₦airaland Forum

lawalosky:

our amiable VP looking from behind

He's observing from afar

Ogunleti01:
There Are Honest Nigerians- I Found One Today
According to a facebook user with the name Bayo Adeyinka he said; yesterday he inboxed me that he had an interview and needed some assistance. I asked a few questions and sent
a token to him. It was just enough to take him from Ilorin to Ibadan.
This morning, I got a message from him that he confirmed and that only BSc holders could attend the
interview. He has HND. What shocked me to my marrows was when he requested for account details for him
to refund the money since he wasn't attending the interview again.
You bet! I told him to keep the money. He didn't have to come back to refund the money. There was no way I
would have found out if he attended the interview or not.
Integrity is what you do even if you knew you would not be caught. Anyone who is faithful in little things
will be faithful in much. How you handle the small stuff shows how you'll handle bigger ones.
I'm so proud of Adeshina Samson Oyekanmi who though finished NYSC in 2019 and is unemployed but yet
displayed uncommon integrity. With people like him, there is hope for our country.
Samson graduated with Upper Credit in Computer Engineering Technology from the Federal Polytechnic Offa in
2018.
HR folks on my TL, please assist him to get a job. He deserves one. If you need his phone number, please
contact me.

Tell him to upgrade his hnd

FatherCHRISTMAS:
@ OP blur the guys pictures naa.

Person that's looking for job, make them blur his picture.

African mentality.....May we not hide from our helper o. No wonder prayers like "let my helpers locate me" no dey work

kindredspirit:
Hello guys,

Please, is there anyone who knows this Nairalander outside Nairaland:

https://www.nairaland.com/victorian

Her neighbours said she SLUMPED AND DIED in her house on Sunday. They said they don't know any of her relatives.

Her phone is locked and they're unable to access her contact list.

I'm posting this topic here with the hope that a friend who knows her family would see it and provide leads on how her family could be reached to claim her remains.

Anybody ??

Oh my Victorian! Nobody to tell me "modify your post" again

Mdaz:
Lori Iro

Honestly, he talk too much and one thing is peculiar with people that talk too much......LIES!

sapphiere:
Why can't they build a new one?

I hate Refurbishing things.




The FUTURE is FEMALE.

Not cost effective

sapphiere:
R.I.P to him.

Have you all notice that women rarely commit suicide.

That's because we have better things occupying our minds.

They have no responsibilities or all are responsibilities are attached to his man

Apart from pressure to marry and have kids, no other pressure for them unlike men that are under pressure

To make money
Provide shelter
Provide food
School fees
Buy car
Still further his education

Ọmọ Mọla

Mikecold:
Why e con tag #hushpuppi


Abi he wants USA authorities to table his slow case

You are not use to twitter

Those tags were trending then and if you want more people to see your tweet, It's just the norm to use trending hashtags at that point in time

I m afraid of height. We move by road

Duru9:
Congratulations sir
I'm one of the most happiest people for you and your lovely wife

Your wife is strong
She really endured a lot from wicked people online


God have shot all of em up

fixed!

Queenslander:
People shouldn't blame her entirely, she didn't get herself pregnant, did she? A deadbeat guy impregnated her.. and probably ran away from his responsibility!!

What happened to her hand? She should get a job too

thebosstrevor1:
Why is that men in this part of the world hardly get fit.

Once they have little money, they grow fat and have beer belly.

If you want to live long, reduce the fat.

pure lies...Check Obj's tommy

nnewa:
Hello NLanders, please help advise me on how to counsel this brother of mine who lost his wife about 2 years ago during child birth.

Now the man wants to re marry and is considering his late wife's sister. (Whether out of true desire, wish that the sister can take better care of her late sisters baby or another reason) it's worthy to note also that the lady in question is also advancing in age and likely to settle with any available man.

Please is it morally, culturally or religiously permitted to do so, he has been asking me

It's permitted culturally but it's no longer in vogue

Yugosng:
Come Saturday, 27.2.21, I'll be embarking on a journey of eternity with my best friend.

It's a mixed feeling of happiness and anxiety.

In all, I'm pretty excited and pray that the event will go smoothly.

Here are my pre-wedding photos.

Thanks in advance for all the sweet words and jabs

Na Nairaland we dey, so every every is welcomed.

Ki le leyi...

Coca-cola bottle lele yi

Coca-cola bottle lele yi


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nf68Hhr11Y

The senior eagles are still struggling with their easy group on Afcon qualifier

All night long


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nqAvFx3NxUM

SweetCunt97:
He's in love Naw. You know how love makes us behave.

Love shouldn't overshadow our sense of reasoning

I 'll get you bold5

moriton:
I have been here a while and probably ignorant but does the share button do anything?.

