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may his soul rest in peace but from the write up the man is the cause of his own death must you go and confront your neighbor or co tenant on any wrong doing there are appropriate authorities you can report the issue too and let them take necessary action alot of things we do in Nigeria sometimes i begin to think we are cursed if there is no confrontation there cant be a fight simple as A B C politely report to the landlord association if that is not enough take it to the local government simple or the community head and they know how to handle the issue better

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igbo man marries after two op don't forget to write the part two of this story when hell is let lose

I know of a girl that has been engaged 4 times and she is still single fear naija boys una no good

Na still engage ooo the guy wants to have his own share of her vajayjay 8 years no kids steady abortion might no be by engagement ooo

Many will claim they used it for mmm abeg mmm pls come back on the 14th oooo cause many stories will unfold cause the way people are defending mmm I just hope this is not the case cos a friend of mine is on the verge of going to jail if mmm does not come back he used his company's money to do mmm now this story I just dey wait sha

They never learn stop putting your kids in the spot light not everyone likes this a footballer in Germany once committed suicide cause he was getting too much media awareness this little things count we have had bigger celebs all over the world and you hardly hear about their kids ,wife , husband Na wa ooo

since this is a reocurring thing why not just purchase the amphibious excavators or something and give it to the appropriate authority naija and their crooked ways of doing things

Naija women when it comes to domestic violence and woman rights you see them in front trying to emulate the western culture but when it comes to responsibilities and paying their own bill you see them hiding na wa ooo

Am very sure this man has drinking problems I know what I am saying

I am happy for the man .I wonder why some women and men dont learn.If you have the dream of being a wife or husband one day it is better to start acting and behaving like one,till it becomes a part of you .If you are in a relationship you hope and wish it ends in marriage there are some certain things you have to avoid ,there are certain rules and principles you should live by for example try as much as possible not to keep contact with your ex on social media(whatsapp,facebook,instagram,twitter) cause most of this things starts from these platforms and if there is need for you to contact them try as much as possible to reduce the communication to the bearest minimum cause most of these ex's and whomever you have had something to do with in the past brings nothing but problems .Most times not all relationships end in marriage but whether it ends in marriage or not try to set this principles and rules for yourself cause it will help you alot.Most naija girls will be crying for marriage but in reality they are not ready when you advice them as a partner to desist from acts that will put them in a vulnerable situation they say you are jealous and insecure until one thing leads to another and they end up messing up they either blame it on their partner or the devil .She was cheating and having unprotected sex that is just the height of it all she deserves what she got .Women claim they dont want to put all their eggs in one basket but the moment you see and know it is leading to marriage which takes atleast two or 3 months to plan tidy your lose ends cause there is always alot of temptation during this period .Cause a lady that is still sleeping with her ex just a few weeks or months to her wedding does not deserve anyform of respect .NA YOU Bleep PASS (just like wanting to swim and you dont want to get wet)

when did he start acting that he his now directing movies actors guild abi wetin una call una sef please please and please you people should organise yourselves better you will see an actor that started acting last week this week he will be directing that is why they can take advantage of naive young girls that want to act, a professional director would not do such not all this quack directors that will pack their entire family and village into a movie. this yoruba people sef no dey try their movies lately i have been seeing to many prostitutes instead of actresses they just think because there are no jobs you can Bleep your way into acting.They should organise themselves better and have laid down rules right from the actors to the producers and camera people makeup and all .They should encourage professionalism in this their yoruba movie industry

