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Conwarden:
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Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters! Leviticus 19:13 KJV fall on you all

May you and your entire lineage destroy by stupidity and ignorance, they are talking about how ur fellow Africans treated like slaves yet you still religion in religion bigotry, indeed Islam is a curse to the world.

Anyway, did we expect any good thing to come out from Allah demon's SLAVES

Who are the babalawo that are doing the concortion and chant for them?

That's just the problem of Nigerian, instead to purge out the bad egg they would be shifting blames.

What would kill me don't let me like it & what I would like don't let it kill me my God.

.........the day the woman took decision to marry this animal, if anybody told her not to marry him, she would have said I love him so much, that he/she is prophet(ess) of doom and that parents should allow their children to marry who they love.

........after few years this is the end result .....

Simran94:
It’s either you do not understand your own post or you are confused about my response.

Selah

If you don't lower ur ego, I pray you won't end like her if not worse.

Simran94:
Like enduring Cheating partners right? If your husband or wife is cheating, you shouldn’t bother about it and continue to just ENJOY your marriage until you get infected with STIs/STDs.

Read it again or give it to ur neighbor to interpret it for you

Couple (husband and wife)

Characters (both)

Cmanforall:
Okay...
Since she wants to bring everything open to public...

What are the wrongs the husband did?

This is enough to tell that, she has 60/70% fault, she is trying to portray herself perfect and put all blames on hubby. Ego from wife can destroy marriage as fast as lightning of light


So many women divorced in the past and never went public about what caused the crash.

PheelzAlmighty:
Marriage is not for everyone..


Know this and know peace

Couples should adjust their characters to accommodate partner in marriage , know this and enjoy ur marriage fully.

Madam did you really go for good man when you are looking for husband or hypergamy dictated ur choice of husband to be? just like today's accidiential celebrities, big brother naija ladies and DJ Cuppy alikes?

Despite the fact that he has more than enough qualifications and age is not on his side, he is still humble to get means of his livelihood legitimately

Unlike undergraduate and secondary school kindergartens who resulted to ritual and yahoo yahoo to leave large like directors In multinationals.

Wawelexy:
See as Tinubu dey rubbish himself with his selfish ambition.... Imagine this mumu man boasting to win an election against Tinubu...

Well, my Yoruba people talk say, of big problem nack u for ground, small small ones go dey climb untop u.... Tinubu no respect himself...

In fact, Tinubu is the man to beat, when easterners hear his name they start fidgeting.
........even Tinubu skeleton in the grave Fayose cannot defeat it.

It will take combine gang up of bubu and several of govs to defeat Tinubu only if they choose another heavyweight candidate.

Tank God you know you are at fault unlike some guys and men who believe Woman is always at fault.

And for others, if husband and wife can be leaving as one flesh, they would enjoy their marriage to the extreme. But unfortunately, it's the other way round. If God answer man prayers, I think the first person that should enjoy that breakthrough after the man is his wife, next children and others, but more many men, concubines, gf, friends, beer etc...... Latter they would be lamenting that marriage not for everybody, when the actors refuse to play according to the rule of the game.

Richer guy is only criterion you are looking for in who would be ur husband, that is ur definition of good husband, when marriage start withness crisis and eventually hit the rock, some hopeless guys would say
......marriage na scam.
.......marriage not for everybody.
Blah blah blah.

Freestainworld:
Don't worry, menopause will soon knock for your door.

Do not forget Ini Edo, as a case study.

Money you can't loose, do not use it for betting

Do not see betting as short way to become rich.

Xenry:
Lol. Chatting with most Nigerian babes feel like an interview these days . If you no ask questions, the conversation dies immediately .

Bcoz she is not into you, you are forcing urself on her. Stop being cheap mr

jojo2023:
Hello,

Please hide my identity. My name is Rachael (not real name). I work as a restaurant supervisor in one of the big fast food restaurants in Lagos.
About three months ago, a customer demanded to see the supervisor because he was unhappy about the service that he received from one of our service girls. I was called in to calm him down because he was really upset.

