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Merlissa:
The boyfriend must be extra special because I am not just understanding

"Dem say some dudes sabi fucck", and that such lady will do everything to remember him for life......is it true?

27Pushing30:
smh... ignorance at its peak

Learn how to use goggles correctly instead of 'feign' in wisdom, .......go and do research on stock exchange technical term"trading curb" and reason for it..... You can also goggle event of New York stock exchange of Oct 19 1987.


I know you would still come out to argue blindly o.

By doing that you keep embarrassing ur personality on public forum.

27Pushing30:
Are you even financially literate? Y’all just read news and rather than ask those who understand stock markets and why Russia won’t open trade windows and why those stocks are crashing you’re here capping?

The reality of all this events will soon dawn on the west ... blackmail never works

Keep on intoxicate on self deceit. U knw truth but choose to deceive urself for self consolation.

......stock markets do close abruptly if they know that market and economy become fragile, SS 3 commercial students who vast with their education know this.

Oga face it o, one of the reasons they called u responsible man be that o.

So many things would die a natural death if we choose not to pay attention into it/ behave as if it doesn't exist, but here in naija, we pay attention and fight in all circumstances, even the ones that are not directed at us.

No wonder a naija man called us lazy youth.

Putin think he can fight USA indirectly.

He shall go down even before the fight starts


China that is second cool herself and not intoxicated pig.

Super story , just to hit front page


Naija parent often reject marriage base on religion and ethnic difference or spiritual reason

All the one you mentioned , no one is genuine

Which parent will say his daughter is not yet ripe for marriage at 26?

Go back and re write ur script.

OpenSprite:
Hey NLs!!!

I read something on the front page just now about a guy having issues in his relationship due to his GF unwilling to post his pictures on her whatsapp status without reason. This makes me wonder why some women or men are like this gansef.

this happened to me some years back, i had a GF(21yrs), we both loved each other and i had even gone to her house to meet her parents, siblings and they all knew my intention. I was 29 at that time and i reside outside the country. The plan was to settle with her right after finishing her school and everything was fine with our plans. I used to post her pictures alot on my status and she used to be very happy about it, she would even request that i post her photos anything she sends me new photos.

At a point, i questioned why she has never posted me on her whatsapp status (though i dont even like that idea) but at least i was expecting her to post, then i can caution her not to post my pictures that much. Imagine, she told me ladies do not post who they are dating, she said it is the duty of man to post a lady he is dating. i felt haaa, what is this this is a lady that posts his male friends on her status, she posts pictures, videos, even video call screenshot.

i had to call her attention that it is inappropriate to be posting a screenshot of your video call with a male friend on your status. what kind of message are you sending across to me she adjusted on that, but i was cool with pic or video of her male friends.

As a gentleman, i explained so many things to her on phone, i told her if you are always happy whenever i post your photo, dont you think i will be happy whenever you post me as well? As a direct man, i told the ultimate reason i know why ladies do this habit is that they dont want people to know him so that if Bleep up comes, its as if he was a ghost before, nobody will ask about him(she declined). she said as far as she knows, it is my duty to post hjer and not hers to post me. so i just decided to stop posting as well.

at a point, she told me she likes morning love messages and i should be sending her. i just smiled and i started doing that. o boy there was a day i forgot to and she confronted me why didnt send. i got angry and asked her if she has ever sent me any love message before(she told it is the duty of man to send his Gf love message), then i was begining to finalize my thought about her "entitlement mentality" I told her i would stop the love message henceforth because if something makes you happy and you cannot reciprocate it, then Bleep it.

we used to have issues too about being romantic, i had to be one to bring romantic stuff everytime (she used to respond well). i confronted her a point, she told me she does not know how to start romantic topic, well i was like small small she will change. for almost 8months, no changes, we used to fight alot on this. i was like i no de naija, how can we be chatting how are you? how was work? what did you eat eveyday, i told her i was getting bored of that(just to make her up her game) but na lie.

