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CelebritiesRe: Will Smith Is Gay, Caught Him With Duane Martin – Former Assistant, Bilaal by Farfalla(f): 4:45pm On Nov 15, 2023
tuzle:
Duane martins self was married and only divorces 3 years ago and except from this rumor, their have been no mention of him being gay before.
I don't know about that. Duane's ambiguous sexual orientation has been a source of tabloid gossip for many years. Being married indicates nothing. A lot of gay men are married (to women) and even have kids.
CelebritiesRe: Will Smith Is Gay, Caught Him With Duane Martin – Former Assistant, Bilaal by Farfalla(f): 4:33pm On Nov 15, 2023
grandstar:
I doubt Will Smith is gay. If he had, there'd be rumours circling round for years. This is the first time such as come to light and its from someone who has a axe to grind with him.
Rumours of Will and Duane being lovers have been flying around for years. I may have heard this story as early as 10 years ago.

I don't know why I don't believe this particular rumour though.
CelebritiesRe: Mr Eazi Confirms His Marriage To Temi Otedola (Video) by Farfalla(f): 4:26pm On Nov 15, 2023
I always thought she could do better. lipsrsealed
Anyway, it's her life and her choice.
TravelRe: Nairobi Photos (kenya): A Beautiful East African City by Farfalla(f): 4:13pm On Nov 15, 2023
SimramaTV:
Look at some places 17 kms from the CBD. Beautiful isn't it!?
I'm not going to watch your YouTube channel. It won't change my perception of a city I lived in for 12 years. Rubbish city.
CrimeRe: Man Stabs Wife Multiple Times In Broad Daylight In South Africa (Graphic Photos) by Farfalla(f): 11:36am On Nov 12, 2023
Offpointng:
Everyone is blaming the guy but no one want to care to know what the lady has done wrong....
Is stabbing a normal reaction to someone who does you wrong? Do some of you people ever listen to yourself?

Offpointng:
What man in his right senses will chase a lady pregnant for him to do something this barbaric?
He's probably not in his right senses.
RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Farfalla(f):
BRATISLAVA:
Lol. You have a very good point. grin

Help us ask them why it's so wrong. Maybe they are hurt and want to mock such women because they didn't select them?

I'm surprised that animals do courtship thingies, but Nigerian men will dare not let women do so. But they are free to themselves.
They are aware that selecting is not wrong. Afterall, didn't their wives and girlfriends select them? The only problem they have is a woman selecting another partner. That's the problem right there. It has got to be them being chosen.

They're mocking the woman because she represents the women who have rejected them. They believe that such women should be severely "punished" by the universe for being too choosy, as is the case with the lady weeping in the video. cheesy
RomanceRe: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Farfalla(f): 7:12pm On Nov 11, 2023
This thread is proof that men aren't synonymous with logic.

A majority of you cannot even respond to the points articulated by the OP, or even get curious as to why she raised those points.

All I see are just the usual ad hominem responses from the same people who claim to be logical.
RomanceRe: Zainab Abidoye & Mother Lived Off Man's Wealth But Refused To Marry Him (Photos) by Farfalla(f): 6:20pm On Nov 10, 2023
pendragonbladgo:
I don't know why most ladies wants a man's money but don't want him.
You don't know?

RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Farfalla(f): 6:17pm On Nov 10, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
How do you know that she wasted her youthful years selecting?
Is selecting not part of courtship/dating? grin

If animals in the wild have the luxury of selecting their mates, why shouldn't humans?
TravelRe: Nairobi Photos (kenya): A Beautiful East African City by Farfalla(f): 6:04pm On Nov 10, 2023
SimramaTV:
. Nairobi is the most beautiful City in Africa
Lies.
RomanceRe: Zainab Abidoye & Mother Lived Off Man's Wealth But Refused To Marry Him (Photos) by Farfalla(f): 5:38pm On Nov 10, 2023
GanagiBitrus:
Why should a man be spending on a woman who is not his wife?
And why should a woman be sleeping with a man who is not her husband?

CelebritiesRe: Ilebaye's Outfit To Davido's Party Causes A Stir by Farfalla(f): 11:19am On Nov 10, 2023
IamtheTruth1:
And she said she is a Virgin? With these much body exposure?
Do girls lose their virginity through scanty dressing?
RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Farfalla(f): 8:26pm On Nov 09, 2023
Goldmaxx:
That's your fate if you no go marry.
Sorry, I don't speak neanderthal.
RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Farfalla(f): 6:11pm On Nov 09, 2023
Cutehector:
lmao... This fowl. You go soon cry your own for husband and we go gaather dey laugh you. Dey play
Don't worry about me. When the time comes for me to make video crying for a horseband I'll share it with my Nairaland family and give you a mention.

Sick society.
RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Farfalla(f):
Cutehector:
lmao....isnt she the one frustrated? Be deceiving yourself..
I said what I said. The ones bashing her are bitter and frustrated.
RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Farfalla(f): 5:49pm On Nov 09, 2023
Food is ready for all the bitter and frustrated boys to feast on.

