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joyH:
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Please guys I need your help.
@mod pls help me move to appropriate section.

I am confuse, needs advice on what step to take next.

the whole thing begins on 25th July when i had unprotected sex with my bf. before then my last period came on the 17th of July. so i had sex just about a week after.

since then uptil now i have not seen my period. Initially I worried i may be pregnant but after several urine and blood test it all turns out negetive. what could be wrong here? This is the first time i am experiencing this.

i have done 4 test myself using pt test strips. but all came negetive. Yesterday I went to a private lab an de used my blood and urine sample for pregnancy test, it stil came out negetive.

Abeg any mediccal expert or any one with past experience should assist with advice on next step please.

Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis.

U need advice or u go and see gynecologist?

........sign of infertility in future, pls attend to ur health as quickly as possible.

PDP just wasting its time......."for" power is shifting back to the south.


I foresee a PDP that will no longer be a biggest opposition party after 2023 election.

GemstoneJs:
I'm always scared/shy of asking a lady to relationship, like i don't know how to make the first approch, what to say and what to ask her. Please I need advice on what to do. Its my first time posting here, please mod move to front page. Thanks.

Ur age not yet fully mature for asking woman out.

With time confident will come up, every guy passes this stage of life.

gshsj:
I'm creating this thread cos i want to seek advice.
For one, I'm not the typical punter, but i do stake a bet very occasionally. I presently have 12k in my staking acct which i less often bet sef
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But, So there's a couple of millions paid into my account through an award for a particular business and the half of it for a certain person.
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Since the money will be with me for some weeks, I'm thinking of doing bet Naija with 1.3 to 2 odd
Should i try it? Maybe with 1 million and not all...
I'm really nervous..lol...i no geh mind...
And what has been your experience betting with cash kept with you?

I will advice u to read those bet company website.

It reads..... amount that too big for u to loose, don't use it to stake.......

okorogodwin4:
mumu keep asslickinng a bullion van criminal you want foist an ape to become a president tueh shameless criminal olodo

Keep on using ur head to work for Obitheif o. He still braged that he is richer than Biden, "America president" last week.

If u re not a clown, you would have borrowed ur self brain and asked urself, where did he get such amount of money?

Nobody among them holly past Biko.

amabengroup2:
Don't count your chicks before they hatsh.

For now, that's reality on ground.


Meanwhile, for ur info, I dnt have interest in any of the candidate.

Didi2d:
The person I asked her about is my sisters husband.
My sisters husband called her, I thought she would tell me what the call was about but she didn't, so I had to asked her 24hrs later. Be for I asked her, I asked my sis if she's aware of the call and she said she's not

U have bigger problem my brother, u re too inquisitive, infact, ur type can scatter gathering with ur finding out what people are saying here and there.

...... If ur in- law needs u for discussion he would call u directly for Christ sake. "U still went ahead to ask ur own sister again, if she aware of their discussion.

......oga, u will pull down house oOoOO.

No wonder ur wife is giving it for u hot.

Men don behave like gossiper as u re doing pls.

Go and change if u want peace.

where u said, u wanted to know discussion between ur wife and ur in law , probably at all cost.


I used that to try to understand ur personality, .....u re a type u will like to bring out mountain from ant's hole. (Creating problems where it seems not to exit)


By now, after 16 years of marriage, you ought to have understood 85% of ur woman's characters.

My brother learn how to take away eye (Ignore) from little and minor issues.

Meanwhile, change ur tactics of dealing with her.


1. Be ignoring her on many issues.

2. Stop helping her to buy things from anywhere, no matter how small it's or inconvenience for her (if she complains, tell her you dnt buy it because u dnt want complain.)

If u see something u like and u buy it, if she ask u price, tell her, are u the one that want to pay the money?)

And for the children, if u command them and they do otherwise, discpline they thourogly, so next time they won't disobey ur instructions, either the one their mother says or outsiders.

If ur children fear u, they won't be doing bidding of their mother at ur own expenses .

WhiteHouse9ja:
Mad people everywhere

If ur mad man not giving birth to mad urchin like you, you would have understood politics easy.



You will die of heart attack the day they will announce STRUCTURELESS party that they come distance 3rd.

Devil1Messenger:
As Tottenham take collect plenty trophies under that former wolves coach Abi?
Graham na good coach for average teams
Not chelsea

Read to understand and comprehend pls. Try not to do gragra to attack.


