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SimplePlan34:
I don't know why such topics are on front page. No country on earth is a match to the USA in an open war even Russia. U are talking about a country with a navy bigger than the next 5 biggest navy nations, the country with d biggest Airforce. A country who spends over a billion dollars every 24hrs on its military since 9/11. Trump would have full veto powers in a time of war dats what he wants Iran is only using demslves as d scape goats.

YUNGCONCEPT11:
Pls @ Excel pls help us write the Dua here

Lawalemi:
I trained a girl through OND albeit that she's a relation. Not even a Christmas message from her to me yesterday.

I've learnt to focus on my family

aumeehn:
Go ahead please.

aumeehn:
wa'alaiku mussalam. You just fast the normal way. Your intention depends on what you want from Allah, so mine might differ from yours. Just that after that prayer before a year elapse you will see progress in whatever you are doing. Suratul Waqee'a as you know is the surah of wealth there's even a hadith that said so. So if you want money recite suratul waqee'a daily non stop.

aumeehn:
We muslims are truly blessed. This thread changed my life wallahi. I dont know that all i need to succeed in this life and the heareafter is inside the Quran that i always keep in my room. There was a prayer my Old man who happens to be a Modibbo gave me few months ago. Fast Seven days and Recite 25 Waqee'a inbetween all the five obligatory salats. On the last day of the fast one should recite 50 of the said surah instead of the normal 25. Making it 1k in one week. Honestly i'm feeling and experincing the result of that prayer.. Please Sheik Empiree i know that posting some things here is not healthy since its a public forum but help us and be dropping one or two Nakali for Those of us that have made up our minds to do it no matter the challenges. Thank you.

What is your take on Praying for a non muslim?? Something like Using Islamic Nakali to help a non muslim. I hope you understand the question.

Chelsea4real:
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EXLOVER:
She look so sick.

Doing giveaway this xmas. I'm giving 5k each to first 10 people to quote this comment.

Empiree:
if according to Hadith (true or not) that asasi or sihr affected Nabi, who else can't be affected?.

So yes, muslim who already built "defensive wall" (dhikr) around himself overtime will be protected In Sha Allah. First all, asasi should never be done on anyone needless to say to fellow Muslim. It is Haram. Even making legit dua to destroy someone is asasi. It should only be used in extreme cases and even at that we must exercise lots of suuru and if possible reach out to the fellow for settlement.

But this "Qur'anic asasi" in my opinion is better used on thug or someone that is physically powerful than you and is violent and evil. It doesn't matter whether he's as big as Big Show, Brock Lesnar or Undertaker, you skinny man will humble him really quickly. But then again, it is better to ask Allah to deal with such target instead of taking things in your hands.

But as human we aren't patient. We wanna revenge by taking action after sometime. For this reason it is good to know the firaku. But you must have a very strong sabab that initiated this action. In another word intention most be just and Allah knows.

Abi, didn't a prophet asked Allah to destroy his people when they transgressed too much?. And Allah did. In qiyama, that prophet will bring it up when the ummah go to him to intercede for them. We read the Hadith isn't?.

That's why whoever try this scheme even in extreme cases must still ask for forgiveness from Allah and Allah will accept him because He knows his excuse was valid.

Unique357:
This evening when I returned home, she didnt save any foods for me so I didnt bother to ask her too since she was still angry ( frowned face ), I went to the kitchen i prepared noodles. By the times the kids went to sleep, I asked If I can have a chat with her quietly , she has made it clear that theres nothing to chat about since I have put the girl as my priorities and I don't love her anymore , I should go to my new wife have a chat with her, she is referring to our house help and she gave me back the money that I should shop for my new wife myself. Well I have tried convincing her that she and the kids will always be my first priorities but it doesn't mean that we should treat other people bad. She didnt seems interested, she says that she left the room for my new wife , she left the room and she went to sleep in our children room. I was not expecting her to go this far . It's really sad how she doesn't want us to settle the matter in peace

Blindersoff:
The gains for the man in the home (head of the home) are

1) Growth emotionally and as a family unit

2) Success as a joint effort

3) Deep understanding and maturity

4) Freedom in Peace

You see you need to understand that the man has a lot of emotional, spiritual and social work to do in the home. He is the head and thus the leader. No leader is a good leader only when he enforces. A good leader should know when to lead by example. Do as i do and not do as i say.

