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Romance / Re: Pls Help. I Am Heart Broken Right Now by Fidecoo(m): 4:41am On Mar 13, 2018
sholamat:
pardon my errors abeg..
I met this lady when I went for service last year.. I had a girl I was dating in kogi then but it was a long distance relationship, so we werent that close.. so when I went for service I left the lady at kogi cos I think have seen something new

I met this very beautiful lady. .. we became friends and we started dating.. I love this girl to the core.. I gave her my life and my soul.. it happened that she was not liked by her family infact her dad disown her cos he didn't like her.. but he liked the other children.. he was always complaining when she does things and even vowed not to send her to school after she finished secondary school..

so when I met her and she explained everything to me, I loved her the more.. I gave my life to her, gave her all she asked for though she don't demand for money in fact she give me money anytime am broke..

we loved each other but she was scared that after my service that I will definitely leave her and never return to her, she said I will go back to my ex, she was very scared.. there was nothing I could do to assure her about my sincerity and I wanted her to trust me.. so we concluded on having a blood covenant and oath...

we did it twice, the first we had it in my lodge, she brought the blade, but I tired to convince her that I will never leave her and I will always love her till I die but she said all she wanted was the covenant, so i did it just to please her.. I kept the blade just in case of unforseen situations..

we had the other covenant at a friend place in another town . after the covenant we had sex, so I gave her the blade to keep in case of the future.. but as we were going home.. she spotted a soak away pit and she threw the blade in it.. i asked her why she did that, she told me that she wanted to lock me and her together for life.. I love her so much so i see no problem we that

she wrote wace and I was the one sending her answers when she was writing the exams... cos she wrote it a year before but didn't make it.. so I helped her all I could to make sure she passed cos her dad already see her as a failure, that there is nothing good that can come out of her

I had so many issues with her family cos of her. they hated me apart from her mum.. her dad told me not to come see her again.. that if I want to marry her I should just come and ask of her hand in marriage instead of dating her... that he just want her out of his house..

I discuss it with her and she told me that she want to go to school.. so I told her that i will support her with all I have...

now to the main point.. she gained admission to a poly in jigawa state. I was happy for her and I even followed her to the school

but its not even up to one month in school.. she just changed.. anytime I call her , she will tell me that she is busy.. our one year anniversary should be last week of February,, I called her number but its wasn't going though .. when she called me she told me she wanted to tell me something.. she told me she broke the covenant with me that she is no longer interested in me.. that I should move on with my life.. that she has seen another guy in school and she is really in love with the guy.. I was so hurt.. I begged her.. I cried. I pleased..but she said no..

have not been myself since last month.. I can't sleep.. I can't eat. all I think of is her..
she shout at me when I call her.. and even give the phone to her new boyfriend and friends to waste my credit, a girl that once vow with her life to never leave me..

I need advise on what to do please help me

matured advise abeg.. and make una no vex say the story long.. e long pass this one self, I just short am..
, Kai. But some guys mumu oo!!.
Romance / Re: What's The Worst Thing Anyone Have Done To You by Fidecoo(m): 8:45am On Mar 06, 2018
BoweryGirl:
At different times in my life. The most recent being agreeing to date someone who is an egomaniac. Let's say, I ended the relationship for religious reasons. He thought he was God, I did not.
, Hmmmmm shocked
Romance / Re: Is She Guilty Of Formication by Fidecoo(m): 8:38am On Mar 06, 2018
Psoul:
Friends, pls help me give a solution to this issue.. A young lady was excommunicated from her church because she was found pregnant. Then she came to one of my pastor friends and narrated her story.

Now this is her story...
She has been a faithful and a committed sister in the church serving God without eyes service and at the same time, believing God for a husband. This girl from her story, made us to understand that she has been in that church for 15 years and no man came to ask for her hand in marriage.
She also told us that the young guys in the church are not helping matters. Any of them that wants to marry would go outside and bring in someone to show their pastor for confirmation.

This problem continued until this Lady became 47yrs and now every body sees her as having reached the age of menopause. Now in other to prove to the people that she is a complete woman, she went and did artificial insemination and took in. Now the church leaders saw her with pregnancy and accused her of sleeping with another man and therefore, has committed adultery or fornication because it is the only biblical means of conception.

