Romance › Re: Money Can't Buy Love by farady(m): 4:05pm On Aug 09, 2024 |
OT2024: There was bitterness, anger and hatefulness in her tone. I decided not to stay a minute longer in her flat. As soon as I stepped out, she slammed the door at my back.
What an anticlimax! Life could be such a big paradox. The same woman I was kissing and caressing some minutes ago was the one hissing at me and treating me so scornfully. This was certainly a misadventure, I concluded as I returned to our flat.
On Sunday morning, I decided to do general clean-up of the house, T.K would soon be going to church. He did not like my infrequent attendance of Sunday service, but he had to let me be. I remained indoor till afternoon. About 1.00 p.m. I prepared lunch of rice.
“I’m definitely going miss to you,” T.K said. “All the same, best of luck.”
At two o’clock, I took my bag and left for Ikeja. At Off Toyin Street, Ms. Morgan lived in a three-bedroom apartment. I met Linda there. Minutes later, Linda drove Ms. Morgan and me to the airport. I could see tears in her eyes as she waved bye to Ms. Morgan. The fifty minutes’ flight was smooth. I sat next to Ms. Morgan who was busy reading some documents.
At Abuja airport, we took a cab to the legislative quarters. Ms. Morgan had been allocated a detached three-bedroom bungalow. In the house, she had a maidservant and a cook. Briefly, she explained some working and living schedules to me.
“You would have to manage a room in the back quarter for now,” she said and showed me to the room. It was a neat and standard room with a 4 inches by 6 inches bed, a reading table, a chair and an in-built wardrobe.
I opened my bag and arranged some of the clothes I had brought inside the wardrobe. Some minutes, the maid came to tell me that madam would like to see me in the main building. I went to see her.
“I hope you’re not bored. I will get a television for your room by tomorrow,” she said as soon as I got inside the large sitting-room.
“Oh, I can always manage to get by.”
She motioned me to one of the exquisite, leather seats in the room. I sat down graciously.
“You can stay around for now to watch the t.v. Do not hesitate to let me know anything you need.”
I nodded. “Alright, madam.”
She soon left the sitting-room. I changed the channel of the television to a news channel. A while later, the maid told me food was ready.
“Will you like to eat it here, or should I take it to your room?”
I thought I needed privacy, so I said she should take the food to my room. I got up and returned to the room.
I followed Ms. Morgan to her office in the official car the following day. Everything still looked like a movie to me. On her instruction, her secretary gave me letter of employment and identity card. She also briefed me about where my office would be and other official matters.
Working for Ms. Morgan was interesting and fruitful. Now, I was closely working with her. The working schedule varied, as sometimes we could be in the office as late at nine in the night. Sometimes, she would we needed to work on Sunday. I must say she was very generous. She was always giving and asking me if there was anything I needed.
Our relationship remained official but cordial. For now, I was under the payroll of the federal government. Of course, the remuneration was times three of what Ms. Morgan had earlier offered. I never hesitated to thank her for the opportunity she had given me. Nice update. Keep them coming. |
Romance › Re: Money Can't Buy Love by farady(m): 8:55pm On Aug 08, 2024 |
More updates please |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hamas Leader Finally Assassinated. by farady(m): 7:08am On Jul 31, 2024 |
ekineme: This is fake news, the news says Hezbollah commander not Hamas It's a breaking news this morning. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hamas Leader Finally Assassinated. by farady(m): 7:07am On Jul 31, 2024 |
This kind of precision attack is very advanced and for it to have been carried out on Iranian soil shows Israeli intelligence has infiltrated Iran's security system. Both Hezbollah and Iran will reply with a calibrated to save face as usual but not to escalate the situation. Their leaders equally fear for their personal safety as they won't underate Israel's ability to strike their targets. |
Romance › Re: Money Can't Buy Love by farady(m): 9:16pm On Jul 27, 2024 |
Nice update |
Romance › Re: Money Can't Buy Love by farady(m): 2:09pm On Jul 23, 2024 |
OP more updates please. |
Romance › Re: Money Can't Buy Love by farady(m): 3:52pm On Jul 19, 2024 |
Keep it coming OP. Good work |
Romance › Re: Money Can't Buy Love by farady(m): 1:35pm On Jul 15, 2024 |
Nice story. Waiting for updates |
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Travel › Re: 17 Things You Must Not Do If You Want To Survive In Lagos by farady(m): 2:35pm On Jun 27, 2024 |
Watinhapen: No 6, I can relate with that. I remember when I went to write entrance exam in Uniben years back and still came back to Lagos the same day. I got to Lagos around 12 midnight, got to Cele bus stop and everywhere was dark and deserted. I had no choice than to trek the lonely road to Ago Palace. Cele was very rugged that time. Man gat to think smart quick quick. I removed my shirt and placed it on my shoulder and raised on leg of my trousers. I was walking like werey on the road without fear. Some guys even shine torch on my face, saw me and just looked away after seeing my physical appearance. They must have thought I’m homeless. That was how I walked all the way to my house o around 1am for night. I don laugh tire. You've gat to blend with the area. |
Family › Re: Kogi Man Shares A Touching Divorce Message by farady(m): 4:20pm On Jun 25, 2024 |
Could it be the children are not his? |
Romance › Re: Black American Woman Abandoned In Lagos by farady(m): 7:08am On Jun 11, 2024 |
Auntie, sorry for what has happened. Good to still hear you say you love Nigeria and Nigerians. This was just a sad and painful experience.
