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Family › Re: My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! by farady(m): 7:10am On Aug 17, 2020

OP, you haff read all the comments. Simply break up with him period. Don't allow any man to threaten you that way because of relationship. That guy simply want to sleep with you and doesn't care about your life and safety.

If he was truly serious, he should have come meet with your parents.

For now, just work on being economically independent.

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Travel › Re: Fiancé Of Woman Crushed To Death By Tanker In Ajah Speaks For The First Time by farady(m): 5:14pm On Aug 14, 2020

So sad. Right from the first day of the incident, I've been feeling so terrible, especially seeing those graphic pictures of the lady on the floor.

The guy was typing out of deep pains. Most times, we don't know how it feels until we experience it. I remember how a brother was swearing and cursing Nigeria, when his elder brother dead at a federal teaching hospital during the heat of the pandemic/lockdown. According to him the brother was left unattended to for 3 hours, for the Covid-19 team to confirm his status, before admitting him. He died shortly after his status was confirmed negative, as he was being moved in for admission.

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Car Talk › Re: 2020 4th Generation Mitsubishi Pajero Sport SUV Launched In Lagos by farady(m): 3:54pm On Aug 13, 2020

Openbusiness:
Mtchwwwwwww! Is the engine now up to 200HP? How someone will build a heavy car and put an engine with similar horse power to Corolla beats my imagination. One on one, a 2003 corolla will outrun this 2020 Pajero. I don't just know what Mitsubishi problem is. For that size and price, a Pajero should be punching nothing less than 350HP. Pajero is a reliable brand don't get me wrong but it is just underpowered. I can't carry over N10m to go and buy a car with less than 200HP, a big size SUV for that matter, very sluggish on the road.

Good points you raised.

Mitsubishi has not been able to upgrade on their dated designed model engine to compete favorably with the likes of the Prado. Even this design is below par in styling. Can't really compete with a LC Prado

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Education › Re: UNILAG Crisis: Ogundipe Leads ASUU Protest As Senate Rejects His Removal-Video by farady(m): 3:06pm On Aug 13, 2020

Why can't the sacked VC, honorably resign formally and go back to his classroom teaching, notwithstanding if he feels witch-hunt or not. Must the ~~African~~ Nigerian man sit tight in a position?

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Sports › Re: Match-fixing Allegation: Westerhof Defeats Bonfrere In Court by farady(m): 2:21pm On Aug 12, 2020

That case would have dragged on for years in Nigeria courts; probably would have ended at the supreme court

Family › Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by farady(m): 5:13pm On Aug 11, 2020

Hmmm OP, your matter is very strong but the good news is that you both can work it out!

BTW, what in her attracted you, that now ended in both of you tying the knot?

See eh, you don enter, you don enter. This is marriage, where you will have to exhibit a lot of patience and love, plenty of it. It is really going to take you sitting her down and start teaching her, as if teaching a child. Note, that you can transform her to be what you want her to be. The single motivating factor is that love you had for her. It is not a one day or a one month matter oh or even 3 months sef. If you are a christian also, you can commit her to prayers. Yes, pray for your wife. At this point, I will not advise you to involve any 3rd party. Don't ever. Be patient with her, because of the love you had for her.

Remember, just like someone mentioned up there, she may also be tolerating some manners or behaviours from you.

Definitely, she must be good at other things.

Work on yourself in the area of patience and prayers for her and help her. I am very sure that by the Grace of God, your testimony in the coming months will be different.

For all those that want to quote me, please know that all marriages come with their challenges.

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Agriculture › Re: My Pap Making Business Story. by farady(m): 3:07pm On Aug 10, 2020

God bless your handwork; give you more ideas for packaging, expansion and greater market penetration.

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Politics › Re: The Lagos State Governor's Residences And Offices (Pictures, Videos And Stories) by farady(m): 11:09am On Aug 09, 2020

OP, many thanks for the narration and the history carefully weaved together from inception with all the illustrative pictures and videos.

