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Crime › Re: Lady Beats 10-Year-Old Househelp To Death In Enugu (Photos) by focus7: 3:48am On Mar 12, 2021
Igbo women are vicious
Culture › Re: Alaafin Adeyemi And His New Wife, Chioma (Photo) by focus7: 3:32am On Mar 12, 2021
Chioma done fall for old man who fit be her great grand father. Igbo girls with money
Family › Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by focus7: 3:24am On Mar 12, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Oga give that girl a stern warning to stay clear or you ends the marriage and be serious about it. Some of those ladies can be manipulative. And please be giving your mum what you are giving her directly yourself OK.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: PSG Vs Barcelona UCL (1 - 1) On 10th March 2021 by focus7: 12:25am On Mar 11, 2021
pquaver:
The ones Ronaldo missed nko even. When. It matters+
Please mention the game
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: PSG Vs Barcelona UCL (1 - 1) On 10th March 2021 by focus7: 12:23am On Mar 11, 2021
pquaver:
. Where was he when at his 28 yrs and 25 old Messi was winning it? Was he handicap then? Jna dey talk like people weh nut comot for head
It's quiet easy for Messi to win at a tender age of 25 but for Ronaldo to win at an advanced age is super extraordinary
Politics › Re: South East Women Applaud Buhari, Umar Farouq Over Social Security Investments by focus7: 3:15am On Mar 10, 2021
This ones has collected money.
Celebrities › Re: Lady Rejects Her Boyfriend's Proposal After He Sold His Manhood For Riches (Vid) by focus7: 3:09am On Mar 10, 2021
Women are wickedly wicked, ehn. Imaging oh, she stayed with the guy till now spending the money from money ritual of his manhood manhood now you are rejecting his marriage proposal

The guy self na mumu, selling your manhood for money ritual just for pussy that fool everywhere cheap than water
Sports › Re: Isreal Adesanya: I Didn’t Sleep Well Before The Fight by focus7: 11:52am On Mar 09, 2021
Guy leave sleep matter, you lost, you lost final. All you need is to bounce back
Properties › Re: My Landlord Gave Me 6months Quit Notice When My Rent Will Due In 6months Time by focus7: 11:32am On Mar 09, 2021
xodyq:
Good morning guys. Is it right for my landlord to give me 6months quit notice (on 8th march) when my rent will be due in 6months time (31st August)??
The notice was well calculated served
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by focus7: 9:27am On Mar 09, 2021
mytty:
CONSPIRACY THEORY you call it?

OK watch EXPERTS TALKING via this Link

http://m.bixel1.net/vtvbxn
Thanks but there's no need, all belongs to Rev Chris school of thought
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by focus7: 11:28am On Mar 08, 2021
Image123:
i knew they'll tell the influencers to take it publicly to encourage more people. Jesus Christ is coming soon. Na so e go do people like film.
How old and you and since when have you been a Christian
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo Takes COVID-19 Vaccine (Pictures) by focus7: 11:26am On Mar 08, 2021
kingxsamz:
I thought the vaccine was the plan of the Antichrist. How come pastors are now taking the vaccine?
All pastors do not have Rev Chris conspiracy theory
Politics › Re: Bode George: I Will Mention Names Of Fake NADECO Activists In My Book by focus7: 9:00am On Mar 08, 2021
Bode George life battle is Tinubu, his fake nadeco mention is targeted at Tinubu
Travel › Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by focus7: 4:20pm On Mar 07, 2021
MrGoood:
I am a businessman and the thing is I am in for money in any choice I make. I made around 22 million in savings last year. Though I cut family and girlfriends off my life to achieve that and am in Nigeria.

But seeing the doings of people outside The country, there was an America based lady that spent over 12 million naira on her mother's burial. For her to spend that much I believe she will have 20x of that amount.

At least for an upright thinking fellow, I feel like am making less so am thinking of relocating. Can I make over 22 million yearly in savings in USA, If no how much can I save? Talk from your personal experience pls, Let stop deceiving each other pls, How much did you save annually in USA? Please let be sincere.
Guy to save 22m in Nigeria in Nigeria within a year you're doing well for yourself. Please desist from using others open display of achievement to judge your achievement.

The lady you are using as a yardstick you don't know what she does to make money, most of the money could be gift from well wishers to support her for her mums burial
Family › Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Live Abroad Or Faraway Cope Without Sex? by focus7: 4:11pm On Mar 07, 2021
petsolo115:
I am just imagining this because my best friend left for Austria last week. He put his newly married wife under my care
Under your care! That sounds volume and with a lot of meaning.

Just make sure you chop remain for your friend o.
Romance › Re: 8 Years Of Relationship And Not Even A Proposal From My Boyfriend by focus7:
abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.

When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.

His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.

I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.

My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do.
Hmmmn sister, money is crucial in a relationship o and it's place shouldn't be undermined, 60k salary for a prospective husband/father as salary is damn too poor in the current economy, notwithstanding your guy doesn't need to be a millionaire before you could marry.

The two of you should work together to upgrade his income, he should learn a skill or trade, salary will not bring him to wealth
Politics › Re: Food Dealers Agree To Lift Ban On Supply To South by focus7: 5:10pm On Mar 03, 2021
It will be in record that the south never beg the northern traders to lift the ban. As a matter of fact a rally to ban the consumption of beef is being organized in the south west and they are involving the south east, south south and the middle belt.

