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Sopies:
Some days back I opened a thread on I got infected by my ex girlfriend.
https://www.nairaland.com/6944366/just-shot-myself-foot...the-fallout

Because I met my girlfriend a virgin I completely exonerated of any blame because I trusted her. I have access to her social media and she has not given me any reason to suspect her before. She blocks any guy that asks her out immediately, but at times the more you look the less you see.

After I discovered I was infected I called my ex and talked her down for infecting me with what seemed like gonorrhea. She insisted that she doesn't have gonorrhea so we went for a test together on Monday. I broke the news of my infection to my girlfriend citing toilet as a possible cause, I was surprised on how calm she took the news.

I stay alone and my toilet is always neat so I was kinda surprised she kinda bought the lame excuse. I followed some prescription I was given on Nairaland and started treatment without seeing the result of the test and the symptoms have subsided though I'm still on medication.

We got the result of the test today and it was confirmed that I have a moderate growth of gonorrhea while my ex has candidiasis or something. She doesn't have gonorrhea.

Now how did I contact the gonorrhea, my ex has been taunting me since we got the result.
Should I confront my girlfriend?? I don't really know to go about it. Is it possible that my ex has it but the test didn't capture it, because the lab guy wrote down the test to take according to the symptoms we explained to him.

No one can be trusted anymore

You took ur ex for a test ,why not ur virgin mistress as well?



Meanwhile, all girls in codedruns, badoo, inmessage sites as well as oloshos in different clubhouses are once Virgin ooo, just to remember you my brother.

kingxsamz:
So they arrested the parents for assaulting the teacher but didn't arrest the teacher for assaulting a defenceless child?
Anyways, they should have given that teacher a black eye.
That'll probably be his last time hitting anyone's child.

Y did u take your child to school? why can't you teach him urself? I'm sure you are a graduate. Foolish people in everywhere in banana republic.

Thou many of you are still teenagers, but very unfortunate that you allowed person u haven't seen and which you may never see to brainwash you that women are bad, claiming foolish redpiler, if you don't desist you will learn ur lesson in hardest way.

Just like Farouk the son of billionaire was brainwashed to detonate underwear bomb to kill few years back, today those who brainwashed him on religion bias left him to suffer for the rest of his life, a teenage guy who don't need to work and still be comfortable in life time.

Back to redpiller, few years to come all those that are written rubbish on nairaland might have left,perhaps enjoying their marriages with good women, .........foolish who swallowed redpill from unseen guys, would be leaving in regret and lonely in old age.

A word is enough for a wise, thou I know people like to learn from bitter experience than advice ooooo

Life of a man never "complete and enjoyable" if no woman in it , I SAY IT WITH ALL SENSE OF CONFIDENCE.

But here in naija, we only see things in destructive perspective. May Almighty see us through.

PrinceMajestic:
I don't know about them but female nurses re extremely promiscuous hot dick craving bitches in every hospital you find them in this country, they're usually very easy to fhuck. I am sure female doctors are dick craving bitches too

Keep deceiving urself, purge ur mind from what they say Mr.

qtguru:
That is wrong, so because she turned down his request, she has to lose her job ?, this even makes OP more irresponsible

OK ooo, let her destroy his marriage and run his business aground oooo. After succeeding in doing that, she would still leave.

Bitter truth always hard to swallow.

Vicktorhmustjap:
how do you control such emotions when they arise?

Its matter of mindset, when you keep killing the lustful thought, a time will come that mind won't bring it up again, ........still happened to me this last December, one young lady joined my church and i have huge influence in the church, If I asked the girl out, she would agree for me one time, in fact, the girl kept asking for xmas gift from me which I gave her, my mind disturbed me a lot to ask her out but I resisted, now the lust faded already.

And if urs refuses to fade, tell the girl to leave , since its ur own work

I think I have opportunity to be around more women than you. Yet , I still stand my ground.

Vicktorhmustjap:
Hello everyone.

Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.

I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.

I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.

I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.

Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.

she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.

I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.

Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.

please Move to front page

lala

Responsible married man will not have anything to do wit ladies near his wife and this scenario even more dangerous, it would not only affect ur marriage but also ur business.
Meanwhile, wen your marriage become toxic and eventually crumbles now, they start shouting ..........marriage na scam, ............marriage not for everybody. They will not come out to warn you now for the sake of ur marriage.


For me, I personally made it forbidden, to date women in my street, church and working place no matter how beautiful she is, I avoid them.

DrGoodman:
This man is strong.

His strength comes from his position of truth and conviction in justice

His people are all standing behind him and supporting him because they know he is fighting for them

Never will people from his region ever be afraid of the injustice called Nigeria because he has opened their eyes to a better Alternative

Affliction may endure for a moment, but joy comes in the morning.

