₦airaland Forum

NeoWanZaeed:
Nigerians causing discomforts for nigerians and blaming buhari

what discomfort he built that hostel with his hard earned money and needs to get it back , it is a business for him and not a charity organization

Zzor:
Exactly, there's nothing like he will change,a verbally abusive man will physically abuse you,its just a question of time.Most Nairaland men are very abusive both verbally, physically and mentally

madam , it is not a he or she thingy it is a two way thing so stop generalizing what she said to a specific gender please let's be guided

NkemChukwudi:
Amateur! Always check the rooms before you negotiate price.

no be amateur stuff the shit is most this hotel fail to re-evaluate their staffs and their performance from time to time , after I complained the house keeper came to change the whole beddings cause it was in the wee hours of the morning that I checked in

Mekudi:
This one makes me speechless

that is how many of this useless hotels will be forming standard and charging useless exhorbitant fees meanwhile their service and staffs are trash , I lodged in one and the lodging fee was a bit high close to 30k only for me to get to the room the pillow case was dirty the duvet the same I wan run mad it was fucking dirty

DopeAngel:
yes bro. he does not really care. after having much disappointments he says he cant have more and is not ready to search for another girl. he wants to settle down. it is clear the decision was made emotionally, due to fear of further disappointments in relationship. He is not balanced right now and not thinking straight. even if i allow this happen, if in future eventually they have an SS child. we all as a family will bear the burden. i dont want to worry over that then that is why i am more concerned now. if they go ahead and get married and something happens. i wont care then and i dont want family taging me as a wicked brother. that is why i am more concerned now. i had a friend who was SS yrs back, he died days after we wrote our waec due to accumulated stress. i dont want that pain in my family

Oga stop stressing yourself since your brother is financially capable then let them just look for a donor egg and the woman carries the child since it is the paternity that matters the most in naija ,infact lately many men are going for the ivf option just to be sure they are the biological father of their kids (for professionals and long distance relationships) ,This "this life no balance ooo" a visit to a fertility hospital or a visit to the children ward in a teaching hospital will make you have a rethink , many kids are suffering from different ailments from birth (nothing that has to do with genotype) so people should stop over flogging this genotype issue just the other day a man discovered his 3 kids were not his biological children is that not worse than a genotype issue please let's be guided , for me as long as they both know what they are going into who even knows maybe they have decided to have a childless marriage ,op Abeg learn to face your own issues

Jesslove:
Na poverty cause am

many would use poverty as a yardstick but I think it is more of lack of parental guidance and too many bad examples in the society

These kenyan thieves and bastards will never release that money again , Kenyans are not different from Nigerians they reek of corruption

Hezmatosky:
The main issue is Mrs Kanu, stay your own and respect your husband

rightly said why is she pestering another woman's husband ,that is how they start with an innocent "hello " before you know it another thing don dey happen , and for kanu's reply I shake my head how can you reach out to a colleague you have his phone number in that manner Na wa

gypsey:
What a loser, but what kinda dumb female offers sex for their country's passport? Some Nigerians really do not know their rights.

And the sex was with a Guard? Not even the main controller? Chai! What a dumb woman.

bro you so on point , I don't understand what a guard has to do with renewing your passport unless she was trying to cut corners usual naija style

Arthurity1:
Where are your statistics and figures? Where's your proof? You'll just come online to start vomiting trash! Where are those mods to remove this rubbish?

I tire ooo honestly I don't know why he would put Lagos and Edo state rubbish rada rada

Kog45:
Don't say am talking rubbish...Kanu just showed that he need to save his marriage...madam Kanu I mean Amara was damn wronged and she is the only one that can come out and say the truth but guess what Osaze is not a small boy to read between the lines...asking Osaze for a solution to your child injury look somehow...walahi something is fishy

i tire ooo is Osaze a doctor ? This footballers get a lot of messages daily on their social media account some like to go through all this messages so that imagine someone that gets over a 100 messages daily and you want him to single out your message .If the message was urgent Kanu would have called Osaze directly . These days the rate at which a lot of married women have turned themselves to beggars online is very alarming , some their husbands are even rich but greed will not let them be

Judybash93:
The law was unfair to him. If investigators carried out a thorough investigation into the death of the lady, they would have been able to prove that the man in question wasn't the murderer. It's in fact difficult but if he didn't do it, he didn't do it

the law failed him what is so difficult in searching for the younger lover to attest to the story and what is so difficult In carrying out a post Mortem to decide whether it is suicide or homicide