Remember that the woman is his 2nd in command and should be able to fill in for him in the home whenever he is not around so he has to be patient and dedicated enough to deposit a lot of who he is into his bride. This way he can be assured that she would act like him, defend like him even when he is not there and can beat his chest knowing what she is capable of even when he did not witness it. The man is not getting married so he can rest. He is getting married so he can work out a new and better generation than his own. So it is all about ensuring he deposits huge nuggets of POSITIVE VALUES into everyone but largely into his wife because the Children would observe both of them and look up to them for guidance mostly in deed and not so much in words.

The satisfaction that comes from being fulfilled in what i listed above is more than having millions in the bank. That is the mark of a real man

Yusluv13:
Calm down sir, you can't win this battle without applying wisdom. You indeed did the right thing. If you want good for this girl and good future.
Pls go and meet her beg her to be a good mother to her and preach for her. Appraise her for all the good thing she has been doing to the girl and how God will even reward her abundantly for that. Let your words encouraged, motivate and lift positive spirit in her...

Blindersoff:
Op i will tell you straight up and it is up to you to take it or leave it. You are the man of the house and should lead by example.

There is a reason you are the groom and your wife is the Bride. You are to groom the bride. Teach her all that is right and learn from her mistakes those areas you need to GROOM her on.

Right now she has shown you a side of her which i agree is not nice because the girl is her relation and i would not classify such a person as just a house help. SHE IS FAMILY.

Call your wife and apologize to her for your outburst and then calmly teach her or tell her where she went wrong and why the girl needs to be treated right. Let her know that the girl is more or less family since she is related to your wife. This is a very simple matter.

You can then take your wife out and while both of you are out you suggest buying a few clothes for the girl and let her choose what she feels is appropriate to buy for her. Some women grow up with a certain mindset that never changes overnight and i see your wife as one of those. Do not go out and buy stuff for the girl by yourself otherwise you would cause more problems for yourself and for her in the home. Encourage and pet your wife to do that.


I am sure she is a nice woman but maybe in this area in particular she is yet to embrace some truths. Apologize to her.

Ignore all those children here who are saying she needs to come and apologize to you. As the head of your home you are to lead by example. yes she was wrong but you show her the right way by initiating peace. As the head of a home which i also am we take a lot of shit deliberately just so there would be peace at home. It does not make us stupid but after taking this shit, quickly correct the impression calmly then the woman would become aware and she would respect you more.

Merry Christmas to your household

Jarus:
Pm

Jarus:
How was he swindled?

Would be interesting to see the nature of scam Professor Fashola fell for

dannybrasky:
Very good,solid and strong car,there are no faults. It is still a mystery to me,I am speaking based on known events in the last 7 months by dealers like me. Not like people are not buying the 2010,but the demand is not as high as other models.

dannybrasky:
Very sweet car,but i have noticed huge decline in demand for 2010 Corolla! But by fire by force it must go

somehow:
What is your number again please and can you come today?

somehow:
We need a website where the locations of these roads can be checked!

GAZZUZZ:
Will this cow, fit in the trunk of a 2004 Corolla?

bdchange:
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Salore:
that is a good one bro. but the beauty of all is while waiting to get a tutor, u can make research and learn on ur own to fasting the process when u finally get someone to mentor u. I could remembered I learnt AutoCad 2d and 3d on my own and also learn programming on my own without any mentor but it wasn't easy tho. it's just about believe bro. bigger u I pray in ur career pursuit.

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KunleyY19:
Good Evening Sir's/Ma's in the house. I am a 300l Civil Engineering student in one of the foremost FUT's in Nigeria. I am in search of a Structural Engineering Training institute in Lagos. I reside at Ejigbo Lagos State. I will prefer somewhere close where I can learn various CAD softwares or better still a Structural Engineer that can take me on softwares like Orion, Staad Pro, Tekla Structures etc and other aspects of Detailing.
I am good at AutoCAD and I hope to upgrade myself well before embarking on IT next year.

I will appreciate your able response.
Thank You All!!! Comments are highly appreciated.

somehow:
Come around for the gen house between next week tuesday and thursday. call or chat me when you are set.

somehow:
081 or 080?

somehow:
Where are you located?

somehow:
Giving out a generator house that is fit enough for at most 3 kg generator

location is lagos


Have an option of selling it but decided to giving it out

A 10 by 10 light brown rug also available for free