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Natbrowny:
Lets leave the hoe for a minute. She shows her color so fast.

Whats up with that bros.

Somtin is definitely up

let people be drinking Panadol for another man's headache atleast he knows, do you know how many men are fathering kids that aren't theirs .Na their mouth dey sharp pass for this kind matter .DONT JUDGE WHAT YOU HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED YOU MIGHT EVEN ACT FAR WORSE THAN THE PRESENT VICTIM

Natbrowny:
Lets leave the hoe for a minute. She shows her color so fast.

Whats up with that bros.

Somtin is definitely up

let me share a story, there is someone I know who returned from abroad the wife to be got pregnant the pregnancy was confirmed to be 4 months, and the guy has only been in the country for 2 months and some weeks. He put their wedding plans on hold after some time the guy was assassinated in his house. I think the news made headlines but most people did not know what went down. You have to be careful with these ladies. So in situations like this don't jump to conclusions do you know if she was raped? for the man to agree to go ahead with the wedding he must have his plans and must have thought things through. Do you know if it is an arranged wedding or if the guy has been paid to marry the lady? For relocation purposes. So things like this don't just start assuming what's not?

Natbrowny:
Lets leave the hoe for a minute. She shows her color so fast.

Whats up with that bros.

Somtin is definitely up

the way some men behave you will be amused, some act as if women want to finish in the market probably the man is just seriously in love with the lady and has invested so much also . Some even agree to these things cause they can't stand the shame .

Natbrowny:
Man wants to go ahead with it coz he's having sexuals problem.. Impotency, Low sperm count, ED as well.

Baba wan claim pikin to cover up his sexual flaws.

why throw the man under the bus ,whats the point agreeing to marry someone and getting pregnant for another .It only shows how manipulative the lady is and how lose she is

Chibuzoripob:
kwenu . Obaofaba, tmb78, leodeking, LegendHero, make una com see oo.DEVELOP



I ate one last week,I go check the container wen i reach 🏡

i have two cans of these in my storage right now , please lets keep posting these things we cant be buying them at exhorbitant prices and the products are fake na wa

Feminism in the western world is a different thing but naija own na just to give excuses to cover their bad character simple as A B C

HeadNigga:
Israel DMW is a good man. I don't know him but as you can see the wife's only problem with him is that he is Davido's yes man. The man is only doing his job-hyping and making his cool cash. Okay, he is embarrassing you but he puts food on your plate and iphone 14promax in your hand. He is making money legitimately. I stand with Israel DMW.

for me isreal made a big mistake picking a 21 yr old to marry , sometimes it goes beyond this love most people proclaim for one another , in as much as there is no manuscript for a perfect marriage or union but some important factors should be put into consideration age , job ,lifestyle etc sttli g woth someone that is into showbiz can be hectic amd not for someone not mentally matured to understand the scope of the job

victorclean:
Foolishness at times is worst than sickness. How in the world?. See a wonderful opportunity wasted.

not all opportunities are blessings , cyprus is a very expensive place if you dont have money they pay rent in £ but the boys did too much sha them for still try mingle and find their way around the situation

guobe:
This is another dimension to look at.

if you read divorce petitions at courts you will get scared of marrying or having kids with the wrong person

guobe:
Due to the current harsh economic environment in Nigeria,most couples who have managed to get married are now agreeing to delay having kids.
This use to be done by most white people but it it gradually creeping in to our society.
Though most mother inlaws may raise an eyebrow to it but most times the couples normally stand their ground.
The price of pampers and baby food and cream and soap has skyrocketed and if one is not endowed enough ,guy man that use to flex and go clubbing on a steady may be forced to start begging for handouts to take care of the newly born baby.
There may be repercussions though of not having babies immediately as when they may now decide that they now have money and want the babies to start coming but the babies themselves will now take a break from coming.
The situation is in a dire strait.

apart from the harsh economy i personal advice couples to give themselves 2 years cause alot of men and women have mastered the act of pretending all because they want to get married , then they let hell lose once they are married , some are mot me tally stable some have crazy habits , some are bisexuals , some are yet to come over their ex , once kids arent involved to get rid of such people is always very easy , i know the case for f a gay man caught in the act by his pregnant wife in their home

Kellie069:
If you have opportunity, please JAPA.. no let anybody whine you o…..

only if you know the way people are toiling day and night to acquire that property you are selling away to go join them you will sit your ass in one place

Antoeni:
Who Will Now Be Holding Plates of Rice For Madam?

Instead of withdrawal why not re-orientate these so-called police officers attached to VIPs on their job scope the dos and donts,and anyone found wanting should be fired immediately simple as ABC. NA OVERSABI DEY WORRY SOEM OF THESE MOPOLS SOMETIMES

Kenneth4u205:
So how does cars drive in ?

for boats only

Dshocker:
In as much as most men wants to marry an educated woman, but the problem is that educated and exposed women are rebellious, particularly if she is even independent and earns good pay.

