₦airaland Forum

Jovialjune1:
1) When a man knows he doesn't have a car, and you both have a date, you inform her, then both of you can meet up at the place of your date, that is common sense

2) Only empty immature guys with nothing to offer try to shiit test ladies with material things and poverty inducement, and it doesn't automatically means wife material, character traits and personality should be what to look out for in a potential partner, not stupid tests.

Threesha:
From DM

chikasnight:
It's just practice man
I was like this in secondary School until around when I wrote ssce then I started meeting guys older than me and we were placing bets on meeting girls, I don't want to fall hands so I joined that's what we did everyday after waec lessons. We did it for fun back then but it really helped my confidence. By the time I entered uni I was approaching every pretty girl like a mad man � without really having any intention or what to do with them.
So
Approach every lady you find attractive, make mistakes learn and keep repeating it it's fun

Infrabetatech:
The implications of all these needless strikes will be visible 10-20 years from now

Austindark:
I thought all these would all be bygone now that America is no longer there.

These people must be taught to embrace peace and shun violence.

Lifeandliving:
Loll... it's hilarious how almost everyone commenting on this topic has been sidestepping the truth and even trying to make the op look bad for feeling concerned about a fellow human like him.. It says alot though that Nigerians generally lack human feelings and by the way op you aren't lucky to have intelligent people comment on your post..'cause all I have seen here are just illiterate, narrow-minded people who mistake concern for lust and 'busybodyiness'

Concerning the topic,the woman don enter one chance.There are many women who are in this situation.I have two married female colleagues at work who are also overworked both at home and at work,one has even started looking masculine...Sometimes,I look at married women and I begin to wonder why people are always in a rush to get married and begin slaving themselves away!lol..

Personally,I think the problem stems from societal stereotypes and the issue of badly raised male children;who can hardly boil a kettle of water for their own bath and who thinks women are second class beings!

Some women are not much different from slaves but what baffles mostly is that these subjugated women also contribute significantly to the family upkeep!

Midas01:
Abeg shut up. The woman's eyes will clear how? Are you sure you even have sense?

Who do you think will lose in such case?

The man earning 50k or the woman earning much more?

The woman will simply be free to live her life while the man will be looking for another slave to cook everyday meals on his 50 k salary...


Mumu thinks marriage is heaven's ticket for women.

ObaOfYorubaLand:
Even the woman is very stupid to be discussing so closely with you. Are you her brother or boyfriend?

Mind your own family business, evdry family has its own peculiar problems or challenges.

The man is not stressing the woman, its just who he is not because he want to be wicked but rather hiw he grew up.

Finally, encouraged her that marriage has different sides but she should ficus on the mans good side.

Also be careful and bury the thought of sleeping with her because you'll destroy yourself.

westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar. Please men have mercies for your wife's. My colleague husband dont eat frozen foods meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and get home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband, I really do feel for her, to the extent the man treating her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more). She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.
I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

IamMobisola:
There's no requirement to a man's heart.
Even if they marry a virgin with good character and all, they will still cheat on her.

Stop doing things to please men. Do you and you will be fine.

RepoMan007:
That's not true, in fact nothing will be left of Israel if they don't act against Iran.
It is just a matter of Iranians fabricating an excuse once they have nuclear weapons ready. Is real better act now.

paulolee:
Just imagine.... oshimhen to cr7? Some clubs get crazy business plan sha..
Same cr7 dt couldnt reach last 4 with a better juve even wen he was younger, Napoli don finally fall for dis scammer wey all clubs don reject? Mk we dey see sha
I jus happy to see oshimhen in EPL

sweetman2022:
Which yeye Sterling...wey Foden bench through out last season abi na the one wey go miss glorious chances. Abeg make him go jare..make we see wonders wey him wan do for Chelsea

oloyedewaris:
It's two different scenarios, one is talking about fornicators generally and the other is talking about women found of indecency provider 4 witnesses

But at least, they both show clear message of Islam perspective on indecency


But in the case of Bible above, the two chapter are direct opposite naa

MNDY:
Sex is different from money. Many women are working and earning good money. Every woman should learn how to make money.

If he starts cheating because of a problem that she can solve by herself, she will still be the one to be angry and be complaining. But to solve money problem, she can be earning money and supporting the family together with him. Moreover, she will enjoy the sex too if she improves

Going after another man for money is a shame on her. When she is an adult that can get a job and earn money for herself as an adult. It's very wrong way to punish her husband. No respect for her own body?

Common sense should tell you that the girls outside are using "good in bed" to snatch men from their wives. A man loves sex very much and his wife will make him addicted to her and not look outside if she is doing it well. She will enjoy it too and she will also be able to keep her man.

oloyedewaris:
That's another topic for another day, first discuss the confusion and ambiguity in your Bible


Why deviation from this current topic

MNDY:
What are you even saying?

I am talking about women defending their wrongdoings especially when it involves men. Men usually condemn something bad done by the male gender.

You are saying what I don't understand.

oloyedewaris:
That's another topic for another day, first discuss the confusion and ambiguity in your Bible


Why deviation from this current topic

Kwanza:
■PDP candidate to concede key cabinet, NASS positions ■Downplays calls for Ayu’s replacement



https://www.sunnewsonline.com/pdp-crisis-atiku-wike-strike-deal-2/

MNDY:
This gender sef...

When will the female gender ever accept a wrong instead of defending your gender against the male gender. Defending your gender and making matters worse in everything.

I pity any man who argues with a woman back and forth. The female gender that always wants to win an argument.

Men condemn something wrong pertaining the male gender easily but the female gender rather defends (especially if it is connected with men too).

IF YOU REALLY ARE TO COMPARE THE ISSUE AT HAND WITH TEMPTATION FOR HER TO GO AFTER ANOTHER MAN WITH MORE MONEY, IS SHE AMPUTATED THAT SHE CAN'T WORK TO EARN MONEY HERSELF?