₦airaland Forum

Samantha124:
I'm now in my 20s.

Can we private chat

Samantha124:
I've never been approached by an old man before.

What is your age

Mtchew

Essenza01:
I really don't know anymore, i just did my budget for the month and i am scared, i have cut from everywhere possible and i fear for my self.. i dont have a GF, Wife, Children.. my salary is N400,000 and i have added side businesses and one or two's to even survive.. but with this fuel increase, what else is left... zero savings..

- Rent - N108,333/mth (1,300,000/12)
- Fuel for car - N180,000 (36k for 5-6days)
- Auto maintenance - N30,000/mth (service/repair)
- Fuel for generator - N50,000/mth (20ltr/wk)
- Feeding - N62,000 - (N2,000/day)
- Health miscellenous - N5,000/mth
- Dstv - N4,500/mth
- Data - N7,000/mth
- Recharge card - N3,000/mth
- Dry cleaner - N4,000/mth (Starch/iron)
- Hygiene maintenance - N10,000 (body spray/perfume, roll on, soap, cream) etc..
-  Gift to people - N10,000/mth
-  Family House contribution - N20,000/mth
- Eko electric - N10,000/mth
- repairs and maintenance - N12,000/mth
- Clothing, footwear etc - N10,000/mth
- Outings, restaurant, sit outs and provisions - N30,000/mth

Total = N556,500...

My rent is average rent for where i stay, its a two bed flat, i use the other room for home office..

Feeding is N2,000/day.. its not anything out of the ordinary.. tried cooking and spent more with time wasting.

Fuel for car is at the new rate of N500/ltr, my car is a 70ltr car tank..

Auto maintenance is basic brake pads, shocks, service 2mths, tire guage, police pr, tire purchase if any, minor touch ups etc... nothing major.

Fuel for generator is 20ltr/day (2hrs or less daily)

I need help.... how are you people doing it, what am i doing wrong? The rat race is killing me..

thelords4u:
I just got two jobs:
1. Federal Hospital Job - ₦95,000 monthly
2. General Manager of a subsidiary of a big pharmaceutical company - ₦500,000 monthly.

I have been out of job for 2yrs before these employments, I have really suffered that in those 2years, where my family have disowned cos I have been so poor and hopeless.

Now I want to make the right choice, which job should I pick cos I'm also thinking of japa very soon

Stupid question

if you want to suffer and continue to manage, take the 95k job but if you want to have a good life and still japa as you have planned, take the 500k.

Don't say I didn't tell you ohh

DMerciful:
Nobody wins forever. There's always a time when someone thats always compromising will make a mistake

you need to understand what politics is all about......

its a game and you formulate a strategy on how to win.....manipulate people and even do some bribing


one way or the other, you must have done some bribery or settle some people to help you in some areas

manoflove22:
i started dating my girlfriend last year December, we barely see each other because of her strict father,even there was time her father threatened me to leave her daughter.

Even if we got to see it will be in a public place around her house


And this have been for all these while and i try to talk her into it that i can't date a girl i can't spend quality time with her and she never visits me, claiming my place is far


Now last month, there's a girl, a friend to her in my area, i showed interest to her, she questioned me that what about her friend but i told her we are not dating that she is not serious

So this new girl have been showing care,we have been making out together and deep down in me this is all i wanted, a girl that show she cares not a girl we barely see each than calling.



fast forward to yesterday, i don't know what they discussed, my first girlfriend told her that she saw me yesterday and we are still dating, which make my new girlfriend became angry, she called me shouting that I'm a lair that we are dating, to cut the story short i just had to assured and told her if by any chance she see my first girlfriend she should told her not to call me again.


This evening my first girlfriend called me and told me we should end it that her friend told her all i told her

Incredibly, i never expected my new girlfriend to tell her such but just a simple assurance

Now the issue here is hope i haven't caused a fight between two friends and i love my first girlfriend

Any advise cos to go out tomorrow is a issues for me

How old are you

dodoatirice:
so Datti left Obi to face the tribunal alone But during the Elections, Datti stuck to Obi like a bubble gum that was smeared under the dinning table and forgotten. These days i see Obi in and out of Tribunals Alone..

That guy get better things to do than wasting quality time on unprofitable things.

Election don go

Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu time will favour me and my family.

Click like if you wish the same

QuotaSystem:
Even the lawyer that tried to cash out on the dead case was personally fined.