i was begining to tell myself it seems we are not compatible. I called her and explained to her for the last time about all the issues we are having. I told her i am open to communication and its good we know the source of issues we are having and we should try and rectify things, we shha settle it and we laughed over the issue, but i promised one thing that if we have any issues again related to the usual ones, then i would take a hard decison. After 4weeks, it came up again, i texted her that i will not accept that kind of attitude, we are just bf and gf, if we are having issues despite knowing the source of it and its difficult for you to change, being a husband and wife will be troublesome. i told her better we call it off (honestly did that to situp again), but she replied me with okay. next thing she blocked me on my whatsapp, the following day i sent an apology message using my second whatsapp, she read and blocked that one too, she went to facebook and blocked me from there too. I just smiled that with all these attitude, i cannot marry such a lady because i get strong head, but i will try and be patient to the last, once my head turns, there is no stopping for me.

i waited for her to unblock for 2 weeks, she didnt, then my concluded i cannot marry someone like this. may be she was waiting for me to start calling and beg. after 3weeks, she unblocked my whatsapp, uploading my sister's photo on her status, view by status each time, but me i no send again. i didnt message her, then on her birthday, i greeted her usually, asked for my money back. I gave her some cash to run a business alongside her schooling and i loaned her some later to expand the business. i told her i would get the loaned cash back. we had plans to set a business later up that i would be getting 20%, she gets 50% and her mum gets 30%. on her birthday, i shha requested for cash i loaned her to be returned when its due(the month i told her i would get the cash back). she got angry that i should have even greeted her.i just smiled. the month came and i got my cash back. her dad used to call and i will answer him not nothing happened.

the koko of it is that

if your gf decides not to upload you, no big deal is there, she might have reasons which might be valid ones, but if she expects you to upload her photos, and she cannot do it in return... Bleep that

Oga it has only two reasons

1.She is not into you yet .

2.She has another guy or guys. (That is, her WELL is a joint venture.)


any other reasons are flimsy and to make u as mumu.


.......hope you understand me OK.

At last he will rest and people around him too will rest

DKM123:
People said they saw him placing the corpse in the car and had reported to the police, yet nairalander think it's IMPOSSIBLE for a NIGERIAN MAN to have a side chic and be violent to a woman leading to her death. I mean we are talking about a NIGERIAN MAN here. This is as common as oxygen but they think it's staged and didn't happen.

UNA DEY MENT!

May his soul rest in hell...

Did u need to reply nairalanders? Majority think south when the real is north .
They stay inside room dissecting situations in their myopic way of reasoning

They will have wife at home yet they will be telegizing" side chick up and down from dating other guys

.......and on many occasions not that they ready to married the girl as second wife o.

Kobojunkie:
Reread my response to you cause the one who is confused here is clearly you.
This is the post I responded to...

1. Must a guy date all women he has feelings for?

2. So if a guy gives greenlight and such a girl can't decode. It's also enough red flag that he is crushing on immature or girl that won't return the love he has for her, hence she would take him for cheap?

Does the above make sense to you? I ask because neither did your assertion make sense to me.

Leave it for those who can reason properly and logically OK.

Kobojunkie:
1. Must a guy date all women he has feelings for?

2. So if a guy gives greenlight and such a girl can't decode. It's also enough red flag that he is crushing on immature or girl that won't return the love he has for her, hence she would take him for cheap?

Does the above make sense to you? I ask because neither did your assertion make sense to me.

Go back and read ur past comment on my post
why won't u confuse?

Emmawhite91:
and you think that its all guys that understand green light. And in the aspect of the elderly and pastors 95% will take you as someone that is possesed with the spirit of seduction.

Must ladies date all guys they have feelings for?

Did u always date? Even ask all ur girls u have crush for out?

If she gives greenlight and such guy can't decode ,its enough of red flag that she is crushing on immature or guy that won't return the love she has for him, hence he would take her for cheap.

Kobojunkie:
You feel that way because you have been conditioned to reasoning as such.