One thing I noticed about him was that he was very handsome. I made sure he got a replacement for what he ordered for and promised him that the mistake will not happen again. He smiled and said because of me, he will keep coming because he has initially decided to stop coming to our restaurant.

I gave him my number to call in case there was any issue in future. It was after then that I started noticing that this guy comes to the restaurant almost 3 times a week. I was fascinated by his good looks. And anytime he came, he would ask of me. We gradually became friendly. I used to joke that he eats too much in the restaurant, that he should try and invest in some home cooking. That was when he told me that he a bachelor and does not like cooking.

His name is John (not real name). John and I chatted anytime he was around. I started noticing I was developing feelings for him. We would chat on WhatsApp …. he is very funny and easy to talk to. He never asked me if..

https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/02/true-story-i-am-in-love-with-a-customer-but-he-friend-zoned-me/?fbclid=IwAR3SqV1sUS2l4-Hy_J7hulVLO7ia0XdEJRYZJGBMkGrqsacCZrmF0Lq984w

From ur story you are only melting for him bcoz of his handsomeness and being single, thou I don't if you want to eat and run o, if it's for marriage, you need to look very well before you jump o.

Supper story, but in scenario of reality, if you force urself on him for a serious relationship,... I pray you won't come here in future and declare marriage na scam like other on the faceless forum.

BigYash:
Many so called "men of god" na scam... They are just deceiving the slaves(members)
I heard one was laying curse on sinners, meanwhile the Jesus he preaches came for the sinners he was cursing.. Them just confuse anyhow..

As you are giving blame for pastor, make sure you apportion blame for husband as well, if you are truly best friend of ur wife and you are standing for her at all times, that's doing ur best to be responsible as husband and leader of the family.

Uhmmmm

No adequate preparation going to marriage,
(8 out of 10 ladies married their husbands because of financial security and not love really) 7 out of 10 guys pressurised and induced their woman to married them maybe bcoz of physical appearance and not bcoz the love the woman has for them.)

All these would quickly waned out after few years of marriage and couple begin to endure instead of enjoying their marriages.

2. so many married yet they still want to leave as single, in doing that it would definitely hurt the emotions of the partners, as a result, *marriage toxic'* is imminent.

They would be confused nah, since they don't want to relinquish power,

I guess you are still leaving in 80,s or pre-80s ,people don't send ooooooo, they would also blame it on other, most especially government of the day.

.......let me give you scenario that happened in my locality: a woman selling food was accused that she was using water mix with her vagina to sell her food, latter some people advice getting go to market to denounce it, which she did. When I heard about it, I adviced the woman that she shouldn't that instead she should relocate to other area of the town, that even though if she didnt do it, nobody would believe her and that people won't buy her food again, .............could you imagine this woman turn the fight on me, ...........today, she is no longer selling food Because of o patronage and she still leaving in that area.

People no longer shame for whatever crime they commit again oooo

Olubu, Aina, Jumoke, in other not to write 3 pages of newspaper,.......... Any guy that will have serious relationship with those 3 ladies for just 6 months straight...... I salute him.

Their second should be Satan the father of manipulation and liar.

[quote author=ityP post=109802944]This has happened na. Who was Jonathan before he became president? Yaradua too wasn't so popular. But they won elections. People with political clout will not bring in heavyweights. Heavyweights have the tendency to deal with those that brought them in. They choose lightweights. Same thing Tinubu does for Lagos. He brings in weaklings who do his bidding and who aren't courageous to face him. So, bro, I think you're the one who needs to think twice before you type please [/quote


Hope you know Jonathan was an acting president before he became substantial president? Hope you know yaradua was backed by obasanjo, not that he put himself forward like Bala and that it was end of 8 years southern presidency

ityP:
You don't need national clout to win national election. You just need people with political clout to support you

So people with political clout will now leave heavyweight among them and bring lightweight to win election Abi? Think twice before you type plz.

Amunaotutheory:
That is most likely . If the North refuse to produce the next president then that’s their loss because this is the best time to capitalise on the greed of one zone in the south. They have been president for 8 years, vice for 8 years, yet they want to be president. If you talk, they say they have worked for it. That’s not how things work.