Now the question is.. Did this lady really commit the crime?
, Hmmmmmm. This is serious.
Romance / Re: I Love My Gay Partner More Than My Wife by Fidecoo(m): 11:22am On Feb 26, 2018
kwessiStewie2:
A married man has confessed to cheating on his wife for over twelve years with his gay partner.
The man, who confessed together with some other 25 married men to David Papa Bondze-Mbir said he was not in love with his wife.
According to him, he has known his partner who is also married for twenty-five years. “… because we are also both friends with the other’s significant other, we are able to be together in each other’s home, when our wives are away. It’s been 25 years of knowing my male partner. I’ve been married to my wife for 12 years,” he confessed.
The confession was inboxed to the Facebook relationship coach on a condition of anonymity days after some twenty-five married women shared their confession on why they cheat on their husbands.
, craziness of the highest order.
Romance / Re: Help: I Need To Find A Husband Soon by Fidecoo(m): 1:31pm On Feb 24, 2018

Hmm I doubt if you will meet a guy with this particular quality in Naija, our men are becoming very lazy and They only seek sugar mummy's or working single ladies that they can depend on for the rest of their lives.
pls speak for yourself. Ladies money is a no for me.
Romance / Re: Ever Since I Had S*x With My Girlfriend My Love For Her Died by Fidecoo(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2018
Stevengold:
We got into a pretty good relationship, I loved her and intended to spend the rest of my life with her, we loved each other to the extent I had to tell my parents and my Pastor that I've found the one I want to get married to.
However I remember telling her; I don't want sex in our relationship. Judging from my past experience with ladies.

But as time passed the love grew beyond what I could describe, and now we have s*x almost every week, sometimes twice a week. And I no longer feel love for her.

I sat her down one day, and made her make a promise not to hav s*x with me again! But it didn't work, she has this magic touch that just can't be resisted, I always fall for It. This continued for close to 2 yrs, and now I feel nothing for her anymore. The love I had for her have been so replaced with s*x. Anytime I see her, I want to have s*x with her.

Plz what should I do? I intend to opt out of the relationship. But I don't want to break her heart. Should I go ahead and marry her or just let her go? Cuz I don't love her anymore. cry
, babies on board! !.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Cool And Romantic Guy For A Serious Relationship by Fidecoo(m): 7:30am On Feb 24, 2018
Michelline:
My name is Michelle...am a yoruba lady (but people say i dont look like one) am a working class lady, I am 27yrs..am tall and very beautiful ( u can bet your last kobo on that). I am very light skinned, loving, romantic and cook very well...I ended my relationship with my serial cheat of a boyfriend 2yrs ago and since then, falling in love has been very difficult for me....my mind is made up..I deserve to be happy again with the man of my dreams...I need a working class, moderately tall, a romantic guy and most especially a God fearing Yoruba guy between d ages of 30-36yrs....pls help me push this to the front page..my dream guy might just be on this platform..thanks
so madam, if we no be Yoruba, then nothing for us? Even if we are working class, moderatly tall, romantic , God fearing and between the age of 30-36? ?
Romance / Re: Please Help Me With An Advice On How To Do This: by Fidecoo(m): 7:07am On Feb 24, 2018
Gofwane:
Sorry the post is a bit long but i just want you to get the exact picture of the circumstances surrounding the whole issue....



...I'm in a long distance relationship with this extremely beautiful and intelligent girl. We met in 2009 back then while i was in technical college cos her school is in the same compound as mine.

It was truly a beautiful start till we started drifting apart because i wasn't having time for her anymore. I will spend the day with my goons moving from one bar to another and one jungle to another till the relationship finally hit the rock.

Then in 2012 i decided to get serious with my life so i had to relocate to another state due to constant temptations and peer pressures.
Our paths crossed again in 2016 when she added me up on Facebook. I asked about her current boyfriend and she told me the guy cheated on her and married her friend. She also asked about my current girlfriend of which i sincerely told her that we broke up because she was a lesbian. So fter a couple of chats, we immediately realised that we missed each other and so the relationship was rekindled again though we were not in the same state.

This girl luvs me to bits and i do too! She even suggested that we do a blood covenant that we will stick to each other till death but i refused, not because i'm having bad intensions but because i saw it as unnecessary.

The problem here is lately she has been talking about settling down latest by next year and with the way she is saying it, i know she is not going to change her mind. But honestly i don't see myself fit for that because i'm still hustling to make ends meet.

Lately i've been thinking of how to end the relationship the earlier the better without hurting her so she can be able to meet another guy that is ready to settle down but it seems her luv for me is growing more and more intense to the extent that she is trying to work her nysc to the state I'm residing so we could be together.
I've tried to cut off communications by switching off my phone during the day time so that she might begin to lose interest but anytime i switched it on i will get an sms from her telling me of how she is addicted to me!

So i really don't know how to handle this.

