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saphiere:
I really like this lady. I wish to be like her someday. I love the energy and drive.

Are u not like her already? You posted and first to comment, Association Of Attention Seekers .

Juliusdaughter:
Let me just start somewhere
Growing up as an introvert was difficult cos I guess my mum didn't understand my quite personality, she talks about how I am not 'sharp' how I am not fashionable and whatever else she cannot really relate to. I am in my mid 20s now and she still insults me when she is in the mood.
It's funny how I am the only child she insults so much, I am her first born. I left my former work place due to Corona last year and I've been home since. I have trained as a tailor tho I don't have a shop or customer base yet.

She insulted me tonight again for cooking dinner late, she said why should I finish cooking dinner by past 7? Called me names and all that. Its been over a year that she went to the market last because I now do that, I make breakfast and dinner, I don't keep late night, I barely go out, yet she finds reason to talk me down.

She has started to insult my fiancé now too, she says he is poor and cannot take care of me, what has he achieved for himself? And the reason she isn't much against us is because she doesn't know if he will have money tomorrow. He isn't even jobless, it's just unfortunate that government don't pay their workers on time.

I don't have a single emotional connection with her, I have tried and I have failed. I think it's time to move out of the house and start my tailoring business. I don't have the finance to rent a shop and a house separately, so I want to rent a room and parlor and make it both my living and work space. Is this a good move? I cannot function properly in this house anymore.
How do I build my customer base from working in the house?

Too hard for 2 adults to stay together, try to get job and move out

In advanced contry, boy of age 18 moves out under the roof of his parents, government deliberately design it that way, they know by then ,it would be very difficult to obey fully with every instructions dishing out by parents

Threating to deal with concubine? Wife begging?

Infact, some husbands sha! Since I met them in hotel ,I have little or no kwanta with concubine o .


Wife still has audacity to beg! Wonder shall never ever end oooo

EaglesEyes1:
High value men are interested in character than yansh, big yansh are mostly for fling moments not for marriage. If you check most women with big yansh are unmarried.

Or single mother. The pressure from guys men make them think that they are queen, but they only for pleasure and discard.

Red piller association, they hate women yet they can't do without women , they lamenting on issue pertaining to women on secondly basis .

They hate institution of marriage yet they want children. Kids that would be eventually raise by single parent and beome problematic to the society the way they themselves lost out.

U defrauded someone hard earned money, you succeeded and now start distributing the money. Is that not madness?

SirMichael1:
You don't want to agree abi?

Agree of what i know? Agree of common sense? Agree of what i have witnessed personally several times?

SirMichael1:
Oil doesn't causes black smoke bro. That's what road side mechanics thinks and tell their clients but it's not true.

Black smoke is caused when the fuel and air mixture is not in the order of 2:1. The air being 2 and 1 being fuel. If the air is not enough, the fuel will not be used up completely. That's called incomplete combustion.

Wen oil black, it brings out black smoke, its common sense.

Several of such cases , personal and from friends

drizslim:
When i remember I de among people wen castigate this lady i give up

Hustle oh! So anything u do blows u.. Most of us na hypocrite na wen our matter cast we are known..

Congrats to her..

Av u verified it and confirm it to be truth?

Body sensor, oil (car) due for servicing, fuse need to change in fuse box, and finally engineer wear already. Take it to competent and reliable rewire first.

jaxxy:
Why will disciples disrespect the prophets wife in the 1st place? Or u saw nothing wrong or suspicious with such characters? If they disrespected her husband I’m sure he will do same and evict them.

Disrespect or not worship her as other worship their own mummy G.O

Faber:
These guys will open T. B Joshua's secrets. If T.B Joshua's hands are soiled omo they will now launch an offensive against him. Though he is late, but a lot of damage will be done.

Hope madam Joshua is ready for the battle ahead.

Something like this happened immediately jesus left this world.

If you are Bible scholar, you would know that Peter and Paul had issue concerning how gospel would be propagated.


Back to Joshua, .....wife total not carried along by husband, cos he said he was the one that called and not wife, now that he left, wife would do everything to take charge and to do that she must push out those who are above her before in the ministry , those who think they were supposed to worship her along with her husband when he was alive, the way other mummy GO's are being worshipped.

With this, TB Joshua had left and not to blame, if wife pull down the church cos of ego. The blame would be totally on her.

Joshua had come, faced challenges and conquered. He delivered message that his Creator sent him already.

Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...

Are you not one of the women?

Im ashamed of this region, always at extreme end, yet want to lead where it matter most

Why won't we be in the valley

Vinnie2000:
Just like one story here in NL.

