₦airaland Forum

Konjiboii:
How is it jealousy?
We broke off mutually and that was eons ago, I even forgot such person existed not until I saw the post. I have no intentions to spill any tea to the husband either,I mean who does that.


I may or may not get married, I'm indifferent about it. If I do get married though I could care less about my partner bodies or sexcapades. I am no damn saint.

Like Pete Rock this post was just me reminiscing

Doing gragra as if you too won't end with a lady that people have fuccck tired in different places.

Blessedmercy8:
Not ideal. Speaking from experience. I'll share mine in a bit to buttress my point.

I was once close to a married man and this was because I was working with him.
This one was even a pastor. So ministry work brought us together.
I was a Sunday school teacher, and assistant head choir, assisting the wife in that department too.

So, at the time, I was more like his assistant because the assistant ( a guy) was not always around. So since I was always around and available, he took to me and was confiding in me.

Now, the wife was aware that we were close and doesn't express any form of disapproval because she trusted us together.

He drops me home most times and we would sit in his car and talk for hours before he'll start heading home only after I've started giving him body language that I want to go inside my house.

Initially we used to discuss generally about life and what goes on in the ministry but after a while, he started discussing family issues with me to which I wasn't comfortable about.
He would complain about how the wife is not supporting him in the ministry the way I do. And how he's tired of her stubbornness and all. In my mind, I'll be like why is he telling me all these.

The day I knew I have to draw the line was the day he told me the wife had been denying him of sex for a very long time and all that. I was somehow embarrassed cos I never expected him to disclose that part of his life to me as a pastor and someone I respect so much.

Another time, we were talking and he said, sister, see let me tell you, if anything happens to my wife now ( he now said God forbid, God forbid) and I have oyibo lady like you that is fresh by my side, ah, what do you think will happen? I'll just... you know, its easy, we'll just"... And I was like Huh... Pastor!!!... I now laughed to cover it up and he was like.. " nooo.. it will just happen. That was when I knew, I had to cut my closeness with him. This one he's already imagining death for his wife. Hm.

So, all I'm saying is, men cannot be trusted with being just friends with a lady. One day, the devil will minister to him to try his luck.

Married women, don't let your husband tell you, she's just a friend, trust me, nothing. Ha! Tell him right away, you can't be friends with her o.

My 10 Kobo na im I drop give una so.

Man and woman who are not bloody related cannot be friends or too close, u say no. Thank God u quickly take reverse sha

Bobloco:
https://punchng.com/peace-threatened-wike-atikus-men-disagree-over-ayu/

North and power Sha.


The way north crazy and fighting for power, if it's same way they put energy to develop themselves in other human endeavors, Nigeria would have been moving at fast Lane.



Why Atiku as presidential candidate in first instance? After 8 years of Fulani disaster , another Fulani man wants to spend 8years.

As if he can deliver his own ward for himself, if he is contesting as a governor.

Oyetola defeat, is an eye opener for you. Supreme court shall not rob Imo people the second time.

festacman:
The worrying thing is that none of the leading presidential candidates has shown clearly how his government will meet ASUU demands and solve incessant ASUU strike once and for all in the face of dwindling oil revenues.

None! And that's worrying.

None can meet it.

The demands are too much for govt to meet at this critical time of economy doldrums in Nigeria history.

Meanwhile, if they succumb to the percentage increament they want on their salaries, it will definitely trigger other unions to ask for increament, most especially medical sector.
........where is the money to meet it? And the funniest part, they keep establishing more universities.

jeromestarks:
Forget that thing. They're not simps, they just want to eat your ugly pvssy ni. After the eating, you will know if they are simp or not;
A simp will stay after eating, an alpha will try to go but you will be the one to beg him to stay.

They braged openly and went behind to prostrate? Her spit is on u guy indeed.

modsfucker:
His political career will be dead and he'll remain irrelevant

Dead? Will he reign for life?

So u want him to be Godfather abi?



Where is Obasanjo, Jonathan, Akande, Sam egwu, odilli among other today


Infact, what about Obama, Clinton, bush, Toni Blair.


It's only in Nigeria u have mentality to reign til ethernity.

modsfucker:
Wike will make the biggest mistake of his political life if he defects.