Please anyone with a good idea on how to respond to this issue?

Thanks


nowadays every guy want form James Bond for ladies and relationships. OK oo.
Travel / Re: Dana Air Skids Off The Runway In Port Harcourt, Lands Inside Bush (Photos) by Fidecoo(m): 9:28pm On Feb 20, 2018
Power failure issue (phcn)
Romance / Re: Post Your Valentine's Day Picture(s) Here by Fidecoo(m): 11:09am On Feb 14, 2018
sexybbstar:
pre valentine's picture.. Unexpected shot that turns out to be good.
, I Don dey like this girl little by little oo.

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Romance / Re: China: In Search Of Women by Fidecoo(m): 5:13pm On Feb 13, 2018
thenewtribe:

"In Zhongdenglou, a tidy village in western Shandong, 30-year-old Deng Zhikuan runs a grocery store. When he married, ten years ago, bride prices in the village were between 2,000 and 3,000 yuan. Now they run between 200,000 and 300,000 yuan, although Mr Deng hears that as much as 500,000 has been handed over as bride price"

READ MORE:http://www.newtribeng.com/opinion/china-search-women/
, upon say China things dey cheap and got low quality.500k for wife?,
Romance / Re: "I Gave My Neighbor A Lift, 6 Months After We Got Married" - Man (Photos) by Fidecoo(m): 7:49pm On Feb 08, 2018
JULIE1925:
grin


Uumm...let me find someone who can give me a lift tongue tongue
I dey available, only say the car no get A/c and temperature dey high shocked
Crime / Re: 39-Year-Old Zimbabwean Lady Pays Hitmen $100 To Kill Her Lover (Photos) by Fidecoo(m): 8:10pm On Feb 06, 2018
Donpresh95:
Love is really blind. See woman see akpu face
, Chai the love really really blind.nna en ,fear women.

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Car Talk / Re: How To Tell If Your Car Tyres Have Expired by Fidecoo(m): 1:15pm On Feb 06, 2018
nurey:
Tyre expire haaa grin

Will you also say human beings too expire, engine oil too expire.

Tyre don't expire, they degrade, there is a difference between the 2.
,honestly bro.I have witnessed a case of an expired tyre.although it happened with the tyre I was using as spare.Dec 2016 I changed my 4 tyres (new ones), and I assumed since the spare looked so sound and ok.no need to replace it.but to my greatest surprise,after few months I had a flat tire and when trying to change the spare,lo and behold "the spare tyre looks as if it was peirce with knife all around.I was shock. Wish I took photos of it.
Romance / Re: Man Pushes His Girlfriend Around In A Trolley In Cape Town, South Africa by Fidecoo(m): 3:54pm On Feb 02, 2018
Madness at its peak.
Romance / Re: ... by Fidecoo(m): 1:12pm On Jan 30, 2018
I just pity for you. Don't start what will lead you to an early grave. The end results are usually deadly. "Living witness ".
Car Talk / Re: Honda Babyboy: Simplicity In Perfection by Fidecoo(m): 4:55pm On Jan 28, 2018
The very flexible car for all average income earner.i dreamt of having 1 and fortunately I had and I am still using it.honestly,I love this car.

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Science/Technology / Re: China: Birth Of The First Cloned Primates by Fidecoo(m): 7:07am On Jan 27, 2018
The only problem here is,,,,they are made in China and may not last.

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Romance / Re: Marry My Roommate's Girlfriend??? by Fidecoo(m): 8:57am On Jan 11, 2018
Hmmmmm
Romance / Re: Cossy Orjiakor Confirms No Breast Feeding For My Babies by Fidecoo(m): 11:07pm On Nov 19, 2017
nairalandmem:
Men can suck it but as for her kids, whenever she start making babies, they wont enjoy the big watermelon. The Queen of oranges took to social media to declare how much she cherishes her stuffs. Below is what Cossy has to say about her massive boo*bs:

“I am so grateful to God for this lovely bo*obs. Though sometimes they are such a burden. The load gets big but I love them.


Watch Full Video Here: https://freescholarshipnow.com/2017/11/19/omg-see-what-ngerian-act0r-was-ca-ught-d0ing-in-the-h0t-el-r00m-with-a-lady-vdeo-2/
Romance / Re: Help On How To Handle A Stubborn Fiancé by Fidecoo(m): 6:36pm On Oct 19, 2017
Raskasal:
This post is directed to the mature minds on this forum and not the ones with fish brain.

I've had this lady and we've been dating for like Six months, I have met with the families and vice versa and we are on the verge of getting married in a few months that time.