One random Guy got a job to paint some parts of a University Female hostel, some rooms or so..

This Guy later Fckked two Female hostelers and impregnated Dem!
And those Girls might be forming Uni Babes oo..

Dats attraction for you..

NwaAmaikpe said 'He painted their Uterine Walls with his semen'..
Lols, dat Guy ehn!!

Did u know if the painter is also a graduate?

Meanwhile, what big deal that a lady is in university? No be ur money u wan spend

Dollyak:
She definitely needs strong support group around her as all signs points to a woman hurting inside. It's never easy when you are seemingly getting attacks from multiple fronts.

If you dnt want attack, you should endeavors not to throw arrows.

It happens to a mechanic in my area last year, he wanted to use someone car to cruise, he paid heavily for it, from the man he knocked down to police and car itself, he took full responsibilities of all.


Still not understand , using someone car to catch cruise

Glorified secondary school everywhere, i knw a school that cannot boast of 4 academic staff in a dept, whenever NUC accreditation nears, they recruit mercenaries and borrow equipments. Only interested in money from students

Naija na joke

UndauntedYOCA:
It's possible to forgive, however, forgetting what was done to you is dependent on the magnanimity of the action.
As a person who doesn't easily get offended and lets go of things easily, I can tell you that there are people who have wronged me, whom I truly forgave and also forgot what they did to me, however, there are some people I forgave for the sake of my own sanity and possibly because they were truly sorry, some I forgave because it's just in my nature to forgive, some I forgave without them having asked to be forgive, however, there are some I forgave but what they did will forever remain in my memory, perhaps not all of the actions but I know that part will remain.
Since this isn't a thread on talking about the things that can't be forgotten, I won't delve into that.
Please watch and subscribe. thanks in advance.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zERC18r_igU

@cancelled

Magnitude

No, only a fool will forget what others do for him/her.

Such a person will know the truth inside the grave.

But you can forgive and now knw how to play ur game with such person, having not forgotten evil deed he did in the past

Ayoslimzy:
thanks a lot for this
I will try it out and how can I clean the throttle body or I need a mechanic for that

By now u supposed to have connected to competent and reliable mechanic in ur area.

So many factors may responsible for the sign giving out by car, if you rely on Nairaland, i pray you wont send ur car to demmorage.

Ur car maybe be having engine seat problem, if one or more of plugs bad, even battery among others.

Kevincal144444:
Mugu

If u re not clown, you wont believe what someone imagined and posted online and foolish guy like u want to experience it.

Yoruba adage . Words from wise will be heard from foolish.

Foolish people like you dance irrespective what the talking drum is saying, even if its mocking you, were will still be dancing

Kevincal144444:
There's this Facebook forum I dey disguise dey follow. Na one woman that gives relationship advice get the group. People come there once once, both men and women, to seek relationship and life advice and help from the woman and members of the group.

I was reading some posts in the group yesterday, and lady brought a case there to seek for advice. She said that her husband wants to travel abroad to hustle. She has been married to the man for 15 years, they have about 3 kids. The man is about 43 years old. But the problem is the man doesn't have all the funds required to travel out.

So the man now begged her to sale the two plots of land she bought when she was single, so he can use the funds to complete what he already have. That when he gets abroad and gets settled, he will bring her and their over to join him abroad. According to her, she has caught the man cheating once and the man apologised that he won't do it again.

So she's now skeptical if she should help him with the funds, hence the need for advice.


My people, una need to see the kind of advice people were dropping especially ladies. I no too shock sha because I already know their nature. Majority of the ladies told her make she no try am o. If at all anybody needs to travel out she should be the one to go and then bring the man and the kids over later.

This na woman wey the man marry put for house o no be girlfriend.

N.B; Always be brutal with women, never forego your comfort or happiness for any woman because you will surely regret it.

Its you i pity most oga, why? You completely carried away by immaginary post from public forum, you downloaded only negative comments from imaginary post, you assimilated it. Hook, line and sinker and want to use it to behave in real life.

Ur type, if they call you on phone that they need ur data from bank you will vomit it, cos u biliv everything online, the way you biliv what low lives are posting on this thread which can never ever hold water.

Lies will not kill us on Nairaland ooo


Keep on dish out figment and claim its real

Those i pity most are gualible ones, who are scare of institution of marriage because of your fake theories.

For FIRS to quickly wrote national assembly to give legal back through the back door,it has given credence to judgment of high court, in fact , it would be difficult for any higher court to overtune it.

