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Crime / Re: Lady Caught Stealing At A Shop In Warri Where She Previously Stole From by Fhowe: 3:58pm On May 31, 2020
Exmilitant:
Sinless and spotless man spotted... You can cast the stone sir.
that is not the issue here , that is how they evolve from petty stealing to armed robbery .

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Crime / Re: Lady Caught Stealing At A Shop In Warri Where She Previously Stole From by Fhowe: 2:03pm On May 31, 2020
Exmilitant:
I usually forgive these kind of people. I don't know about others.
it’s people like you that have made Nigeria a place filled with criminals and inconsiderate people no offense meant
Crime / Re: Man Slaps A Policeman Who Slapped Him In Warri. Policeman Then Fires Gun (Video) by Fhowe: 4:20am On May 28, 2020
Onlinealaba:
Well-deserved for the policeman but from another angle 2 seconds the guy for don kpeme, never engage an armed person is not wise especially when the person is a Nigeria police personnel he should thank God the police officer applied some decorum unlike some tout in uniform
the officer sef go kpeme they will not let him leave that spot
Celebrities / Re: Cynthia Morgan Lied Against Her Record Label? (Contract) by Fhowe: 5:40am On May 27, 2020
Davash222:

Don't go and be useful to yourself and your community.. Be going online insulting and cursing people that are 100 times better than you. Embrace sense, ancient lady.
don’t mind her as if jude put a gun to her head to sign the contract .and what happened to the term the contract terms to be reviewed every year
Family / Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Fhowe: 9:25pm On May 25, 2020
FeliciaOja:
It is now I understand what being strict does, it makes you live a life of pretence, cos when I got into University I wanted to explore everything  I didn’t have the chance of doing at home.

I drank alcohol like crazy, smoked weed, hung out with rich boys, partying, doing drugs but when I go visit my Parents, I still act like that innocent girl they have always known.

My Dad’s strictness led to my Pretence, if he had drawn me close like my mum did, I would have been a better kid.

When parents use strictness to shut down a kids curiosity instead of guiding them, you are making matters worse for that kid. Because eventually that curiosity will lead them into adventures and exploring all those things you refused them to..

Looking back, al the flogging I received from my dad only made me more stubborn and ruthless.

Nothing really changed? Until my mum made me change for good.

Parents need to use wisdom not force..
so you expect your dad to fold his hands and watch you destroy your life . So many people today live with regrets and wish they could turn back the hands of time (only if their parents went the extra mile to take appropriate disciplinary actions )
Health / Re: My Baby's Skin Problem Is Worrisome (Disturbing Photos) by Fhowe: 10:20am On May 24, 2020
mamaafrik:
your head korret so??
go ask
Your papa that question
Health / Re: My Baby's Skin Problem Is Worrisome (Disturbing Photos) by Fhowe: 11:46am On May 23, 2020
mamaafrik:
If you are a Yoruba,consult" elewe omo" people to give you necessary herbs.
Something like that happened to my sisters when we were younger and hospitals could not solve it,imi ojo (sulphur) was used then and fiaaam,it went away.
Going to hospital now,hmm,covid 19 scare pesinoooo
elewe omo oshi wo ? The op should take the child to a doctor or a dermatologist simple .elewe omo ko elewe agba ni . Rada Rada
Romance / Re: Can You Sponsor Your Girlfriend Or Fiancee In School? by Fhowe: 4:38am On May 23, 2020
Jimmyld231:
Girl friend /fiancee/ wife. Na the same thing
are you minding them ? For those saying I can only sponsor my wife to school don’t come back to nairaland to cry when you eventually discover you are fathering another persons child .For me the most important is the person you want to make such a sacrifice for (how stable is this person mentally and emotionally) the school community comes with a lot of pressure and assumptions ( most believe after schooling they will get a good job and would damn the consequences of their actions ) an ungrateful person will always be ungrateful
Romance / Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Fhowe: 3:52am On May 22, 2020
Sultty:

U don't need money like Dangote to marry, if u find a really good lady u will be married and achieve in marriage
boss no go think am the task ahead is mighty , better prepare very well . Most of our parents generation married with this mentality (e go better ) that’s why many back then could not even afford to buy a tokunbo car talkless of a new one (after working for 35 years) .And that is one of the major reasons we have so many jobless youths today bringing children into this world when you don’t have adequate plans for them .It is not by how far but how well