I met her some 6 months back and I love her so much. I put every of my effort to make sure I make her happy, because she's the the type of lady I hope to settle down with. Of recent, she had to put up with me due to the fact that she stays in a remote part Lagos and work on the island, of course which had the consent of both families and some relatives. Months into our relationship, I discovered she's the stubborn and egoistic type and I have since then called her severally to address that but all to no avail.

When ever she does anything wrong to me and I correct her, she wont feel any remorse about what she's done and will hardly say sorry. she won't talk to me or reply me whenever I talk to her, or even pick my calls or call me. I will have to beg her day after day before she finally say a word. This has been going on for a while but I keep hoping she will change, coupled with the fact that her mom do calls me to plead with me to always be calm with her, but now its as if am forcing myself on this lady. How do I tell the store that I stay under a roof with a lady and she frustrate me by not talking to me and shouts at me when any conversation ensues. God sees I have put everything of my best to make sure this relationship work, but all to no avail. Her egoistic and pride attitude is killing it and me emotionally.

Nairalanders please what should, I do? Mature answers only
,oga you are over pampering her. Period
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by Fidecoo(m): 8:40am On Oct 19, 2017
dear,you just need to sit him down discuss it with him,tell him how you feel and how he can make it up to you. I am almost like that too,but what I usually do now is, I send airtime steady to my woman so that she can call me as much as she can.because on my own part hmmmm,I can even stay weeks without calling, though I usually have busy schedules,much brain work to do, running around etc."mind you, I love my woman more than mere words could express and I am a 1 man,1 woman guy."express how you feel to him, he may understand and change or step up,but that is " if he is still in love with you or no other woman in the picture. My, little advice.

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Romance / Re: Ladies Be Sincere, Can You Do This To Your Boyfriend, When You Are At Fault? by Fidecoo(m): 10:29am On Oct 18, 2017
Lordygram:
Ladies can you be like the lady in the photo below, when you are at fault?
, believe me,my woman can do this.only that,I won't allow her.i can't stand such sight.
Celebrities / Re: Toolz Shares New Sexy And Curvy Picture by Fidecoo(m): 8:10pm On Oct 16, 2017
40ng:
@VIVIANGIST

Shared On Instagram With Caption ...

Cos curvy girls ROCK!
#ToolzForKaftanCitra


Via : http://www.viviangist.ng/toolz-oniru-demuren/

Cc; lalasticlala
, I been think say,this babe been get belly oo,abi she don born. My former crush,sha. Envying captain D since 1900
Career / Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Fidecoo(m): 12:28am On Oct 02, 2017
which country is your friend talking about (1), what does he/she does over there (2), my dear on 6th of this month (oct) will make it a year I returned back from dubai. I had a job paying me up to 200k, but I had to leave it and come back home, why?(1) working conditions, (2) opportunity to save,((3)cost & conditions of living, ,(4) freedom E.t.c.,i swore to burn my passport, than for me to ever travel abroad again on hustling (work)ground.Pls, sis. What most of those guys do come and show us here at home is just camouflage and propaganda,while they are been treated or live as prisoners.i saw Nigerians living in real hell conditions.beautiful young ladies been lured to be used as sex slaves, ladies doing so awful/odd jobs for very very low pay (40k below)e.t.c. Now I managed my own business (though I had it on b4 I travelled out & was been managed by my younger sister)where I earn up to double or even more as to what I was been paid over there.so dear,i will better advice you ,make sure you know what you going there to do, weigh, measure ,compare what you are doing now at hand and what you are been offered over there b4 you make you final decision.as for me oo, abroad and me it's, ,,,,,thy Kingdom come.except only on vacation. My little experience and peice of advice to my best knowledge.Good luck.