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

The fact remains not everybody crazy about sex

Ask urself, if we have people who are crazy about sex, definitely we must have people who would not crazy. In as much she is giving u anytime you want ,i think u too should adjust.

Implementation is koko, provided the ban would overcome initial gragra.

Kobojunkie:
So long as two different individuals are involved, conflict is almost always guaranteed to take place. It does not matter how quickly one enters into relationship or how how one waited to enter into it. And this conflict, is again,what inflicts the bulk of the strain on the minds of the children in the marriage. Divorce is chose in most cases as a way of resolving the conflict.

Avoiding divorce should not be primary goal of any couple but avoiding conflict should be.

I don't read or know much about Tonto so I can't adequately respond to any of what you have said of the case. What I do know is that when it comes to human relationships conflict is where it all starts and where the bulk of the suffering inflicted on all parties involved arrives. Divorce is only a potential solution to the conflict and so should not be considered the problem in these things.

So you don't need to think critically before venturing in marriage, even decisions that are not pertaining to marriage?

Hope you know the meaning of critically?

You are telling me you dnt use think "very well" (critically) before taking decisions of ur life journey?

You guys should endeavors to read and reason before you argue on public comments pls.

Bye.

Kobojunkie:
No matter how critically you think these things through, what's gonna be is gonna be. Conflict in marriage is to be expected.

The best is to decide ahead to always protect the children from whatever conflict that marriage may bring. If divorce turns out a better option for all, then take it.

If you think critically, the level of divorce would reduce by 2/3 and by extension single parenting.

I biliv u read post by a lady to Tonto , she said dikey must look inward and stop dating the type of men she is dating, .....Tonto refuses to think critically and going for same type of person, who can suit her style and she keeps having problem,. U can also check post by Funke Akindele as well.

If you rush to marry certain individual without thinking very well, if two of you would be able to cope during raining and dry season, my friend ur marriage would fall yakata. And circle of single parenting would continue.

Ibkhaleel01:
Unjust hatred for people will consume you. We see the obvious in the very hilarious VAT battle that is happening. I just dey observe.
Many supported Governor Wike's decision to be collecting VAT because they say "the North contributes nothing and they want to be collecting". But if they know their facts they will understand that they are digging a hole for themselves. They will realize it is all of us that will suffer when States collect VAT.
First of all, after Lagos, the next place that contributes the highest VAT (20%) is the FCT which is in the North. Yes this is followed by Rivers at 6% but Kano is next with 5% and this is followed by Kaduna. So no, it is not as you have been misinformed. The only special case is Lagos. So your State will suffer. Even Lagos will suffer with much more people migrating there. When resources are shared among Federating Units, it is shallow to always think it is injustice. Give Lagos 100% of it's VAT, Mukaila from Sokoto, Chinedu from Aba and even Lasisi from Osun will all migrate there. So what is the point again?
Secondly, in the federal system, companies with less than 25 million were not VATable. You think you are doing Northerners but your company will become VATable once Wike's law is replicated in your State. Why do you think commercially massive States like Abia and Anambra do not top the list of VAT contributors? Because those boys in the market were not exactly VATable, wait until what you are blindly supporting takes effect. VAT will be collected like motor park tickets. Then you will see where hate has led you.
Third, people will most likely pay VAT twice across different states with different laws because Wike does not know what is input and output VAT and did not listen to Nojeem Olasubomi Yusuf and others who politely asked him about it.
Some have even termed Wike the leader of restructuring in Nigeria. A gullible people in search of heroes. Being used and misled by every opportunist. Stop allowing yourself to be used by politicians to settle their personal scores while they tell you they are fighting for your interest.
You need to first know what your interest is to know who is actually fighting for or against it

Trash from shallow reasoning.

Competition always brings developments, at first it may difficult, but with time everybody will look inward and develop his territory.

Must all states develop on ICT or oil? Agriculture is a veritable tool to develop not only state but nation, ask Thailand the sources of their income, i guess you will be disappointed wen then dnt mention oil, ICT or engineering

Better, all VIO and FRSC that refuse to enforce people to get vehicle's licenses cos they know money must rain by 20th of every month.

If abuja no longer shit money, everyone will sit up

.......hausa no dey do motor paper, must come to an end.

Let us do it the way its being done in another clime.

CALEB1590:
She came to check on me at work place without calling and she did not meet me, she comfortably spent time with my colleague without calling me to know where i was, she only called when she was leaving and i questioned that attitude and the babe said that i should not make her fall in love with my colleague. i had to break her heart before she breaks mine..

That girl .......you need to run fast if not fly