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Politics / Re: Tony Kabaka To Pay 18 Million As Cost For Demolishing His Hotel. Says Obaseki by Fhowe: 7:59am On May 16, 2020
Validated:
Hahahahahaha... childish play. All Kababa would have avoided by just three words "I am sorry" have cost him his source of income and now required to pay N18m.
Some people need to come to terms that a seating governor is ver5 powerful. Every gpver is not an Ambode.
serves him right he somehow forgot he his just a mere political thug ( and he his not the only political thug in the state ) it is left for the seating government if they want to work with you fine if they do not want to it is left for them . Going on social media and insulting someone that can bring you to zero .na life lessons sha “know your place “

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Revealed The Rashes Under A Lady That Share Hot Pictures. PHOTOS by Fhowe: 6:39am On May 14, 2020
Staphylococcus aureus

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Politics / Re: Tony Oneweek: "Why Didn't Police Investigate E-Money's Poverty?" by Fhowe: 4:06pm On May 13, 2020
Bar1941:
No legitimate hustle can fetch you that kind of money in Nigeria within that short period especially when you were not born with a silver spoon. E-money should enjoy his wealth for as long his secret is kept secret.
and what makes you think like that ,life is all about preparation and opportunity

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Crime / Re: Ato, Owner Of Star Shawarma Detained By EFCC Officials In Makurdi Over N1,600 by Fhowe: 3:19pm On May 07, 2020
OgbanjeProphet:
Do you mean he was arrest because of hundred naira That's abuse of power.

If the detainee knows his right, he would sue the EFCC official sharpaly sharpaly.
in as much as people might see this as been power drunk but I think this a welcome idea , when we start bringing people before the law for petty things like this so many citizens will learn to behave better

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Romance / Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by Fhowe: 11:51pm On May 06, 2020
Evercurious:


You knew she was a money monger ,yet you continued. God saved you the day she saw your payment voucher ..if not that your 360k won't have even been enough for upkeep in the house. I dont still understand why you guys kill yourself just to impress someone. Is it inferiority complex or what?

It took the lady leaving for the scales in your eyes to fall off. It's well with you.. Bragging about spending or should I say wasting money on someone just to be her 'slave'.
dont mind the op he was busy concentrating on another person and he forgot totally about himself ,he did not deem it fit to submit his meaningful credentials until madam left him .Most guys fail to realise a lot of women marry "who is ready " not "who they love " .Mumu man
Family / Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Fhowe: 10:35pm On May 06, 2020
Some women take this me and my husband mentality too far .Obviously the husbands mother can’t stay there forever .Staying married requires a lot of patience there are other ways you can pass messages indirectly in the house and the other part gets the message . Back in the days our parents accommodated even total strangers for months and years and there was peace , i think this western mentality has eaten too deep into our ladies

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Crime / Re: Gun Hidden Inside Bread, Man From ONUIMO LGA, IMO Caught By Security Operative by Fhowe: 5:23pm On May 05, 2020
Reform9ja:

Dis one nor go pass Oleh Oleh
See d guy voice dor change
Police neva even start to work on am

Where der even dey get all dis locally made guns from sef

Police need to trace d source.

odinaka enter silent mode ���
Family / Re: Help: My Father Is Killing My Mom Gradually by Fhowe: 1:27pm On May 05, 2020
Op don’t get yourself worked up , your mum should have herself to blame cause this habit of your dad did not start today or yesterday .she should have made corrections right from the very beginning “what you won’t accept on sunday better start rejecting it from Friday “ and most of us should learn from this , just try to find support for your mum and double your hussle that is all

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Romance / Re: Women And Their Annoying Whatsapp Statuses. by Fhowe: 3:19pm On Apr 30, 2020
Norphiee:


Our lecturer
so what happened to your lecturer ?
Romance / Re: Women And Their Annoying Whatsapp Statuses. by Fhowe: 3:17pm On Apr 30, 2020

What the fv.ck are you doing with an 18 year old on your contact list if she's not related to you?
so everyone on your contact should be related to you ?
Crime / Re: Ongoing War Between NBM And SEC In Benin Claiming Lives by Fhowe: 5:12am On Apr 30, 2020
Mumu men

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Romance / Re: Women And Their Annoying Whatsapp Statuses. by Fhowe: 5:05am On Apr 30, 2020
The most irritating is when you see a young girl that is barely 18 all you see on her status is related to relationship or marriage , when she should be concentrating on her education or learning a skill Na wa ooo

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Crime / Re: 'One Million Boys' Storm Oworonshoki In Lagos. Youths Resist Them (Video, Photo) by Fhowe: 4:56am On Apr 21, 2020
989900:
Oworo? This ain't funny!