The whole region is sitting in because they believe that you are just and honest, a fair minded freedom fighter.

Even we outside the country are sitting inside our houses, we strongly support you.

What he is fighting for, the year he will come back to his region don't knw yet

I think this platform deserved more than all these teenager threads, they are not suppose to come to front page, perhaps, moderators are teenagers as well.

Na marriage na scam crew, no comments today?

Aguilar:
Are you a jjc mr. Righteousness? Look around you sir. Nothing makes sense anymore. The thing about people like you is that you only see bible and Godly things around you not what is afar from you. Break yourself free and experience the inside life. And concerning the advice of your kid brother. I wouldn't advice anyone against marriage, never. but i would advice you when your marriage is becoming life threatening.

Oga keep on against marriages o, in fact be canvassing for gay and avoid woman completely. ..........Before small challenge marriage na scam, as if they are not having problems in other sector of their life

BigBashiru:
1. France conquered Mali in the 1800s and up till today still believes Mali is its territory. Did you know that Malian military aircraft cannot overfly Mali without permission from France.

2. Colonel Assimi Goita's junta is pro Mali and plans to end French colonialism of the country which is why France is fighting Mali directly and through ecowas.

Go back and read reason why ECOWAS imposed sactions

Aguilar:
You should have opt for a baby mama. Marriage is not encouraging these days

Hope you remember Ataga, TV CEO, he was stabbed to death by girlfriend and not wife o, that's, stabbed by girl who was not in marriage with

You guy should stop commenting like myopic on faceless forum, ur comments say a lot about the content in ur upstairs, you are future leader, is the how you would be leading younger generation under ur care?,.......take for instance, if you give such advice for ur kid brother and he quickly give u instance that make u foolish just the way I replied now, how will u feel?

Is marriages that is the problem or you guys (actors) who don't want to play according to the rules of the game?

Etuagievin:
. And you called that patriotism! They should have protested against colonel goita who doesn't want to relinquish power despite the obvious unpopularity of military rule. What do you think will become of Mali if he stays for another 5 years? ECOWAS , US, UN and France their colonial masters knows exactly what would become of the people if Goita stays for more 5 years, hence the sanctions. If Malians were wise, the protest should be against the military junta who may eventually hold the reigns of power with its attendant sufferings as it's typical of many erstwhile military leaders

Did u need to reply stupid Nigerian? Few People that junta paid for protest that he is saying they are patriots

Orissodiq:
Seriously i don't like people forcing a particular system of government on people. The people said they don't want democracy nothing more. American system of government cannot work everywhere. I c the issues in mali as struggling for power and influence between France and Russia(if u know u know)

OK oo, go and remove the sanction.

Hotstepper:
this defines me ohhhhhhhhhhh, I love to keep male friends that female friends cuz am into male's world. Maybe cuz I grew up with four boys , even amongest my cuzzin, am closer to my male ones than I am to my female ones. Infact, ma closest cuzzin(male) knowz evertyhing about me and he knwoz everything about me and yes, we discuss everything.

Coming to my male friends, I havem't dated any yet and won't dare do that. We are friends and I know all their gurlsfriends, dat is the ones that do have. Men are like straight forward and hardly hard wat thay feel about eachother unlike gurl who would prefer to gossip, have their own crew etc, I am very open minded and straightward person so relating to gurl sumtimes ain't it. I have a female cuzzin like me dat have more of male friends than female but hm,, still hang out with ma gurlssssssss

Ur male friends, have you past night the house of any of them?

Stacyomolola:
U said she's a nice person, so why having a problem with it
She likes someone and she went for him, hows that cheap?
See how ur downgrading ur friend
U that u arent cheap, i hope with all ur humidity and maturity, i hope they never serve u breakfast and lunch back to back

Her biggest problem is that, her friend doesn't enter her cousin through her, OP dictatorial tendency also manifested in her friendship relationship with her female gender

OtemAtum:
Do you know what we call editing? Pastors used this a lot. They say something vaguely, then after something similar happened, they edit their videos, websites etc and people who checked later will think it was how they stated it initially. T.B Joshua(may his soul rest in unconsciousness) used this trick a lot in those days. Prophecy you don't get to hear or watch until after an event has happened. T.B Kwenu

For the last commenting on kindergarten.

Even the scoreline he predicted and several national daily carried it before match, you also edited that I guess.

Thou you are still a teenager with time you will understand philosophy of life

AsampeteNwaanyi:
lol make he win primaries first

seems Tinubu urchins paid for front page visibility

mr osewa cashing out of the bullion van with reckless abandon

I guess u re from inferior republic?

Yes but at reduced interest rate.

