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Odani:
Will that stop his friend from poisoning him? Guy there are many ways the friend can still poison him.
The friend is d culprit here not d woman or d drink

But man should learn how to be contended with his woman and not every ass , though, if you want to leave long ni o.

cescky:
Shut up evil man.

Its now a sin to look at a wonderful creature? God created us man and woman ro enjoy each other.

Asuming he went to pee, you would still poison him abi? Winch,

Evil will always look for exuses to do evil.

The Bible says a wicked man can't sleep till hes done evil, because its food to them

That Bible tells you if u lust for woman, u commit a sin and u re a sinner.

providencia:
You will tell that to the judge in court

Hope u know dead is gone for ever

Exkandayee:
Don jazzy is talking about girls weh get a no b broke ass girls, make una watch the video, most of you no get data to watch the video una come deh comment, he's referring to rich girl,they have money already so you have to get high wooing skills to get them, because money don't entice them again

Oga it's rich girl that don't even toast, they only want to see u as richer, the rest na history

airminem:
Useless afonja has influenced aboki and murder a 13years old wife to a mallam in kano.

Afonjaaa, they are now finding their way to kano to practice their trade(rituals)

RIP to the child

Third class citizens of sunset republic would surely die of heart attack of inferiority

BullyBullies:
Don't judge a book by its cover.

It's what it is.

Action and ur inaction come within sir!

Some do what's supposed to be private in public, anyway, character is like smoke, nobody can cover it , so they say in Yoruba land.

Unfortunately, several people didn't prepare for institution of marriage, but quickly condemn marriage instead of actors wen marriages crash.

I pray it won't end in 0:0 draw, they will sit back for entire 95 mins.

Degunners:
I just need someone to scold me badly, maybe it will help me get sense.

Seriously I can't just believe at my age I still do the things I do.

Right now I am in deep hole of debts from these loan apps. Can you imagine someone taking loans from more than 10 apps? Yes that someone is me.

Presently if I should add up all the loans it will be close or more than 500k. The annoying thing is this is like 3yrs now I have been struggling with these apps.

I once was able to clear all the loans but like a dog going back to it's vomit, I still went back to them (I seriously need delivarence).

Why I'm so ashamed of myself is because I didn't take these loans mostly because I don't have a good source of income but because I don't know how to save and I am very extravagantly wasteful. I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't.

Thought getting married will help but for where like I got worst after that.

I seriously don't know how to come out of this mess I dragged myself into. Because these loan apps will only give you 7days loan with very high interest. I have been servicing these loans throughout last year and I don't want to continue this year.

I have already spent more than 200k this month alone on interest alone because I have to borrow again to be able to pay others.

I'm owing the following apps:
1. Fastmoney 70k
2. Imoney 50k
3. Gocash 38k
4. 40k
5. Palm credit 70k and counting this is long over due.
6. Kuda 50k
7. Next credit 21k
8. Mint loan 35k
9. 9jacash 12k
10. Add money 9k
11. Ncash 9k
12. Ducredit 70k
13. Ajeloan 15k
14. Easy Naira 12k.
15. Cashsea 26k

I'm even scared to add the total but this my current reality. Virtually all are 7days loan.

I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.

I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.

I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.

I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.

I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.

I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.

I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.

Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.

What can I do please?

More reason they say if u married, doors will open, not necessarily that magic will happen but with wife and kids ,nobody will tell u not to spend extravagantly.

Biglittlelois:
If you are trying to insinuate that women are more than men in the world, step out of your sleeping coma and research for your own benefit and knowledge, MEN ARE MORE THAN WOMEN IN THE WORLD, so wipe off the delusion from your thought process and spread the info out to the likes of you who choose to wallow in continuous ignorance just to massage deflated ego

And yes, if all ladies gets married, there will be no single women lacking husbands, instead there will be men lacking wives according to world population,

So I support Op, ladies should ensure that they get married and have kids in a stable comfortable family life/settings.

Men are more than women according to window dress world population? I laugh in Swahili........ Abeg stop running away from ur shadow, it's great form of human deceit. Anyway, the day you will know the truth, its the day you shall set free!

TundeWX:
Answer is "what"
No question mark at the end,so it ain't a question but a statement.

Ok

Darlingme:
The aim of this post is not to make anyone feel bad though.

Hope u take cognisance of number of available guys vs ladies into consideration? ........you also went deeper by micro zoning guys that ready for marriage from available guys?