Twitter is saying Sawmill boys chased them away already, is it true?
Oworo is not an easy target anyday, anytime . . . you can't attack Oworo without incurring the wrath of Bariga (Odunsi, New garage, etc.).



confam you sabi . Maybe them think say na ikotun or egbeda “IJA WA IJA OSI ALWAYS ON GUIDING “

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Family / Re: Can A Woman Return Her Bride Price, And Should The Man Accept? by Fhowe: 4:10pm On Apr 14, 2020
humble2:
Hello people

Please help with your inputs....I will be very brief.

A man married a woman.. the marriage produced a kid. Along the line they had an unreconcilable issue...I called it unreconcilable because the man had begged the woman, called elders and everyone in sight to help beg but the woman is unforgiving. Now after some years of the woman staying out of their matrimonial home. (Cos she moved out with the children) she called the man and told him she wants to move on and remarry and that the man should tell her how to return the dowry paid on her. She is also making the man sign an undertaking that he can always come to see the children whenever he wants. Though the agreement didn't state that the children can always visit their father whenever they want.

Now my question,, should the man accept the dowry or he should reject it but let her move on?

Secondly, the agreement stating that he can only visit the children at her maybe new home. Is it proper? Cos as it is the children cant go to their fathers. Please ur opinions are welcomed.. DNT mind my typography.



op don’t let anybody pressurize you into accepting bride price back .It is a recent tactic many families use to cover up for their kids .I will advice you to get a lawyer then also insist on a dna test for the kids (so you know what you are fighting for rightfully belongs to you ) Paternity fraud is real
Family / Re: My Landlord Does House Chores For His Children, Fetches Water For Them by Fhowe: 8:29am On Apr 10, 2020
Micky002:
There is this scenerio i usually observe with my landlord and his children which always makes me curious and also raises unanswered question within me. This prompt me to post this here.

My landlord is idoma by tribe and has six grown up children, three boys and three girls. He should be in his late fifties or early sixties. Here is the issue.

This man despite having grown up boys and girls always do his chores by himself while the children will be lazying around engaging in trivial discussions. This man will wash his clothes by himself while his girls, the youngest being twenty years of age will be chatting with friends in the compound. This man will go to fetch water with kegs using a wheel barrow every morning while the boys will sit outside doing nothing.

Meanwhile the water he fetches is used by every member of the house. This man can go up to three to four trips while the boys will be busy arguing about Manchester United and Chelsea with friends.

What baffles me the most is that they see nothing wrong in this because the man doesn't complain and his wife, their mother is also witnessing everything.

My question now is, is this an acceptable norm in their (Idoma) culture? For a father to be doing the house chores while the children will be playing. I'm asking because where I come from, it is unacceptable.
op let him continue to fetch .he had enough money to buy a land and build a house ,he collects rent monthly and finds it too difficult to put a borehole or a well in the house .Forming macho man fetching water all over the place with his age .I guess he will have enough money to see the doctors very soon . Water is very essential for every household so don’t joke with water
Education / Re: ‘Boniface Igbeneghu Acted So Godly On Campus’ — UNILAG Student On Lecturer by Fhowe: 6:32am On Oct 10, 2019
rabzy:


Hmmm unbelievable, there are indeed weird people in the world. Cave men abound. So because you are Mr universe, you are free to take advantage. This is a sting operation, and it is a standard practise in investigations all over the world. The school has dismissed them, maybe you should sue your alma mater for unlawful dismissal.
shut up ,he was only suspended before calling others cave men ,only cave men dont read and comprehend easily ,sting operation under what loco standi going to a lecturer to solicit for admission when he has little or nothing to do to affect the admission process in the university system or maybe their sting operation was to go out there to seduce lecturers and label them otherwise rada rada

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Education / Re: ‘Boniface Igbeneghu Acted So Godly On Campus’ — UNILAG Student On Lecturer by Fhowe: 5:30am On Oct 10, 2019
Asowebdesign:
From experience I've learnt that those who act godly are not to be trusted......