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Career / Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by Fidecoo(m): 12:25am On Oct 02, 2017
HajimeSaito:
How trustworthy is this friend of yours? Many young girls have been lured into traps because of desperation to go abroad.
Unless you have legitimate reasons for coming to a country, foreign embassies will not issue you with the necessary travel documents. Also, I hope your friend isn't trying to talk you into life as an illegal migrant because you will regret being one.
My advice to you is to prioritise education. At 24 you're still quite young and time is actually on your side. When eventually you do decide to go abroad, having a good degree certificate in your hands will actually make things a lot easier for you.
, which country is your friend talking about (1), what does he/she does over there (2), my dear on 6th of this month (oct) will make it a year I returned back from dubai. I had a job paying me up to 200k, but I had to leave it and come back home, why?(1) working conditions, (2) opportunity to save,((3)cost & conditions of living, ,(4) freedom E.t.c.,i swore to burn my passport, than for me to ever travel abroad again on hustling (work)ground.Pls, sis. What most of those guys do come and show us here at home is just camouflage and propaganda,while they are been treated or live as prisoners.i saw Nigerians living in real hell conditions.beautiful young ladies been lured to be used as sex slaves, ladies doing so awful/odd jobs for very very low pay (40k below)e.t.c. Now I managed my own business (though I had it on b4 I travelled out & was been managed by my younger sister)where I earn up to double or even more as to what I was been paid over there.so dear,i will better advice you ,make sure you know what you going there to do, weigh, measure ,compare what you are doing now at hand and what you are been offered over there b4 you make you final decision.as for me oo, abroad and me it's, ,,,,,thy Kingdom come.except only on vacation. My little experience and peice of advice to my best knowledge.Good luck.
Sports / Re: Anthony Ujah And Elizabeth Pre-wedding Photos On The Pitch by Fidecoo(m): 10:30am On Sep 25, 2017
SonyObsessed:
Super Eagles of Nigeria and Liaoning Fc footballer, Anthony Ujah and his beautiful fiance, Elizabeth shot their pre-wedding photos at the Shenyang Olympic Stadium in China.

Anthony Ujah plays for Liaoning Fc in the Chinese League. Enjoy their beautiful pre-wedding photos below #lit2017.

More Photos: http://www.weddings.ng/blog/nigerian-footballer-anthony-ujah-and-elizabeth-pre-wedding-photos-on-the-pi
,hope it last. As we know, anything made in China, ,,,,,,,,,,,,hmmmmmmSmh.

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Romance / Re: Zimbabwean Sex Maniac Dies: Girlfriends Mourn His Bedroom Stunts (Photos) by Fidecoo(m): 2:11pm On Sep 23, 2017
dre11:






http://hmetro.co.zw/sex-maniac-dies/



,hmmmm.he is dead,but his manhood lives on.

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Romance / Re: REVEALED: Usher Raymond Herpes Accuser Filles For £15m Lawsuit by Fidecoo(m): 3:21pm On Sep 21, 2017
joearinze:
A WOMAN who is suing pop star Usher for £15million after he allegedly gave her herpes claims the star would not ejaculate in front of her.

Laura Helm, from Fulton County, Georgia, revealed in explosive new court documents that she is the“Jane Doe” who claims the singer infected her with genital herpes.
The New Orleans jazz musician, who is one of a number of people suing the R&B artist, says she slept with the pop icon, real name Usher Raymond, on two separate occasions.

After the second encounter, which involved sex without a condom, she claims to have found a pea-sized bump on her vagina and a similar lump on her cheek, reports TMZ.

The court filings also detail Usher’s allegedly bizarre behaviour including having showers before and after sex.

Helm also claims the chart-topping star would grab his penis and run out the room before he ejaculated.

The pair were friends for years before their relationship turned sexual in April 2017, according to the docs.

In their first sexual encounter, the singer wooed Helm by talking about his humanitarian work in Africa, his interest in water filtration and his concerns for the current state of American politics, said the claimant.

The second time the pair hooked up, Usher put on jazz music before performing MouthAction on the fellow musician, the filings state.

Helm initially asked for £7.5million but doubled her demand to £15million in July when she was diagnosed with Herpes Simplex 2.

She claims to have suffered “extreme and debilitating mental, emotional and physical distress and anguish, humiliation and embarrassment.”

In July, another lawsuit claims Usher paid a woman £800,000 after he infected her with herpes while knowing that he had the incurable disease.

First published by Radar Online, the affidavit states that the U Got It Bad star, real name Usher Raymond IV, was diagnosed with the condition in either 2009 or 2010.

Usher, who is worth an estimated £138million, did not disclose having the disease while having intercourse with the celebrity stylist despite “greenish discharge” dripping from his penis, the documents say.

In August, it was revealed that the Grammy-winning artist is being sued by two women and one man who claim he infected them with herpes.

One of the woman is Quantasia Sharpton, 21, who alleges she romped with the singer on her 19th birthday.
, hmmmm.
Family / Re: Pressure To Get Married (Photos) by Fidecoo(m): 7:40pm On Sep 17, 2017
Nellychinma20:
That brings us to the end of my story





Reality dawns ................
Am still single grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
,hahaha, funny. Parents will not kill somebody oo. my own case don turn to music for house oo. If I ask for water its " do you know it's your wife that was suppose to be getting you that.", if I try ask of food nko,hmmmmm na kuku kill me be that. I just tire totally.

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