I will join those who are advising you put all these behind you and move back to the US, to start on a fresh chapter. Live goes on! Cheers! |
Education › Re: Tariff Hike: UNIBEN's Monthly Electrici Bill Rises, Resorts To Load Shedding by farady(m): 11:57am On May 20, 2024 |
boolee: Truth is, UNIBEN enjoys close to 24-hour supply. In Fact, they can go on for 72 hours without the light blinking. Courtesy of the power substation inside the school. Stores and shops inside UNIBEN are all metered, same with private residential areas like staff Quarters.
The crux of the problem is the Student's hostels. There are more than 11 student hostels in UNIBEN. With a population of more than 7000 occupants. This is where the calculations should start from.
I think most departments should start thinking of how to go off-grid. This will really help.
As a graduating class, we did a Solar project for our department. Solar that can power the HOD's offices and our presentation room courtesy of our Course adviser who sold this brilliant idea to us.
Thou I know departments like Geology have been off the grid. I think they have a massive solar system too.
If other departments can follow suit this will drastically reduce the energy load needed to be supplied.
Way to go.
God Bless UNIBEN God Bless Edo State God Bless Nigeria. One of the few sensible comments I've read so far. |
Politics › Re: It Is Grossly Unfair That Most Gov Fubara’s Commissioners Were Chosen By Wike by farady(m): 10:54am On May 16, 2024 |
Difrent: All these amount to Nothing if federal Might sets in A sitting governor was kidnapped A sitting governor was teargassed A sitting governor can be removed by those who put him there
Fubara won't be the first Godson to turn against his godfather, and he won't be the last We should be ashamed of ourselves as a nation to be shouting federal might in 2024. Be waiting for federal might. |
Phones › Re: When Was The Last Time Anyone Talked With MTN Customer Care..? by farady(m): 10:56am On May 10, 2024 |
Last week precisely and a guy attended to me. This was late in the night when call traffic will be less busy |
Travel › Re: A Nairalander First Time On Plane And First Time In Delta by farady(m): 9:49am On Apr 16, 2024 |
Congratulations brother. Like someone up there said, this is just the beginning. You don't have to be ashamed. I still remember the day my younger brother told me his first time to be lodged in a hotel. Tears filled my eyes. Today, he has traveled far and wide.
No wahala, just enjoy yourself and update us on your return trip back to Lagos. Wishing you a pleasant journey. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Vows 'Stronger Response' After Shooting Down Iranian Drones And Missiles by farady(m): 12:50pm On Apr 14, 2024 |
Hashabiah: Conflicting news reports. Just this morning, Israel was begging and calling on the UN Council to hold an emergency meeting to call Iran to order. Anyway, wetin concern me ...as long as Israel continues her hostility towards the arabs they will continue being targets for destruction to Islam and her people  Stop spreading take news |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US President, Joe Biden Condemns Iran's Attack On Isreal by farady(m): 11:00am On Apr 14, 2024 |
factwriter: Even at that, the balls to initiate a "face saving retaliatory attack" (as you themed it) still says a lot about Iran not being a "push over" nation .
Don't forget a handful of Arab states are not really in friendship with Iran. It takes a lots of balls and guts to stand up to both domestic and foreign adversaries.
