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Helpout12345:
I think what's happening is this.

1. The age difference is playing out here. You are 27 and he is 39. You as a woman are at the peak of your sexual life, and he is passing his peak. At 39, almost 40, his testosterone is beginning to drop.

2. He also has more responsibilities and things to worry about as a productive man at this stage. You mentioned he is doing well financially with investment here and there. He has things to think about alot in this stage of his life combined with the beginning of his testosterone decline. Stress increases cortisol hormones. Cortisol hormones further reduces testosterone hormones

My advise is thus

1. You need to talk to him about my number 2 above. Let him know worries about things are bad for his overall health condition. It can lead to many health complications. Let him know his health is very important to you and his children.

2. About testosterone level, you and him should research into how to boost testosterone naturally. At age 39 going 40, he needs to maintain certain living conditions to maintain his testosterone level.

3. Talk to him about your sexual desire. Let him know how you feel starved but be careful not to rub it against his ego. Praise his sexual prowess and how he used to handle you in the past and tell him you crave for it still now.

4. Penetration is not only way he can ease your sexual tension. Suggest finger job and other ones you like to him. Even if his service tool is not willing, his hand, mouth and tongue can do many many things to help you ease sexual tensions.

MufasaLion:


The rapist is obviously sick but he didn't announce it and I'm sure he's secretly been receiving medical care, not spiritual bullshit he feeds to his gullible congregations.

He will keep funding his lifestyle and medical bills with the tithe and offerings from his sheeples.

AreaFada2:
Unlike pigs that produce up to 20 piglets per litter, those beautiful antelopes rarely produce more than one or two per litter.

So they are really in serious danger of extinction. Unlike pigs/boar that eat lots of things, they are very picky herbivores and they need thick forests too.

With deforestation, the risk is compounded. Our grandkids may never see living ones if we don't stop killing them.

Chicken & catfish mass produced are becoming cheaper to buy now.

We need to preserve these animals for tourism when we run out of oil/gas.

Kingcalls:
Any women that uses the phrase " how can u do this to a woman" is highly manipulative, selfish and self entitled..... they are the ones that will physically abuse men , and when u give it to them back , they throw that manipulative phrase

frog12:
what did she give you in return for keeping quiet

she cheat with you too?

Corrinthians:
This is not looking too good for the Adelekes.

Sheggy13:
I'm having a hard time trying to understand you please, especially your dates here. First, you said your visa appointment was for January 2022 which was 10 months ago. Then you deferred to Fall 2023 which should start around August-September 2023, but also said your resumption is soon. That's contradictory.

slivertongue:
Quite unfortunate, if true.

Kazeemakeem:
For me single mum are the best,they must have learn from past experience

daddytime:
Wow.....

I'm sitting here and just wondering how you'd handle your own blood if he or she turns out to be more hyper than your babe's son.

You mentioned how you hate noise of any sort, let's just say you definitely ain't prepared to have any kids of your own.

It is obvious you have zero love for this kid and I'm afraid to tell you that, you can't love a momma and hate her toddler kid. From the woman's side, that'd be a no-no.

It's best to "die" this relationship and bury whatever it is you feel for this woman because e no go work.

It's a good thing you are letting it out on how you truly feel instead of to go dey use shame chop winch.

Meat wey person dey forbid e no dey use teeth share am.

If you can't love a kid no matter the circumstance, you'd have same problems with yours for sure and you'd be venting out your frustrations on your spouse and before you'd say Buha....you don open another thread here say your one year marriage don get k-leg.

A child will always return the vibe given. In his innocence, he's able to pick up on your hatred for him which of course won't help him love you in return and the subtle tantrums is what you'll get as his way of protesting/rebelling. Show him some love and you'll be amazed how calm he'd become.

I pray you grow up fast and find a way to handle this pretty well.

Let her go bro....

Oyindamolah:
Spending a man's money

Nitoriolohun1:
There is nothing as pleasurable releasing urine stored up in the bladder for awhile and closing ones eyes as it gushes out through the genital... Too underated !!

Kobonaire234:
Pastor is not a hypocrite.

Many churches have a 'NO TESTING BEFORE PURCHASE' policy. Or , to put it bluntly 'NO SAMPLING BEFORE PURCHASE'

The reason why they do it...it is because if you can resist temptation before marriage, you will be able to resist temptation AFTER marriage. Because adultery affects far too many people..especially when children are involved. (It is not a perfect rule, but you know...).

The bible is also very clear about that. No sechs before maridge.

You don't have to like the policy...and some pastors would go ahead if the copule repented before marriage.