...
why do people keep forgetting
Pastors are humans too and no human is perfect ,for me bbc and kiki mordi should go to hell .what was the stupid admission seeker doing in his office is he the addmission officer or is he jamb ,we have heard testimony from a student how nice this man is .Lets look at this issue fairly lets not use cause BBC is involved to punish this man unjustly their useless investigation would have held water if it happened to a student who was already given addmission amd he was asking her for the sex for grade for his course ,even the whole headline of the investigation is misleading sexforgrade ,which grade are we talking about here jamb grade abi course grade .we need something more concrete we need an existing student to come out to make claims and bring proof not all this useless investigation from a shabby bbc journalist throwing herself to naija men seducing them they form undercover investigation.BBC should better wake up naija men no be uk men oooo any girl wey go do anyhow or go dey form seduction na fucking for her , she is even lucky she should go amd try it with some lecturrers wey be men dem na she go even pull her pants Bleep them free of charge lecturers that have swag abi no be my alma mata again some lecturers in that school have money and swag oo .Lecturers that many undergraduates and postgraduate big girls are tripping for .Kiki and bbc are both crazy na yeye dey worry una

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Education / Re: Who Is Kiki Mordi? Biography, BBC Journalist Exposed Sex For Grade In University by Fhowe: 5:39pm On Oct 08, 2019
realestniggah:
Why is the focus on the journalist rather than the fucking_animals who call themselves pastors/lecturers?

Are the cabals trying to discredit her?

Well Huge KUDOS to her, for her courage, commitment, activism and sense of Justice! Very proud of her.
what is an undergraduate frolicking around a male lecturer for she should go and pass jamb and post ume rather than looking for favors from lecturers that is the problem if you do the righthing you can never meet yourself in this situation the investigation is baseless to me you went to seduce the man now you are saying shit poor ass journalism lazy youth.Madam kiki you can as well drench yourself in fuel then light up a match and see the outcome rada rada .It is as simple as this if you don't make yourself available around this lecturers they won't venture into that area read and pass your courses and if the lectuerer fails you and you are sure of what you wrote you can report to higher authority and this is where xams and records come in they will tell a senior lecturer to grade the sheets that is okay not all this rubbish madam kiki is doing .how can you grade someone that is not yet a student rubbish you have no idea how many admission seekers disturb this people on a daily basis asking for what is not possible abeg I no blame baba man shall not.live by bread alone .

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Nairaland / General / Re: Access Bank/diamond Bank Reversal Problem by Fhowe: 10:39am On Aug 31, 2019
neonly:
Me I have just closed my account with them on Tuesday I have using dat bank for 18yrs now but recently their service is a no no for me very annoying staff I nearly beat one of them when I was in ikorodu
ATM issues sha really sick of bank now
I miss sanusi sha
the most annoying is sending them an email on the email address provided on their website and you dont get a reply even after 4 days it is really messed up
Nairaland / General / Access Bank/diamond Bank Reversal Problem by Fhowe: 9:02am On Aug 31, 2019
Since the merger or acquisition of Access bank and diamond bank i can authoritatively say their services have been so poor .From overcrowded banking halls to few tellers attending reluctantly to customers.The most annoying is numerous failed pos transactions .I did one on August 6th at a petrol station .I went as far as sending them emails and i visited their branch .I was told it would be corrected 27th of August after the long wait it is now 31st of August and nothing has been done .I visited the bank yesterday and the customer care gave a flimsy excuse he did not even bother to check the status of the reversal or nothing .The most annoying is you send them an email during working hours and it takes them sometimes 3-4 days to reply you .Please the relevant authorities should look into the activity of this bank and stop punishing people unnecessarily .I can imagine what students and low income earners pass through in these hard times cause of the carefree attitude of this bank
Sports / Re: Super Eagles Begin Search For New Goalkeepers by Fhowe: 11:08am On Jul 25, 2019
must dey torment us with akpeyi again .We have many people in naija here that will do better than DE GEA sef

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