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Spiritfun:
I have a wonderful relationship with an amazing woman. She's a complete spec of all I ever wanted in a woman. She's extremely beautiful, kind, supportive... She doesn't hesitate to buy me gifts even in her moment of lack.

I'm convinced beyond all doubts that we're SOULMATES. Our love story is very interesting and we're truly in love. Time will fail me to discuss US in this thread.

However, we both agreed mutually to have sex only after we're married but she has a very ugly memory that's hunting and hurting her emotions so much that we really need find a solution to it before it causes us a great damage.

MY FIANCÉE WAS SEXUALLY ABUSED AT A VERY TENDER AGE BY A RELATIVE WHO LIVED WITH THEM. She was molested uncountably by this monter of an Uncle who took advantage of her who found pleasure in defiling a primary school pupil.

I've tried so much to counsel her but somehow, I still believe she's not totally free from that trauma. I was a victim of sexual abuse, as well but I found the courage to heal on time but my Fiancée is still battling with this horrible experience.

I hate to see my woman in pains cos I truly and genuinely love her.

I Need help urgently on how best to help my woman heal from this ugly encounter. Please, anyone with practical experience should advise me on how to handle this situation and save my fiancée from this trauma.

Mods, kindly help me reach a wider audience.

Meet a counselor

Irrelevant

Painful exit

dollytino4real:
is it inferiority complex of small prick that is driving them into this gay disease or what self?

They couldn't talk to girls....they are cowards

Old mama yongie......your body don wrinkle o

Irresponsible act

No wonder he couldn't achieve his potentials

It can be animal blood now

OP it's 250k not 250m

Toyin Lawani no go allow us rest now with this halloween design that won best dressed

Another guy is shinning her congo. Alex isn't a victim. Infact, no victim in mutual sex

Chii59:
You show bress, you show butt cheek. Na nipple you dey cover?
Anything for the gram.

nipple is the new private part not bress

Low budget Osewa

Chii59:
Alpha males are jealous
Mynd44 darling, don't mind them. Ban them till eternity.

come and crush on me

"I didn't came"

LASU keep churning out half baked graduates

Dat2jo:
My wife once asked me to lick her hairy armpits and I actually did it. It felt good but awkward afterwards, thinking about all the sweat and germs in that area.

My wife also likes to squeeze lime into my butthole and then suck it off.

What is the weirdest thing you did during sex?

Your wife is dirty....tell her to shave her hairy armpit

sunshineV:
This harmattan is a terrible thing fa. make sure u don't drop ur device carelessly even if u have a screen guard on it will crack as hell. my hauwei that is strong as fvck has been laid to rest

Which harmattan....buy original screen guard, you say no

Okafors law

When she grows and knows better, she ll do those chores reluctantly. For now, she sees it as fun

studentofTruth:
[s]It's a contribution as a member of the community.[/s]

The command is in Mtt 25:34-45

In Mtt 25:40, Jesus literally declares the proxy for gifts meant for Himself!

Ignorance

44 All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. 46Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts.

Believers not community

studentofTruth:
Jesus Himself gave us a proxy for the gifts meant for Him: Mtt 25:40

What happened to Act 2:44-46

You removed it from your Bible

studentofTruth:
Jesus Himself gave us a proxy for the gifts we have for Him: Mtt 25:40

consoles himself that he is giving in the church!

The bold isn't part of the parable. Giving in church is scriptural according to Act 2:44-46

Let's be a balance christian

Give in church as much as you give to the poor

studentofTruth:
Considering Jesus' clear commands in Matthew 25:34-45, what you explained is the case of someone who neglects giving to the poor and consoles himself that he is giving in the church!

Wrong interpretation

wunmi590:
I just want a lot of people to learn from my experience look before you leap.

I got 3 employment letter last year, and to resume the same day. Two on the mainland and one on the island.

One of the two on the mainland has a better salary than the other two, so I went for the better salary, as an upcoming father.

But believe me I didn’t know that they were only using money to entice people and then tell them to leave at their own time.

I received the shocking of my life when I opened my mail on Thursday to do a handover to a colleague on Friday last week.

I couldn’t cry, but I just had to hold back my tears and I brought out my phone and looked at my 2month old baby and moved on.

My advice, please don’t be in a rush to chose a job or switch that job and lastly always be prayerful that God should direct your path.

That was how I lost the 3 jobs

Job security over big salary anyday

Sermwell:
I have over time realised that I find it difficult to give larger amount of money in church. Most times I struggle to give #50 or even #20 as offerings in church. But I have always find it easy to give large sums to persons in need in and outside the church.

Quite recently, a brother accosted me in church with some challenges about his wife's childbirth in the hospital, I went with him and paid off 45k to discharge them. Aside him, I have given up to 100k (if not more) to persons in need this month alone.

But I struggle so hard to give larger sums in church. Even today, I gave #40 as offering in church when I actually have larger denominations in my wallet.

Funny enough, on my way out of the church today, I met my school mate and we went to my house together, although he didn't state categorically that he's in need, but he told me how he has been out of job for 3 months now. After the visit, I gave him 10k from the same wallet I gave #40 as offering in church today.

My question is, what could possibly be wrong with my giving in church? Is it trust issues or I consider it better to give to persons instead of the church?? Is anything wrong with my style of giving??

I need answers please!!

Definitely trust issue but you forgot that the chairs, fan and sound system that gives you comfort in church was bought from someone's offering

Sailorsoldier1:
no cure! He shud b using condom

And where did you see cure in my post

Topmaike007:
from Salzburg...Liverpool can testify to what he did against them in UCL

Nonsense, with how many goals?
He scored 10 in ucl last season playing for Dortmund

divicoded:
Which planet are you from? How old are you? This is my problem with Nairaland, to much toddlers!

Herpes is incurable but can be managed!

Odẹ!
"Proper attention" means it's manageable not curable

BadEnglish:
Ile oba to jona , ewa lo busi

panapana ni o tete de

SweetCunt97:
The heart wants what it wants dear.

If we should all go about that principle, the World will be in chaos

SweetCunt97:
You for call kanye wife snatcher naw, afterall he was Kim's friend throughout her two marriages yet he married her.

You can't compare their beliefs and ways of life over there to ours here.

How can we be in the same profession and the only guy I wanted in my life is yours. It shows lack of respect and dignity

frankson1:
Dortmund didn't produce him.

He hit form in Dortmund

SweetCunt97:
how? The man already left his wife or just wasnt happy with d marriage anymore.

Birds of a feather