If u now insist that all ladies must get married, indirectly you are clamouring for so many ladies that would be single through out their life time without kids.

Which one is better, baby mama and seeing ur kids but no hubby OR pure single, no kid and no hubby?

Try not to solve "a problem" by creating more and bigger problems.

And wen will Liverpool do theirs for salah?

.uhm...................to consult widely?

Only the Wise will be able to read between the lines.

Don't give rotimi heart attack ooo

osuofia2:
Oboy Nigerian ladies have thrown morality to the dogs. No wonder a Naira lander here always pray to God never to give him female children. Just imagine wetin person pikin,Sister,Future wife de post for social media, all in the name of seeking validation

U avoided message but keep attacking messenger just like ur brother in lamentation thread.............. Back to the question, is it true or false?
If true, why wailing on accusation that is true?

Opeyemiextra:
Now that is a good and reasonable question to really think on. I hope that won't happen but in the event that it does, certain things will have to be discussed. Believe me though, that would never happen with me or to me. That you don't fully understand what you believe is the only reason you will just move on to another religion. Such a person would most likely manifest this trait in other aspects so...

I'm Very sure you are still below 30, from 30 above, most especially 35 upward you will understand clearer full philosophy of life.


I have seen man that changed from xtian to Muslim, xtian to herbalist, Muslim to Christian.

Let me tell you popular converts. Olusegun Mimiko was Muslim even as commissioner but he changed to full blown Christian , what of Adewale Ayuba? A Muslim devotee to the extent of being Baba Adinni, today, he is attending Redeemed.

At adult thre are certain steps you would take that you can never imaging find ursef in it when you are young.

Life seems to be rossy during teenage years.

Reap where u re not invested?

Kobojunkie:
You aren't making any sense abeg! I asked you a simple question. Where did God tell you that He only "has hand" in some marriages to begin with?

Your decision to end your marriage is strictly yours. Why pretend it has to do or be about God?

In ur own reasoning, can you say that marriage is of God? (Deception from beginning tail end) if its not of God would you continue in such marriage?

Bye I'm not here for blind argument with Deputy God pls.

Kobojunkie:
God tell you this one where?

Ok oooo, kill urself and died In extreme toxic and deception marriage ooo, when you get to the grave you shall know the truth.


Perhaps u think every marriage that God really has hand in it. Or u want to follow what ur G.O told u bomber to bomber.

Svp110:
My marriage is barely 2 months. I met her with a child she told me she was from a Muslim polygamous family, which her parents has forced her into a polygamous marriage to a older man with four wives and she was the fifth, she didn't like him but she had to stay wity him to make her parents happy but she ran away from him when she was converted into Christianity and she learned that polygamy was wrong and that was the reason she had relocated to my town city and she said she has no family because everybody has disowned her , I understood her pain but I pleaded her to go back to her parents and ask for their forgiveness which she went after few months and when she return she said her parents were expecting us we traveled to her village and everything went well , she took in for me I have accepted to honour her so I won't put her in trouble with her parents again. Our traditional marriage was 27th of November and she is due to give birth in few weeks, I was in my office when our pastor rang and said he has something important to tell me and I should come at the church premises and arriving at the church , I met my wife she was in tears and the pastor said we should first pray which we did after the prayer he said my wife has something important to tell me , her face was down she couldn't look at me in the eyes and it really baffled me I become scared thinking something bad has happened to the baby or the other child and when she drop the bombshell about her having 4 children I was speechless,  I lost balance and I couldn't even speak for 30 minutes and the only thing I told her if I don't want to see her near my place or else she will be in the mortuary me in prison. I have spent a lot for the wedding Unknowingly she was hiding such secrets from me , my heart is shattered and the pastor bought her back to my house asking me to forgive her, I asked him if he will forgive if she was his wife that did the same thing to her and he couldn't even answer my question but he kept telling me to forgive , I told both of them to get out of my face or I will commit a crime that will land me in prison. I am broken and I curse the day I met the daughter of jezebel. I will take custody of my child after he is born and I swear the daughter of jezebel will pay for all the pain she put me through.

Its not every marriage God has hand in it from very beginning, if one finds oneself in such marriage, the best thing is to let go of each other, I think ur own marriage is one of such.

ANIMASHAUN

Somebody weh e no go get money ,he no get even if he sleep and wake up where dey print dollars.

Consray:
I have been having this urge of having a baby for a very long time now.

Please guys how do you get over wanting a baby.

