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obi4eze:


This one well so?

You haven't compared Kane to Aguero but to CR7.

Kane is good on his level but no where near CR7.

Even as at the moment?


Oga u better wake up from ur dream.

That old man is a pensioner .

Man u needs his influence and not necessarily his skill this time around, his time has passed him.

MufasaLion:
Dude, you don't know me. So shut up and keep your shit together.

Not need to kno you boy, I repeat what comes out of ur mouth and every other humans say exactly who he or she is.


Infact, Jesus said it several years ago, what defiles a man is what comes out from his mouth and not what goes in.

leofab:
I wish to be a dictator of Africa… a lot of nonsense need to be addressed.!

If dictator rules, you too wont be spare, the person in ur profile would be sanctioned too

MufasaLion:
Lol

You are very wrong!

I've met ladies like her that are veey cool and fun but that doesn't make them cheap! Most ladies that act holier than thou are the worst.

Oga, what comes out from ur mouth, (joke ,anger, normal conversation) determines the exact who you are.

EmptyGarden:
Just wondering what her previous occupation was?

And u think any of them have tangible job?


Every girl you see there, na confirm olosho, openly or coded

Onelove508:
The grammatical error is one, thus, it doesn't matter the number of times or days he has been hearing it.

Oga Prof, go back to genesis of our conversations and update urself please.

Meanwhile, the person committed it accepted.

purples25:
Men will feed you rubbish and you're not allowed to protest. If you dare slip and cry out for once, if you disrespect them for once, you're done. You're going to be condemned and kicked out of the door. It's like you're not expected to be a human being. The way they behave, it's like they don't see the pain that their actions cause. The woman should just be cool with it all the time. That is the condition for keeping the man.

If her life is destroyed as a result of just accepting what the man does and wants from her, she is still the scapegoat. She is still the cause.

Men have low tolerance and love themselves. But they expect women to take a lot of what they cannot bear.

If Annie was the one with different kids from different men, I doubt that people would even let 2baba marry her, let alone endure for years like she has. This conversation wouldn't exist. Guys would be clamouring for him to leave her.

As long you dnt believe in culture and sensitive way women are made up, my sister you are doing urself injustice and u still not wake up to face reality.

Do you also question why God use hype to cover private part of girl during child birth but make man open?

GreenArrow1:
Lol. Why you carry am for head? The person I quoted has taken correction and shown his appreciation. He wouldn't make that mistake again in his life. Something new has been learnt. Why e pain you? Relax. It's not that serious.

You too take corrections and show appreciations for me.

GreenArrow1:
Debatable: Emphasis is on a particular grammatical error.

On particular grammatical error?

Why cant you open log of wood in your eyes before removing speck from someone's eyes?

let me go deeper and correct rubbish you wrote earlier,........ I don't just quite understand

How does it sound in your ear?

l just don't quite understand

GreenArrow1:
See ehn, it's very wrong to say "... a man to know how to control her woman."

The right thing to say is, "his woman."

I hear and read this grammatical error a lot these days and I don't just quite understand how people come about it.
Correct this please.

....I hear and read "these" grammatical (errors) a lot these days.....

Correction: you have been hearing and reading so many grammatical errors and not just one error for many days

GreenArrow1:
See ehn, it's very wrong to say "... a man to know how to control her woman."

The right thing to say is, "his woman."

I hear and read this grammatical error a lot these days and I don't just quite understand how people come about it.
Correct this please.

And you think people write on Nairaland to win award on literature?

I guess you just finished WAEC, so, learning to speak good grammar is still hot in your body.

princewarri1985:
What Annie idibia just did now is called going back to your volmit. What was she thinking publicly fighting 2face idibia family, the problem now is how would she be able to undo what she has already done because the internet dont forget

She was lambasted far more than 2face on social media and i biliv even in real life, for her own brother to disown her publicly? Imaging "amount of condernmation she would have received .

Woman will take some steps to dominate and fence you off from ur people and friends, its left for husband to accept or to reject.



One man said sometime ago....when his mother aged, he moved her into his own house, immediately mother entered, fight started everyday the man said, when he completely fed up he wanted to send the wife parking and she started begging , b4 he took her apology, they made written undertaking about peace and safe of his mother.

The man said, since that day til his mother passed on, thre was absolute peace in his house.

Lesson learnt, ......it was the wife and not mother in law that was causing infightings, thinking she completely owns the husband and that mother shouldnt move into his son's house even at old age.

raphy:
See this one na you de sniff drugs na see aht u are typing when u will make it clear u are a legit hustle .any way no take offence from my first mentione na mistake mnd u am not a drug pusher like that guy up there from the....

My ppl knw the rest...

Listening attentively in the class you say no

Check ur write up, compare it with mine and tell me who is on drug.

Though urchins like you dnt deserve reply.

raphy:
You be Yahoo boy make u knw go hustle legit
By there write-up we shall knw them

FBI HÀS started monitoring you as from today ..stay there they will come your house soon.

If you say soooooooo

My corridor open to anybody ,i mean anybody, including you to verify.

I pray you wont die of heart attack oooo , why? Since u are taking drugs for someone headache, it will get to a point, the drug would compounded and bust in ur body system.

Lagos would be hot cake for efcc officials too, they will arrest 5 for government, rush to the media to get applaud and also arrest 7 for themselves and share recovered proceeds among themselves.

Martinez39s:
This might sound unbelievable, but I have seen this happen before. A guy built a good bungalow for his girlfriend in her name, but he didn't have a house to his name.

Hope u also heard, if you never see, guy pretended he wanted to marry a lady, the lady sold his land and gave it to the man to travel abroad, having gone to oversees ,thats end of relationship.