Anigreat:



When the guy eventually scale through this, anytime a girl tells him she's sleeping over, the can speed were im go take say "NO" will be faster than the speed of light.

Its only girl guy has done at least introduction that he is supposed to pass night in his house not even sick girlfriend.

Innocent? Sick girlfriend not in hospital but in ur house

They want to be students and husbands at same time, wen its time to marry ,they say they only want kid but not marriage. Let him face the consequence in full capacity.

Others would be panicking now, in fact many would not bother to come out again and would instead join the bandwagon in other not to be left out.

I trust my naija people!

Jack005:
No matter how a bad a market is, some useful idiots will still patronise it... This summit should not give Tinubu urchins hope.. I am for osibanjo anyway..woe to buhari Promax tinubu and his online miscreants.

Ur osibanjo that scare to come out, I guess ur osibanjo will win online and perhaps become ur president on nairaland

PrinceOfLagos:
Chei

TINUBU hasn't become president He's already breaking the law of campaigning for election even before the INEC approves of it

Tinubu is too desperate and I pity him because the outcome of 2023 general election result will be too heavy for his old self to bare

But u kept mute for yeye bello

OtemAtum:
Here is the POWER OF COINCIDENCE at play in football. If something like this happen in religion for just two consecutive times, they will establish it as the miracle, signs and wonders of their god.

Same scoreline in five consecutive games.

Game week 1
Chelsea 3-0 Palace
Liverpool 3-0 Norwich

Game week 2
Liverpool 2-0 Burnley
Chelsea 2-0 Arsenal

Game week 3
Liverpool 1-1 Chelsea

Game week 4
Chelsea 3-0 A.villa
Liverpool 3-0 Leeds

Game week 5
Liverpool 3-0 Palace
Chelsea 3-0 Tottenham

Take for example, rain was about to fall yesterday, a pastor or babalawo says, "this rain will not fall." Next day he said same and it happened so. Some gullible people will worship that pastor or babalawo forever, not remembering that same man later or earlier predicted 20 more and failed woefully. T.B Joshua rode on the luck of COINCIDENCE in his days.

Coincidences are natural, but the religionists will submit themselves to the agents involved forever.

Even when TB Joshua foretold that a bridge in Malaysia would collapse on Tuesday and two people would die, don't forget Joshua was in Nigeria and was saying it on Sunday preceding the event.

I will indulge u to go and watch several of his clip.

Whether you like it or not, whatever that is happening, has been happened in spiritual realm before been manifested physically, you should also know that God gives some people power to change and correct destinies.

I'm not writing my epistle cos of you oo, but for other who know and understand mystery of life and universe.

Bye.

LordIsaac:
"... anytime she leaves home...she usually doesn't exceed one day..." To where?

Abi oo, daughter she had not given out in marriage, would go out to spend night outside and wen she came back the second day, she would be the one to open door for and even cooked good food for her, .......I hope she would learn her lesson now.

She has learnt her lesson in most painful way. Just like a lady I warned severally to the point that I reported her to her mum but unto no avail, today, nobody knows where she is since November.

Rubbiish:
Hahahaha how old are?
U are already getting emotional lol
Your view about life is myopic, learn to always view life from two sides. I countered your post with facts & not insult, do same to mine. If life was that easy & predictable as painted in your post, we wouldn't have widows & widowers in our society. Look around u & face reality bro

Counter? If you say so, I repeat again , since you hope not to leave above 65 ,that is why you are not thinking of vacuum of wife at that critical time of period in life of a man, so let those who wish to leave long comment , everyone knows that no job in Nigeria today, doest that stop them not go schools? Its foolish like you that will abandon it just cos no job, going by ur analysis o, only a foolish will think he will die young and cos of that no need of married.

U talked about widow and widowers, the last time I checked, the children of widowers are finding every means to get wives for their aged dad, if you are not myopic, you will think in that direction that, why doing that even when they know dad doesn't need child again?

And for the maid, the vacuum of wife fill no maid in the universe than can effectively occupied it, you can confirm it by going to elders around u and not myopic reasoning from frustrated young adult.

Date a loving and culture lady you say no, when they frustrated you because of worldly physical structure you lure towards, you start blaming marriage for ur deliberate failure.


Byeeeeeeeeeee.

Col0gne:
Marriage and it's endless list of rules ehh. Fact is, not everyone is marryable or destined for this.

Everyone is destined for marriage, let him or her check his/her character and know how to reach compromise with his/her or partner, when they do that, it will work as magic.

You can not be leaving as "my, my,my" in situations of "we,we,our" and expect peace.

You cannot be treating ur partner like slave and expected royalty treated return.

I disagree with number 2, thou it can only work if both of you come from good family,