Try to understand how what the other poster said has absolutely nothing to do with western culture which you seem afraid of.
Those emotions these women have aren't western... they are of nature itself. And tagging them slots when they express these feelings while it is ok for men to express openly their own feelings is nothing but the same old misogynistic culture that is Nigeria. Are you seriously here to argue that we continue that wickedness even in the year 2022?

Must I "kow tow" what other posters saying or belief? Hope u also read it from other posters that, guys often take such girls for cheap?

Did u ever reason why guys taking such ladies for slut?

They are taking her for cheap because that was and is' our culture. U shouldn't folo folo oyinbo culture jare.

PencilBox:
I'm not a lover of war. But, where was the world when Israel was bombing Gaza and other nations?

When America was crippling Iran, where was the world?

So Russia is the first?

The world was inside ur skull.

PencilBox:
I'm not a lover of war. But, where was the world when Israel was bombing Gaza and other nations?

When America was crippling Iran, where was the world?

So Russia is the first?

The world in inside ur skull.

Yes or Yes?

MufasaLion:
They'd rather die than accept polygamy. It's just a natural instinct.

Hope u will take it with joyful heart, for ur wife to pass one night on Dangote bed with amazing rough sex and make u rich the second day.
(Dnt forget not that Dangote wants to be dating her or make her second wife o)

Emmawhite91:
Yeah you re absolutely right about the ladies hiding feelings cause majority of naija guys look down on ladies that expressed themselves openly,they see them as cheap and that has made most guys lost the ideal partner they need. Those ladies that have feelings but cant expressed it out cause they dont want to be seen as cheap slut or whatever. I tell you bro,they understand you better than any other girl out there.

Why not preserving our culture, it's uncultured for us in africa,most especially yoruba to ask a guy out, we shouldn't follow follow all western culture all in the name of modernisation. All guy that girl like she can express her feelings through green light or through her pastor or elderly one in case of marriage.

To me , going to ask man out directly is cheap ooo

ubunja:
You who says things like these??


You're the one who'll presume to sit on your ass and judge the red pill? Please......

U can proof me wrong by telling me how u are exchanging ideas about ur own future instead of women matters day in, day out.

Show the whole world pls.

ceaser:
Story.

As if the Russians will be deterred by this. If apple refuses to sell to the consumers, it's apple that experiences drop in sales while the consumers will make do with alternatives that are very much available from China and even Russia itself.

That's how foolish people think in the jungle. You have been addicted to persecution in ur own shithole.

DoggoneDogg:
Who is losing? Apple.

You think so? Thou not surprised, in ur own country u dnt mind using 19 skulls to be rich, wen they ask u, you say u re not loosing nah.

Bunch of satanists.

Frenzy01:
Fool.. She should cut off her mother cos of a man that can broke her heart to pieces tomorrow.. Who would she run to.. Who would be there for her. Perhaps she gets sick or gives birth.. Who would come and take care of her.. Nairaland is just full of kids this days

Did u need to answer foolish people who are gather on faceless forum? He didn't even advice to go and convince mother in law, but to start marriage on a shaky foundation. I can say it confidently that girls from christian background often reluctant to practice Islam wen they get married to a Muslim and many occasions it usually bring crack to the marriage most especially if the husband is a rigid Muslim.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
She own her life..let her make her decisions by cutting her mother off ASAP..
Religion shouldn't be an issue when it comes to marriage..I fail to see why most human can't reason beyond that...she has no right whatsoever to tell her daughter what to do with her life at her age...
Go for your compatability...It is all what matters the most...the mother can keep crying as much as she wants.. that's her problem she should deal with it...
Modified:I am disgusted by most of the comment I see here..why the insults against the Muslim faith tho..
Why can't human put Religion aside and think logically..

Religions shouldn't be an issue? Let her cut her mother? In fact , if you guys walk with ur heads I don't know. You said they should go for compatibility and yet religion is not an issue.

If the marriage crashes after few months of wedding now, people like you would be the first to condemn marriage institution.
.......marriage na scam screw.....

