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ProphetJeroboam:
Who is conversant with the whole Benjamin Mendy story? I heard some chick he hooked up with turned around and is suing him for rape. There’s even video of them having sex in the shower and she was all giggly and didn’t seem forced in the slightest.

There is a thin line between rape and consentual sex.

If you deliberately drug woman with intention of have weird sex with her, it's rape, if you have sexed a lady 100 times before, you can still accuse of raping her, if she is not consented the next time you meet.

Oga, many of these super stars and celebrities are forcing woman for all kinds of sex ....in the name of my fetish with woman...

Hope u know forcing in legal term is another word for t rape!

TONYE001:
Just a while ago, I read in dismay the thread about virginity on the Front Page.

I wouldn't go into the flawed arguments of the original poster and his supporters. Whether virginity is a prerequisite for a successful home or not should be left to spouses to decide for themselves.

The purpose of this thread is to attack the trend of applying virginity to only the female gender. The original poster and dozens of other responders talked about virginity with reference to the female gender only. The question then is, what about the males? Are males now permitted by religion, or morality, to engage in illicit sexual activities? Why do we always think of ladies each time virginity is mentioned? Why is there little or no emphasis on male virginity?

No matter how you want to look at it, a non-virgin male is exposed to the same factors as sexually exposed females. In terms of religion, the Bible frowns at premarital sex whether the individual is male or female. In terms of health, STD's and their complications apply to both males and females. In terms of fertility, male and female factor infertility may arise from high risk sexual exposures.

Our society is weird. Overtime, we have managed to tilt the standards against females. We hold them responsible when they bear female children only. We hold them responsible when the home fails. Now we are implying that they should remain virgins while the males are allowed to do as they please.

Maybe we should go back to the drawing board and begin to teach our children (males and females) the values of staying away from illicit sex and other high-risk habits. Maybe we should begin to tell ourselves that the laws of nature, and religion, apply to both males and females. It is cowardice to push blames to the females while keeping the male image aside. My point is, for a successful family, MALE and female factors are equally important.

Good evening.

My naija fellow men that full of hypocrisy.

They want to eat their cake and same time hold it.

75% if not not 90, of wayward girls/ladies today, came out good during their upbringing, it was guys who introduced sexual weird and different immoral lifestyles that made them go gaga. Yet guys that he himself with uncountable body counts will be searching for clean and classic virgin. Who does that?

Uncountable girls you have *disvirgined, I guess it's ur children and great children would line up to be their husbands.


You will see some guys that introduced girlfriend to all kinds of drinks and going to night clubs,...... they say when girl high, they fucckk like dog, .....yet he wants chastised house wife.

Who will now marry dog?

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

Not a stupid statement but consolation statement.

LieDetector:
I honestly feel for the husband. E sure me say baba Wan use this opportunity gain popularity then dump her sorry ass. If he does that then he's a real nigga.

Negative popularity? Fame that come with heavy mockery? Over my dead body. Tufiaka.

Praxis758:
Hmmm........

Presidential zoning is now a game of chess for both APC and PDP.

A Jonathan candidate for PDP in the presidential race will openly deflate the voting basket of APC in the south because the excuses such as blame game, corruption etc won't be bought by the people.

Moreso, Buhari's nepotism, fanatism, racism and incompetence has opened people's eye to the fact APC cannot manage our diversity.

Tinubu's candidacy from the south under APC will only sell in the core north, provided PDP picked a weak norther Muslim. A strong running mate for PDP from the core north will give APC a big headache and running for their money.

Imagine someone like Kwakwanso or Sule Lamido serving as a running mate to a southern PDP hopeful, such a presidential election tense and interesting.

APC should forget their 'blame game' strategy because Nigerians are now wiser than 2015 and 2019.

Of a truth, Jonathan is a child of destiny. Lately he becomes a bride being sort for by two strongest fiances in naija political parties.

Southernigbo:
I wonder how some ppl worship God o. How can a man penetrate a runs girl on sunday early in the morning and still be going to church, clutching his bible, some won't even take a full bath. Isnt that too bad. And come to think of it, some of these guys even give head to these runs girls and then go to church to sing praises.

Why telling lies and still going to church?

chatinent:
I am not sure this thing is ordinary anymore. There's more to this incestuous act! It is more kanayo-o-kanayo than it seems.

Social media makes it looks like that, so many unthinkable are going on in the world.

The more you think the less you understand my brother.

The reason why this girl refuses to enter nolywood still not known

Her feitsh for attention is something else

betcliq:
Just like Mosdii will always say that Nigerian girls are useless. Majority of Nigerian girls has this entitle mentality always on the side to demand from men . There's this girl I met close to my shop some months ago we became friends . She came to do IT program in a Super market near my shop . After some weeks of working there she started complaining to me how stressful the job is there's no time for to rest she's sick and tired . She was not able to complete 2 months there she stopped work . So one of the Red flags I spotted was her dressing code . She told me that now she's not working I'll be assisting her to sort out her bills like say I be her Papa .


Each time she's ask me money , I'll set plans to invite her over . She will be giving excuses that I can't I help without demanding for sex . See mumu girl wey get little job that she supposed to be managing but she chose to travel to Ph and stay with some of her friends .