I understand the like button to mean your support of a particular post or comment but the share, who are you sharing it to/with?. Like if you're done typing a document you want to share options like WhatsApp, Cloud, Fb, come up but here in nairaland nothing. I want to know please.

And if in the process it does nothing except used for voting like I see some people do on a given topic. I propose we now take share to mean downvote or dislike button.

The share button allows your followers to see your post quickly once it's clicked

I did when I found out that she was trying to pin a preggy on me

SweetCunt97:
Action Mister google master. Calm down ojarey

Don't mind me, I don't like people pretending not knowing what to do

Let me barbering my head first

AkandeJoseph99:
Hi Nairalanders!,

Please I need your help about my crush turned friend that is showing some attitude and I really do not know whether to let her be or keep on keeping on. I really love her even if she does not want to date me, I really love her even as a friend or in any capacity and I feel like she loves me too or maybe she used to and no longer does.

A year and some months ago I created a topic on Nairaland about a girl I loved and I loved her because I believed the loved me too and then she later said we were just friends. the topic is at https://www.nairaland.com/5610969/im-having-sleepless-night-she#85448747 Screenshots below if you do not want to click the link.

Couple of weeks after that post I was sick and admitted in the hospital so she kept on calling me and we kept talking. I shared my life with her even though we only talked on phone and I could not set my eyes on her ever again even till now as I type. She told me she likes me but cant date me and even told me she prefers me to the boys she was dating just that she has no options than to date them (kinda confusing but I just had to accept it like that). I scheduled bulk SMS to text her daily so she does not think I abandoned her or something. She would reply the messages and even pray that I get well. After I got well she was the only person in my head, damn...I called her and told her and that, she was happy that I was outta the hospital and a day later reminded me about lending me some 50k and that she borrowed the money from somebody and the person is now disturbing her and she has to pay up (I don't really recollect the details of when I collected the money from her but my diary confirmed that she gave me the money on the guise of a contract and when I asked her as at then she told me that she just gave me and I should just forget about it and not remind her about giving me the money again), well I sent her the money. It was after that that I noticed she is trying so hard to avoid coming in contact with me or take anything from me. I have tried using money to get some gift and even created a startup business for her and I also wanted her to be part of my company but just one thing or the other will stop it, she once said that I will use what I give her for reference purpose one day and that is why she is avoiding taking things from me (maybe shes more emotional than reasonable). In a bid to stop that one day I told her that we should build something but make sure we don't stop it half-way as usual but she took that very personal and I had to do a lot of begging before we started talking again. She also told me that since I started having money she has attempted to stop talking to me a lot of times in order to avoid a feeling of being attached or entitled (funny enough I can do anything for her because my mind tells me she deserves it). I have also attempted to see if I am the one having problems and psychologists told me that it is because I have given her a major part of my life and I am too simple for her and I don't take control of things with her is the reason for the whole issues. (I might not be able to give plenty details about the things I have done but I have tried to even get her to be a shareholder in my companies and arranged meeting with investors in Abuja instead of Lagos so she can be able to attend but we had issues again and she refused to attend, even after settling the issue I was willing to reschedule but she declined in an angry way).

All those things made me feel bad because I now have money and I never want my life to be without her whether as a friend or anything, she was just a savour to my life even though she is the person I have the most arguments and fights with and she would tell me to stop talking to her after any little argument and even run personality attacks on me sometimes but well I see the pain hidden in her pride and the remorse behind her attacks.

Three weeks ago I made a post about my friends and I mentioned that she is my phone friend that I have always wanted to get closer to and also made another post bout friends that stayed with me in the hospital. After that post I noticed that the way she was chatting me became cold. I had to ask her and then she said I should go and meet those people I said are my friends and I should leaver her alone. I had to text, text, text and text her but she only replied with "leave me alone, I don't want you in my life again", I posted on my status about how I was scared of loosing her and she texted me that I should remove her name from my status. I did remove it and texted her a good morning message the next day but she didn't reply. I waited till her birthday which was a week after and texted her a happy birthday at 12am dot Nigerian time even though is was in a different timezone. I asked her to make a wish and I will make it come true, I even suggested wishes she can make but all she replied with was ameen. I had to call her and tell her it might be the last time I would call her (i actually have an illness and I'm only living at its mercy presently). After I dropped the call she called me again but I couldn't respond. So I came back four days ago and texted her and explained to her about that post and asked her why she doesn't want me to be her friend again in clear terms she said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I SAID I DON'T WANT YOU IN MY LIFE AGAIN, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND". I had to change my tone like I have never done and told her that she is entitled to her opinion but nobody has told me that before but since she is saying that she should just give me reason and if I am okay with the reasons I will leave her alone (I said this because it was not the first time she would be telling me that and sometime in 2019 when the same thing happened she said that and she later told me she didn't mean it and it was because she has some issues with life and she went ahead to say sometimes when people ask you to leave is when they need you the most). So I insisted on hearing a reason from her then she said she feels like a lot of things are not right and she feels like everything about me is a lie, that shit got m confused because I never lie to people and even say the truth no matter what it might take. I later called her back and asked what she means then I realised she feels like my successes and issues I was going trough are all lies. I later called her back and asked her to tell me what she means then she said I should just forget about the lying thing, that she didn't say it was lies but she meant she is feeling like it is lies. I was about ending the call when I heard her say "since you started having money you have changed and you now feel like a boss that does everything right, I don't know the people making you feel that way". Well I just smiled and said "since you say you do not want me in your life, but me I really do want you in my life, in view of that call me whenever you want, I am here for you even if I don't call you again just call when you need me, I am only one call away". She just started saying that Joseph you feel too important, who told you someone will call you, you think you don't need people and people need you, it is because you are having money.

