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Rubbiish:
See the way u paint life lol
As if every husband & wife will live to see 65
How many elderly are being taken care of by their spouse? There are likely chances at the age of 65, one of the spouse is likely to be gone. Even those aged men & women living with a partner got remarried at older age after losing their first partner! Most elderly in Nigeria are being taken care of by a maid hired by their children, or the child of a younger relative, not this thing u wrote up there. Reality is different bro!

Since its ur destiny not to see 65, I think the message is for those who will see beyond 65

.......thou by ur moniker, its waste of time comment on ur rubbish

Mercychen:
SUFFERING AND SMILING
not every married individual is really happy or fufilled in their marriage. Most are masking a huge pain with fake smiles but deep down, they're are sad.

YOU'RE STUCK!
Even when you're tired and want out, you can't for fear of what people would say or how society will view you. So, you're stuck to same thing person for life.

NO FREEDOM
Your steps are calculated.

Your moves are watched.

Your movement is restricted. You can't visit friends anyhow and stay as long as you wish or even sleep over at friends'.> Problem.

Your time is shared/sacrificed for others by compulsion most times., you don't get to have enough for yourself.


FINALLY, YOU LOSE YOURSELF!
You live for your family and spouse. YOU, now seldom come first and slowly you forget you exist....

I'm not married but I'm sorrounded by married folks and I see what has become of their life's. Sometimes, I try to remind them that they still exist in this marriage hence the need to wake up and take care of themselves.

Phew!

Is every single person that are happy? You as a case study! Are you happy with urself with situation you find urself at present? U answer within urself and ur conscience is there to tell you if u lie.

You as a single, did u get enough for urself now? Everything you desire to have, did u have it at present?

Because you are a single, you are now a vagabond abi, where u reach when nite fall you sleep abi? What a useless life!

Finally, the money married men or women are bringing to share for the family, are they not part of it? Is the nuclear family not his/her?

Even as single, is it normal not to share ur money to assist ur mum, dad, brother and sisters, even friend and needy?

My brother/sister, with ur write up, it shows how myopic are you , you are also embittered with situation of life, also frustrated and most frightening thing about you is that you are running away from ur shadow.
What you will do today, if you leave it for10 years, you will still do it unless you want to be like stagnant water.

........you are free to twist my comment o, or even bash but a word is enough for a wise......

GboyegaD:
Marriage follows the saying "proper preparation prevents poor performance". Defining what both partners want during the relationship, setting expectations and been truthful about one's weaknesses and strength, real talk on finance, family, friends, career, children etc are very important.

In my case, the only bitter experience I had was my wife's parents interference. They care too much about their children and were the type that wants to be sure you are doing good. They would call everyday and ask personal questions which I found disrespectful. This I had issues with while dating and she told me it will stop once she's married. By the second month, it was the only issue we had in our appraisal. She had to tell them I wasn't confidante with it and they have adjusted to a large extent.

She was able to tell them because we had discussed that extensively before marriage which she felt would stop but it wasn't seeming it would.

I would have asked you to be scheming ur wife out of plans wen doing thing in the family (eg
buying car, land, go for more study, planing to go abroad etc) )and whenever she asks you, you would tell her cos u don't want ur plan to get to his people before execution, so that it would not be able to reality and fulfillment, that would have pained her and forced her to readjust by force.

.........

Hathor5:
But why do you ask a question that is likely to give you negative answers?

Let him run away fro his shadow nah, in the evening everyone will understand how far, the number 1 reason for marriage is companionship when they get to 65 and above, wen it's difficult to marry and extreme difficult to start friendship with new friend, they will know advantages of marriage at all cost, no maid, friend or money can effectively replace wife in the life of a man.

,,............so many good ladies are outside there, they would leave them but running after curves at the end, they blame marriage institution, many guys married and treat wife like slave and expected to be treated like king.

Wen both parties learn how to reach compromise, marriages would start last longer than expected.

Às a gov from political rival ,he may say so, at least to placate the two side, that doesn't stop him to support Jagaban wen the chips are down, in the event of president leaving southwest makinde will quickly remember omoluwabi and make jagaban the best.

Ribadu was dropped at eleven hour
Ditto jegede pdp candidate of ondo dropped by mimiko sitting pdp gov and supported akreredolu APC man

Highways:
Aunty it's your life do what you want to do... Some ladies just want to have kids without a man to disturb them... Maybe she's one of them

Brother its ur life do what you want to do.....
As if several guys are not agitating to have kids and no wife, go to redpiller thread to comfirm

Several but among the popular.

