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I don't think I've seen that place without trash before. This quarantine seems to be working wonders.

Yaribanzaonic:
Is Amotekun not adequate to put them in check? I thought Amotekun is here to stay??

Accomodators should be civil to their hosts even though the host doesn't regard them because they are slaves....that is just it!!

Did you hear anywhere that Amotekun has started recruiting or are you just obsessed with hating others?
https://punchng.com/amotekun-takeoff-may-suffer-delay-over-disease-outbreak/

The police should start arresting the defaulters. Maybe when they make examples of them they will listen to simple instructions.

realokopi:
U better go and look for what to eat during this lock down and stop venting your frustrations on people that are far above your generations.

Stop projecting your hungry mentality on to me. How can someone who doesn't know the proper use of the word 'generations' be insulting my lineage. The same person who's rank isn't high enough to clean my grandfather's shoes.

Stop lying you aren't better than others, or even your colleagues abroad. We expect soldiers to be better and know right from wrong but get disappointed every time.

realokopi:
Your opinion can't change anything neither does it count.

Then they will continue to remain horrible. The Nigerian curse of being content with nonsense must end some day.

As I expected people won't take this lockdown lying down, expect more violence as desperate people take their frustration out on the authorities.

jared007:
I don't think it killed up to that number in Nigeria. 500k no be beans o. 500k and my grandmum swept it under the carpet?

How will she know unless she is a medical staff?

Iyiataata92:
As a mum, how would you feel if you hear that your daughter is the national coordinator of Nigeria Olosho Association?
I'm serious oo

The parents should be asking themselves how their daughter got to that stage.

realokopi:
Take note, that's not Nigeria. It's Ghana, before you guys start insulting Nigerian soldiers.

Nigerian soldiers are still horrible.

Seandisputed:
Lol you people will not kill me.
Masturbation is a sin but having premarital sex with the girlfriend is not? Some people are just confused in this life.

Oddly enough masturbation is never talked about in the Bible as sinful. Before anyone comes mentioning the sin of Onan his sin was not impregnating his brother's wife because that was what he was commanded to do. The imaginary sins of spilling your seed and masturbation are what early Church fathers made up by themselves due to the influences of Greek philosophy.

xrayj:
Heat wan finish person for inside house
No light!
Generator sound wan tear person ear
Which kind mind God give us?
Since 1960 no single govt fit solve d issue of light!

Is it your generator or a neighbors? If it's yours you should consider getting solar panels and inverters. They are much cheaper than buying fuel every night, quiet and don't cause pollution.

The only disadvantages are the upfront cost and that it might not power your fridge or AC but it's much better option than a small generator.

I wonder when Nigerian goats will protest for this sort of treatment.

See this is why you should test drive the car before buying. Now this man is both blessed and cursed , I'm sure some ladies on this forum will be waiting for him after the divorce.

yeyeosoronga:
Absolutely, he's not asking too much. I completely agree with the bolded
Same way the wife won't be asking too much for him to contribute his physical quota in the running of their household.
The children would always benefit from their dad looking after them and they also form a stronger bond with him.
The wife is happier when she's not the only one doing the chores either.
Everyone's happy.
Oga should also be happy he is able to co-provide acts of love/ service for his family, as madam is also happy to be able to co-provide school fees and a roof over their heads.
I belive we are saying the same thing or do you have any disagreement to what I've just said?

Nope we are saying the same thing just using our different words and adding our perspectives based on our gender and experiences.
Your perspective is a reasonable one that I can agree with.

yeyeosoronga:
It's not a fight for dominance but for survival.

It is wickedness and highly irresponsible to expect your wife to be superwoman, while you remain the regular joe.

It breeds resentment at the end of the day.

Many women are overworked and overstressed from doing it all.
That's why some look older than even their husbands who are older than them. They become worn out, and just tired of life because they don't have supportive partners who pull weight.

They have to run around to look for money, and at the same time do all the chores and look after the children, while the husbands only bring in some of the money .

That's why they wonder atimes if they won't be better doing it all alone by themselves, because it already appears as though they're alone anyway.

The OP isn't asking for much, just that the woman be employed and able to function without needing her husband to foot every bill and make every payment. That way both parties and the children can benefit.

I'm sure some guys wouldn't mind having stay at home wives but that simply isn't possible for some people right now.

And the woman doesn't need to do all the chores and take care of all the children by herself. If the husband wasn't supportive why did she marry him in the first place? She must have married a functioning adult and not a baby that needs to be cleaned up after. Plus men do chores too, the work and chores that is often backbreaking and risky with almost no recognition from their wives because it is expected of them but you don't hear us complaining about it.

In the end we have a choice, a superwoman can marry an average Joe or go for someone on her level or marry that will be spoiling her.

If Lagos government was smart they would take this chance to fix broken roads and clean the streets from all the trash lying about.

Segzydaniels018:
You're breaking the law, you meant to stay indoor..

Maybe he/she thinks being within the doors of his/her car is an exemption. He/She should just stay at home before the police/military makes him/her disappear and claims it was the spirit of covid that caused the disappearance.