Junnior:
A million Likes

Some confusing ideas have been flying around lately. The most misleading being that what makes a man Alpha is how well he can fvck a girl that chooses him. This kinda mentality only makes the man her sex slave. So, now, just to keep her coming for more, he has to do a lot including sucking her VJ, eating her anus and probably giving a performance worthy of the pórn version of an Oscar. Are you kidding me?
I like the example you gave. Those men of old who were alphas did not give a sh1t about satisfying their women's sexual fantasies. They just fvcked them for their own personal satisfaction without caring whether the women were satisfied or not.

The mindset is really important. If you're fvcking her to impress her, you've lost. That, in fact, contradicts the red pill -- putting yourself first. Fvck for your own satisfaction and your own alone. Don't go out of your way to do things you don't like during sex just to impress her in order to be her alpha. That's compromising your standards. That's beta.

Being alpha stems completely from the mindset of not giving a fvck. Whether she's satisfied or not is not your business.

The only time a man should give a sh1t about being extremely good is when he is working on his purpose, not when he is knacking a shawtie.

If you are a man with little sexual prowess, by all means, try to improve, but for yourself. Don't kill yourself trying to satisfy somebody's daughter. I've lost count of the amount of men who have died on pvssy while fvcking to impress the girl.

For instance, if you have a small d1ck, doing all sorts of sexual acts to complement it will not make you her alpha. It will make you her sex slave. What would make you her alpha is fvcking her how you see fit without unnecessary stress.

In conclusion, if she lets you fvck however you want, regardless of whether she is satisfied or not, and without billing you, you are a true alpha to her.

The bitter truth is this is difficult to attain. And only a few men will ever be in this position.

Thank you.

People that are here, have lost it out even before they started journey of life.

They don't prepare how their future would be glorious by exchange ideas and experiences, but fighting tooth and nail every second on woman matters. They keep bragging of being opposite of feminist.
what an illusion for frustrated ladies (feminists) and gentlemen(redpillers.)

Any guy most especially 28yrs upward who chases every women for sex, is gradually becoming he-goat.

The journey of sleeping with his relative and end it with his own biological daughters just started.
A word is enough for a wise!

I like how these hungry girls are dealing with all these good for nothing sugar daddies, they would steal money in the office, just 2k they won't spare it to give their subordinates that are working hard for them to get the money but prefare to spend it heavily on "public dog" who sleeps days and nights but only looking for men in other to survive.

Gadafii:
One time my friend always brags about how he wins lots of money thru online betting.

Something he stakes as much as 20k and win around 50k altogether on 5 different games, that sounds like free money right.

He told me he will be helping me to predict games, send the codes to me and I can play that too, he set up an account for me, I funded it, I told my self either I win or loose, once the money in that account is exhausted, that's the end.

Unfortunately for me I didn't win games much and the money finished, I abandoned the account, exited the telegram group and days later I deleted the profile.


I am glad I didn't get dragged into that mess, it could have been working for my friend, but naah, I am not cut out to be playing bet.


So young man, rest in peace, I am sure you have won couple of times and you felt good, unfortunately bet will give you cap and collect your head

Hope u read his own situation very well before you embarked on shalaye?

............I guess u knw that he died as result of scam and not betting per see.

The person that hacked his betting account can as well defraud him by his bank account.

Thre is no feminist or piller but frustrated ladies and gentlemen!

Dangerous adventures most especially for ladies

Though super story, but its a lesson for ladies out there who do farawell sex with exes
Exes are more of harm in ur marriages than good.

Women are far more of victim of sex in relationship than men.

........according to this figment of imagination, the lady's marriage crumbled already but thre is high tendency for the guy's intending marriage to wither the storm and continue.

JohnSP99:
what part of the report did you miss that says he's a close friend of Putin. answer me o, Omo I just tire for nairaland, seems it's babies that are here

If u are not a baby you won't put Putin problems on abramovick, for someone to be close to person doesn't give u guaranteed to sanction him for wrong step that the main culprit took.

Going by ur logic. All Evans or kyari close friends who cannot be link to their crimes should be arrested and persecuted

You guy should think critically and logically for once and not only on emotions.

Emotions have completely blindfolded and destroyed ur logical reasoning.

Bye.