I wonder why that guy is shouting obviously the owner of the rolls Royce will let him go

Chrisjay1998:
Before they Regulate the Social Media Bill, Let them first Abolish Boko Haram, Create Employment for the youths, Provide Standard Security for the Citizens and also Punish Those Responsible for the Lekki Toll gate massacre
It was Social Media that helped them achieve the power they have, now they ain't doing well They fear the backlash of the Public

oga I hope and pray you don't fall a victim of social media scandal then you would understand why it should be regulated (stronger cyber laws ) . Everyone would be held accountable for whatever you post especially when it is false information . Spreading fake news on social media is no different from bearing false withness in a court

Yus2020:
Will Regulate, Not Shut Down Social Media by Fhowe: 5:53am
LikeAking:
How will they regulate it?

This man na chief of illiterates.

Which country has ever done that?
many countries have regulated social media some even pay social media tax . Why don't you see stupid stories on social media from some certain countries for example Dubai many see dubai in social media as a lovely tourist destination and a beautiful city but dubai has it's other side and tales which we don't get to see on social media . In uganda they pay social media tax (ott) . We need it before fake news and rumors will lead to
Total anarchy.People like you are the main problem to this country Dubai leadership with this evil Apc jihidist government

when they say regulate they will put in place stronger cyber laws to curb fake news like for those mischievous people that get a random picture and caption it wrongly to cause mayhem that is totally wrong

LikeAking:
How will they regulate it?

This man na chief of illiterates.

Which country has ever done that?

many countries have regulated social media some even pay social media tax . Why don't you see stupid stories on social media from some certain countries for example Dubai many see dubai in social media as a lovely tourist destination and a beautiful city but dubai has it's other side and tales which we don't get to see on social media . In uganda they pay social media tax (ott) . We need it before fake news and rumors will lead to
Total anarchy

robosky02:
Stay there....


That's how one guy.. Said the babe is under duress because she is writing project he wants he to graduate properly


But as she went to Youth services... She returned with Ring and pregnancy for another man








Take your Chance .... When you have it

am so happy for the man , cause he would have ended up fathering another man's child

Very wrong move to me , why should you propose to someone that is under duress

uncleck:
My main line is an MTN line that I've used for more than a decade. I can't even remember when I started using it, but it's before 2010. I have retrieved It severally due to phone loss. But my experience with wrong number always leaves a bitter taste...

Two weeks ago, a lady told me on facebook that she blocked me on WhatsApp and deleted my contact; I tried to message her but it wasn't going through. When I asked her, she said she called my line and a woman picked it and told her she's married with kids. After calling severally...the woman warned her not to call again.

I do receive calls severally from people who call me different names and with full confidence of the destination they're trying to reach. Some will just call and start talking without verifying who they are speaking to. I have severally been a barrister. Severally a generator technician etc. This is not a case of only those Hausas, I am called by people of different backgrounds.

What prompted me to create this post now is a call I received few minutes ago. The caller is trying to reach Ifeanyi. He doesn't believe that I don't know who Ifeanyi is. He has called three times urging me to give the phone to the owner.

I remember a time a girl called and started to abuse me thinking I'm one uncle of hers.

Does anyone have similar experience? Please share

Oga what are you waiting for ? Do away with that number cause the way things are right now in the country it is not safe using such a number my own advice

hush15:
Pls don't promote this nonsense of social media regulation, in whatever form cos before you know it, such laws will be wrongly and grossly missappropiated and used as a political weapon to clamp on oppositions, then we begin to tilt towards North Korea. See what is happening to media outfits, cos they covered happenings of event, NBC fined them and they working assiduously hard to change the narrative of what happened. From "it wasn't army, na navy", " videos were photo shops" to " yes it was us but blank ammunitions" which is the recent narrative.
Don't forget, our rights to protest is already been contested. And same is our fundamental human right to be treated fairly and respectfully. With the happenings since 2015, our right to live is also contested. In short, all our fundamental human rights is being contested.

Isn't it obvious that the so called government isn't an honest one, hoarding and shrouding in secrecy everything including sharing of ordinary palliatives. To share maggi, indomie or garri is also done in secrecy. Just imagine!

Is that not a country already heading for destruction! Read about North Korea. They living a very horrible life there. Its so bad that they even tell their citizens the type of haircuts and hairdos for females allowed by law and it all starts with the silly comments like the one Desmond and his colleagues both at state and federal level makes.