Senate ( mono camera legislation to save cost).
Civil defense. ( police and other security will do it).
FRSC (vio can do it).
Neco (waec will do it).
Jamb ( each sch conducting admission already).
Nysc ( no unity, reason for establishment defeated).
SON ( Ndlea, custom, nafdac will do it).
Federal character (political head frustrated it and render it useless).
Icpc (efcc and police are ok)
ITF and tetfund, nuc, ubec, should be departments under ministry of education.

Others: servicom , nepad, bpe, etc

Highways:
Haba... It's not a sin to have two wives... Ask my brother's in the North.... Let her keep the baby.... Just focus on your gf for now... Trust me naija gf get their own surprise too

But if it's woman now, you guys will wail on this for 7 days circle.

Mummy G.O who has taken over head of panel that would judge those who are qualified to go to hell or heaven, yet foolish people are going there to take direction of their life.


My country people are most gaulible in universe.

Since Akeredolu declared Tinubu their Capone in southwest I knw Fayemi has dropped his presidential ambition, he is not strong enough politically outside southwest, he cant penetrate north and he knew his no longer enjoying backing of cabal, the best thing is to drop the ambition and back Tinubu if they don't want south west to be edged out, I hope Osinbanjo to drop his own too if bubu himself did not tell him to go for the election, all other pressure from other politicians will not lead him to anywhere but disgrace.

AlphaMale666:
I'm 30 years old now and frankly speaking, I know I'm never gonna get married!

Even my father sent me a Whatsapp message some weeks ago with a bold text saying "never get married my boy!" " you're my son, and I'll never lie to you". He's living a miserable life with the stupid witch he put in his house. But nobody forced him to get married! So he's getting the taste of his own medicine!

Even if he didn't tell me any of this, I already knew my destiny. I knew I was born to die single and nobody will take this wonderful single life away from me!

Why not remove your [b]testicle [/b]so that you won't have iota of feelings for female gender again? that would have been the best option.

I guess you are a in state of confusion or you lacked basic understanding of simplest of English grammar.

The very first I cross checked, Number 31:18.


Moses (not God) instructed them to keep Midianite virgins Israelites captured for themselves,............. Thus keeping for themselves mean formication with them? Capita NO.

Meanwhile, there are various voices in Bible and it will be foolishness on ur part to believe all the voices/instructions are of God.

.........Satan asked Jesus in the Bible to jump, did Jesus jump becos its voice from Bible? Do not forget Satan quoted psalm 91 that had been written long before Jesus was born.

........Aaron asked Israelite women in the absent of Moses that they should bring forth their earrings in other to use it to build idol for them to worship in which they compiled and Aaron also built the idol, will you now follow that cos its written in the Bible?

I will advice you to always give ur bible for who knows how to interpret Bible 100% correctly as it was done in the days of Philip. Not only that, you should also improve yourself in aspect of English language of "figurative & idiomatic expressions" they are largely used in Bible and I think its the basis of ur confusion.

NB. I stopped cross checking the rest.

Gee64:
The woman should just carry her luggage and disappear.

That's confirmation that she actually did it, I think she can't still deny since there is no evidence to back it up.

Not foolishness but understanding, in as much I hate it strongly for partner to result to physical abuse, but thre are some women who it take grace of God for man not to beat them.



For her to say she still love him, I think she know what's at stake and reason she wanted to continue with him

isaiah4life:
Too much of Nollywood movies is bad. Curtail it.

Go and re-read the bolded ,it was what happened in my area.

Meanwhile, when you grow up more than ur age you will definitely understand philosophy of life. By now just like ur age mate ,(my future is bright crew) this will not let you know and understand what people are passing through, but wen u get thr, you will look back and remember someone tell u this sometimes ago.

What is happening in the world is even worse than what I listed,. .......you see, some husbands sent there wives to do olosho just to feed family, the more look the less u see jare.

isaiah4life:
Very true. Men can have several flings but the heart knows where it belongs.

Men are logical beings. They are moved by what they see. It will take more than physical attributes to make a man to develop genuine love for you. When he does, he will keep to it but the man between those his legs needs constant refreshments.