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Family › Re: Nigerians And Poverty: Certain Acts That Perpetuate Poverty In Nigeria by farady(m): 2:01pm On Aug 06, 2020

Very good piece. Permission to share please.

Health › Re: Pharmacy Sells Hydroxychloroquine Sulfate For ₦50,000 In Port Harcourt, Rivers by farady(m): 11:53am On Aug 03, 2020

The price is really crazy. I was prompted to call the number on that packet, when an argument over that price ensued in a Whatsapp i belong to. When I inquired about the price, the staff at the other end responded by asking whether I have joined the media war (I didn't even know if there was any media war). I laughed and told him that was why i wanted to clarify by calling.

The staff told me 60 tablets (which is what you have on packet) cost N50,000 and it contains four (4) cards. One card of 15 tablets cost N12,000. he added that their price was relatively cheap compared to other pharmaceutical stores. Call ended!

Bottomline is, it is better, safer and cheaper to observe the Covid-19 rules than to fall victim of being on a medication with that drug. Certainly, I am sure that wasn't the price pre-coronavirus period of January 2020 down to last year.

God help us!

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Romance › Re: The Lady In My Life, My Burden. by farady(m): 8:26pm On Jul 28, 2020

Lol on some comments up there.

Bia OP, you need to love your neighbor as yourself, but you don't love yourself. If you get yourself worked up "unnecessarily", you might injure your body - developing high BP. Nothing stops you from re-evaluating and reassessing everything. Don't let your business suffer please. That is your number one life line after God Almighty.

Then sit here down and explain to her your challenges. There's no shame about it. Just like one lady up there said, if she sees a rich dude, she will leave and also if she finishes the guarantee she will stick with you is not there. So why don't give your business the desired attention now?

Family › Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by farady(m): 3:58pm On Jul 18, 2020

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

Your comments really cranked me up Lol. Beautiful though however, one thing is very clear. That is, the OP's brother is a damn weak person who has started the foundation of his home on a wrong setting.

I would advice the OP to please exercise great caution and restraint in dealing with these women. He should remain calm, be more friendly even in the face of provocation. I know it will not be easy. He should look and work towards attaining independence, staying on his own and charting his own course, cause his brother is already charting his own

OP, pray God to give you the grace to persevere, endure the ill-treatments and turn the table in no distant time, for these women to feel sorry for all they are doing to you now. For that to happen, you need the grace of God and must work towards it. Cheer up brother!

Education › Re: Private Schools Teachers To Protest On Monday Over Nonpayment, School Closure by farady(m): 1:36pm On Jul 12, 2020

I think it's the lack of preparedness on the part of govt, to put in place all the necessary precautionary measures in public schools at both federal and state levels, that is causing all these. More than 80% of the private schools can meet up with the requirements compared to less than 20% for the public schools.

Whether we believe it or not, coronavirus is here to stay with us. So just as offices and other business outfits are adjusting their work environment, the govt should put same amount of zeal and commitment to see that the necessary measures are in place in public schools.

This situation will call to question how most of these private schools owners run their schools and their exploitative tendencies.

Politics › Re: Babangida And Aikhomu Decorating Abacha With His New Rank (Throwback Photo) by farady(m): 2:16pm On Jul 01, 2020

Elder0001:
@naptu2 and Joseph1982 abi Joseph1892 please clarify something for me.
Between cods and coas,which position is more powerful?

The COAS is more poweful, since he has the entire army under his command and reports directly to the C-in-C. The CODS though politically is senior but is very weak. In most of the coups that evolved at the senior officers level in Nigeria, the CODS were operationally handicapped.

Politics › Re: Babangida And Aikhomu Decorating Abacha With His New Rank (Throwback Photo) by farady(m): 2:01pm On Jul 01, 2020

Please how can I get a soft copy of the book "Solders of Fortune" by Max Siollun?