Presidency is North’s to lose.

Greed of one zone or laziness of one zone, who wants reap where they did not sow!

Smartini:
So you think EVERY corper is a fresh graduate and a jobless job-seeker in this 2022? Ignorance is written all over your soul.

If you know how many financially stable young guys in Lagos (whether legit hustle or not, nobody cares anymore) come with cars to CDS meetings, you'll be shocked. So you don't know some of these guys may have graduated years ago and gotten jobs or businesses but felt the need to serve and get their NYSC certificate just for formalities or for a shot at politics or public service? Oh dear

How many are working? The job that can sustain family o.
Go back and read headline before you argue blindly.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Let your parents keep joking and deceiving themselves around then..
I can't even imagine a grown up asking his parents for permission to marry someone you love..

Are they the one getting married or you?if they keep rejecting then let them stay clear off your marriage simple..

Go for what you want and stop making yourself so uncomfortable cos of what people are gonna say..

I pray you won't know the truth after getting to the grave.

Out of 20 people (guy and lady) that parents opposed their partners ,19 turned to be genuine reasons and those who are strong headed, always regret it in future.

What an old man would see sitting down, youth cannot see it even if he/she climbs iroko tree.

inspectorg:
Nice write up I came across today.

Brother that jobless? and in which he himself doesnt know direction of his life yet? Or you think nysc is permanent job? Perhaps, you think marriage is the same to boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with little financial comittment?

kokkubabboni421:

Crazy things are happening
But then again, this tactics is not new.. a part of me thinks you were way into the guy which is not a bad thing either. A guy man that called mechanic and said he forgot his phone, and even had no shame to ask You for money to get drinks, shows the level of his sapatiousness
But then again, like you said, thank God for life
People like these are not far from doing ritual that’s if he hasn’t started already

Asking for a lady you have not met before
money on the day they met is a big sign already.
.............she fell for the guy before they actually met (thinking of monetary gain from him)

maxwelltony:
Good morning Nairalanders

There is this particular guy that I met on Facebook about two month ago in Facebook, we have been talking and he calls me almost everytime, he has tried to invite me to his house in osun state on different occasions but due to security issue I had to decline his invitation..

We planned to meet on Wednesday and he told me he was coming from osun state, so I told him to drop at Mr Biggs in Iwo Road Ibadan..

I stay at challenge so I had to #200 cab from there down to Iwo road, I was having about #1300 with me before leaving the house, I was already waiting for him for about 40minute before he showed up, he told me his car has fault and that he had to call his mechanic to fix the car for him, we sat down and talked.

During our discussion, he told me to please give him 1k to get something to drink, that he had forgotten his wallet in the car and his phone is off to make a transfer, I gave him and he ordered for soft drinks and meat pie..

Along the line, he told me he needed to make a call and requested for my phone so that he can direct the mechanic bringing down his car, I heard him calling and was directing the man down to Iwo road, all of a sudden he just went outside and before I could know it this guy has dissapeared with my phone and was just looking at him from afar..

I couldn't shout as I was just looking like a fool because I don't know what's happening, I waited for about 1hr thinking he has gone to pick the mechanic, I tried calling my number but was switched off, he has gone with my phone and I don't know his number off hand.
I had use the #100 left with me to buy recharge card and was left with nothing..
It was a bitter experience for me as I had to trek all the way from Iwo road to Olorunsogo, When I couldn't continue with trekking I had to approach a lady to please help me out
with #100 after explaining my situation to her and she gave me #500 and wished me well.

I thank God it was not more than this, he only went away with my phone, what if he had used me for ritual?

Please ladies be careful about the kind of guy you hang out with, always take your time to know the person you are moving out with..

I had learnt my lesson, and have handed him over to God .

Thats biggest problem of you ladies, u easily fall for what you hear.

Anyone you met on social media don't trust him immediately you met, you have to develop the trust gradually and over times.

Naija is country where almost everybody is scammer