Lots of balls and guts! Israel expected the attacks. They were prepared. Look nations especially Nigeria should learn from Israel. How could Nigeria have responded to almost 300 missiles and drone attacks over the entire country? It's save facing and not balls because it took almost 2 hours for those missiles to reach Israel and more than 99% were taken down or neutralize. Iran knew they will be neutralize. If Iran has balls it should have flown its jets. Israel response will be to take out Iranian nuclear program in a systematic manner including hitting very strategic targets in the coming weeks. However, this will be after clearing Rafah. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US President, Joe Biden Condemns Iran's Attack On Isreal by farady(m): 10:31am On Apr 14, 2024 |
Most persons commenting here don't understand international politics, especially as it relates to the Middle East crisis. For those that are jubilating that Iran launched a direct strike at Israel, it's pretty not a surprise to Israel. Israel is the most prepared nation in the entire world for war at anytime especially from its neighbors.
The Iranian attack was a retaliatory strike and largely carried out as a save face measure not to be seen as a weakling in the region. This move by the Iranian has only added a new twist to the entire Middle East crisis and this would not be the end of it. |
Romance › Re: "Ladies, What is The Biggest Gift Or Financial Sacrifice You've Made For Love?" by farady(m): 12:02pm On Mar 25, 2024 |
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Food › Re: See The Pounded Yam And Egusi Soup I Ate In Rome by farady(m): 7:31pm On Jan 10, 2024 |
Nice combo.
Actually search for a Nigerian restaurant in Venice but no see. |
Romance › Re: Please I Need Your Advise On This One by farady(m): 9:15am On Jan 10, 2024 |
Uncle, you're supposed to be giving her sound advise; morally, educationally and spiritually and not toasting her. She's still growing and developing in all areas of her life.
Kindly leave her and go search for ladies in their late 20s or within your age bracket (30-32).
What you're doing is a criminal offence. |
Romance › Re: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by farady(m): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Creamypie: Baby mamas are left overs. How can a single man, after his parents trained him to become a complete man, look for a wife 2 marry, and then marry a baby mama? Its like attending night party by 5 am the next day. Very irritating, toxic, and smelly. Even a baby mama no go wan take ear hear say her son dey friend baby mama Calm down na, haba. |
Education › Re: The medical students and aspirants thread by farady(m): 1:53pm On Sep 25, 2023 |
Just asking for someone. Could anyone that is knowledgeable in academics, recommend good and affordable private universities for medicine in Nigeria. Thanks. |
Romance › Re: Dating A Woman With Child by farady(m): 1:29pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Generally, the issues associated with single mothers are plenty and some have been highlighted above. However, that's not too say all hope is lost; nope.
You'd really need to focused and goal oriented. Also, you must be closer to God and walk with him. I've someone close to me that got married to a single mother. Initially, I was like what's this. God directed the brother and he followed the leading of the Holy Spirit. The father of the child is alive. My guy two beautiful kids and the union is cool. The sister is a rare gem. There's nothing that God cannot do, if only you'd obey and be patient. Cheers. |
Properties › Re: DIY Construction Of My House In PH. by farady(m): 7:35am On Jun 20, 2023 |
erico2k2: 1 Same materials but moulded to have diff shapes and design, thinner than plaster boards 2 They are both durable apparently depends on your pocket and design needs 3 would pass em to you but are you based in PHC? 4 yes tiles that has design and colouration like wooden floors. Yes, I'm based in Port Harcourt. Thanks |
Properties › Re: DIY Construction Of My House In PH. by farady(m): 3:41pm On Jun 19, 2023 |
Beautiful work, congrats.
I want to make more inquires on the ceiling. You said Asbestos free ceiling boards; 1. are these different from plaster boards? 2. Which is better and durable, using plaster boards or full pop works? 3. Can i have the contact of the guys that did yours?
Then on the floor tiles. I saw something that looked like wooden floors (maybe cause of the color). Are they wooden floor tiles and in any case, how durable are wooden floor tiles? |
Travel › Re: From Salt Lake City To Las Vegas: My Road Trip Pictures by farady(m): 6:44pm On May 30, 2023 |
Ellasure: thanks for sharing your pictures, narations and experience.
very good experience you have. one day, maybe. |
Politics › Re: Bayelsa Is The Worse State To Visit In Nigeria by farady(m): 11:28am On Apr 11, 2023 |
24SEVEN: Akwa ibom was created in 1986 and Bayelsa 1996. Bayelsa was created same time as Ekiti and Ebonyi.
