GoWithGood: I don't seem to understand this country anymore. Before now, it was as though I was understanding the country a litle but now, I'm totally lost.
As at when I graduated from the school in 2019, this plate of food was N300. So something took me to the school today and I went to eat in the same restaurant. How come in just 4 years+ the plate is now N1200?
Someone that was earning N30,000 in 2019, is he/she earning N120,000 now? To be able to meet up with the economic realities?
Na wa o with the level of inflation going on in the country.
how much is the pure water now, how much were you buying it in 2019
Rich4god: As strange as this may sound, let's stop encouraging baby mamas, it's not a good thing to do or to be proud of.
These days I hear most guys say that they won't marry, they would rather look for a lady who will be their baby mama. Some guys are even planning to have multiple baby mamas.
Well, which lady in her right sense would want to be a baby mama. Aren't you even ashamed that you call yourself a baby mama. Like the purpose of coming to life is not even to be a mother and a wife, but a baby mama who might be left alone if the guy succeeds in taking away the child from you.
Anyway, that's not the main purpose of creating this thread.
This is an HYPOTHESIS...
I have come to realise that most children raised by baby mamas/single mothers are very wild and lack morals. They are usually toxic inside of them and very disrespectful, no shame, no atom of responsibility in them and they always behave as if they have no parental guidance.
It's seems like a woman alone should not be left with the sole responsibility of training a child from childhood through teenage ages. Women do not have the mental capacity to do such and so the child doesn't turn out well.
It's a different game when a woman lost her husband and is left alone with the children. In this case, 60-70% of the time, the husband's relatives helps the woman to train the child. But that's not the case of baby mamas/single mothers.
Most baby mama/single mothers do not usually have the support of relatives due to the circumstances surrounding the child they are bearing, and so they are left all alone in training the child... and in greater percentage of the time, the child is not trained "rightly and homely".
My appeal goes to the men, if you need a child, go and adopt one... If you need one carrying your blood, better get married and join hands with your wife in giving your child the required parental guidance they need.
Talk to the women not men. They are the carrier of the baby
geoworldedu: At the moment, Ivory coast is praying and reloading their browsers to see if Southy and Mali have scored. They will shout GOOOOOOOOAAAAAALLL!!! more than the countries involved if they scored today
CIV in trouble, goaless everywhere, its not working in their favour. We might have the first goaless draw tonight
ImpactBooks: Dear NLs, please I need your guidance on this issue. I am on the verge of applying for my first annual leave with my present employer. But the information I have gathered from my colleagues at work have it that the company usually count weekends as part of the annual leave days.
Note that in my employment letter, it was only started at I shall be entitled to 28 annual leave days and also that the company usually work Monday - Friday.
Is it right for the company to count weekend as part of my annual leave days? And what does the Nigeria Labour Law says about this?
Thank you all for your anticipated guidance
Yes, annual leave include weekends. That's why in civil service, we either use 22 working days which is equivalent to 30 days annual leave. That is (A month/ four weeks - four Saturdays and Sundays) = 30 - (2*4) = 22
Smile4mee01: I'm a single 39yr old Nigeria guy in diaspora trying to settle down and going to Nigeria to marry is not an option.
I'm an introvert who has been through some childhood trauma in my family and really fear marriage because of what I have seen and how bad it can be sometimes.
However, an old female friend and colleague of mine who we worked together in Nigeria and now in canada recently contacted me and she is also single and not had children. She is doing well for herself and now a citizen there while I'm not. A part of me is concerned about
1. Fertility : I desire children. However, can she have me healthy children @ 39. How many can she have? I discussed us trying for a child , she appears to want a.marriage first. But what gurantees do I have to have children.
Should I be concerned? I dont want to enter one chance.
Please I use God beg you, no insults just advice. Abeg. God bless you.
Age is just a number Women still give birth till 45
You can still have 3 kids with her
You guys can go for medical check up to clear your doubt
officialwdhtv: AFCON2023: Moment angry Algerian fans attempted to enter the hotel of the Algeria team to attack them after their elimination from the tournament last night
EreluRoz: My dad's driver son is right here in our house and he's the first child of his dad, he's totally different from the rest, he doesn't look like his dad neither does he look like his mum, there's no resemblance from both parents at all.
I stylishly dig up stories of how his mum was married because he's been driving my dad even before I was born and I was told she was already pregnant before the marriage ceremony was held and as at that time of their wedding, the woman lived in a different state, she just came and told him she was pregnant and that was how marriage happened .
I have watched this boy from head to toe so I can see at least one feature in resemblance but I didn't see anything, not even from the mom, he's just totally different. The other kids are ok, two share a striking resemblance with their dad while the last took after her mom but with some of the dad features, so are you thinking what I'm thinking?
Should I tell my dad my observation? What do you think?
Do you know their grandparents? Confirm before you start shouting parternity fraud.
Used to have a friend called Yetunde, she doesn't look like both parents. She's a replica of her great grandparents
All the Group A matches Jan 13: Ivory Coast 2-0 Guinea-Bissau Jan 14: Nigeria 1-1 Equatorial Guinea Jan 18: Equatorial Guinea 4-2 Guinea-Bissau Jan 18: Ivory Coast 0-1 Nigeria Jan 22: Equatorial Guinea 4-0 Ivory Coast Jan 22: Guinea-Bissau 0-1 Nigeria