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ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Your husband opened the door for the enemy and now they have partnered with him,he can't stop again even if he decides to. The spirit of worldiness and fornication have taken over him. I will advise you to enagage in fasting and night prayers for him. If he truly paid your bride price.When you pray the Lord will hear you if you too are not living a life of sin.
If you need more help,contact me.

beautyfunke:
Pls can someone explain first fruit, is it important a Christian must give first fruit?

JESUS CHRIST IS THE FIRST FRUIT OF ALL THINGS. THEREFORE NOTHING LIKE GIVING ALL YOUR SALARY FOR THE MONTH TO THE CHURCH OR PASTOR.

WE MUST SAY THE TRUTH SO THAT D TRUTH WILL SET PEOPLE FREE. PASTORS NA LONG THROAT FOR MONEY DEY MAKE UNA COLLECT FIRST FRUIT.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYDo_mwwj04

Pastorjohn2:
1.2m for school fees when the child will still learn worldly things?

Why not offer that to God and sow seed for ever lasting salvation

Truly this generation is damned to hell.

THE GIFT OF SALVATION CAN NOT BE BOUGHT WITH MONEY.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpZbdc2CqYo

Lisaint:
I got a plug at NIS festac

But is fees is high
But trust me you will get it within 2weeks

2 weeks ?? God forbid. All the persons I helped got theirs same day.
Even mine was collected same day.
You go on the morning and leave with it in the evening....connection matters a lot in this country..

I LOVE BOTH MY DAD AND MUM,BUT WILL ALWAYS GIVE MY MUM MORE BECAUSE OF HER EXTRA LOVE AND CARE,ITS EXCEPTIONAL.

DEAR FATHERS: Life is not just all about providing for your family,LOVE AND CARE,GETTING INVOLVED IN YOUR CHILDREN'S LIFE MATTERS ALOT.

chieni:
Oya go to the forest and lead them. it's not by mouth.

Am not a soldier.. But he was trained for that. Not to kill snakes

WE SENT HIM TO THE FOREST TO KILL BOKO HARAM AND BANDITS ,HE WENT THERE TO KILL SNAKE...
HE MUST BE SACKED IMMEDIATELY...

Iyaebe:
It is the reason I avoid all these tech guys and bitcoin people and any guy involved with online making money rubbish. If you ain't into oil and gas, real estates or an international footballer, please find your square root.

MY BEST FRIEND IS INTO OIL AND GAS,AND HE TRAVELS ALOT TO DIFFERENT COUNTRIES. IF YOU ARE WORTHY,I WILL CONNECT YOU BOTH.
REACH OUT TO ME LETS TALK IF YOU ARE SERIOUS.

Kriss216:
Says a broke and wretched Nigerian girl with just 2 Bras and 3 pants.

You get mouth ooo..hahaha

OAra:
A simple thread to ask about anything that Nairalanders think might be worth checking out on a 3-months trip in their country, as well as any suggestion they would give to a foreigner visiting.

Given the current travel restrictions, I'm planning to take the trip in the fall of 2022 / once the restrictions will be lifted. Regarding security I have read the main travel advice given by the Italian Foreign Ministry (avoid Imo, Anambra, Abia, Borno, Yobe and Adamawa; avoid going out late etc etc), but I wanted to ask some suggestions from locals, given that I'll obviously stand out due to my skin color.

Thanks a lot for any help

Stay away from the north,I repeat stay away from the northern and eastern states of Nigeria.
If you want to visit the south especially ancient city of Benin,the first tribe to have contact with the Europeans in Nigeria,then holla at me.
Benin,Lagos and warri will and abuja should be fun for you. And am willing to assist you through these cities.

NOW I KNOW THIS AKINTOLA IS A MAD MAN.

Dailyparrot:
We have been suspicious of my brother's lifestyle for many years now and recently, his wife is reiterating our suspicion.

We are suspecting my brother of either being possessed, or someone did some juju on him or he belongs to a secret cult based on these two behaviors.

1. He does not like rendering help to his immediate family members but extremely generous outside.

2. He can sleep with anything that has vagina including old, young, fat, slim, beautiful, ugly, single and married women.

My parents gave birth to many children but unfortunately my dad died very early leaving my mother to take care of the responsibilities of the family.

This made my elder brothers to leave home on time to learn trade. Luck smiled on my elder brother and he made money very early. Less than 2 years after he did his freedom, he got his first car and started building his duplex immediately.

Since that time till date, he has only become richer and richer and richer.

We never received any financial assistance from extended family members because their thoughts is that my brother is well to do so we don't need help but the reality is different.

As rich as my brother became, we continued the petty family business that was very stressful until all of us left home to either university or marriage before my mother stopped the business because it is not what she can do alone.

My brother never cared for my mother. That's the one that pains me the most whenever I remember the incident of the past and how my mother died in the local village hospital while my brother was at home drinking and entertaining visitors.