2. Some women believe and trust their man, they give them money for their own building project to supervise on their behalf, before you know ,the guy manipulated, and changed it to his own name ( house).

Nuttella:
I feel for Tonto Dikeh. Her heart just be broken into pieces. Its not easy. Iight and love I send to you dear.

Enermy within can never ever make ur friend stay in husband house my sister, tell her to work first on that.

Kaduna1stson:
The whole planes in Nigeria should load all lagosians to go to London and salute their main oppressor in London

It pain you? Abi you dey jelousy??

Romanoff:
There's nothing wrong with being a "me and my husband woman". The marriage is between two people, not a community.

However, wisdom is needed to deal with family so they don't intrude or exert themselves on your union.

Nothing wrong for u abi, but it wrong for tuface.

Why can she leaves tuface house nah

What stop her to make her own money and stingy with it?

Romanoff:
I didn't see anywhere in her rant that she's fighting his other children. The way I understood her rant, she is defending the children. She only seemed to be against her husband sharing a roof with the woman he has kids with, and I believe she's within her right to be against it.

I am commenting based on the post and relating it with my experiences.

How is that wrong?

Several of her post on her Instagram handle. Update urself on it, you will under the type of wife she is

I hardly support man wenever issue of marriage problem crop up and still not supporting tuface on this too, but this woman with kind of posts since the issue came out show, she is type of me and my husband.

Romanoff:
Them plenty like that. Once one sibling is successful, the rest will become a leech to the successful person.

In most cases, the successful person will try to establish his siblings, to no avail.

They just want to keep taking and taking and once the person no get again or e die, they will abandoned him and his family.

See, I done see things for this life.

As for the brother that denied his sister, check well, he is probably also a leech

If they bcom leech is it the right of wife to start fighting everybody, even to the extent of other children his husband has with other women?

Go and read about Tuface and his wife, comment on that and not on experience that happens to u.

Better to comment on post rather than bringing ur ugly experience to the post.

Meanwhile, wen God raise ur hands, its ur duty to help others.

Romanoff:
Umbrella for the rest of his life?

My dad set up his two brothers on several occasions.

He brought one to Abuja, rented a shop for him for two years in UTC, Abuja, also rented an apartment for him for two years so he could stand on his own.

This uncle of mine would sit in the house and wouldn't do anything till the rents expired. My dad's still gave him money for another shop, he squandered it.

When my dad died, as he was crying this man was saying "his life was over, how will he survive"?

There's a limit to what you can do for who no wan useful to himself.

Hope you know ur own case is different from whats happening in tuface

A wife that his own blood brother disown wen having issue with her husband says alot about such wife


Try to follow every posts of those concerned on this issue and conclude logically

Romanoff:
Don't worry, experience go teach you say marriage no be like that.

Talking to man with many years of experience in marriage.

Talking to person who teaches adults about marriage institution

Revelation4:
Yet her husband's brother is living under their roof

You think so? But if wife bring her sister to her husband house, that one is normal abi?

Romanoff:
There is nothing wrong with being "me and my husband type" to a family who doesn't like you.
How long will you keep forcing relationship with people wey no like you?

So u leave the husband and back to ur father house

Reap where you never sow

Romanoff:
Can't his brothers stand on their own?
Abi na him born them?

How long will he need to keep supporting able bodied men?

Let me tell you something, I cut my sisters off financially cause after finishing school, they became relaxed. They refused to learn a skill to find something to do cause at the end of the month, money go enter their account.

I knew long term, I couldn't sustain that nonsense so I read them the riot act.

If God design husband to be unbrella for his people and a self wife wants stop him.

Meanwhile, who told you brother is not standing on his own

Romanoff:
Is it not spos to be " me and my husband" when you're married?

What you do for family or friends should be discussed no matter whose purse it is coming from.

That's how a strong marriage is built. The man has 7 children, if the woman sees his spending is depleting his funds and reminding him that he has 7 kids, is she wrong?

I guess u also read that idibia brother has also disown her. That tells you the type of wife she is

I repeat ,she is "me and my husband type".

Romanoff:
Is it not spos to be " me and my husband" when you're married?

What you do for family or friends should be discussed no matter whose purse it is coming from.

That's how a strong marriage is built. The man has 7 children, if the woman sees his spending is depleting his funds and reminding him that he has 7 kids, is she wrong?

Money is depleting? And remind him for cos of his brother and even not to spend for his own kids from another mother, but she refuses to remind him from his money that is going from him to her own family members.

Romanoff:
That's probably not how it is. The man has 7 children and brother who are entitled to his money.

Did his success stop them from making something out of their life?

Is the man who owns the money complaining?

Think of a woman who is also bitter about another baby mama who born for his husband and in which she had knowledge of their relationship, say alot about her.

She complained about co-wife, step son, brother in law and mother in law.

Thats definitely trait of ....me and my husband in woman

Thats more reason we need resources control.
With that, region will be less concerned about who heads the federal government, but put more attention on one of their own who leads regional or state government, to whom the resources of the region or state are entrusted in his care.

That will not only bring cohession but competition among the federating states and by extension Nigeria.

Romanoff:
The word i used is "More right".

And i added not absolute right.

If you as a wife you know you dnt have absolute right on husband, you must know that you cant dictate how and who he will spend his money for.

Many atimes, family members did so many sacrifice for one of their members to succeed in life, and in which the wife will never know.

Wife met him after husband successful, and yet she wants him to concentrate all his energy and money on him, claiming im legal wife.

Legal wife my foot.