CHoccolaTE:
Personally I am all for female emancipation and women having jobs/not depending on some guy totally but topics like this are not for the average Nigerian man who believes he should be taken as a demi god by his wife.
You can't have a wife paying rent and buying food to feed her husband and and paying other bills and then her husband wants to exercise TOTAL control over her and the household in spite of her financial and domestic contributions.

That's why Nigerian women avoid men who want them to contribute financially.
Another thing is, after marriage the same man expecting his wife to split bills will expect her to be primarily responsible for housechores and be completely submissive and obedient to him. It doesnt work that way. If a woman starts feeding you or paying your bills you no longer have complete authority over her.
And it becomes imperative that you as the husband also take up housechores like cooking and cleaning and child care.

An average egotistical Nigerian man will not want to do all this.

Must marriage be some sort of fight for dominance?

Some people's egos will not allow them to simply enjoy life.

efosky1246:
It disgusts me when men try to make it seem like if a woman doesn't contribute financially, then she's good as useless.

I am really concerned about the loss of sense of responsibility from men nowadays. When did it become a taboo for you to make the money yourself and let your wife run the homefront. The Asians have been doing this for years and they're not complaining, hence why the family unit is strong and their children turn out as responsible adults and contribute meaningfully to their family and society at large.

You guys make it seem like marriage is some kind of business venture.if not for anything, be a man for your children, they need a parent to look after them at least in their tender years.

Have you not seen homes were both husband and wife are financially well to do but the children are nothing to write home about.

A woman can support at times financially but you going into a relationship looking for a woman who you'll share bills with just shows the quality of a man that you are.

This isn't the 80s anymore, some people can't afford to live in their houses on just one income. When the income gotten from just the man was enough to feed, educate and house the family most did it, now it is not the case.

If a woman can't at least take care of herself should anything happen to the husband then she is a liability. There is more to life than taking care of children, soon they will grow up and leave the home, or if the husband dies or loses his job then what happens to the wife? Will she beg or starve?

Also there is a serious problem of trafficking women as wives in Asian countries and in Japan the population is dropping because men are refusing to get married and work themselves to death because that is the societal expectation.

Very good points, but marriage is still a scam.

Hope the people saying that Africans are immune or it is for Yorubas only will not come here to spew trash.

Roon9:
https://www.nairaland.com/5765897/coronavirus-father-cries-out-over

This thread has your answers

There is nothing in this thread that contradicts my post or even comes close to being useful information. If the lady in question is being treated badly that is the fault of the staff in the isolation centre. This does not mean that Covid-19 is not real and is being spread by medical professionals.

This is the real definition of a long distance relationship.

Roon9:
No o! We no want testing
Let's take our chances abeg
As of now I'm leaning with the conspiracy theorists... Somfn is suppin with those kits

Alright let's do nothing and allow the virus to spread just like Guinea and Liberia did with ebola. Using the flawless logic that healthcare workers were somehow bringing ebola to the country many infected persons stayed at home and cases exploded out of control. Rather than get actual medical care they used magic herbs and thought all was well until they started dropping dead. These same brilliant people were now asking why government didn't do something earlier.

Please will someone let me know when most Africans will start making use of their functioning brains?

Kylekent59:


Let us assume tomorrow is the presidential election.

It's time to vote.

Click like for PDP

Click share for APC

Let the voting begin. I just wanna know if some people brain has been formatted.

Let start voting.

I am gonna start by clicking "share". I like the president. The citizens disobey alot. They are wicked. Garri sells for #1700.

Good president with wicked citizens.

The two parties are two sides of the same coin. The same fools that influenced PDP moved over to sow seeds in APC. Remember that you should vote based on the candidate and their policies not the party.
Otherwise you get the same favoritism and corruption that has been going on for the last 20 years.

9jaRealist:
No country is making electricity free...

Electricity in Nigeria is generated and distributed by PRIVATE companies...
They should try to promise no disconnections during the lockdown, but ultimately they need to get paid.
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Germany did for a time that's because they generated and distribute so much that they had to pay some companies to use the power they produce.

https://www.independent.co.uk/environment/germany-power-grid-pays-customers-christmas-sustainability-renewable-energy-a8141431.html?amp

Some people are just heartless, can't do their jobs yet they still get paid and demand even more. When you hear stories like this every day why won't you want to pack out of the country for good?

We are in for it now.

GOFRONT:
They said no cure....... No vaccine....

Those recovering from Covid-19 how manage?

The virus is in remission, it can't affect them but for others with weaker immune systems and previous lung damage or other health problems won't be so fortunate.

Pr0cter:
That should be Blenco at Ajah - Badore axis, Lagos.

Nigerians can rush for Africa.


The way be are doing this panic buying, e come be like say the world wan end.


Btw the president gave shopping malls and food industry exemption from closing during the period of the curfew.


Make una take am easy.

With ports and state borders closed it's only a matter of time before they run out of items in the store. With the massive population of Lagos and high demand people taking it easy might end up costing them in the future.

If true this is good news, kill every last one of those terrorist scum.

I just hope he won't turn up alive and start taunting us like Shekau did.