My brother would come home for Christmas and pay 6 months electricity bill for every one in our community while giving my mom 15k. He never wants anything to do with us. For him to give you money, you really need to explain what you need the money for and that doesn't mean you are getting it immediately.

My secondary school classmates thought I came from a very wretched home not knowing that I have a brother that is extremely financially buoyant.

The number of people my brother brought from our village to Lagos to set up are more than 10 that we know. These people ended up bringing their siblings to town and establishing them as well. That is to say that my brother has lifted a lot of families out of poverty but never his family members.

One of my brother was having difficulty in his business and the best that my brother could do was to ask him to park his belongings to go and stay in the village with his wife and children. If not for my intervention that I used 1.9 million to set up a business for him to be repaying me monthly as he sells. This is an amount my brother will never ever give any of us for any reason whatsoever. He would rather gift you 100k to put in your business and go about telling people how he has helped you but you have refused to grow the business. Please, what can 100k really do for a business man?

In fact, I can't type all that we have experienced with my brother who's supposed to be our source of upliftment.

For those that will say I should go and work and entitlement mentality thing, all I typed here happened in the past when we were still dependent. None of us demands money from him anymore as we're all independent financially now.

But recent happenings brought back those memories. My brother and his wife.

We thought that his wife and children would enjoy his money since they are entitled to it but we were wrong.

My brother has several duplexes in my home state and in Lagos yet he lives in a rented two bedroom apartment. In that two bedroom apartment, his children and house boys (boy boy) share the same room and this is not the well developed part of Lagos oo but it's closer to his market.

My brother can afford to buy land in the place that they live and build standard 3 storey building and give his children a good sense of his wealth but he will never do it.

When the wife asks him for money for hair, he will give her 5k. If she sees a hair that she likes that sells for 50k. My brother will bring out calculator and divide 50k by 500 and tell the wife that that money is enough for him to cut his hair for the next 10 years.

The children don't dress well like people whose father is super rich. He got an SUV that the wife drives which made people think that the wife is enjoying but inside that woman in the SUV is an unhappy woman that wishes she can turn back the hands of time so she could marry someone else.

Sadly, the wife can't even complain to us because she took advantage of the way her husband was treating us to treat us badly when she got married to my brother and considering the fact that my brother was the supposed bread winner. Well, we can't be dependent for life.

Now, the cock has come home to roost. She's enjoying the husband "as is".

YOUR BORTHER IS AN OCCULTIC MAN,THEY ARE THE ONES WHO BEHAVE LIKE THAT.
THEY ARE WARNED NEVER TO HELP THR FAMILY BUT CAN HELP OUTSIDERS...IF THEY HELP THE FAMILY TO STAND THEY WILL BECOME POOR.

babajeje123:
What would you say to a lady that was divorced after 8 years because she couldn't give birth? All medical tests show they were both okay

I WOULD SAY SHE WOULD HAVE WAITED STILL,ITS GOD WHO GIVES CHILDREN NOT ANY HUMAN BEING.

BUT IF SHE WAS DIVORCED BY HER HUSBAND FOR NOT HAVING KIDS FOR 8 YEARS,SHE SHOULD TAKE IT IN GOOD FATE,AND MOVE ON. BUT I KNOW SHE WILL DEFINITELY GIVE BIRTH IN GOD'S OWN TIME.
KINGS ARE NOT GIVEN BIRTH TO IN A HURRY,SHE CARRYS KIDS WITH MASSIVE DESTINY INSIDE HER

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

AM MORE INTERESTED IN THE WHY....WHY DID HE SERVE YOU A DIVORCE PAPERS??
MAYBE OTHER LADIES CAN LEARN FROM IT. THANKS

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9npHtHaSmY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A8gzrUbTNI4

Buliwyf:
Too many idiots in Christianity.

You are first

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEQe_Nw5i9g

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acsTH3Bd7N4

The north didn't join us in the endsars protest,BUT AS IT IS NOW,WE NEED TO JOIN THEM,ANYTHING AGAINST BUHARI IS A WELCOME DEVELOPMENT.

Not even Assurance is assured in Nigeria.
Buhari have killed this country.

Ladies who are mentally empty have nothing else to display apart from their flesh.

Things that worm will eat in hellfire.

I see MNK dying..
I see war break out in the eastern states because of this.
These I have seen.

Save the date.

Prophecy fulfilled before our eyes.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1mJKI8-THs

So says the forerunner of the ANTICHRIST

walkbrazil4k:
What do you think

In this case the Ogun have more sense than those worshipping it.

6 pastors exposed by the revelation of apostle peter Daniel.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EIaIyz0yfc

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seamfund:
Before you travel abroad you must take the vaccine

Op if Canada offer you visa you go take d vaccine or not

Never!!!

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HURRY WHILE IT LAST.

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PILE 25K OLD PRICE 50K

FIBROID 60K OLD PRICE 120K.

YOU CAN ASK THOSE WHO HAVE PATRONIZE ME HERE ON NAIRALAND THEY CAN TESTIFY.

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TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THIS OPPORTUNITY,HEALTH IS WEALTH.
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