₦airaland Forum

tobstarizhia:
Modern mining? So what have we been doing for the past over 100 years (yes, I included colonial times)?

Duro4chang2:
A civil forfeiture is against the property not the owner. - Justice Tsammani.

The man had to laugh

George a member of the British Parliament

VeryGoodMan:
Lamidi Apapa should fight for NNPP chairmanship.

Mynd44:
Why are most roads in Nigeria curved and not straight?

davillian:
Nigerian police said it is gas gun
Olodo rabata

Maria96:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CwqlI-7ohca/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Wahala

BigDawsNet:
He should apologise

kereman1:
According to the statistics, and calculations done by some ronu pigs at oshodi under bridge, derived by baba ijebu chart, owo mida compilation et all, Yorubas has the highest percentage in USA and UK, hope u guy won't play victim when they start screaming "go back to your village".

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Akaegwu:
She will forfeit the money and properties like Tinubu.

Tinububalls:
How can we sing the gods song on a strange land?

FreeStuffsNG:
The war is not balanced from the start. Russia is way bigger and stronger.

yinkeys:
I hope they don’t try to use drone bombs next
They’d probably go through Ecowas next

muykem:
Foolishness. Against USA and France firearms.

Umartins1:
On what charges?

Procashtips:
Keep deceiving yourself with all these rubbish charts.

When you're asked if you have eaten this night, I hope you won't post a chart to respond?

Advertisershubs:
If He was just catching cruise, I don't think he should have rejected her drink.



He must have something against her that pained him but he couldn't cut off the wedding because he already had invited alot of people and wouldn't be able to deal with disappointing his family, friends and kinsmen.

Mynd44:
You were the one who bought them the surface to air missiles abi?

And surface to surface missiles against Air planes, stop playing

IboHausaYoruba:
I will say IT IS OUR WAR, Nigeria is a big brother to all other black nations, reason why the Western world want Nigeria to be perpetually corrupt and backward. They know the day Nigetia gets it right, every other African countries (even up to the Caribbean) would be liberated. Asides the aforementioned assertion, Niger is a member of ECOWAS cum AU, they signed the pact that democracy will be upheld in their domain and anything contrary is just like calling for trouble. I encourage Tinubu to fight this war and restore democracy back to Niger.

iLoveYouToo:
OP you better wake up, you and your war mongers should know by now that Nigeria isn’t ECOWAS.


How did you arrive at the conclusion those nations are backing Niger?

Niger is part of ECOWAS so it’s normal for ECOWAS to intervene, not just because other member states are meddlesome interlopers.
Niger signed a treaty that mandates ECOWAS to intervene when the county is under siege.

How you people have grown to hate your country is still a mystery to me

kemiomobomi:
Typical west machination, weaponizing Islamic Jihadists to do their dirty job. After the war, they will then become incontrollable monster.

Jennyclay:
I thought you men always say missing girls are in a nearby brothel or their boyfriend’s house, So why are you still complaining

Even a missing toddler that’s not even up to 10 years old you morons would still say she’s in her boyfriend’s house. Fools everywhere!!

Bunch of sickos!!! Shame on all of you!!

Candidlady:


When you and your carnivorous brothers are done killing all wild lives...



What next will you people start hunting ?

b4ball:
Russia is so weak that NATO needs a coalition of 30+ countries to ensure its confidence.

Russia is so weak yet Ukraine armed with over 50 nations both in cash, arms and volunteer fighters( the largest and most severe armed conflict since ww2) cannot be liberated.

Russia is so weak, yet the west led by the US has not led its little rascals to invade in order to enforce its so called rules based order. Imagine if Russia was Argentina, Libya, Iraq, etc; they would not have remembered article 5.

Russia is so weak yet despite 14000 sanctions, unprecedented in the history of humanity, it failed to crumble. Instead Germany went into recession and deindustrialization. Russia is currently the only growing economy in Europe with a positive IMF index.

Russia is so weak that the west is busy looking for allies to help condemn the invasion instead of intervention.

If Russia was truly weak, the war would have ended long ago. Wars have changed and not when you are fighting a nation armed by 50 countries.

There was nothing Russia could have done to stop NATO expansion because the US never stops. It wants would domination, where everyone says yes sir like Europe. If it succeeds in Russia, next would be china, then India.

Let me clear your doubts, Ukraine was a success, because Ukraine being the territory from which Russia has been severally invaded will never be in NATO.

Who lost? Ukraine and Europe! Ukraine after losing its territories and infrastructures and will never join NATO, Europe has lost its competitiveness to the US, China and India. It’s biggest industries are currently moving base.

Who won? The US, it successfully made Europe more dependent on it for security and energy without declaring an open war and also enriched its military industrial complex.

It’s was simply pragmatic politics.

And wake up from your dream. Putin is the most sober president Russia will ever have. Other after him in his circle are war hawks. So wishing Putin out is like asking for the main devilish ones.

RPG2020:
You think is by many soldiers