He has nothing to loose again o, presidential election, he failed in the primary already. So, what else?

He only wants Atiku to taste his foolishness.

ThrownBack:
Atiku cannot win the presidencywith only North East votes

He is already blocked out on all other regions, wike or no wike.

Atiku would have allowed Obi, by now the chance would be 65% winning for PDP.

Tell your friend that he too should go and marry a girl that one niggard is training or has trained in sch. At least, it will balance the equation.

Chinonye2022:
I bet you many of them don't hav voters card what dey hav is there phone for pictures and videos E.g my elder brother

Keep on masturbating, popularity is growing geometrically on daily basis, let me give u an assignment. Just go outside ur locality and ask up to 10 people and come back to give ur field assessment.


Make sure ask from those who have valid voter cards o.

Sucre6:
That one Nah advance secondary school be that, try that with me and see what's up

Did the students behave like university students?


Abi, no be students they hard stopped breastfeeding wen they got admissions.

U urself u re not totally faithful.

U should free to ur friend far more than his wife.


If it was me, for her to even saying I shouldn't let her husband (my friend), that is main reason I would not send it.

Enkidu70:
Somebody that cannot manage aboki kiosk, they put the fate of 200 million souls into his hands. The result is bloodshed, anarchy and state failure.

In a sane society, the singular act of Tinubu selling bubu for us is enough for him to face shameful defeat at poll, but naija na funny republic.

So many people that cannot lead their household successfully, find themselves in position of leading town, local government, state and country.


Though, not surprised o, bubu in abuja too cannot lead his nuclear family o ,yet they gave in most populous black nation in his hand to lead.

Little wonder we are sinking on hourly basis.

tony0806:
The only thing that will calm Gov. Wike down is;
1) if HE Atiku and/or Tambuwal will OPENLY apologies for the brazen display of betrayal at the last PDP convention.

2) If Ayu resigns before the general elections.

Apart from these options, just leave Wike alone. That man second name na TROUBLE. And he's not afraid of wherever the trouble will lead him to.

Wike feels more pain when he looks back to 2015 elections; he remembers how HE Atiku left the party for APC, causing PDP to lose power. Those at the echelon of PDP didn't say anything. Wike kept on fighting for the party and used finances to keep the party running from 2015 to 2019. The party leaders kept calm.

Before 2019 elections, HE Atiku came back to PDP, the ticket was given to him. And in 2022, against the wish of the southern governors, he picked the ticket again.

Wike will fight until he sees "made in china" at the bottom. At worst, he'll leave the party and come back after the elections like HE Atiku did.

Party leaders must handle Wike's matter carefully and with wisdom.

Ayu is the one he is fighting indirectly, since Ayu is the architect of his downfall, most especially as VP, he too wants Ayu to be crushed out as a party chairman.

Throwback:
Obi with better policies than Tinubu?

You've got jokes.

What policies did Obi implement in Anambra besides putting state funds in Fidelity Bank that he was the previous Chairman?

Except we are blind or mentally handicapped, Peter Obi cannot unlace Tinubu's shoes.

Go and listen to Tinubu wherever he goes, he always saying I will develop Nigeria the way I did in Lagos, never for once specifically saying what he want to do from one sector to another unlike Obi

magicminister:
Why partner with a foreign company when we have local companies doing exactly the same thing…… it’s a good initiative regardless but damn!’

Everybody will be doing his own oooo


America still importing cars and phones, despite numerous companies manufacturing them in USA.

07kjb:
Did he do it I mean stepped down before or after the commencement of voting?

I didn't watch the primaries live

He didn't. He stepped down after he left the podium already,having introduced himself and his plans to electorates.He latter came back to the podium to announce that he was stepping down.

eldoradoxx:
If I were to be PDP Chairman, I will expel Wike from the party for anti party activities. He is the one to lose, all his candidates from Governor, Senator, House of Assembly and House of Rep are all PDP from top to bottom and it is too late to defect to any party. When we told him that Northerners are only good at supporting their own no matter what, he thought that attacking fellow Southerners to please the North was the best way to go about it. In fact Wike should start supporting Tinubu's failed presidential bid, who cares. Rivers people are too enlightened to vote a Tinubu should Wike join Tinubu's dying political aspiration.

