "NO" when u ar not the only passanger in the car when the driver as asks "ANYBODY DROPPING AT BERGER?

For me, I have only one male friend who is truely a friend. The rest ar female friends who ar just like my best friend. I have been with 4 of them over 3 year but nothing intimate has pass between any of us. To me, it is when u don't respect your female friend that u start breeding intimate imaginations. But if you respect them and take them just as you would a male friend, u can never be having that intimate ideas even when they are half naked befor u. talking out of experience.

My cousin once told me that he hate virgins bkx I told him I will marry a virgin. When I asked y, he said the stress involved in disvirgining them is unbearable and the guilt. He is a very addicted in cheating. Tell your friend to first try and find out the reason he is behaving strange. if the reason is less convincing, she should leave him as quick as her mind can forget before she makes the mistake she may carry to her grave. There are countless men out there who are looking for girls like her who are virgin, simple,humble,responsible,reasonable and loving without reservation. Men like me who will never settle for less.

farano:
Many things...like buying cars, houses, diamonds, etc

we are in nairaLand not dreamerland.

I will I die fo her wen I know that another man will bleep her on my wake keeping night in the name of consoling her.

I have been in this situation many times. After the person goes to wherever they ar going I end up meeting someone more beautiful,intelligent,and loving.

LogoDWhiz:
We're friends right?
This is an example of how normal frienship.

When it turns to freindzone is when the gal knows d intention of d guy, either plays on it by telling him she will think but in reality she's doing nothing about it, or make u act as a bf but in reality you are not.

Taking d Op into consideration, the gal is actually showing him signs, if she asks him for recharge cards or other sort of thing like that, he will/might gladly do, hoping that would convince her to date him, cos the girl hasn't ourightly and in herr behaviour shown him that she isn't interested and she's dating someone else.

*phew*
so many things to say.
Hope u understood what i wrote sha.

Btw, what about the thread?

forget about the thread. I just used it to mend my boxers.

misshoree:
no bae can friendzone yu.what yu feeling like?

maybe, he is feeling like a mosquito hero.

I once did it. but neva again or not anymore, just choose one.

krall:
yes ofcourse. she said pixmic are one popular studio guys that photographed them.
abi?

guy, if u ar not jocking then u need a mental checkup

omoshelwa:
This is really something.

One would have agreed she is a courageous female by proffesing her love for you which many women can't do but the reverse is the case especially when you have told her point blank that you can't date her. A desperate woman could be a dangerous one too. Make sure you terminate all means of contact between you two but don't be too aggresive while doing it brother. Only God knows what she can do.

You have already done the right thing by blocking her and all the stuffs you said you did buh really brother, you said she was known to be a sex maniac, why then did she deny you sex and told you that would be after marriage? I was expecting her to jump at ur offer.

in order to make him believe she is not a sex maniac

omoshelwa:
This is really something.

One would have agreed she is a courageous female by proffesing her love for you which many women can't do but the reverse is the case especially when you have told her point blank that you can't date her. A desperate woman could be a dangerous one too. Make sure you terminate all means of contact between you two but don't be too aggresive while doing it brother. Only God knows what she can do.

You have already done the right thing by blocking her and all the stuffs you said you did buh really brother, you said she was known to be a sex maniac, why then did she deny you sex and told you that would be after marriage? I was expecting her to jump at ur offer.

in order to make him believe she is not a sex maniac

konjakonja:
Good day beautiful women of the kitchen,good day fellow gentlemen that consume what the special ladies cook.

Please I need your help or contributions on this argument I had with my pretty Judith yesterday. We met 5 months ago in a friends birthday party and exchanged phone numbers. To cut long story short,she came to my house yesterday and insists she wants to cook white rice and beans I said to her Nne! You know I don't eat beans please, just prepare rice and stew,her response was " hell no, you can't meet your protein requirement if you don't eat beans" I said but there is meat and fish which I know contains protein,why do we need any other thing in the name of meeting your so called protein requirement? She answers by saying that it has been proven scientifically that protein from plant origin is better than that of animal. Since I am not a science inclined person,I had to settle for her beans that night but something in me tells me she used my brain to drink garri that moment by bringing science into it. Please those of you with good knowledge of food science should help me out please..

Thank you,
Bro Konjakonja

Bro konjakonja,lol.
reading your post makes me desire to haVe a taste of that your brain mix with egusi soup. Who knows, that may be even sweeter than drinking it with garri.

donpeey22:
Nigerian society also look down on eligible single men, why don't such men get so desperate like single ladies would?

do u live under the rock or ar u a female trying to be a male?
single men are not desperate even when there are pressure to because they know they can get a wife any day the decides to marry. even at 99.

slickyb:
hehehehe.. I can't even shout concerning dis issue. I luv kids a lot nd I hope to give birth to nothing less dan 6 children by God's grace. future hubby I hope ur listening oh . haha

Yes my dear. I will do my duty perfectly come 2050. Just be sure not to funicate till then.