I asked my friends but all they seem to do is tell me that I don't have any fault, I should just leave her. I even fought my friend because of her today. She also tells me those friends love me because of what they are collecting and that I have a lot of bad characters (even though when I ask her she refuses to tell me but just insists I am not good). I also personally think I am good and try to become a better person daily.

BTW, this girl is the first girl that I ask to send account number and refuses

Please I need your advice on

1. Is it possible I am a bad person that thinks he is good because of the kind of people around him?
2. Is it that she used to be a friend but no longer one (because she used to celebrate my successes with me before, but now she will just tell me that I am only being successful because I am rich or because of a sponsor, or because of something)
3. Should I keep going after her? Maybe she is going through some issues and it is making her feel bad

Please I will appreciate all your replies.

PS: Sorry it is a long write-up, I really tried to make it this short.

It's a shame we still have men begging to be love in this age. You want to go into slavery all in the name of relationship

COLOUR PARTY, CHANGE DIRECTION RIGHT, RIGHT—FORM

The fake one dey Nigeria and "didn't came" here

"Had no money"... my foot

Tbvxl:
I happen to start dating this girl late December 2020. We were so doing fine all through last month not until this February when I began having this premonition towards her. I'd notice anytime we are together she'd Always AppLock her Whatsapp,on the long run I found my way to open it and gosh I read all of her chat with 3 different guys . What I saw ehnnn almost had me run mad,lol ! . Just imagine the one I claimed to love sending nude to a particular guy(although we hadn't begun dating then), this same guy was asking if she enjoyed the way he bleeped her ,babe was like he didn't even try. On the long run I noticed they have been making out since long before I came into the picture. I was even asking her if she was single before we started dating she told me yes. Asked her her the last time she had sex ,she said some years back (2017) and some months and it's just been with the guy that broke her hymen. This girl is a fucking cheat and a liar. I have had the plan of taking her serious but trust me I will just act like everything is cool and do the worst to her in the Future.
She claims to have a bestie ,yet she updates the guys pics and names every now and then on her Whatsapp status not even me her BF. Why are girls like this? Why don't they like a honest guy ? I even promised the bit*h to be faithful to her and I will never double date come what maybe. Yet she betrayed my trust . To hurt me the most they have got intimate again this Feb . How on earth will I be in a relationship with a girl and another guy is straffing her?
I am thinking of letting her know about it but still if I should tell her ,she might want to break up with me . I just seen a reason why some niggars chose to be a playboy .
PS: I asked her about the supposed guy but she said they are just friends and nothing is happening btwn them.


What should I do guys?
Should I let her know about it that I read her chat or I just keep playing along with her?

Only simps ask stupid question. What do you mean by "what should I do". Dump her first before she dump your simp ass

100trillion:
I work in a state govt agency, the pay is good but the work can drive one insane. No time for yourself or your love ones, 80 percent of female in my agency are single due to the work.

Let no one deceive you, 80% of female civil servant are single, the married ones ain't faithful.....I pity those men that married those female in my dept
I do make money in a day (normal civil servants level ), but the pain is when they pay imagine gettting paid the 2nd-3rd week of the next month instead of d prev month end.....right now I've not been paid, although I do make "small money" at work but I want my fvcking pay.

So, if I retire na like this I go dey fight for my money .....olorun maje, tufiakwa.

My plan is to finish my uni and focus on building my biz, bcus govt wrk ain't it.....you'll just spend waste 35yrs of your life doing shit for the govt.

I pray God grants my heart desires and guide me through the right path of life.

See how he's generalizing, get yourself better govt job like NNPC, FIRS, DPR etc and know the difference

Can't compare temporal hell to permanent one