I made it known to her that No Sex No money . She begin vex like say she's not an Olosho . Gold Diggers everywhere started telling me how one of her friend married a rich guy that changed her life. She's wishing for one rich dude .


Lazy Ass girl's everywhere . Vex me by calling me stupid name's so I'm after sex that I won't get it lol I return am back curse her too rotten punna .

She vex talk say I'm ugly and short guy . Say no girl will like me unless na manage.

Chai I let am know say , na money be fine Bobo , Timaya, Duncan might , Basket mouth many more no fine but money changed them . Ned Nwoko was able to marry Regina bcoz of money.


Guy's Don't be a Simp be in charge , don't tolerate nonsense . Don't pity any Lady tomorrow she'll marry and forget about you.

When a teenager posts, it shows clearly. I don't blame you, you are still battling with hormones that makes u think with diccck.

With time you shall tire of different holes, though if you you are hardworking and women see you as "real man"

You are still sex starved, you would soon outgrown it.

Terrence99:
When you read these posts every Friday, you wonder if it is the same Quran those Islamic terrorists read. This one looks so sensible but those terrorists do all sorts of foolish things.

Don't be fooled, all muslims are the same. They are in support of what those terrorists are doing. You will never see the OP condemn Al Shabab, Al Qaeda, ISIS and Boko Haram. They write nice stuffs about Islam but they all support terrorists.

They write good things about themselves, just for their religion to look good and acceptable but deep inside them, they are cancer.

Wen they see or read that fellow Muslims kill xtians, they feel elated.

Hatred breed inside their blood.

Yet AMNESTY would come out and say capital punishment should abolish.


Despite technology advancement, people still carried out dastardly acts. Indeed devil control this wicked world.

ejimatic:
. Mental instability and all you refereed to are provisions in the Marriage Act but the mental stability becomes a necessity so you will know the oath you are taking and the bond you are entering into with the legal implication. The deadlock of the man does not mean he is unstable mentally. Did he talk irrationally? NO! Deadlock artificial or natural is a norm in our environment and should not be taken as mental insanity. If deadlock is a mental derailment then most Nigerians with poor hairsttles are mad too.We should do our works witin the confines of the law.

How would registrar know if he was stable mentally? When every of his dress pointing towards "madman"

KarinaLove:
Hmmm...

It's takes the grace of God to keep training a child after discovering the child is not yours.

We women can care of children that aren't ours.

Don't know about Men.

We are Golden.

If man know from very beginning that the child not truly his, he can but to put it on him.....

TarOrfeeek:
Men that think this way are beneficiaries of women's promiscuity.

They tend to have lots of pity for women. Why? Because from their own experience women are cheerful givers who disregard all forms of control or inhibitory values when sex is on the table.

There are however other Men, those who have been shamed, denied sex and friendship due to flimsy qualifications that women themselves demand.

My question is this - If women can brutally screen who gets to fcck them.

Why can't men screen who gets to enjoy their wealth? Are women saying that men are undeserving of quality offsprings?

Is ur father conducted DNA on you or any of ur siblings?

oracle009:
Nigerians indeed deserve all manner of treatments thrown at them by the Government. No one, not a single person have shown us what law the man contravened to warrant denying him a right he even paid for. Except there exist a law that says he shouldn't be married (which will be an absurd law), this is plainly discrimination and abuse of fundamental human rights.

The Registrar should be sued and it is very heart breaking that from page 1-5, only a scanty number of post actually condemned the abuse

Oga, no where in our constitution that say human being should not go naked, I biliv you Kno that.

Go to public institutions for any services and proof to them ,you didn't infringe any law.

By now I believe even his own closest friend would have deserted him, no guy will like to see him with public woman wrapper

I imagine amount of calls , message and talk he would have received from family members, friends and neighbors

[quote author=ejimatic post=106306698]. Nigerian constitution does not empower marriage officers at the registry to turndown intending couples from marrage because of their dresses or they refuse to kiss each other.By the time a legal firm institutes a case with
those officers heads will roles in Ikoyi registry . Regrettably those who put them in the offices will deny and blame them. [/quote


Constitution allow them to bar, intending couple if they notice either of them is not marriageable age, from same family, married before or mentally unstable, in this scenario the guy appear to be like mad man

Lanretoye:
If na me be the registrar i go still insist...until he go barb am

Ur appearance will tell 85% of ur character

Efe42:
I'm 26 she's 25

Byebye to time waster


She is ready to settle down and sees u not capable of doing for now.

Has seen husband material already.

I'm start seeing this man as naija next president



A president that acclaimed to be clueless, when certain people want to cling power, they result to all manner of strategies.

We normally use bigger problem to solve big problem in this country, most especially when we are seeking for power

Yesterday years, northern oligarchy were fighting xtian person in power, they brought in Sharia law, today mustard seed of yesterday years Sharia has become monsters not only for the north but also for Nigeria.