Isn’t this just beautiful? 😎

The lawyer self collect wound

so Ronaldo dey complain too

N3TRAL:
Big lie. Yorubas are also uncouth, loud and aggressive.

I have my experiences.

that is not true, if you try to bring down a yoruba man, he will not accept it and he will be aggressive on you.

igbos are more aggressive and that is the problem most yorubas have with them....

you cant talk in a civilise way with them without collecting insult.....they have insulted all our elders just because of an election....

Kingpele:
Nigerians and bad mouth ...am sure this insult is coming from agbadorians quaters..this people are classless and support thieves..if u try to correct them they will insult the hell out of u..tufiawa

why should you think that way?

look at what you said now, throwing insults to others. you yourself knows the people involve and stop trying to be funny.

they started with Tinubu

continued with Soyinka

they are still looking for other yoruba elders to insult

honestly, you guys needs to grow up and stop all this nonsense on social media, it doesnt portray us in a good way.

other countries protect themselves but for us, we showcase everything on social media because you can type well

let me even burst your bubbles, the Baci herself is from south south so is she a thief we are supporting?

grow up please

TimFisher2:




Igbos travel all over the world. They are in North, South, East and all over the country.



In fact they are more educated than the rest of the tribe


Words on marble!

So education is traveling to different state?

gidgiddy:
And yet one we say we want Biafra so we can go our way, it will be that same North and South West that will be ready to fight war

Nigeria is pointless and a waste of time, lets all agree to break up peacefully and gow our different ways

Gone are those days when people fight such wars...it will be good enough for igbos to stay in their land and fight for Biafra.

You can't be in the north and still be claiming such.

No one is holding anyone ..southwest is not holding you guys back on anything. It's a free world. It's your leaders you guys should talk to, they know the truth.

gidgiddy:
Arewa Youths once threatened Igbos and gave them 3 month notice to leave the North, none of them were arrested

Minyetti Allah has severally backed the murderous killer herdsmen and their campaign of terror, none of the leadership of Minyetti Allah has ever been arrested

FUNAM(Fulani Nationality Movement) have threatend people for grazing rights, they even wrote a threatening letter to the sitting Governor of Benue not to implement anti-grazing or face consequences, no one was arrested

MC Oluomo, Oba Lagos and others can say anything without fear of arrest

Frederick Nwajagu, the ceremonial Eze Ndigbo Ajao estate, made a short video where he lamented that Igbo lives and businesses were being attacked in Lagos, and that Igbos need private security. He opined that IPOB should be brought to Lagos to protect Igbo businesses when they close for the day, to deter those attacking Igbos. He also said that Igbos are not trouble makers and are not fighting Yorubas, but that Igbos should be allowed to vote their choice.

At no time did he threaten anyone, at no time did he threaten violence, at no time did he encourage any violence, if anything, he was after security and peace

For that, the authorities arrested this man of almost 70 years old, and charged him with terrorism.

Had the Sarikin Fulani of Ikeja, if such exists, said the exact same thing Nwajagu said, would he have been arrested?

Had the Baale of Dolphin estate, if such exists, said the same thing Nwajagu said, would he have been arrested?

Nwajagu was targeted just for being an Igbo man

The stupidity of this case is truly baffling because you cannot be talking about terrorism, and the protection of life and property in the same breath. Terrorism is about the destruction of life and property, not the protection of it.

The only thing the authorities want to do is charge the old man to court so they can go on with their useless adjournments, same as they are doing with Nnamdi Kanu

Some people might say he invited IPOB, a terrorist organisation to Lagos, is mentioning IPOB now a crime?Why the case is very weak is that nobody even knows what the Eze Ndigbo meant by "IPOB"

The man could easily go to court and say he meant the "Igbo people of Benin" and case will totally collapse on its head since nobody is his head to tell him what he meant

The case is pointless

North no want you

south west no want you

you still dey shook head

you refuse to go back to your land

Do you want to be stoned to death?

sweerychick:
who needs to give the other accolades when the report itself is bias. Didn't you notice how the mischievously omitted air peace in their report when Air peace is doing the bulk of the work.. Like you said it's well

Hmmmm

It is well truly....if at all they omitted Air peace in their report, you should have even done your part instead of following the trends ... Suppose the Government is giving out incomplete report, we the citizen should not allow it to define us rather we make corrections and prove them wrong.

We the citizen needs to even agree before there can be changes..... Tribes and religion is a big problem here.

Some tribes believes they are the superior while other believes the same way.

Everyone is unique in their own ways

GBJakes:
Is both, air peace landed first before airforce and all between 11pm and mid night.