This should serve as a big lesson to men and women that are out there yet to be married.So women in the house never pressurize any man to go out of his way to please you (not all gifts or favours are accepted) every relationship is like black market (it might end in a marriage and it might not end in marriage ) you dont know whether it will work or not so never go out of your way to please a partner .Also people should learn to break up properly (not just staying out of contact ) make the other party know your reasons if possible let close friends and family members get involved and break up properly.Then moving on is another issue alot of people these days just think having another boyfriend and another relationship is moving on .You have to be very careful not to cross parts with your ex cause most of them are bitter people try to block them and people close to them on social media (facebook,whatsapp,twitter ,instagram and all others like this) Also give yourself a little time before starting another relationship (dont rush into another relationship cause you are trying to get at your ex )cause doing so you are only endangering your life and that of your new partner and another thing is you guys might still come back so give yourself that little time.And also for guys always endeavor to know a little bit about your partners past (you might end up discovering somethings you dont like though but it is the best option)Also you need to know if a girl is ending her present relationship because you came into the picture if that is the case try to know the reason why and ensure she breaks up properly also try to get little details of these person she is breaking up with when i say little details i mean area where he lives ,places he likes to hangout in and if possible a picture of him so when you have these little details you know how to avoid these person totally ,cause staying in the same area or going to chill in spots you know you can bump into this person will only bring nothing but trouble and also always try to do the right thing dont endanger your life and also your partners life cause alot of people are not mentally stable .Ladies please always learn and try to define the relationship you have with people if you are only dating the person for financial support there are alot of guys ready for that dont ever lead a man on when you know you might not end up marrying him dont expect a man to take a loan or use his little salary to educate you or start up a business for you and you think you can just walk out of the relationship so easily .so in summary what i am trying to say is always try to end your relationship in the right way and never let a man make critical decisions or sacrifices just to please you

nothing goes straight in nigeria try to reschedule a flight in a normal functioning society i bet you that airline wont ever try it again .Alot of things we do and think are normal in Nigeria are not .Most Nigerians are aggressive and are very angry people .After i left Nigeria and went to another country most of the people there were complaining that why are Nigerians always aggresive and talk like we are quarreling about 3 to 4 cabbies told me these i decided to investigate how true this was and to my surprise most people i asked said the samething that whether a Nigerian is even trying to ask you for directions they sound aggressive.I also watched a video today and i am still quite disturbed some okada riders where beating a man and he was already weak he fell into a gutter they continued some people were busy recording with their phones nobody even endeavored to stop this people from beating the man ,the man is a government official at that does this behaviour look or sound normal .I just think everything is wrong in naija

Even after all the delays for them to serve something meaningful is a problem even if the flight is for 20 mins make them serve better item 7 to arrange something of 500 naira is a problem I boarded one from Benin to Lagos a student was on the flight with us I really pitied the girl cause after all the delays na snack and juice them still serve naija I hail thee

swear my foot infact she should have and gone ahead to do whatever she likes if her husband is not up to the task.All this myth and tradition ,customs most times dont work something i have researched personally .I am not bring down any tradition or saying one tradition is better than the other i am a yoruba and i have stayed alot of years in Benin the bini people are very traditional and unhold their traditions .And i know of one of their traditions a married woman should not cheat or else her husband would die or her first son would or become useless.I know of a particular couple the wife has been cheating with a close friend of mine and so far so good nothing has happened her husband is well to do and her son is hail and hearty still observing closely so what happened to this tradition is there a time frame and all.If this tradition is for real i think all men in benin should be extinct by now cause of things i see happening on a daily basis .Most marriages in nigeria when it comes to sex i think the women suffer the most cause they make you swear or believe cheating is as bad as the devil .Most men once they are married they change their sex drive becomes low you see a man that was sexually active when dating becomes redundant what do you expect the wife to do, i guess because it becomes too monotonous or boring (personally i have observed this in myself and i am not yet married) when the relationship is new and young it is sexually active with time when you co habit you find yourself not even touching each other for weeks sometimes months .A lot of relationships lack communication we just head into the bedroom and do the thing (nobody bothers to ask or know if the other party is satisfied ) very common in Nigerian relationships cause the man or lady feels it is improper to talk about it or dont want the other party to tag you or her as an ashawo. The one that beats my imagination the most in Nigeria people generally believe only troubled marriages need counseling that is if you even see marriage counselors around even a normal and happy marriage should go for counseling once in a while so you know where you are lacking or what your partner expects of you .Lastly couples should be open to share and discuss their sex life and help one another have a enjoyable sex life not expecting the other person to fill in the gap themselves that is what marriage and sex should be all about not all this swearing and swearing (enjoying sex is not all about the size,duration (as believed by most ) it should be understanding your partners sexual needs and knowing how to satisfy them as it varies in individuals.