Now igbo want power , they brought ipob, the ipob growing gradually becoming problem for the east and igbo, if they don't careful it will become monsters,

Whobedatte:
Mbappe is finished ! Very arrogant and self centered of a guy .
Same thing he accused neymar of , he does on every match day this season , doesn't pass to players and seeks self glorification.
Oya come score na , as neymar , Dimaria, no go gree pass to you make we see if you go score 10 goals this season .
Very arrogant like the old fraud in ManU.

Correct! I biliv south America guys in the team want to gang up against him, base of what he is doing to one of their own. Messi.

Im see Mbappe going down before his apex in football career

Naija moving towards disintegration faster than expected.

neonly:
Yes she is actually a teacher in a private school whether she has saving or not I don't know and am sure her children don't know too because I have use style to ask and I don't see any bank transaction on her phone
Yes they are many issues I didn't include because am not a good writer like I said in d beginning
My concern honestly now is just my children I don't want them to grow up heart broken because parents are not together but she doesn't see d implications in all dis matter

All these flags use to come up during boyfriend and girlfriend, but we do ignore it, after several years if we cant sustain it, we will start complaining.

Wenever im asking girl out ,even if its on social media, i have known already that i wont be able to cope with this one for just 1 month.

olamoses75:
After dating for like 3months, though distance relationship, and we have concluded having a serious relationship. Hanging out like twice, She came all the way from Lagos to Ibadan, I entertained her, night came and I asked what we should take for dinner, she insisted we go to a restaurant to get food cus she can't cook, even though I have foodstuffs. OK, we went to the restaurant together, she said she can't eat there but would like to have take away, I succumbed and also asked for take away. You won't believe I was the one that carried both our foods from the restaurant to the house, she didn't even offer to carry it, and I was expecting she'll offer to help. Now it's bed time, I'm not the type that lay bed before sleeping cus sometimes i ended up sleeping on the rug, but i managed to spread the bedsheet somehow just because of her, but the bitch claims i didn't spread it well, and she would sleep at the side that was well spread, and that was exactly what she did. Though we had a lot of fun midnight. I had to tell her I have somewhere to go so that she can leave, she finally left and i made up my mind never to see her again, not for dating anyways

If its me, i will not even sex her, we would have fought right from time she said, she cant cook.

Taxii driver, cashier and bank teller can never go into extinion

Pdp a party who is totally insensitive to Nigeria emotions, thats why Tinubu is superior to many of Nigeria politicians today in political game plan, for APC to win in 2015 , he withdrew not only as presidential candidate but also VP slot.

Atiku a complete selfish politician, politician that refuses to win his own local government election and yet stubbornly put himself in every election just cos of financial his war chest.

Let the pdp crumble.

Kelvin30286063:
Your question is reasonable so I'll answer you. Back in the days, there is a general campaign against visual media by churches all over the world. Which depper life spearheaded like many other churches. Same way there was a general campaign against social media by churches when it first hit Nigeria.
I should point out tho that deeper life did not back the idea of members not owning a TV with any biblical references, they only defend the decision with the possibility that what people watch on TV may corrupt them. Infact, those days, we use to watch Christian movies in church even though the church had a doctrine against TV. And look at the world now. Social media and TV has actually corrupted the world for real so one can argue that they were right after all.
As for why they later embraced it, I will say that the media won the battle, same way social media won the fight against the church and churches now have programs on Facebook and all other social media platforms.
Even till now, deeper life does not promote their programs on TV, but they have backtracked on the doctrine of members not owning a TV for a long time now. Same way they have backtracked on many of their other doctrines. Not that they are wrong but because they know they can't win a war against something that is general accepted.

Just because Jesus never drove a car, Christians should continue riding a donkey right? Time changes a lot of things.

I salute ur explanation, but let me tell you a bitter truth. Many of these church' leaders bring their own doctrines and impose it on members not necessarily that they see wrong aspect of it, but to completely dominate their members and control them and their economy well beings. It happened in Bible too, Matthew 20.

Take for instance, lord chosen imposes apron on members, putting fears on them, claiming its the weapons of protection, meanwhile, such members are just doing free advert for lord chosen.

I wish u closer to pastors and Church leader and see how they plan in the closet before announcing doctrines / information to members. On several occasions, their ulterior motives are not genuinely from God, and this is more reason the doctrine fades with passage of time.

Go and check doctrines of "church of old", it still last til date. Why? It came out genuinely and not other personal motives from owner or leader

thesicilian:
It started with the television which he called "the devil's box" suddenly becoming a "ministry tool".
Now it's limo rides and jets. If you ask they'll say their God is not a poor God. My question is, the poor members who donate their sweat and blood for the ministry to move forward daily, is their God a poor God?

More reason why members are now developing cold commitment towards church and thing of God generally, they see that their leaders are just milking them to enrich themselves all in the name of making heaven.

.....they face up to 20 years jail term if convicted, but here in naija, they spend maximum of 3 months jail term and go back to their crimes.

Power is definitely coming to south, those northern oligarchy know what is at stake if they try otherwise.

If power could come down to south during military how much less now that people have seen it all

Kingcalls:
I hv marked ur response...will reply at 3pm tomorrow

Hope u know Chelsea is at home? That's my point.


..... nevertheless you are doing gragra as if you are the one to refer the match