Social media is a tool. It can be harnessed which ever way depending on its environment. We can say its a reflection of what the society is passing through. So if you have pimples, by breaking your mirror is the way to solve your pimples problem?

All the government need to do is be transparent, more responsive to issues, give better governance and provide better leadership and Social will reflect such accordingly.

nobody is going towards a situation like North Korea . It is simple whatever you post on social media you should know and be ready to be held accountable for it .Even the big bloggers are not left out of spreading fake news . I will use the private warehouse that was looted in Benin as an example that is the end result of fake news (put yourself in the owners shoes ) .To me it is just pure evil to get gory pictures from the internet of past events and label it to a present crisis going on , such a person deserves to be punished

bizhop01:
Even this your comment is fake

Oga most people think social media regulation means total scrapping or limited use of social media , no that is not the idea . But we need stronger cyber laws to punish people that purposely put articles and images with wrong captions knowing it is false information .Most people do not know how far this malicious articles and images they create can lead to a total breakdown of law and order

TOPCRUISE:
Youths don't want social media to be regulated. They want to talk any how. Insult, cyber bully, ridicule whoever they chose. And spread fake news whenever they feel like.

we need stronger cyber laws in Nigeria if not fake news will cause a war in this country . Just imagine what happen with the fake pictures that people were sharing during the protest look at what it led too so I think Desmond has a point but did not say it in the right manner .

andyanders:
If FFK has married four women and they never lasted with him, then, he should be the problem. Maybe he has a curse over his head rather than the women. Something strange. There are forces in him that no woman stays, no matter what he spends on them or how beautiful they are.

The Precious herself, if she was not sane before her getting married to FFK, why was she able to become a beauty queen?

FFK should check himself and women should be careful the type of men they sleep with. And men should be careful the type of women they sleep with. Most people has curses following them.

FFK should ask powerful men of God to deliver him. Something is not right with him. Must he be an escape goat in marriage? Something is not right with him. The next lady will also get out or be infected with the curse.

when you see a young beauty queen getting married to an old man only one thing is involved (money) . When the money is not coming as planned ( Na serious problem ) and ffk that has gone through 3 women already must know all their antics by now so madam precious should accept her fate or just leave quietly

kestine:
Everything is not about bad parenting... Pikin way wan spoil go spoil... Be it good...better or best parenting...

this particular case is bad parenting cause a girl that is above 18 and single can't leave the house for a week without her parents knowing her whereabouts talkless of a girl that is just 14

BIGGESThead6:
Before nko? If you are the DG of DSS will your allow your kids go about without protection? don't you know that due to the sensitive nature of the office of the DG DSS, his close family will be major target.

are you minding them .The funniest part is many will think the young man is enjoying all of this

Agugbadin:
Very true, they no nothing, shameful, sadly this empty vessel and her like are role models to some young ones, what a shame.

now I am wondering how this house mates are selected in the first place

Kobicove:
You can't just conclude that it was your uncle's wife that used the condoms...

it might even be the uncle himself trust nobody

Mrpojj:
Get ur proof first!
But like you said infidelity is one thing I will never tolerate in marriage

I have a strong feeling the op is cheating on his wife

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

Oga stay away from your wife's phone it will save you a lot of headache

Lexusgs430:
Do you mean off for a few hours or off immediately after just driving/parking vehicle?....

off for a few hours

infolekan:
The engine was never with the radiator. The coolant only flows through the radiator to get cooled. The thermostat doesn't allow the coolant to flow through the radiator until it gets to a certain temperature. Just the same way the thermostat in your pressing iron keeps the iron at a certain temperature allowing it to keep going on and off.
I was referring to your stuff about reversing the polarity of the fan in cold region. Thats absolute balderdash and that should have been enough reason not to reply you. A working engine achieves same temperature wether in cold or hot region.....the time to achieve that temperature is probably what will vary. Maybe you should read more about all this.
And yes ....removing your thermostat makes the engine run at a much lower temperature than it should normally run making the engine oil to lubricate it less cos its not at its optimal lubricating temperature making for more engine wear. It eventually tells on the engine ....

I am talking from my own personal experience and the solution that was applied and to be honest I drove that car for 4 years before selling it off . Now I have a question does this thermostat also work when the car is off and parked ? Cause I noticed something in my present car the fan suddenly comes on by itself when the car is off