This is the main reason nairaland was made. Nice rightup

do any of u talking trash, even u, the op, have any song to your names? who knows if any of u can sing the national anthem well? Here u ar talking about artists that didn't live up to expectation as if u know how to sing talk more of composing a song.

ochon: I'm still wondering why the OP in the thread that lead to the birthing of this thread received so much flak for her thread. Did you bashers read that thread at all? As in, read it slowly, assimilating the post word by word? Because it seems to me most of y'all didn't get what the OP(on that thread) was saying.

Safarigirl, Onyiridike NEVER said ladies should settle for less, she never did!! She said ladies should not be "obsessed" with men's height as a PRIORITY for marriage. You need to check the meaning of the word "obsessed." She's basically saying don't miss out on a good man because he didn't meet up to your "height scale" you've made a MUST criteria for a man you will marry. And she wasn't making it a must, she's just giving an advice. You can choose to STICK to your choice or not, your cup of tea. She talked about missing out on a good and successful man because she listened to naysayers discouraging her even though she liked him.

What that lady is trying to say, is "sometimes you've got to compromise" on certain things. She never said "settle for less." They are entirely two different meanings (I'll explain with a former post of mine from my former diary later on in this post). The truth is, You, I and everyone out there MUST "compromise" at one certain time/stage in our lives. It's a must!!

"Compromising" doesn't mean settling for less. Growing up (even now we're all grown), we all dreamt of a good life, a life of riches and affluence. A life where we'd have to cross our legs on a couch, eat all day and live like kings. A life where we have mansions, drive the poshiest cars, date the finest men/women. A life where we're paid in 6 figures. All these are wishes/dreams. But guess what? At the end of the day, few get to have it such way, majority will end up "compromising" and living their lives as they see it while still hustling to make it big. Most of us dream to be a don like Mike Adenuga. But guess what? Most of us will never get to live that life. So we will work and make sure we are "at least" successful to enjoy the basic amenities of life. It's called "compromising" not "settling for less."

Before I explain with a diary update of mine about what "compromising" and "settling for less" means, let me paint a clear picture with this example. Most of us, if not all, wants to get paid handsomely from their first job; say N200K per month. That's the general wishes. But how many of us get to find such jobs? What we've at the end of the day is people "compromising" and going for the moderately-paying job while seeking for a better paying job. Such people had to compromise to build up their work experience and get better jobs in the future. Which fresh graduate that dreamt of getting paid "N150K" a month will see a "N90K" paying job for a month, and say "no o, I must not settle for less, I must stay unemployed till i get a N150K paying job?" Your guess is as good as mine.

Now to explain what "compromising" and "settling for less" means, here's an excerpt from a diary I used to keep.



P.S: Your issue about the stigma women face in Nigeria has nothing to do with the former thread. This is a whole new discussion which you should bring up in another thread for us to trash it out. And yes, I believe women are facing some stigma when it comes to marriage in Nigeria, but that's another topic entirely.

I think u ar the one that need to go back and reread what the op said. she countered the first op

@ op, I don't think u will still be speaking like this wen u clock 49 but still single. I have seen things and wish u should bend down and see them too. don't because u ar avhiving all u wish, talk as if u ar the controller of fate.

blink182: That girl looks too much like her for it not to be her. The resemblance is just too much.

so all of you watched the video ba?
now what is the difference from the actress of the porn and those who watched the porn to masturbate behind closed doors?
Yeye pretending pikin.

Undoubtedly the Op has been
victimize by close pal

I think she was victimized by her father.

inferior beings are again fighting for a right to equal handshakes when they are the same people who have for many occation turn down handshakes.
since i learnt my lesson trying to shake a girl, i havent try such again expecially since i know they will only behave as they usually do.

dridowu: Quadruplet ? God
let my own be sextuplet

the man have three already b4 the quadruplet. yours will b 5 b4 your sextuplet. get ready for your husband abi your wife to run away upon notice.

iy rove my shensh op rumour
iy rove de boi inshid my nika
kai, brood of gishes, i rove d ray i shnore.

weda na shekua abi na kuashe that one no concern me. my own na make his madnx no cross north, or...

Tunji olayo, my very bxt friend introduced me to the medicinal cockroach meat which i am enjoying rit now with okra soup.

how ar we to know she aint wearing panties when she is wearing skate or do u xpect us to look under her legs tru our phones?