Chelsea changing coaches and bringing trophies.

Bye

I pity Naomi, indeed money is biggest factor to get woman.

JealousCobra:
APC........... Unavailability of Certificate, Health ground, Questionable source of income... endless list

Will that make party that cannot boast of just one state party structure to win?


Even in America , party structure wins elections


Or u think America has only two political parties ?

okorogodwin4:
for your village meeting

Keep on hallucinating in ur hut in igbo land ooo

Wen u drink that ur strong palm wine u think unthinkable and believe unbelievable

They say hot seat. Yet coaches are scrambling to sit on it.


Expecting trophy/s at end of season. Chelsea tactics to get trophies for over 2 decades .

femisplash:
Atiku wanting to become President after Buhari?.. This election will really put to the test the integrity of the Northerners regarding the unity of this country. Odili was widely touted as the next President but Obj had to pull something off his sleeves at the last minute to endorse Yar'Adua for the Presidency.

I guess Ayu is indirectly playing Obasanjo card o.

While

OBJ PLAYED DIRECT SPOILER FOR ODILLI (SOUTH)

AYU PLAYING INDIRECT SPOILER TO DENY ATIKU (NORTH).

Tinubu don win jor.


PDP....... CRISES


LP............. STRUCTURELESS


NNPP..........NOT AVAILABLE.



yet they want to defeat party in power.

If it's easy for BOT and chairman of gov forum


Why is it so difficult for Ayu to leave.


The two positions vacated are more or less ceremonial.

Abi ooo, any other tribe outside Igbo planing to vote for Obi you think twice, the way they are attacking, insulting and personalizing Obi presidency is worrisome.

I changed my plan 2 days ago.

Candora:
Finding love in Nigerian isn't hard.
People get married almost every Sunday.

Your issue is that you just can't get enough of one lady, you want to have a taste of all.

Everyone is after money now, most ladies personally look forward to making money before going into love. Don't want no one talking us down at any given opportunity.

My sister, I'm not one of those who condermn on basis of gender, religion etc

But the fact remains "love in relationship" is declining at high speed, it's completely about, money , money and money, except for ladies that are approaching 30, they are the one who may show u love without so much emphasis on money.

If u are opportuned to have matured for relationship in late 90s, you would have understood better and see the clear different, unlike now.

Though, it's not only in relationship that pivoted on monetary aspect in naija today, even in religion, education, politics, etc.

MasterJayJay:
Leipzig should employ Tuchel

Leipzig that playing attacking football to employ bus-pack coach

Five defender with two additional defensive midfielders in every game

Out of 11 players 8 is to block ball while only 3 to attack.

Why won't his strikers struggling for form?

Many of ladies here saying yes.

Meanwhile, they will be taking money and other goodies from that guy as if he is husband already.

2. They will go outside to satisfy their sexual need, but claim innocent before the guys.


I have seen plenty of this type of situation, most especially in the relationship involved "brothers and sisters in the church"

Coinwarrior:
i shook my head in wonder.How does telling how responsible I am turned to messing her family or boasting here.Do you know the kind of human being I am? I am a quite,low profile man

More reasons you shouldn't bring ur family issues to social media, den go help u scatter it finally.

This issues still manageable in marriages..... reasons they called u "responsible man"

Coinwarrior:
On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.

You knew this before u married her.

I know her type of personality, wen what she expecting not forthcoming, she overreacts but come down to her senses after overreacting.

I will indulge u to carry ur cross and show more endurance for ur marriage to last long.

Truthdeypain:
You never had any intention to vote Obi. if you had an iota of honesty and truth in you, you would have balanced the facts by stating that your tribesmen are responsible for the tribal wars as they always start the IGBOS character Assassination, or at least attributed a share of the blame to them while reserving a greater portion for the tribe you love to hate.

But of course truth is far from you and your Generation, your total cliche "they are abusing us" propaganda cannot deceive anyone. kindly campaign for your Tinubu and stop all this your conscience play because you have none. A brave man is a man that knows the truth and sticks to it till the very end.

Learn to speak the complete truth. It won't kill you. If you beleive you want Obi as a candidate for reasons best known to you, you would stick to your conviction till the end, that's the sign of integrity and courage. Las Las no be Omo Ale dem go call you ni, ko ju be lo. Many yorubas are willing to waste their votes on Obi and by so doing do justice to equity. I know this for a fact. You are not a standard for the yoruba race.