Is that Efcc's duty Na wa very soon traffic wardens go begin fight for war. with the pending cases they have at hand and let people remain in prison remand they have time to be monitoring and arrest oil vessels naija is turning upside down

The man is a con artist the next user of that atm will give out his four digit pin easily cause once he sprays that insecticide he will know he 4 digits the next user of that machine presses so with combinations he can guess the pin so he knows what he his doing

Who does that walk away with goods you are yet to pay for this shops need to upgrade when you take something in a shop you are yet to pay for the alarm goes off especially for pricey stuffs like this the customer does not even want the alarm going off so they respect themselves Nigerians conducting business like savages

Serves him right and this is a warning to all this self acclaimed yeyebrities that think people know them or give two bleeps about them you see them in the bank they want to jump the queue you meet them at the fuel station they do the same so this has gotten into the heads of many of them so oga you took phones and wanted to get balance from your car and you know the way Nigeria is he deserves the beating they should learn to behave and follow protocols simple as ABC they always want preferential treatment .That was how one wanted me to make some deliveries to him at home at the same regular amount rubbish of the century

Story for the gods she is only trying to cover up a smaller sin when you make a small mistake and you refuse to own up and re trace your step you will commit a bigger one Na wa naija women and stupidity

All this clubs sef make una dey caution una bouncers you guys are selling alcohol and not water so situations like this should be expected and prepared for not hiring thugs cause they have six packs attacking a drunk man and that leading to his death Na matter ooo that is the end of that club cause it will be closed so don't attack your customers on no grounds you are stronger and bigger just overpower and dismiss the customer simple Mumu bouncers and club owners hiring them

Men be careful with all this I want to get married women just imagine on her d day reality is coming into play she I she don wear the gown wey dey shack her poor dude take heart anyways I am happy you did not end up with a deceiver naija girls always looking for who to pay their bills and force into marriage

I pity the man that marries this girl what is going on with girls of this generation practicing something immoral and recording it Na wa ooo

This should be a lesson to guys how can you satisfy this type of girl that bleeps herself with cucumber all night long I think sex is actually over hyped in this our generation now she has lost it all cause she placed too much priority on satisfying her sexual desires

Nigeria high commission wake up has Nigeria become this low from my findings I heard these Kenyan people are collecting money for visa extensions and granting this extensions so why are they harassing and deporting Nigerians our government has been failing us since God knows when .

The way we hear dss this and that is getting out of hand now dss is doing Efcc's job I tire for this my country

something needs to be done about jungle justice in nigeria especially warri this is just some sick old lady .Would you be happy if your mother is treated this way ?

Am sorry to say this but Oshiomole is just a drama Queen na him go see teacher wey no fit read na him go still see suicide bomber for voters register all i see is gaining cheap political points oshiomole as failed Edo State he should quit all this his nollywood acting we are tired of this bullshit

op did you not court before marriage why did you not change it during courtship if she is that slow give her enough money to always cook all the varieties you like and keep in the freezer or if you want a special soup that day tell her ahead so she can start on time and even call her to remind her .Women of these days tend to change alot once they are married abi op you are the picky type cos i know some people can be picky the meal prepared is Beans you come back and say you want moi moi and expect it to be ready in 30 mins lots of things are invovled op give us more details cause i dont see any big issue in this if she is that slow tell her to start cooking immediately you leave for work lol

no where is safe in naija anymore all due to this economic hardship