Politics › Re: Babangida And Aikhomu Decorating Abacha With His New Rank (Throwback Photo) by farady(m): 1:35pm On Jul 01, 2020

litigator:
Who brought ISTH to his people?

many thanks for mentioning this. Adm. Aikhomu attracted the building of the now Irrua Specialist Hospital. I haven't been there though but I learnt it is truly a referal and specialist hospital.

Politics › Re: Babangida And Aikhomu Decorating Abacha With His New Rank (Throwback Photo) by farady(m): 9:41pm On Jun 30, 2020

What was the order of precedence at the early part of the Buhari regime. Cause at that time, Brig. Tunde Idiagbon was COS SHQ, Domkat Bali was Minister of defense and Babangida was CAS, both maj.gen and senior to Idiagbon. Infact they all reported to Idiagbon. Why did they choose to comply.

I think till date Maj.Gen Tunde Idiagbon remain the most powerful 2nd in command.

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Politics › Re: Babangida And Aikhomu Decorating Abacha With His New Rank (Throwback Photo) by farady(m): 9:23pm On Jun 30, 2020

naptu2:
I skipped some pages in the screenshots, but those pages are mainly about the duties of ministers and the secretary to the government.

What was the order of precedence at the early part of the Buhari regime. Cause at that time, Brig. Tunde Idiagbon was COS SHQ, Domkat Bali was Minister of defense and Babangida was CAS, both maj.gen and senior to Idiagbon. Infact they all reported to Idiagbon. Why did they choose to comply.

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Romance › Re: What Should I Do About My Girl ? Please Advise by farady(m): 8:00pm On Jun 29, 2020

Simply move on with your life young man. You would be liable to die young if you continue. Don't walk into a death trap with your eyes wide open.

Health › Re: Mum Of One Commits Suicide After Crying For Help On Facebook by farady(m): 3:47pm On Jun 23, 2020

It is really sad. Very sad. Just did some check, where I read she ate up her capital during the lockdown abi pandemic ..................Again it was curious to note that with about 1,662 friends on her Facebook, she could not confide in any one, though she mentioned broken promises going by her last post. But again what is the use or importance of having thousands of 'friends' on facebook, twitter or Instagram and still not being able to access help?

Just wandering how the only son (whom I guess should be in his early teens will cope)

RIP.

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Romance › Re: Your Husband Earns 100k A Month, How Much Do U Want Him To Give You As Allowance by farady(m): 6:04pm On Jun 06, 2020

Michelle55:
Any amount he thinks is fit for the monthly allowance.. He works for the money, he can as well decides to squander it if he chooses but being a responsible husband and father that he is, he brings it home so whatever he gives me as allowance is highly welcome and appreciated.. If its not enough, I'll just add my widow's mite and keep the home front sailing.

There are alot of other things that needs his attention including utility bills, kids school fees, investments etc so it would be best if the woman understands and work to support the family rather than waiting for the man to shoulder all the responsibilities, in case anytime the man couldn't meet up with the family upkeep, the woman can comfortably support the household till he gets back on his feet again.
Its called a marriage/ union for a reason..
For you guys to work together as a complete unit and in partnership for the betterment of the family

I love your comments and I like your disposition. You will make an understanding wife if not one already.

Family › Re: How Do Married Men Cope With Their Pregnant Women by farady(m): 11:17am On May 30, 2020

While I encourage you to keep the good work, please let her know it's detrimental to her own health and well being if she doesn't engage in any form of physical activities. Yes, she needs rest but needs to be active too. So doing some house chores should keep her active.

If you don't stem the tide, naim be say you don buy market be dat. Invariably, you may start planning for a househelp and that's more expenses in addition to baby's expenses.

So be wise and talk it through with her. Las Las no do pass your pocket.

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Family › Re: My Brother's Wife Served Me With Just A Meat Instead Of Two Meats by farady(m): 11:07am On May 30, 2020

Why not go live on you're own? What is your contribution to the house? For instance it's not out of place to give your brothers wife like N10k or N15k to supplement the kitchen, or fill the gas or buy a bag or half bag of rice for the house. She and her husband (your brother) will have high regards for you, that you have sense.