Atiku Obi and Tinubu, will be the ones to rule Nigeria not we, their supporters.

Let's be guided please!

Iya e ma pokunso ni Jo ti Obi ba fail.

Truthdeypain:
You never had any intention to vote Obi. if you had an iota of honesty and truth in you, you would have balanced the facts by stating that your tribesmen are responsible for the tribal wars as they always start the IGBOS character Assassination, or at least attributed a share of the blame to them while reserving a greater portion for the tribe you love to hate.

But of course truth is far from you and your Generation, your total cliche "they are abusing us" propaganda cannot deceive anyone. kindly campaign for your Tinubu and stop all this your conscience play because you have none. A brave man is a man that knows the truth and sticks to it till the very end.

Learn to speak the complete truth. It won't kill you. If you beleive you want Obi as a candidate for reasons best known to you, you would stick to your conviction till the end, that's the sign of integrity and courage. Las Las no be Omo Ale dem go call you ni, ko ju be lo. Many yorubas are willing to waste their votes on Obi and by so doing do justice to equity. I know this for a fact. You are not a standard for the yoruba race.

Atiku Obi and Tinubu, will be the ones to rule Nigeria not we, their supporters.

Let's be guided please!

From today, try to read comment online, starting from nairaland without prejudice, how u guys are attacking, infact ur response to my comment butress my submission. (I expected u to cajole me and convince me why I shouldn't reconsider, instead ,u resulted to attack , not only me but my tribe, just I mentioned earlier.

You guys will sure cause more problem for Obi than benefits, if u dnt stop campaign of attack.


U see Obi cannot win, and u and ur generation can commit suicide after they declare either Atiku or Tinubu.


With ur comment, I say byebye to any Igbo candidate.


Wen u learn how to play politics without bitterness, other tribe we vote for u

drololaaof:
The premarriage procedure is not in existence again, when you marry the person you meet in the dance place, it is dance that will take it away .

No sane woman will park out of marriage of 6 months and still be glad to post it on social media.

Psychology call this type of personality, Hysterical personality ( attentions seeker)

gasparpisciotta:
Thisday, Arise and that other newspaper goofed on this story.

The full statement and video was obtained today and he never said anything like what they carried.

The Arise guys corrected themselves today. Hope Uzodimma even if no be better governor should have demanded for apology.

That Rufai Oseni is a prick!!!!

Rufai and tundun are tactically going against Tinubu, while Abati tactically rooting for Atiku.

ObidientFC:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnOK0WX8LVo

The Arise TV Early morning show Crew, Rufia Oseni, Reuben Abati and Tundun Abiola have described Governor Hope Uzodimma's statement about Igbo Presidency as absurd and unfortunate.

Hope Uzodimma had asked Igbos to forget about 2023 election unless they make peace with Nigeria.

But the man say absolute truth ooo.


As a Yoruba man that had vowed to vote and asked people to vote for Obi, but now reconsidering my stand on Obi presidency. The way Igbo people are massively attacking, not only other candidates but also tribes they come from.

How will Igbo candidate wins presidential election if he doesn't have support from other regions?

Infact, Igbos are too regionised Obi presidential election in such a way that it looks as if, (if Obi wins), he would be president of Igbo nation alone and alienate other tribes from scheme of things.

SaintMartinez:
Because it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work with someone else. Relationship isn't a do or die affair. Moreover all of us are all exs so why complaining about it.... It also depends on how the situation plays

Stop talking like he goat. Infact, ex wife of ur immediate younger brother, make sure you marry her, after all, if it didn't work for ur brother, it doesn't mean, it won't work for u nah.

MasterJayJay:
You have not said why it is not right. In fact, you said nothing.


Is your friend responsible for the breakup of the relationship?

The new guy you are going to date, did he not breakup with someone?

Must she tell you?

If I left a partner and my friend go to her, does that not mean, the friend not even want our relationship to work , he wants it to crash so that he can jump.

Such friend, watch out for other area of ur success too, he/she not happy, he/she can plan ur downfall anytime, any day.

What stops friend to come in and make the relationship works instead of dating the girl/guy friend left.

The effects of nobody should touch my children, we want to liberate like people of Europe and America.

When we are gravitating towards towards total decay on a fast lane