And I have been watching birth videos on YouTube alot now adays.

Ladies is there anytime you have ever felt that way or it just me....

I'm sure you are one of those several ladies who are ready, but "no ready" guy forthcoming, if you know age is not on ur side and u capable financially , I will advice you to get pregnant for next available guy/man that tries to "eat and run" make sure you know his siblings before you try that oo.

Opeyemiextra:
I, myself, won't even try it. I cannot with my hand package confusion for my children. There is already enough confusion in the world to contend with. Adding the complexities of different religions into marriage is not worth the risk except you are casual with it.

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And if the man you married in same faith/religion decides to change his faith several years after you have married him with many kids?

Sheriman:
Lori iro

You can go back and read full story on ur last comments and have edited and reposted it.

NB.
Work on ur libdo and and ur integrity bro.
If not,
Before you know, you will start sleeping with ur brother wife, staff wife even ur own daughter, it all started like this

Sheriman:
Sounds to good to be true. Such man who gives money or gift out willingly to non relatives without string attached never exit in Nigeria. They are very rare and hard to come by.

I pity u and I will advise you to go and change ur attitude mindset in giving generally.

Wen I give, (whoever) I don't expect any return, I mean any return.

Though, I don't have big money to give o, but the petty I gave in the past, several girls/ladies expected me to ask them out, which I didn't make any move, a woman I gave money for Xmas still came to my office today to "rethank and rethank" my good gesture. Yet ordinary her number I didn't ask.


You guys should stop behaving like he-goat, who must dig all holes.

Aidejay:
What will you do if a man gives you 400k naira?


I had an experience today, I saw some girls jubilating that a man gave one of them 400k naira just like that. As a gift for her to support her education. After hearing their story of grand luck and achievement I began to ponder, looking at the climate of things happening in Nigeria and around the world I want to know is it possible for a man to give a girl 400,000 naira just like that and not ask for anything in return, not even a glass of water?

According to the story these ladies were narrating the girl that got the money met the man at a bus stop where she was standing waiting for a car and he gave her a lift in his jeep to the saloon, she said during the drive they began to talk and he was impressed with the conversation and her intelligence so he decided to support her education. That was how he collected her account number and transferred 400k.

Now this story to me is pretty unbelievable, I have many questions. I didn’t ask them cause I was busy doing my work and overhearing their gist.

First question is that, is it possible for a man to give a lady 400k just like that and ask for nothing in return? In fact, lacing the giveaway with advice on how she should focus on her education and not let men destroy her life. Is it possible that in this climate of rituals, fraud, crime and prostitution a man can give a lady 400k like that and not even think twice about it?

To me ooh! If it was my sister or relation, I would have insisted that the man come to our house in front of the whole family and give her the money. Why would a lady simply accept that kind of thing? and not even say come let me show my father and mother who gave me this money. Cause in the old days if strangers gave us money, we take the money plus the stranger to our parents. We show them everything. But it looks like nowadays this has become a normal Monday morning event.

I just held my mouth let it not be like I am insulting them or abusing this "favour from God" that they have received from a kind stranger.

I believe if anybody wants to give anybody money be it a boy or girl, man or woman. From the bottom of their hearts then they should take it to the person's house at the front of the family and friends and present it.

Somethings sound too good to be true.

God make me to give more than that oooo


If I see any lady ,I repeat any lady with genuine intention to advance her life and not material things, I will give more than that If I am rich enough to do that.

KJtemi:
We had a little fight and we reconciled but few days later I saw with one guy who she previously claimed there was nothing between them but I decided not to confront her
She started acting somehow but I tried to get things resolved but since she was obviously not interested in that I decided to put her in the past,deleted her number and we just stopped communicating although we didn’t officially end things it was obviously over
Although I was warned by a friend of hers who I knew before her but I wrote it off as jealousy since kinda had history
To show how unstable she is she has been with 3 other guys within 2 months after our breakup ..including a not so close friend of mine who she later left for the guy she left me for
Heard she’s with someone else now and I won’t be shocked when next I hear about her that they ended things long ago

Such girl, run as fast as possible from them wen you plan to settle down, body count is nothing for them even after married, if such has disagreement with her hubby, she would be looking for a guy to comfort her at that particular movement. Animashaun crew.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
As far as he ain't a wannabe redpiller..
Or women basher..
Love..love love.. respect..

So redpiler no deserve woman? Dnt let them bark u ooo

I pity foolish who will key in into ur post most especially on marriage