The south will survive without the food supply from the north, can the north traders survive without the south
Politics › Re: Zamfara No-fly Zone: We Suspect Helicopters Are Used To Take Arms To Bandits — P by focus7: 4:17pm On Mar 03, 2021
Insurgency and banditry has become a big venture in the north involving some powerful northern leaders, the same people that has benefited in the high level of illiteracy and alumajiri among their people
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Here Is The Wicked Condition Someone Gave Before He Connects Me To This 80K Job. by focus7: 6:22pm On Mar 01, 2021
XshegzzyeeiX:
I seek job opportunities endlessly, and was glad when Mr. Richard told me he has a job for me via one of his connects. I was so glad.

He mentioned the job was in one of the top 5 star hospitality industry in Lagos. My joy knew no bound when he stated salary is N80,000 with regular tips from guests.



Concluding the phone call, he told me to report to his office by 2PM today if I'm cool with the agreement.

Folks, what should I dohuh

MODIFIED: Mr. Richard said I should not plead or negotiate. It's either I agree to the condition or forget about the offer.
Sign the agreement, is likely the job offers varieties of opportunities to make money and Mr Richard is aware of it. When you gets the job and found other opportunities to make up what you are giving him from your salary you keep to the deal but if you find otherwise you Bleep up his ass
Romance › Re: Lady, 30, Dupes Lover N10m, Dumps Him For Another Man (pic) by focus7: 1:43am On Feb 24, 2021
thatgirl504:
These are the golddiggers that made one Nairaland tout to call Nigerian women useless.

Imagine the wicked lady still have the guts to spend her boyfriend's sweat on another good for nothing guy.

I still blame the foolish guy for giving that huge sum to a lady he is not married to all in the name of love when he has immediate family who can help him achieve that plan.
No one can be trusted including the immediate family you mentioned
Romance › Re: After I Took A Loan For Her, She Blocked My Number by focus7: 7:06am On Feb 23, 2021
BUSHYANUS:
Really
No not really.

You displayed mumurity and someone is telling what you must do to recover the money you are doing really.
Forum Games › Re: You Loaned Your Friend N4m Since Last Year & He Has Refused To Pay, This Happens by focus7: 7:24pm On Feb 22, 2021
bmcariyo:
You loaned your friend N4,000,000 last year and since then, he has refused to pay back, which has really deteriorated the friendship.

You beg him to just pay you N2,000,000 and forget the rest because you are in a financial crisis. Your friend then says he can only get you N1,500,000 since that's all he has.

You feel like you have no option but to accept. You eventually give him your account details to send the amount directly to your bank.

You wake up the next morning, checked your account and there is N15,000,000 in it. You kept staring at the screen in disbelief but it is indeed 15m.

You grab your phone and find 53 missed calls from him and an additional 27 text messages begging you to transfer back N13,500,000 since he only meant to send N1,500,000 and mistakenly added an extra "0."

As a well-brought-up person, what are you supposed to do?

1. Send back N13,500,000/=?
2. Take your full N4,000,000/=?
3. Keep the entire N15,000,000/=?
4......
5...

#FoodForThought
That friend is a wicked being, remove your 4m and transfer the balance to him
Romance › Re: What A Man's Babe Sent To Him. Should He Be Worried? by focus7: 11:34am On Feb 22, 2021
Guy I can bet anything to it, your girlfriend has away match and she doesn't want your distraction
Politics › Re: Scarcity Of Beef, Tomatoes, Onions Loom In Southern Nigeria by focus7: 10:13am On Feb 22, 2021
We can only feel the scarcity of tomatoes and onions. For two years I have not tasted beef, pork is a better option to beef. If they stop bringing tomatoes and onions we will adjust with time, we will start growing them in the south
Politics › Re: Three Fulani Herdsmen Arrested In Ogun With Bloodstained Cutlass (Photo) by focus7: 9:08am On Feb 22, 2021
And the useless governor said they are not criminals
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu: I Spoke All Night With Governor Wike; We Need Him In APC by focus7: 6:08pm On Feb 19, 2021
Monogamy:
Would Wike swallow his vomit regarding all what he has said about APC?

Only time would tell
You are about to learn more things about politics and politicians
Politics › Re: Cubana Chief Priest Joins APC (Photos, Video) by focus7:
Some people with shortsight will still be grudging on him for joining APC
Politics › Re: Army Confirms Joint Operation With Police In Orlu LG, Imo State To Root Out IPOB by focus7: 7:55am On Feb 19, 2021
How is that the secret agents in Nigeria do not have intelligent report of the bandits and terrorists and the criminal herdsmen that have camps in various part of the north. So far there have been no report of kidnapping, killing or rapping against the IPOB.
Politics › Re: Military Conducts Air Strikes In Orlu In Search Of ESN by focus7: 2:59pm On Feb 18, 2021
When Will they start raiding the various forests in the south for the terrorist Fulani foreigners terrorising the farmers
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Essa Ogorry Dies In Port Harcourt (Photos) by focus7: 10:24am On Feb 17, 2021
You see life? This should tell us that no one is indispensable in life so there's no reason acting God over others where you seems to have an edge over others
Politics › Re: General Azubuike Ihejirika Joins APC (Photos) by focus7: 3:53pm On Feb 16, 2021
Last last igbos are waking up, they are beginning to realize that PDP don't give a damn about them.

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