So why are they not talking about the both....

Hmmm people in this country are just too sentimental

sweerychick:
air peace flight brought the first batch while NAF brought the second one I watched it live on Arise TV midnight so you are the one that needs to be updated buddy

So why ain't you giving both of them the accolades instead of been baise.

Hmmmm it Is well

kardinalz:
I think you should be the one to confirm information before discrediting another...
Air peace came in first with about 270 evacuees before the airforce with about 80.

Dnt be in a hurry to discredit people with out you getting the right information

Oga did you see me discrediting Air peace. Check my comment and read properly. I never discredit anyone or people and please stop reading different meanings to people's comment, you don't even know what they have in mind.

I come in peace

ridwanlawal:
I pray something good comes out

Na sex las las

pocohantasgspot:
I doff my hat for Air-peace CEO.


After years of escaping Nigeria, Nothing came. And you realize you're looking in, looking in the wrong place.

That is Air Force flight that brought them to Abuja not Air-peace. Confirm information properly before giving out accolades

gidgiddy:
In a little over a month, Tinubu will be sworn in as the President of Nigeria. For the sake of the suffering masses, we wish him the best, although best of Nigeria's Presidents leaves much to be desired these days. However, there are already signs that Tinubu's Presidency will be a bad one

1. Transparency - Tinubu is the only major Presidential contender in recent memory who did not grant one single interview to his own countries press corps while running for the highest seat of the land. He dodged every interview, ignored all requests to be interviewed and ran away from the Presidential debates. The only interview Tinubu granted was in a highly controlled environment, outside the country. This is a clear sign of a man who will not be transparent nor put himself up for public probity and accountability when he gets the keys to Aso Rock

2. Visibility - Two months after being declared President elect, hardly anyone has laid eyes on Tinubu. Tinubu runs away from public visibility and for good reason too. Times he has been out in public has been disastrous, from his hands shaking uncontrollably to loss of bladder control to dozing off. However, President should be visible, and the job requires stamina. This does not portray a man who has the stamina nor health to stand the rigours of the highly demanding job of President


3. As far as Im aware, Tinubu has no manifesto and no plans. Tinubu will be facing a Nigeria with economic stagnation, insecurity, high debt burden, high corruption ratings, disunity and looming subsidy removal which is bound to make things worse. And yet Tinubu has told nobody how he will solve the myriad of Nigerias's problems when he is sworn in. For me, this does not show a man with vision. If anything, all of these shows a man who is a major disaster waiting to happen

Suppose Tinubu has never govern a state before, I would look into this your observations but you see ehn ...Tinubu will surprise all of you.

Ladymillion:
How many Nigerian men approach a lady that is not too good looking?

All women are good looking....just package yourself well

bonnyhope:
This is N700 tomatoes in Aja Lagos

Diswan Na 100 naira for Abuja

weird country..... so dead cant rest in peace again?



it is finished

MXrep:
Did Igbo try to be Oba of Lagos? See, the attack on voters will be retaliated one day

i am not in support of attack and i will not be part of it but then, no yorubas will go to the east and start misbehaving, he wont dare it even in the northern part....therefore when everyone is able to know and understand their limits, walahi...we are good altogether

donbachi:
so,the PiCC stuffs on him was put there by plumbers...no vex.

No Na electrician put am there

With the level of your education, you still believe all what you see on social media

If you don't see it with your naked eyez, stop propagating it, atleast show the education in you.

It is well with you

donbachi:
But,the health issue is evident.

Did you see it with your korokoro eyes

NwaIdeato:
Exactly, Abuja has always been a civilized environment and clime where all the educated, detribalized and enlightened Nigerians of all tribes and religions peacefully co-exist (unlike what Lagos is turning into)...the hooligans there who are predominantly of Hausa/Fulani stock are the Okada,Keke, and wheelbarrow pushers who are the bane of thuggery, criminality and filth in that serene city. The Gbagyi people have always respected the Igbos cause Igbos account for the largest real estate investments and landed property ownership in Abuja (as attested by El rufai himself). They had better defend Abuja from the APC Aboki vermins that want to cause trouble there

They respected the Igbos right, but why can't they say Abuja is no man's land.

The day Igbos mention Lagos is no man's land, that was when troubles started between the two tribe.

The Igbos in Abuja knows their boundary, they go to work , close from work and go home. The moment they try to go beyond their boundary then you see this other side of them

Do your business in Lagos and stop interfering with indigenous activities