CelebritiesRe: I’m Being Pressured To Get Married – Yemi Alade Cries Out by Farfalla(f): 12:38pm On Nov 09, 2023
Magnoliaa:
And afterwards go to her DMs when they're done performing masculinity for their fellow men. grin grin
I'll take them seriously the day their actions will match their words. grin
CelebritiesRe: I’m Being Pressured To Get Married – Yemi Alade Cries Out by Farfalla(f): 12:31pm On Nov 09, 2023
ugotuf:
The bitter truth is that every choosey choosy lady's chances of finding Mr. right slims down by the day.
So what?
RomanceRe: What Married Women Who Cheat On Their Husband Don't Understand by Farfalla(f):
legionISproteus:
that's true. peniis seems cheap because most of these men just need somewhere to dump their cum. you don't even have to be attractive for them to approach you.
I can see through your subtle diss, but I'll not get into arguments with you concerning what you're trying to insuniate.

Good day. wink
CelebritiesRe: I’m Being Pressured To Get Married – Yemi Alade Cries Out by Farfalla(f): 9:24am On Nov 09, 2023
Another thread for the little boys of Nairaland to masturbate on.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 12:29pm On Nov 08, 2023
folake4u:
Happy belated birthday, Libra Queen.
And to you too.
kiss kiss
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 12:14pm On Nov 08, 2023
folake4u:
Are you a Libra born? shocked
Yes.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Pinkpill Roundtable Discussion by Farfalla(f): 11:56am On Nov 08, 2023
folake4u:
Hahahaha. At this rate, we might be twins? Sheybi we're both Libra women na. cheesy
So we're in the same WhatsApp group?

CrimeRe: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 11:49am On Nov 08, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
And his ears are too big. A huge red flag.
grin
CrimeRe: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 11:15am On Nov 08, 2023
folake4u:
I can only imagine.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

1. Hmmm, that's interesting. I thought it's only Nigerian universities that requires their students to do compulsory Law courses.

2. Did you like the course though?

I NEVER liked International Humanitarian Law and Introduction to Human Rights courses. They were elective courses in my school and I ran away from them. Fuçking BORINGGGGGGG and LOOOOONG.

3. Did you finish learning about the Human Rights Conventions though? grin
1. Every faculty has those compulsory courses. Ask those Engineering students forced to study Communication Skills I and II?

2. I sort of took an interest in Refugee Law, but the other topics were the kind I would just study to pass.

3. Does one ever finish learning the Human Rights Conventions (along with all those gazillion articles and ratified treaties) without getting to that semi-werey point I'd observe with many of our professors? grin
CrimeRe: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 9:06am On Nov 08, 2023
Magnoliaa:
Dating a rich girl as a broke guy is like top 3 of fantasies — now here's a lady that fits perfectly into that mold and one idiot is shaming her for being naive and falling prey to a gold-digging boy.

The lots* of those creatures disgust me.
LMAO!! grin
CrimeRe: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 12:04am On Nov 08, 2023
folake4u:
@ the bolded. Wahala! grin grin
You know I thought of you while typing that last sentence. grin

Law is not my thing, although I did some International Humanitarian Law and Introduction to Human Rights units that were forced down our throats as compulsory courses in our department. angry
TravelRe: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Farfalla(f): 8:54pm On Nov 07, 2023
higgs:
The write up is very balanced.I agree with what she is saying. Even if You disagree with the Op,be civil about it.No need attacking or insulting her.
Hello there? Can I help you?
RomanceRe: What Married Women Who Cheat On Their Husband Don't Understand by Farfalla(f): 8:44pm On Nov 07, 2023
legionISproteus:
like your ginger. please enjoy as many young men as you want! no one should stop your shine cheesy
If I'd have wanted to "enjoy" as many young men as I wished, I would. Trust me. Penïs is the cheapest commodity on earth and some of these men have become so brazen that they will even hit on you when they can clearly see you're pregnant.

Here is the thing - Unlike the women the OP is addressing, I don't need to choose fidelity out of a fear of stigma or fear of being replaced by a 17-year old, and all that nonsense the OP is yarning about. I choose fidelity out of my own free will. wink
CrimeRe: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 6:00pm On Nov 07, 2023
VULCAN:
Fascinating how in an attempt to formulate a very weak argument, you mentioned two extremes.

Who told you that the extremes are the only places to be positioned?

I hope you are not a lawyer cos I don't see you winning any serious case!
The problem with people like you is that you approach every opinion here as an argument to be "won".

Yes, I mentioned the two extremes because women are always castigated on NL about having many boyfriends before settling down. When they want to bash women they'll go for that one extreme and run with it, disregarding the majority who are neither sluts nor virgins.

This particular young lady was not exposed to relationships and dating. You'd think that's what they like because I can swear 3 days do not pass by on this forum without young men declaring that they must only wife a virgin -- or a girl with low body count.

Now here is a girl who ticks that box but what do I see? The same group of men castigating the dead girl for being "unexposed". Isn't she the rare type to whom praises are due?

And no I'm not a lawyer. I'd fail woefully in that profession as you have noted. wink
CrimeRe: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Farfalla(f): 2:30pm On Nov 07, 2023
oluwaseyi0:
All this big men over protecting their daughter this is usually the end result

A so called young director been tossed up and down by a guy because she has no dating experience as a result of over protectiveness

You raised 'dumb' kid with zero street wisdom
She doesn't date men, she's called dumb.
She dates a string of men DJ Cuppy style, she's called a whôre.

Do you people ever know what you want?
RomanceRe: What Married Women Who Cheat On Their Husband Don't Understand by Farfalla(f): 12:13pm On Nov 07, 2023
ExudeLoveToAll:
No one should scare you.

Just enjoy and test different waters grin
Are the scare tactics necessary? grin
I cannot just be a faithful wife without having to be threatened into it?

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