That is why most or majority of men prefers marrying a younger and woman from an average home with little salary, than marrying a lady few years younger than them that earns more.

personally i feel they are the cause of their problems from wanting their own personal space and choice of lifestyle where different men can come to your apartment to pass the night , thats a turn off for most men

sorosoke101:
God will make out way where there seems to be no way, he works in way we cannot see, he will make a way for me, he will be my guide hold me close to be in is side, with love and strength.......nah wetin come my mind be that when I see wetin OP post

not in this case na die this man dey so

malcom1X:
This is why I don't play with neighbors children, they don't greet me, me I no even want them to greet me.

I no send them.
Every guy wants to hit on the man's daughters, me I no get time.

I go work, I come back I enter my house sleep no one begs me for lighter or anything. Me I no beg them for anything.

Everybody dey their dey.


The only communication I have with the man is good morning while I'm leaving to work and good evening while I'm going inside the house.

Shikena. Them don call me names tire, call me cultist etc.
The day I was on leave the wife said I lost my job.

And then dey talk am make I hear.
While I'm leaving to work. Me I no send them.

It hurts to be them and not getting a reply from me.
I no reply I no send them.

nice one there are some kind of avoidable drama it is for
Your own mental well being

Odin13:
All this your grammar .. you wan go ride person wife .. based on say .. you don Dey collect for long ..

You too lucky say the man too formal.. no be traditional Alhaji dem..

By now na your dead body and pictures we for the see..

You Dey go form Woke for Islamic enclave .. and still never learn your lesson

Wish you the best till we see your rip..

Person wife go Dey worry una ..

Of all places na your hotel room .. your married friend Dey visit you.. hotel lobby and all no do una .. na room.

Next !

Some people are just careless with their lives

learn to set boundaries with your friends whether male or female especially when you know they are married , you do not
Know whats going on in their marriages , stop risking your lives unnecessarily many have lost their lives this way . With the Nogerian setting seeing a married woman in a hotel with another man is a big redflag .

ahnie:
I have this beautiful chubby neighbor that's from my husband extraction (Igbo)
Babe is hard working, business oriented and an avid hustler.

But she's dating a chubby fuvk boy,a failed yahoo lazy lout that even in the next 50yrs I do not see him ever picking.

He's killing and bringing down my neighbors business and sucking her dry and she doesn't seemed to noticed.

She's always crying of bn broke everytime....and it's damn pissing me off like fvck.

On his birthday she baked cakes for him,printed his name on mugs, towels, got him clothes and even travelled to visit him,left her business and stayed days with him before coming back.

It's irking me because he's a bad market and to me he doesn't have a bright future,he's not working,he has no handiwork and no skills
He's just a rotund whale sucking her youthfulness and finances.

Let's assume he has a skill or he's learning a trade it's another thing, at least we would all assume that he's productive and her supporting him wouldn't be futile,but this one.... nothing nothing.

On her birthday he didn't even posted her pictures or got her a pin,he said he doesn't have data...just negodu the nonsense and he still demanded money from her....to me the guy is just miserably useless.

He's now proposing marriage to her,and he visited her some days ago na she use her money run everything from feeding down to blood test.

I have not met him before,but immediately I saw him....my spirit no conform with his at all...he's not only a liability,but also a robust reaper.

Now my neighbor is asking me what I think of him.....I told her outrightly that I don't like him,that he's going to be a liability to her in the future....person nor fit take care of her as girlfriend,how e go take care of her as wife.....I m one hundred percent sure,she's the one that's going to pay her prideprice, pay for the wedding and feed herself.

She's trying to convince me to like him....but this isoko woman ain't capping that shiit.

I just detest fvck lazy boiz.

aunty learn to mind your business for you to have so much information about their relationship clearly shows you dont know how to mind your business . The lady might see potentials you dont see . As long as they both have peace there is no manuscript to this thing called relationship , the girl can have the upper hamd now what if tables turn tomorrow . Aunty go find your own man biko

Michelle70:
Give them some break biko.
Its not always their fault.

Some tried to build something till late 20's only for the man to run away. e deh happen.

Some left school probably at 24 and build a career till late twenties, afterall if they didnt build, u will still tag them leech and how they didnt bring anything to the table.

I have read a story on NL where a married man decieved a lady to marry him, only to find out he was married on her wedding days, how could u blame her?

I have also read a story of how a man died, 2weeks to his marriage, would u blame the woman?

Some women prepare for marriage, and on wedding day, husband was nowhere to be found, ring sef dem no see.