Tho I've never been there, but the sexual escapades of their women is really a fantasy. Thanks for the correction. |
Politics › Re: Bayelsa Is The Worse State To Visit In Nigeria by farady(m): 9:02am On Apr 11, 2023 |
Tallesty1: I remember my first visit to Bayelsa. It was one of the states I had in my list, luckily a reason to go there during the election period came. I couldn't get a direct Bus from my place so I took the one going to Rivers. Got to Rivers around 9PM but there was no bus/car that was going to Bayelsa....Why? There was a particular place between Rivers and Bayelsa that thieves operate at that time so the unwritten rule is to wait until they are done before one can make a safe pass; this should be around 12 or 1AM. We waited.
I was the first to jump into the next available Sienna because I was giving my host a sleepless night. One thing I noticed on our way was that there was no single polieman on any of the checkpoints we saw on our way. The driver said that they would return in the morning.
We entered in Bayelsa around 2am, saw some police men and walked up to them, told them my situation and asked if I could stay with them until my host comes to pick me up; it was cool so I stayed with them but I gave them what I thought was a respectful distance since they were men on duty but one of them was like "Yo, if you are going to stay with us then you have to be really close to us; we will not intervene if anything happens to you there. Move when we move and stop when we stop. My first Scare. Nothing else happened and I got to my destination like an hour later. When I wanted to move around town the next day, my host told me that it was a bad idea. I insisted and he was like fine, you can go but keep your android phone at home, go out with only the small one. Don't answer calls on the road and make sure you have some money in your pocket. Guys here know new faces and they will come for you, they will ask for your phone and if it is not an android then you better have some cash on you. I was lucky maybe because I didn't experience any of that.
You see that Tombia, it is a den for cultists. They will come out to unleash mayhem and disappear into the creeks. They don't fear soldiers or police, they tax and retax non indigenes that are doing business in Bayelsa and they will hurt you if you resist them.
The women? God damn it. They are not like every other Nigerian girl, they are worse. Many of them are cultists and they give birth anyhow like Akwa Ibom people, they do everything with extra, then there is this peculiar thing about them that I noticed in my second visit because I was freer then and spent more.
They move around in packs in the evening. You will see like 10 of them dressed for you know what, they will be going from one joint to another. They will enter the first joint and maybe nah like 8 or 7 go come, 2 or 3 got lucky. The yet unlucky ones will move to another location and the number will keep dropping until it is down to maybe 2, then the 2 will look for another pack and join.
The men are incredibly lazy, some of them are receiving like three different salaries on a monthly basis yet the only thing they have to show for it is more women, varieties of infections and rotten teeth. They are always having teeth problems. The state is no where near what it is supposed to be Laugh wan finish me as i read your post. Your narration was on point. Honestly, it's so disappointing that after several years, Bayelsa state is still very much underdeveloped; this is in spite the oil resources. Just one major road in the state capital! The attitude and mindset of the people does help. An attitude of "so long as the gov or that LG chairman or that man in authority is our brother and is eating our money, we don't have any problems with that" When you travel to the riverine parts of that state, you will want to weep. Some communities, the well water is like Fanta colour. They drink it and cook with it. God is wonderful. Just like someone mentioned, a state of less than 4m people with huge oil wealth, still in that condition, is really appalling. To think that that state was created same time as Akwa Ibom is funny; when you compare the level of development in Akwa Ibom to that of Bayelsa. Successive leadership failure (since 1999 to date) and terrible mindset/attitude of the people has continue short-changed the progress of Bayelsa state. |
Romance › Re: Help!!!! I Lose Interest In Guys I Sleep With by farady(m): 6:21pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
OP, like one of the early comments, you're simply distributing demonic spirits unknowingly and it's very likely you have a spirit husband.
I'll advise you visit any of the MFM centers and undergo a deliverance session. Cause you're certainly not in control of yourself. |
Family › Re: Please Help A Single Mother � by farady(m): 10:07am On Nov 14, 2022 |
You're still on this matter.? What happened since 2020? How have you been coping? Giving some insight might help to be understand you better, if not , you'd be taken for as a scam. Ago Lash Adept post=118376296: Happy new week.
Please who can help me with anything let me go around looking for work this week please |