But unfortunately, if u are, u lack such power.

To my fellow men, make sure you always be in charge of your home.

That is! Your wife, ur kids and everybody that comes to your home, must submit to the way you want to be in charge of your "home", if he or she can't submit, let him or her leaves. (Anybody that come your house can be, your father, mother, father-in-law, mother-in-law, pastor/imam, friends, wife's friends, boss, brother/sister etc.)
If you fail to be in charge, someone will just come from nowhere and start controlling. The vacuum must be filled.

If you had been in charge,step brother and your wife wouldn't have succeded ridiculed you jointly to this extent.

Not until you hold tight to this principle, you can never enjoy marriage.

exposition:
You don't need to take a bow!
Don't even tell her you're done, let her figure it out herself!

Tale in the moon time.

But if,.......is anybody glued you and her together to marry at all cost?


If you are dating and so many red flags are sprouts out like this, what will happen when u married?.


I think you want to marry her at all cost for u to be able to use her destiny to nourishing your own.

I think, Obi should inflitrate christian with high influence in the north to vote against certificateless Jihadists.

Hope you know Ghana, Niger , Cameroon are also part of foreign university

Also, Afe Babalola university, U I and Covenant University also part of indegineous that better than many foreign universities.


So it's a mixture of truth and lies, depends how u view it.

What will wife tell her children, how their dad died, wen they grow older?



Trust me, nairaland ladies will still blame man for this.

slimfit1:
Don't try to impress Hausa people with the money they are just receivers. look at Rotimi, he bankrolled Bubu instead of Bubu to give him proper jobs like chief justice Antony general or secretary of state.

The people aka (thieves) that we have never had or seen all appeared from nowhere taking top serious positions.
Warning for Tinubu. A goat that goes hunting with a lion should know that whether hunting was successful or not the lion will still eat.

Did you even know portfolio (ministry)rotimi held?


60% of trillion of Naira borrowed by bubu went to transport ministry.


No ministry, I repeat, no ministry or government agency, "maybe after Fashola ministry" that is juicer than rotimi.

.......for 7 years rotimi held sway, the amount of billions he would have stolen, wouldn't be quantified....

No be ministry big name be Koko o, but direction/focus of political head during his reign.

SmartPolician:
If true, it could also be that he had to deal with racism all the time. In any case, this is like falling from heaven to hell. Who advised him? Someone probably lied to him or he is chasing clout.

On a serious note, when we have intelligent people like Peter Obi running this country, the rest of the world would be falling over themselves to come hustle in Nigeria.

Dear Reader, 2023 gives us a rare opportunity to rewrite the history of this country.

Hope u know thre is nothing in Poland too

babyfaceafrica:
Social media doesn't mean much in Nigeria political land space. Your analysis is fair though
. But saying social media will play anything with votes is unrealistic. How many Nigerians are on the Internet?

If Tinubu himself and his Media campaign organization are jittery, how much less you, a nairaland urchin.


Have ever go to field and do findings urself? Keep on hallucinating, people are going against Tinubu enmass.

.......for tinubu to face Obi in recent time, thre are alot of things they themselves have seen.

.... I'm a Yoruba leaving in start west, .... Tinubu popularity dwindling on daily basis, this not online but reality.

If he succeeded now, while many people will be in blackout, he, will be spending lavishly, and the most painfully part is that 90% of the money will be spent on alcohol, prostitutes, gambling......

You will rot in hell

mach7:
I watch Journalist Hangouts and there is no bias there. I think you are mistaken on BKO and the guests on JH.
He may or may not support Asiwaju, but he doesn't let that cloud his sense of reasoning or prevent him from being objective on the issues being disussed.
You need to understand the issue being raised with Arise TV and get the proper context.

You can disagree by telling me just one program, where they criticize Tinubu just for one second.



Infact, even the nation newspaper is not bias in the eyes of blind follower.

mach7:
There is nothing worst about TVC. Don't play the game of deflections.

TVC is quite balanced and doesn't harangue guests who come on their show or try to force their opinions down the throat others.

TVC Breakfast, Your View and This Morning are very very balanced shows. Except you don't watch TVC then you can be making false assumptions.

Go and watch journalist hangout, Otitoju and co are puppets praising Asiwaju.