Please being a Nigerian is enough to torment us, do not force someone into depression with ur words, Alot of kidnapping, rituals, forceful marriage is going on cos the society has decide to force a standard down our throat

If Warren buffet had set a standard for us, everybody was suppose to be a millionaire at 29yrs.

most ladies that fall into this category i feel their problem is self-gratification and lack of self-control .Self gratification is indulgence in certain acts to satisfy certain desires (money and sex ) many ladies went into relationship for the monetary gain thinking less if it was heading somewhere or not ,so they keep jumping from one man to the other as long as you can pay their bills before they know it reality sets in .Then the other part which is sex ,when it comes to sex the average Nigerian girl is misguided ,most dont even understand their own bodies talk less of understanding that of another person ,many started engaging in sexual activities from a very tender age and got it all wrong from there .Recently i was discussing with a female friend and i was surprised when she was free enough to discuss with me how she buys intimacy gadgets and all that shit ,mind you she is not yet married .So lets look at it from this angle for her to result to intimacy gadgets she must have tried different guys yet not getting the satisfaction she wants now she has resulted to intimacy gadgets ,this toys become addictive from once a week you find yourself using several times a day ,in the long run it becomes tiring cause her body is used to it then she opts to buy a bigger and better one .In the course of use males will become less pleasurable to her cause she is now dependent on this toys .So tell me how will such a lady get married so i feel most of them are the architect of their problems my own opinion though

Rexymania:
Man made, thugs or touts trying to steal

exactly my thoughts ,the last time i visited this market around December the amount of street urchins ,touts was alarming .Honestly the government and the store owners in Lagos island need to do something about those boys and their activities and their sense of entitlement is another annoying thing one almost beat me up cause i refused to give him some tip cause i asked for directions from him .

iamogunlowo:
Man spends heavily for his side chick.



https://mobile.twitter.com/JustKingss/status/1503360294629826567

oga you dont know the arrangement so just hold your peace .Dont be suprised if the gf's elder brother owns that house and all this is just a way to keep him under the radar .I actually know of a case where the landlord acts like a normal tenant in the house everybody reports to the lawyer .Guy na naija we dey

Zonefree:
You want to celebrate women on IWD and you're using a murderer

So much for women celebration!

the pageant is for only prisoners na wa ooo

Uyoha:
Almost wvery agency now has fake personnels. The most common is EFCC. You'd see fraudsters extorting other fraudsters.

May God deliver Nigerians from the spirit of 419

when abnormality becomes normal just know the system of the day has failed ,as kids it was difficult to hear someone impersonating as a common man o war ,now the hardship and failed system has made people more hardened and ready to do anything for survival

Zonefree:
Why she no go dance like that when she didn't contribute penny for the wedding.

Liability dancing into Asset.

the type of dance when you marry your kind of guy when everyone else does not know why you are sticking around the particular guy.Happiness is free

philme87:
Amid an online conversation on the widespread ritual killing carried out by young boys to make money through fraudulent means, a video of some young boys in a shrine has been shared online.

In the video, the young boys lip-synched to King Hemjay's "Ajitu Cruise". They were heard saying "no hustle o, pepeye you no go shenk. If we show you the way, shey you go fit do am? If you run too fast you go die young, if you run too slow you go die poor".

They also made sure that the entire shrine was captured in the video.

Watch the video below;


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i38OGedFfhQ

At this point I think we need social media regulation, people just wake up and post nonsense online misleading the public and portraying a very image of the country it is a video like this that encourage and make the younger generation believe rituals are real and end innocent lives for nothing. Another angle is Nollywood I think the film board needs to do more with all their ritualistic movies (start banning them). The other day I was speaking with a medical doctor and I was really disappointed with his view on these ritual killings he actually believes there is something called blood money if someone, as educated like that, believes in this shit then what happens to the ordinary layman in the village.The national orientation agency also needs to start working seriously

it is not really a big deal ,things have changed just moving to the neighbouring town or city is enough people don't really care anymore these days

Philip94:
My newly wedded wife always capitalize on what I did and said wrong eventhough she does and says wrong things to me which I most times overlook.

On many occasions, she will start giving me attitude and will pick up quarrel with me for weeks. I have told her countless times to always address issues she has with me immediately before it turns to a big quarrel.

She wont listen but will rather keep malice with me at any little misunderstanding we have.

Please, how can I find a lasting solution to my wife's unending quarrel, malice and resentment? I am already getting tired of rhe whole thing ��.

does she have something doing ? if she does not engage her in a little business that will keep her busy it helps a lot

Kolawole2130:
We have been married for 3 years now. We stay in a self contained apartment. He tries as much as possible to pay his bills while I support him too with paying the bills.

Since we married, anytime I talk about childbearing he gets angry. Like he may not talk to me for days. I will be the one to come and beg him later. He says his not ready to start bearing kids that he wants to have enough money to take care of the kids. He says he doesnt want his children to suffer.

I am so pissed off, I am 32 now and he is 35 and he earns 100k while I earn 70k. Is that not enough to raise a family. Plus age is not on my side he doesnt look like he will be ready in a year time again. Am already getting tired and people around me are getting married. No body can even talk to him. His mind is made up already.

The last fight we had he said i can go and divorce him if i cannot wait till he is ready. He is busy reading for professional exam instead of him to be thinking of how to produce seed. Professional exam that will last another 2 years. His family can't even talk to him. Am just frustrated already.

how is your husband frustating you ? the total annual income in your home is less than $5000 (2 million naira) and you feel the next thing is to start bringing children into the world ,better go and acquire more skills and self development the way your hubby is going about it .before you are 40 you can still have 2 kids