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Family › Re: I Am 24, Muslim And Yoruba.. He's 45, Christian And From Kaduna. Please Advice! by farady(m): 11:00am On May 30, 2020

They should abort the mission, cause it will end in tears for her. The signs are staring at you ; A 45 years old divorcee, perfectionist and a Christian man, wedding a 24 year told Muslim. Haba! Everything is wrong with this pair.

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Romance › Re: Can A Nigerian Woman Feed Her Jobless Husband For 3months Without Insult? by farady(m): 7:58am On May 29, 2020

vanida6:
I can do it for gud 5years sef,,,,but if em cheat on me him name nah sorry walahi

Are you sure Hanty?

Romance › Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by farady(m): 4:49pm On May 27, 2020

OP I share your concerns and all that. See eh, just make yourself look good, feel good and be happy. You're responsible for your happiness. In as much as he doesn't owe you anything (entitlement), always note that relationship can be liken the a ship going to a definite destination. If in your estimation you feel this your ship is not taking you anywhere, simply japa. Continue to be a nice and happy person and you will attract same type of personality. Cheers.

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Politics › Re: NOSDRA: Why Dead Fishes Were Found On Niger Delta Coastline by farady(m): 8:58am On May 15, 2020

risos:
These heavy metals are all components of produced water.

Oilfield produced water contains heavy metals such as mercury and lead, as well as metalloids such as arsenic, in varied concentrations depending on formation geology and age of the well. Metal concentrations in produced water are usually higher than those found in sea water. The most commonly studied metals are Ba, Cd, Cr, Cu, Pb, Hg, Ni, Ag, and Zn.
Produced water contains other trace metals including Al, B, Fe, Li, Mn, Se, and Sr. Certain metals are of particular environmental concern as they may bioaccumulate and/or be toxic.

Just kwantinue, till una scatter all the coastal communities finish.

Hmmm. Your comments therefore infers that Oil Companies have influenced this NOSDRA's report. Indeed produced water mostly comes from crude oil platforms/facilities.

So one would have expected NOSDRA trace the source of these toxic metals and include this in its report.

Family › Re: My Journey To Motherhood by farady(m): 8:09pm On May 14, 2020

Congratulations. I was really intrigued by your story. Didn't know of a medical condition wherein the womb will be too small to carry a baby. Only knew of when a birth canal (i guess that's the cervix) can be too small for normal delivery, hence the need for CS.

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Family › Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by farady(m): 1:47am On May 12, 2020

Stkingsley:
ATTENTION:

Social media is not the best place to bring your problems to. You will get the kind of answers social media gives. Look for a private counselor and talk to, look for a small radical spiritual group and join, you can tell them, this is what a friend is going through.... that way, they will be blunt in discussing it with you.

If, however, you feel like talking it about it privately without cost (apart from a bottle of mortuary standard Goldberg), then you can send me a whatsapp on 08034157602, and we will talk.

Cheers and may the Lord keep you

You're right bro.

Health › Re: COVID-19: Nigeria Imports Shipment Of Madagascar's Drugs For Testing by farady(m): 9:17am On May 11, 2020

TheKingIsHere:
Bill Gates and WHO will not be happy with this news.

Just watch how they will start predicting death for Africans up and down

They have since not been happy with the news with the WHO urging caution.

Romance › Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by farady(m): 11:12pm On May 10, 2020

The most important things are getting married to the right person, being happy and having a happy home.

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Family › Re: Plight Of A Widow by farady(m): 8:56pm On May 05, 2020

People are funny in this country oh. To think that this OP acknowledged receipt of the request to provide some proofs since 6:18am and as at 8:46pm (more than 14 hours), she is yet to respond is baffling.

Scammers with their format. That is how one called me this morning. After asking about my family, he said he was calling from the bank and was talking. Which bank are you calling from? No answer. I cut him off.

I used Truecaller to check up the number and alas, it showed "Bank Scammer"!

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