On the other hand, women love what they hear and are fragile. Their loyalty changes swiftly. When it does, you are in her past. She might give you some sugar some times because of the way you man up to your manly responsibilities in the other room. Although If she's cheating, it over. It will take the intervention from the most high to talk her back into the marriage.

Some house wives cheat and still much in love with their husbands, in fact they cheat cos of conditions they found themselves which apparently overwhelming them,
*Maybe husband can't impregnate and she wanted to born
*Husband is in trouble and that's only condition to get him out
*Husband in financial messy and they need money to finance family etc.

Some wives might be forced to do any of aforementioned not because they dont love husbands, but cos of situations they found themselves.

I have seen a house wife that was engaging in extramarital relationship before, so,after sometimes her concubine called her for sex, she rejected absolutely, hinged her decision on lack of seriousness on part of her man to do job and bring money home,she said she and her kids were suffering whe she agreed for the guy in question, she said, wen the guy now came back to his senses and started working and bringing money home, she said , there is no reason and justification engaging in extramarital affairs again.

You guys should stop subjecting human being to natural sciences, its natural science that gives you same result in anywhere in the world, but for social sciences, behavior changes and not always same result.

l69l:
The Father wrote d letter

How did father know?

victooman:
guy l disagree with you, you people a times exaggerate things here. most girls in parties night clubs are not just whores but lack conscious,, extremely high body counts ,drunkards, rude and infected,,their level of exposure is something else,,use numbers to make assertions,, l repeat church girls are not saints but dont compare them with party girls, l have been with the two and l know what am talking about.

You dnt need to argue with lunatic, one thing you should know is that, people would always bring down what it perceived to be best/ or who have better chance, you ask urself if church girls are not worth it as he claimed, what stops him going to other avenue and married whoever he wants to married? Provided he is even capable in first instance.

If you see a guy complain about women all the time, watch out for such guys, they are not capable to stop girls and toast' let alone put her under his roof.

Redpiller crew over to you! Ur food don ready for table.

Irrespective of where you meet lady, her character would revealed after just 3 months, provided you urself is observant and not carried away by curve and good sex.

Meanwhile, if you tire of church girls, why not go to hook up websites and get ur wife material thr

Naija ladies only wnt the cash, any rigorous ways (legal or illegal) to cash is no go area for them.

Don't knw why people give nude and why people blackmail with nude, someone trust u and send nude, the next is to use the trust against her

Which mean Tinubu is a man to beat!

Bluezy13:
The question is directed to the feminine gender, even the content of the letter says so too.
In other words, I have nothing to say.
So once more...


Hmmm...

And if ur girlfriend lament for you and that she would not able to cope going out with u, due to her kid- parrot .

Mightymosco:
Oboy..ghana strait o

So many kids of 4, 5,6 ....get wisdom already to knw wen adults are going beyond boundaries. Though larger percentage always behave as they don't see anything

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...

Beat her? Scolds her, curse her? Etc.

If the writer of this letter is to be ur daughter for married and kid sister for single girl, what would be ur reaction when you read the content of the letter.

pman096:
To be honest Nigeria is a shit hole, I am not accusing anybody before the useless sycophants begin to quote me. People who have had a history with the EFCC and other whom we've clearly seen to have not performed shouldn't even be options.
I just sincerely hope that with what Nigerians have faced in the past seven years, they've realized with glaring evidences to vote a capable leader.

Hope won't be disappointed that none of them, I say none of them will come clean if EFCC gril them. Anyone of them that is not being implicated its cos efcc never open his account and on the ground of integrity

Spain007:
Killed by DRINK

poisoned by a FRIEND

Distracted by a WOMAN

By drink or poison?

mystery22:
Is normal for most women to enjoy their peak and when they clock 27-28upwards they staring looking for a fool to wife up their expired body...
The best a guy who wants to get married is to look for a young girl...

But some say its beta to wife" ladies that have seen all ,so that she won't look out wen finally married.

BlaqJosh:
No be lie bro,



back then there's this girl that was my classmates she dey Bleep any thing at her young age, she will even come to school and branch to a man house but now she don turn to love and motivational speaker for Facebook I just dey laughed at her any time she drop post.

As she married?

Allisgud:
Friend, reason is whether he drinks bear or mineral the friend has always want to kill him,whether he is looking at a woman backside or admiring a beautiful passing car

Did you kno if his friend wanted to kill him basically cos of what he might have done for him in the past cos of woman? Maybe he sleep with his friend girlfriend/wife and it's time to revenge.